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een doing the night before, I was in<br />

church on Sunday morning. That was the<br />

rule at our house. I was going to church,<br />

but I rejected Christ and kept living the<br />

life I wanted. I wasn’t interested in “getting<br />

back to the Lord.”<br />

By the time my senior year rolled<br />

around, my two best friends had turned<br />

into a group of ten girls. We were<br />

all different ages and from different<br />

backgrounds. I thought my senior year<br />

would be a time to “live it up” and enjoy<br />

one more year with my girlfriends. I<br />

couldn’t have been more wrong.<br />

Two of the girls in the group had a<br />

disagreement and decided their friendship<br />

“On the drive to South<br />

Carolina, I decided I<br />

was sick of the life I’d<br />

been living. I wanted to<br />

be a different person.<br />

That was the cue the<br />

Lord was waiting on.”<br />

was over. I didn’t want to choose sides, so I<br />

kept hanging out with both of them. One<br />

night, I went out with one of the girls and<br />

several of our guy friends. That’s when the<br />

bullying started.<br />

I started getting anonymous phone<br />

calls and awful messages on my phone. The<br />

calls kept coming for six hours straight.<br />

Then someone trashed the outside of our<br />

house. A few days later, someone told me<br />

there was a terrible rumor about me that<br />

was circulating on Facebook. It wasn’t long<br />

before I put it all together: my “friend”<br />

thought I was choosing sides in her<br />

dramatic disagreement, and she’d decided<br />

our friendship was over too.<br />

My former friendship turned to disaster.<br />

The girl I trusted was now spreading the<br />

most horrible, degrading lies imaginable.<br />

I kept wondering how someone I was so<br />

close to just months before could say such<br />

things about me. To make matters worse,<br />

the people I thought I could count on<br />

chimed in, spreading the lies and rumors<br />

right along with her!<br />

I was miserable, but I decided I wasn’t<br />

going to let this ruin my senior year. Once<br />

again, I started school with no friends,<br />

but this time no one wanted to befriend<br />

the girl from the South. I walked the halls<br />

alone, fully aware that people were staring<br />

and pointing at me and talking about<br />

me behind my back. The bullying got so<br />

bad that two months later, I quit school<br />

and started online classes from home. I<br />

was miserable; I hated my life. I became<br />

depressed and suicidal. It seemed there was<br />

no way out.<br />

I finished high school online, and I<br />

received my diploma in December. It was<br />

then that my family decided it was time<br />

to move back to the South. On the drive<br />

to South Carolina, I decided I was sick of<br />

the life I’d been living. I wanted to be a<br />

different person. That was the cue the Lord<br />

was waiting on.<br />

Soon after arriving in South Carolina,<br />

we started attending church, and I gave<br />

my life back to the Lord. He completely<br />

changed me! I was happy again. The pain<br />

I’d endured my senior year was gone,<br />

and I was completely delivered from my<br />

former lifestyle of partying, depression,<br />

and suicidal thoughts. In time, I married a<br />

wonderful man and gained three beautiful,<br />

happy children.<br />

Looking back, I see how the Lord used<br />

a terrible, hurtful experience to draw me<br />

back to Him. My senior year definitely<br />

wasn’t the year I wanted, but it was exactly<br />

what I needed. Instead of one year of<br />

“living it up,” I got a beautiful, godly family<br />

and a lifetime of joy and peace. Every day,<br />

I’m thankful for the Lord’s blessings!<br />

Cyberbullying is a serious issue among<br />

today’s youth, and it can quickly lead to<br />

depression and suicide. If you or someone you<br />

know is a victim of cyberbullying, please seek<br />

help.<br />

Kaylee Watford and her family are part<br />

of an IPHC church plant in Sumter, S.C.<br />

Have you had the Experience? Send your testimony to Mégan Alba<br />

at malba@iphc.org.<br />

How to<br />

Experience God<br />

Here are five simple steps you can<br />

take to begin a relationship with God:<br />

1. Recognize your need. The Bible<br />

tells us that “all have sinned and fall<br />

short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23,<br />

NASB). All of us are sinners, and we<br />

must admit our need for a Savior.<br />

2. Repent of your sins. Because<br />

God is completely holy, our sins create<br />

a wall that separates us from Him.<br />

By confessing your sins you will find<br />

forgiveness. “Repent” means to make<br />

a 180-degree turnaround. The Bible<br />

promises: “If we confess our sins, He<br />

is faithful and righteous to forgive us<br />

our sins and to cleanse us from all<br />

unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).<br />

3. Believe in Jesus. God worked a<br />

miracle when He sent His only Son<br />

to die for us. We don’t have to pay for<br />

our sins … Jesus paid it all! We can’t<br />

work for our salvation. It is a gift from<br />

God, and all He requires is that we<br />

believe. Put your faith in Him. The Bible<br />

says: “For God so loved the world,<br />

that He gave His only begotten Son,<br />

that whoever believes in Him shall not<br />

perish, but have eternal life” (John<br />

3:16).<br />

4. Receive His salvation. God has<br />

given us this free gift, but we must<br />

accept it. Thank Him for sending Jesus<br />

to die on the cross for you. Thank<br />

Him for His amazing love, mercy and<br />

forgiveness. Then ask Him to live in<br />

your heart. His promise to us is sure:<br />

“But as many as received Him, to them<br />

He gave the right to become children of<br />

God...” (John 1:12).<br />

5. Confess your faith. The Bible<br />

assures us: “If you confess with your<br />

mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in<br />

your heart that God raised Him from<br />

the dead, you will be saved” (Rom.<br />

10:9). You have been born again and are<br />

now part of God’s family. Tell someone<br />

else what Jesus has done in your life!<br />

This amazing experience can be yours.<br />

Embrace God’s love and receive the<br />

salvation that only Jesus Christ gives.<br />

iphc.org/experience | August 2012 7

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