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to my family. I have two wonderful children<br />
and two wonderful in-laws. I have five<br />
grandchildren and now a great-grandson.<br />
I want to be a factor in their lives. I never<br />
wanted to be a picture on the wall that<br />
somebody points at and says, “Who’s that?”<br />
I want to be there to have input into their<br />
lives, speak into their lives, drink coffee with<br />
them, and talk to them. I’ve spent 16 years<br />
away from my children and grandchildren,<br />
and I feel like I owe them a major portion of<br />
my time.<br />
What do you consider your greatest<br />
ministry accomplishments?<br />
carpenter: Contrary to what others may<br />
expect me to say, I don’t consider my greatest<br />
accomplishments to be a position I’ve held.<br />
The church is all about people. And I don’t<br />
want this to sound corny, but I think my<br />
greatest accomplishments revolve around<br />
people, not positions.<br />
First, I have always tried to make every<br />
individual around me feel important. I am a<br />
people person. I remember when I left my<br />
last church (I was going to be conference<br />
superintendent), this one little lady, silverhaired,<br />
blue-collar worker, came by crying.<br />
She hugged my neck and said, “You know,<br />
pastor, you always made everybody feel<br />
special.” That was a great compliment to me.<br />
Second, I’ve always tried to treat people<br />
right, whether I liked them or not. It’s easy in<br />
leadership to take advantage of the position,<br />
and I’ve seen it done many times just because<br />
a leader didn’t like somebody. I can honestly<br />
say I’ve always tried to treat people right<br />
no matter what they did or said, or how I<br />
personally felt about them. If they were my<br />
closest friend or my worst enemy, as a leader<br />
I’d render the same service to them. And<br />
I’ve never lain down a night in my life and<br />
worried that I hadn’t treated someone right.<br />
Last, I’ve always sought to be an edifier.<br />
Depression is contagious. If you stay around<br />
depressed people long enough, you’ll be<br />
depressed. Edification and encouragement,<br />
that’s contagious too. If you stay around<br />
people who are encouragers, you’ll be<br />
encouraged and you’ll encourage others.<br />
Somebody said the simplest course in<br />
human relations is a word, a touch, and<br />
a smile. I’ve never forgotten that simple<br />
message. People laugh at me for hugging<br />
necks. I’ve been criticized for slapping people<br />
on the back and always shaking folks’ hands.<br />
But those are genuine acts; it’s not contrived.<br />
It all goes together with making people feel<br />
special, treating people right, and making<br />
The Carpenter Family: Bishop Ron and Nan, Rev. Ron Jr. and Hope Carpenter, Bill and Jewell<br />
(Carpenter) Wilson, and their grandchildren. (Great-grandson not pictured.)<br />
people feel better when they leave your<br />
presence than they did when they came into<br />
your presence.<br />
I was able to make people feel special. I<br />
was able to edify people and encourage them.<br />
And I was able to help folks feel better about<br />
themselves and the people around them.<br />
That’s what I take the greatest pride in.<br />
What advice would you give a young<br />
person entering ministry?<br />
carpenter: The problem in answering<br />
questions of this nature is not what to say,<br />
but what to leave out. There’s so much you<br />
want to say. So many things a young pastor<br />
needs. He needs training; he needs to take<br />
advantage of any schooling he can get; he<br />
certainly needs to be doctrinally sound. He<br />
needs a great personal prayer life, personal<br />
life of dedication and devotion; he needs all<br />
the training he can get.<br />
But the one thing I think many young<br />
pastors overlook is that they need to find a<br />
godly mentor that they can trust and build<br />
a relationship with, spend time with and<br />
listen to what they have to say. They don’t<br />
have to have a Ph.D. You’re not looking for<br />
a seminary. You’re looking for impartation as<br />
much as you are information. You’re looking<br />
for a person’s heart; you’re looking for their<br />
spirit, for the manner in which they conduct<br />
their ministry with other people.<br />
Two of my greatest mentors—who<br />
helped launch me into what has been<br />
apparently a very successful ministry—<br />
neither one of them graduated from high<br />
school. But they cared about me. They were<br />
simple, and yet they were profound in their<br />
simplicity. I watched them. I watched how<br />
they conducted themselves. I watched how<br />
they preached, how they visited with people.<br />
I went with them to the hospital; I watched<br />
how they handled those situations. I just<br />
learned by being there.<br />
Along with everything else you get—<br />
schooling, prayer, and so on—be sure to find<br />
a godly mentor who can impart his spirit into<br />
your life. And that will put you light years<br />
ahead of where you would have been without<br />
one.<br />
What legacy do you want to leave behind—<br />
both as a leader in the IPHC and as a minister<br />
of the gospel?<br />
carpenter: My personal desire is to<br />
leave a legacy of a servant leader. I’ve served<br />
in leadership for 33 years, and I’ve given<br />
everything I had everywhere I’ve been.<br />
Any leader that has had a title also had the<br />
position and the authority that went with it.<br />
But many folks who had those three things<br />
never knew how to mix that with being a<br />
servant to the people.<br />
I don’t want to be remembered as<br />
somebody who just exercised authority as a<br />
leader. I want to be remembered as somebody<br />
who served the people. I want them to<br />
remember that I tried to live out the words<br />
of Jesus who said, “But whosoever will be<br />
great among you, shall be your minister: And<br />
whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be<br />
servant of all” (Mark 10:43, 44).<br />
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