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to my family. I have two wonderful children<br />

and two wonderful in-laws. I have five<br />

grandchildren and now a great-grandson.<br />

I want to be a factor in their lives. I never<br />

wanted to be a picture on the wall that<br />

somebody points at and says, “Who’s that?”<br />

I want to be there to have input into their<br />

lives, speak into their lives, drink coffee with<br />

them, and talk to them. I’ve spent 16 years<br />

away from my children and grandchildren,<br />

and I feel like I owe them a major portion of<br />

my time.<br />

What do you consider your greatest<br />

ministry accomplishments?<br />

carpenter: Contrary to what others may<br />

expect me to say, I don’t consider my greatest<br />

accomplishments to be a position I’ve held.<br />

The church is all about people. And I don’t<br />

want this to sound corny, but I think my<br />

greatest accomplishments revolve around<br />

people, not positions.<br />

First, I have always tried to make every<br />

individual around me feel important. I am a<br />

people person. I remember when I left my<br />

last church (I was going to be conference<br />

superintendent), this one little lady, silverhaired,<br />

blue-collar worker, came by crying.<br />

She hugged my neck and said, “You know,<br />

pastor, you always made everybody feel<br />

special.” That was a great compliment to me.<br />

Second, I’ve always tried to treat people<br />

right, whether I liked them or not. It’s easy in<br />

leadership to take advantage of the position,<br />

and I’ve seen it done many times just because<br />

a leader didn’t like somebody. I can honestly<br />

say I’ve always tried to treat people right<br />

no matter what they did or said, or how I<br />

personally felt about them. If they were my<br />

closest friend or my worst enemy, as a leader<br />

I’d render the same service to them. And<br />

I’ve never lain down a night in my life and<br />

worried that I hadn’t treated someone right.<br />

Last, I’ve always sought to be an edifier.<br />

Depression is contagious. If you stay around<br />

depressed people long enough, you’ll be<br />

depressed. Edification and encouragement,<br />

that’s contagious too. If you stay around<br />

people who are encouragers, you’ll be<br />

encouraged and you’ll encourage others.<br />

Somebody said the simplest course in<br />

human relations is a word, a touch, and<br />

a smile. I’ve never forgotten that simple<br />

message. People laugh at me for hugging<br />

necks. I’ve been criticized for slapping people<br />

on the back and always shaking folks’ hands.<br />

But those are genuine acts; it’s not contrived.<br />

It all goes together with making people feel<br />

special, treating people right, and making<br />

The Carpenter Family: Bishop Ron and Nan, Rev. Ron Jr. and Hope Carpenter, Bill and Jewell<br />

(Carpenter) Wilson, and their grandchildren. (Great-grandson not pictured.)<br />

people feel better when they leave your<br />

presence than they did when they came into<br />

your presence.<br />

I was able to make people feel special. I<br />

was able to edify people and encourage them.<br />

And I was able to help folks feel better about<br />

themselves and the people around them.<br />

That’s what I take the greatest pride in.<br />

What advice would you give a young<br />

person entering ministry?<br />

carpenter: The problem in answering<br />

questions of this nature is not what to say,<br />

but what to leave out. There’s so much you<br />

want to say. So many things a young pastor<br />

needs. He needs training; he needs to take<br />

advantage of any schooling he can get; he<br />

certainly needs to be doctrinally sound. He<br />

needs a great personal prayer life, personal<br />

life of dedication and devotion; he needs all<br />

the training he can get.<br />

But the one thing I think many young<br />

pastors overlook is that they need to find a<br />

godly mentor that they can trust and build<br />

a relationship with, spend time with and<br />

listen to what they have to say. They don’t<br />

have to have a Ph.D. You’re not looking for<br />

a seminary. You’re looking for impartation as<br />

much as you are information. You’re looking<br />

for a person’s heart; you’re looking for their<br />

spirit, for the manner in which they conduct<br />

their ministry with other people.<br />

Two of my greatest mentors—who<br />

helped launch me into what has been<br />

apparently a very successful ministry—<br />

neither one of them graduated from high<br />

school. But they cared about me. They were<br />

simple, and yet they were profound in their<br />

simplicity. I watched them. I watched how<br />

they conducted themselves. I watched how<br />

they preached, how they visited with people.<br />

I went with them to the hospital; I watched<br />

how they handled those situations. I just<br />

learned by being there.<br />

Along with everything else you get—<br />

schooling, prayer, and so on—be sure to find<br />

a godly mentor who can impart his spirit into<br />

your life. And that will put you light years<br />

ahead of where you would have been without<br />

one.<br />

What legacy do you want to leave behind—<br />

both as a leader in the IPHC and as a minister<br />

of the gospel?<br />

carpenter: My personal desire is to<br />

leave a legacy of a servant leader. I’ve served<br />

in leadership for 33 years, and I’ve given<br />

everything I had everywhere I’ve been.<br />

Any leader that has had a title also had the<br />

position and the authority that went with it.<br />

But many folks who had those three things<br />

never knew how to mix that with being a<br />

servant to the people.<br />

I don’t want to be remembered as<br />

somebody who just exercised authority as a<br />

leader. I want to be remembered as somebody<br />

who served the people. I want them to<br />

remember that I tried to live out the words<br />

of Jesus who said, “But whosoever will be<br />

great among you, shall be your minister: And<br />

whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be<br />

servant of all” (Mark 10:43, 44).<br />

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