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Strategies For<br />
Communication Skills<br />
Development<br />
L. Shankari<br />
STRATEGIES FOR COMMUNICATION<br />
SKILLS DEVELOPMENT<br />
"Communication is the botheration of all<br />
generations. Communication with the<br />
mission avoids commotion results in<br />
promotion. Gaps in communication may lead<br />
to litigation. Animated conversation always<br />
wins standing ovation "<br />
INTRODUCTION<br />
No one in this world embraces success due<br />
to his/her own efforts. Real Achievers are<br />
able to seek the attention of others in a<br />
positive manner because they have the<br />
most powerful tool of influence in their hand<br />
namely, communication.<br />
Many of us spend years in acquiring<br />
computer skills or spend hours to beautify<br />
ourselves but have we ever given a thought<br />
to improve our verbal skills?<br />
If we trace History, it crystal clearly reveals<br />
that the most triumphant people in the world<br />
have had the gift of the gab. A common trait<br />
of wealthy people is a wealth of pals and<br />
how they have imbibed this trait is through<br />
good communication skills.<br />
TIPS FOR HONING ONE'S<br />
COMMUNICATION SKILLS<br />
DON'T FORGET THE LAW i.e.LOOKS,<br />
ACTIONS AND WORDS<br />
LOOKS<br />
Looks can be stunning. Every one would<br />
love to communicate to one who wears a<br />
smile on his/her face. Looks also includes<br />
the way one dresses up.<br />
ACTIONS<br />
The body language, gestures and<br />
mannerisms all matter a lot. Perfect actions<br />
and body language are one of the most<br />
valuable assets of great communicators.<br />
Fidel Castro, the great leader spoke for 5<br />
hours and the audience was dumbfounded<br />
and what made the audience listened to him<br />
with rapt attention? It was not what he spoke<br />
but how he delivered his speech, his<br />
posture, his body language and<br />
EXPRESSIONS have attributed to his<br />
immense fan following across the world.<br />
WORDS<br />
Words are windows, open wide,<br />
That reveals all, inside, outside.<br />
They can cool, they can bake,<br />
The sleepiest mind, they can awake.<br />
They can dance, they can sing,<br />
And our worries they can fling.<br />
They can be harsh and also polite<br />
Like gentle Ladies of the elite.<br />
They can love, they can hate,<br />
If used unwisely, in a haste.<br />
They can cure, they can break,<br />
Like a poor man, at the stake.<br />
Words can be powerful. The right words<br />
could trigger many a brilliant idea, bringing<br />
fresh life into your Organization.<br />
BE AUDIENCE FRIENDLY<br />
Make sure that one has not created a barrier<br />
between oneself and the audience which<br />
inhibits communication.<br />
KISS {KEEP IT SHORT AND SIMPLE}<br />
Quite frequently, one fails to communicate<br />
what one wanted to convey to others<br />
because of different speaking styles and<br />
accents.<br />
BE POLITE AND POLISHED<br />
What one talks fades over time but how one<br />
felt remains for a Long time to come.<br />
BRING THE HUMOROUS THE HUMAN<br />
TOUCH<br />
There are ways of using humor, which<br />
anybody can cultivate. Some of the simpler<br />
ways are to use the old jokes, cartoons,<br />
analogies, observations etc. One has to<br />
have this never-ending urge to put a punch<br />
in the speech.<br />
COMMUNICATION BEHAVIOR<br />
PREFERENCE MAPPING<br />
According to Arindham Chaudhry's<br />
communication behavior preference<br />
mapping is based on the categorization of<br />
individual preferences on two key<br />
dimensions of communication,<br />
Persuasiveness and expressiveness.<br />
People with high persuasiveness and high<br />
expressiveness are the Thespians eg BILL<br />
CLINTON. These people prefer action<br />
oriented communication , liberally using<br />
gestures, expressions and movements<br />
while Communicating People with high<br />
persuasiveness and low expressiveness are<br />
the stern face eg. KARAN THAPAR & T N<br />
SESHAN. They are characterized by a no<br />
nonsense Attitude and in almost all<br />
occasions prefer carrying a stern face while<br />
they communicate.<br />
Poised are people with low persuasiveness<br />
and low expressiveness eg AMITHABH<br />
BACHCHAN. These people are calm and<br />
extremely formal.<br />
People with low persuasiveness and high<br />
expressiveness are the friendly eg<br />
PRONOY ROY. They are usually warm in<br />
their communications.<br />
CONCLUSION<br />
One can never succeed with people without<br />
mutual trust and Understanding. Effective<br />
Communication skills could just be the<br />
difference between success and you. Simply<br />
reading books on communication skills<br />
won't transform you instantly. You do have<br />
to get there and make the effort.<br />
Familiarise yourself with the basics,<br />
practices and then sitback and glory in your<br />
new found confidence and easy fluency.<br />
"Shouldn't we use the words?<br />
Like the pills,<br />
To cure the world of all its ills?<br />
Use them wisely and reap all<br />
The good,<br />
And be liked, loved and understood. "u H<br />
L.Shankari, Lecturer, M.B.A Dept. Sona School of <strong>Management</strong>, Salem E-Mail: saishanpari@yahoo.co.in<br />
| <strong>HRD</strong> News Letter | March 2007, Vol.22, Issue:12 29|