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een doing the night before, I was in<br />
church on Sunday morning. That was the<br />
rule at our house. I was going to church,<br />
but I rejected Christ and kept living the<br />
life I wanted. I wasn’t interested in “getting<br />
back to the Lord.”<br />
By the time my senior year rolled<br />
around, my two best friends had turned<br />
into a group of ten girls. We were<br />
all different ages and from different<br />
backgrounds. I thought my senior year<br />
would be a time to “live it up” and enjoy<br />
one more year with my girlfriends. I<br />
couldn’t have been more wrong.<br />
Two of the girls in the group had a<br />
disagreement and decided their friendship<br />
“On the drive to South<br />
Carolina, I decided I<br />
was sick of the life I’d<br />
been living. I wanted to<br />
be a different person.<br />
That was the cue the<br />
Lord was waiting on.”<br />
was over. I didn’t want to choose sides, so I<br />
kept hanging out with both of them. One<br />
night, I went out with one of the girls and<br />
several of our guy friends. That’s when the<br />
bullying started.<br />
I started getting anonymous phone<br />
calls and awful messages on my phone. The<br />
calls kept coming for six hours straight.<br />
Then someone trashed the outside of our<br />
house. A few days later, someone told me<br />
there was a terrible rumor about me that<br />
was circulating on Facebook. It wasn’t long<br />
before I put it all together: my “friend”<br />
thought I was choosing sides in her<br />
dramatic disagreement, and she’d decided<br />
our friendship was over too.<br />
My former friendship turned to disaster.<br />
The girl I trusted was now spreading the<br />
most horrible, degrading lies imaginable.<br />
I kept wondering how someone I was so<br />
close to just months before could say such<br />
things about me. To make matters worse,<br />
the people I thought I could count on<br />
chimed in, spreading the lies and rumors<br />
right along with her!<br />
I was miserable, but I decided I wasn’t<br />
going to let this ruin my senior year. Once<br />
again, I started school with no friends,<br />
but this time no one wanted to befriend<br />
the girl from the South. I walked the halls<br />
alone, fully aware that people were staring<br />
and pointing at me and talking about<br />
me behind my back. The bullying got so<br />
bad that two months later, I quit school<br />
and started online classes from home. I<br />
was miserable; I hated my life. I became<br />
depressed and suicidal. It seemed there was<br />
no way out.<br />
I finished high school online, and I<br />
received my diploma in December. It was<br />
then that my family decided it was time<br />
to move back to the South. On the drive<br />
to South Carolina, I decided I was sick of<br />
the life I’d been living. I wanted to be a<br />
different person. That was the cue the Lord<br />
was waiting on.<br />
Soon after arriving in South Carolina,<br />
we started attending church, and I gave<br />
my life back to the Lord. He completely<br />
changed me! I was happy again. The pain<br />
I’d endured my senior year was gone,<br />
and I was completely delivered from my<br />
former lifestyle of partying, depression,<br />
and suicidal thoughts. In time, I married a<br />
wonderful man and gained three beautiful,<br />
happy children.<br />
Looking back, I see how the Lord used<br />
a terrible, hurtful experience to draw me<br />
back to Him. My senior year definitely<br />
wasn’t the year I wanted, but it was exactly<br />
what I needed. Instead of one year of<br />
“living it up,” I got a beautiful, godly family<br />
and a lifetime of joy and peace. Every day,<br />
I’m thankful for the Lord’s blessings!<br />
Cyberbullying is a serious issue among<br />
today’s youth, and it can quickly lead to<br />
depression and suicide. If you or someone you<br />
know is a victim of cyberbullying, please seek<br />
help.<br />
Kaylee Watford and her family are part<br />
of an IPHC church plant in Sumter, S.C.<br />
Have you had the Experience? Send your testimony to Mégan Alba<br />
at malba@iphc.org.<br />
How to<br />
Experience God<br />
Here are five simple steps you can<br />
take to begin a relationship with God:<br />
1. Recognize your need. The Bible<br />
tells us that “all have sinned and fall<br />
short of the glory of God” (Rom. 3:23,<br />
NASB). All of us are sinners, and we<br />
must admit our need for a Savior.<br />
2. Repent of your sins. Because<br />
God is completely holy, our sins create<br />
a wall that separates us from Him.<br />
By confessing your sins you will find<br />
forgiveness. “Repent” means to make<br />
a 180-degree turnaround. The Bible<br />
promises: “If we confess our sins, He<br />
is faithful and righteous to forgive us<br />
our sins and to cleanse us from all<br />
unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).<br />
3. Believe in Jesus. God worked a<br />
miracle when He sent His only Son<br />
to die for us. We don’t have to pay for<br />
our sins … Jesus paid it all! We can’t<br />
work for our salvation. It is a gift from<br />
God, and all He requires is that we<br />
believe. Put your faith in Him. The Bible<br />
says: “For God so loved the world,<br />
that He gave His only begotten Son,<br />
that whoever believes in Him shall not<br />
perish, but have eternal life” (John<br />
3:16).<br />
4. Receive His salvation. God has<br />
given us this free gift, but we must<br />
accept it. Thank Him for sending Jesus<br />
to die on the cross for you. Thank<br />
Him for His amazing love, mercy and<br />
forgiveness. Then ask Him to live in<br />
your heart. His promise to us is sure:<br />
“But as many as received Him, to them<br />
He gave the right to become children of<br />
God...” (John 1:12).<br />
5. Confess your faith. The Bible<br />
assures us: “If you confess with your<br />
mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in<br />
your heart that God raised Him from<br />
the dead, you will be saved” (Rom.<br />
10:9). You have been born again and are<br />
now part of God’s family. Tell someone<br />
else what Jesus has done in your life!<br />
This amazing experience can be yours.<br />
Embrace God’s love and receive the<br />
salvation that only Jesus Christ gives.<br />
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