September 2011 - Jewish Federation of New Mexico
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<strong>September</strong> <strong>2011</strong> A Service <strong>of</strong> the <strong>Jewish</strong> <strong>Federation</strong> <strong>of</strong> <strong>New</strong> <strong>Mexico</strong> The <strong>New</strong> <strong>Mexico</strong> <strong>Jewish</strong> Link 15<br />
You Are What You Are: A Yiddish Parable<br />
Retold by Rich Lieberman<br />
Many, many years ago, my grandmother<br />
told me this story. Of course,<br />
it was part in Yiddish, and part English.<br />
However back then everyone’s<br />
grandparents, and/or parents were<br />
from Europe, so, Yiddish it was. I had<br />
to ask my mother, who was very fluent<br />
in Yiddish to help me with some<br />
<strong>of</strong> the rough spots. Every story has<br />
a moral and this one was no exception.<br />
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In a small shtetl, somewhere in<br />
the Pale <strong>of</strong> Russia....there was a village,<br />
populated mostly with Jews.<br />
This was typical for the times. At<br />
one time in history, the king <strong>of</strong> the<br />
province, declared that, “all Jews<br />
must abandon their religion, their<br />
ways, and customs, and switch to<br />
the King’s way <strong>of</strong> living, religion<br />
and doings.” He ordered the Rabbi<br />
and the elders to his council, and<br />
told them <strong>of</strong> his intent. The Rabbi<br />
and his group were in shock. They<br />
told him that they would have to go<br />
back to their village, and talk to their<br />
people, knowing full well what the<br />
answer would be; needless to say,<br />
they were grief stricken.<br />
Within two days, they were summoned<br />
back to the King’s chambers.<br />
The King demanded their answer,<br />
and when they told him no, they<br />
were all imprisoned in a dungeon,<br />
and were told they would remain<br />
there until they changed their minds.<br />
So, there they sat, the Rabbi, and his<br />
group <strong>of</strong> pious Jews.<br />
The townspeople tried to visit<br />
them and bring food, but they were<br />
turned back, and went home with<br />
great fear. As time went on, the Rabbi<br />
and his group kept praying to God<br />
for a solution to their problem. The<br />
Rabbi had a drop <strong>of</strong> snuff left in his<br />
snuff box - it would be his last dip<br />
and he tried to enjoy it, but could<br />
not.<br />
When he finished, he put the<br />
empty box in his vest pocket, as was<br />
his habit.<br />
The group discussed all the ways<br />
<strong>of</strong> getting themselves out <strong>of</strong> this predicament.<br />
As the Rabbi kept praying<br />
and thinking, he noticed a small<br />
mouse running around the floor, and<br />
several times the mouse jumped up<br />
on him. He kept shooing it away,<br />
however the more he did, the more<br />
the mouse kept jumping on him.<br />
Finally, after many times, the Rabbi<br />
grabbed it and put it in his snuff box.<br />
He felt this must be a sign from God.<br />
He closed the box and put it back in<br />
his pocket. Over the next couple <strong>of</strong><br />
days, he would feed the mouse some<br />
crumbs, from his own meager food<br />
ration. As time went by, he lost track<br />
<strong>of</strong> the mouse’s significance, but kept<br />
feeding him.<br />
Day after day, the King would<br />
talk to the Rabbi, trying to make him<br />
see his point. The Rabbi refused to<br />
bargain with him. He told the King,<br />
time and time again, that they could<br />
not do what was asked <strong>of</strong> them.<br />
A message was sent to the dungeon<br />
that the Rabbi and his group<br />
were to come to dinner that very<br />
evening to dine with the King and<br />
his close ones. The Rabbi was confused<br />
by the <strong>of</strong>fering, and began to<br />
wonder what plan the King had in<br />
store for them.<br />
The banquet hall was set up with<br />
one very long table, with the finest<br />
<strong>of</strong> plates, bowls and silver. They entered<br />
the room and were amazed at<br />
the richness that was laid out before<br />
them. They were escorted to their<br />
seats. The King made some brief remarks,<br />
but it always came back to<br />
the reason that they were all there:<br />
“Make the Jews change.” Stop believing<br />
in their God, disavow the Torah,<br />
close their Shul, abandon their<br />
ways.<br />
The Rabbi was asked to state his<br />
case. He rose to his feet, and said<br />
that there was no way that he or his<br />
people could change anything about<br />
their lives. This was their covenant<br />
with the Almighty.<br />
The King was very annoyed by<br />
his statement, and said he would<br />
make them understand what he<br />
wanted. And with that, the King ordered<br />
dinner to be served. However<br />
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before the meal was served, again<br />
the King stood, and said, if the Rabbi<br />
could show him, or tell him, why the<br />
Jews could not conform and abide<br />
by the new ways, perhaps he would<br />
lift the decree.<br />
The Rabbi and his group looked<br />
at each other, and knew this was it; if<br />
they didn’t do the convincing, their<br />
fate was sealed. Then, with great<br />
bravado, the doors swung open, and<br />
out came the food, served on silver<br />
platters. The servers, however, were<br />
cats dressed in tuxedos, walking upright<br />
on their hind legs. They started<br />
to serve soup and rolls, very proper<br />
like, with skilled style.<br />
The King rose to his feet, and<br />
said to the Rabbi, “See Rabbi, their<br />
whole lifestyle has been changed,<br />
and I trained them. What do you<br />
have to say now? Your freedom and<br />
that <strong>of</strong> your people are at hand.”<br />
The Rabbi looked at his fellow<br />
Jews and they all had fear in their<br />
eyes, knowing that this was impossible<br />
to get around, and soon they<br />
would have to face the fact that life<br />
would never be the same.<br />
As the cats continued to serve the<br />
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Rabbi stood up to speak to the King,<br />
and just as he was about to talk, he<br />
thought <strong>of</strong> the mouse in his snuff<br />
box. He reached into his pocket and<br />
took it out, and opened the lid. He<br />
took the mouse out, and started to<br />
yell, “CATS! CATS! CATS!” and with<br />
that, he put the mouse on the floor,<br />
and cats threw their trays and food<br />
up in the air, and went from their<br />
hind legs, down to all fours, chasing<br />
the mouse all over the dining hall.<br />
It was the sign that they had<br />
prayed for, God answered their<br />
prayers.<br />
The Rabbi looked toward the<br />
King, and without saying a word,<br />
the King looked at the Rabbi, and<br />
said “Rabbi, I respect you, as a man<br />
<strong>of</strong> God, and I now see what you<br />
have meant. You are what you are,<br />
and I understand now you are what<br />
you are, and I also see now, how<br />
your people have lasted so long.<br />
You have my word to you, that you<br />
and your people will now have<br />
your religion, and your house <strong>of</strong><br />
worship and all that you need. You<br />
have taught me a lesson, Rabbi. You<br />
are all free, go with my blessings.”<br />
The Rabbi and the King shook<br />
hands, and they both went their<br />
separate ways.<br />
As you can see, you are what<br />
you are…and nothing can change<br />
that.<br />
This story has stayed with me<br />
all these years, and it is still a very<br />
valued one. Thank you for allowing<br />
me to share this with you!<br />
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