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10 • THE WEBSTER TIMES • Friday, April 16, 2010<br />
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FRANK G.<br />
CHILINSKI<br />
STONEBRIDGE PRESS<br />
PRESIDENT AND PUBLISHER<br />
ADAM MINOR<br />
WALTER C.<br />
BIRD JR.<br />
STONEBRIDGE PRESS<br />
WEEKLIES EDITOR-AT-LARGE<br />
EDITOR<br />
THE WEBSTER TIMES AND THE AUBURN NEWS<br />
COMMENTARY<br />
My almost<br />
dinger<br />
Only days remain until the official<br />
kick-off of the Auburn Little League<br />
season, <strong>and</strong> many families couldn’t be<br />
more excited. The sun is finally<br />
warming our little piece of the Earth,<br />
<strong>and</strong> with that comes the blossoming of<br />
trees <strong>and</strong> flowers, the smells of freshly<br />
cut grass <strong>and</strong> the all-to-familiar<br />
THE MINOR<br />
DETAILS<br />
ADAM MINOR<br />
“ping!” of aluminum<br />
bats connecting with<br />
baseballs.<br />
Ah, to be young<br />
again.<br />
I remember “back in<br />
the day” (I put that<br />
phrase in quotes<br />
because I am only 26,<br />
<strong>and</strong> “back in the day”<br />
doesn’t quite hold the<br />
same meaning as it<br />
would a 60- or 70-yearold),<br />
game days were<br />
filled with excitement.<br />
I was the starting third<br />
basemen for my<br />
Eastford Little League, so my practice<br />
regimen included a grueling series of<br />
ground balls hit from every conceivable<br />
angle <strong>and</strong> various speeds.<br />
“Stay in front of the ball!” my<br />
coach, Chris Sheehan, would yell out<br />
to me as he hit one my way. He called<br />
me “Hoover,” an encouraging nickname<br />
that implied I sucked up every<br />
ground ball hit near me. I wasn’t perfect<br />
— I had my share of errors — but<br />
I was a pretty good bet to make the<br />
play when needed.<br />
My most shining moment also<br />
turned out to be my most frustrating.<br />
It was an early Saturday game, barely<br />
after noon. We were playing one of<br />
the better teams in our league, <strong>and</strong> it<br />
was early in the game. We had a couple<br />
people on base <strong>and</strong> I stepped up to<br />
the plate.<br />
I was never really known as a power<br />
hitter. I was lankier back then, so<br />
when I did connect, it was mostly for<br />
singles or doubles.<br />
This day was different. The pitcher<br />
served me a premium, Grade-A choice<br />
loin meatball right over the plate, <strong>and</strong><br />
I ripped it to center field.<br />
Now, our perimeter fencing was<br />
your basic, run-of-the-mill chain link<br />
fence, with a metal bar running the<br />
length of the fence about 3 inches<br />
from the top. As I hit the ball, I<br />
thought the impossible was about to<br />
happen — my first home run. I made<br />
the mistake every coach warns you<br />
about.<br />
“Don’t watch the ball! Just run!”<br />
But I was watching intently, I just<br />
didn’t care. The centerfielder was<br />
back stepping, trying to locate the ball<br />
in the midday sun. He approached the<br />
fence, the ball was nearly down, <strong>and</strong><br />
as I rounded first, it happened.<br />
“Ping!”<br />
Wait, what? My mind was in disbelief,<br />
as the ball bounced violently off<br />
the metal crossbar on the fence,<br />
bounced straight up in the air, <strong>and</strong><br />
l<strong>and</strong>ed in centerfield — about as close<br />
a batter can come to hitting a home<br />
run without actually hitting a home<br />
run.<br />
I moved into second base with an<br />
easy double, <strong>and</strong> I did log two RBIs on<br />
the play, but I was crushed. My home<br />
run was not to be that day, <strong>and</strong> I never<br />
did hit one in my Little League<br />
“career.”<br />
My years in Little League were<br />
among the most fun in my life, <strong>and</strong> as<br />
Auburn Little League kicks off this<br />
weekend, I hope the kids can look<br />
back 14 years from now with a smile<br />
like I do.<br />
Play ball!<br />
Adam Minor may be reached at 508-<br />
909-4142, or by e-mail at<br />
aminor@stonebridgepress.com.<br />
LETTERS TO THE EDITOR<br />
Thanks for making event a success<br />
To the Editor:<br />
Calvary Assembly of God would like to say<br />
thank you to the following businesses for<br />
donating towards our community Easter Egg<br />
Hunt that was held at the Dudley Town Beach<br />
on March 27. It was a huge success <strong>and</strong> many<br />
families were blessed because of it. Thanks<br />
To the Editor:<br />
The article in a recent publication advised<br />
that a donation was made to the Central<br />
South County Relay For Life by the Leicester<br />
Rod <strong>and</strong> Gun Club.<br />
The generous donation was actually made<br />
by the Leicester Snowmobile Club at the<br />
Leicester Rod <strong>and</strong> Gun Club. We regret this<br />
error.<br />
Once again we thank the members of the<br />
Leicester Snowmobile Club. Their wonderful<br />
To the Editor:<br />
The Dudley-Charlton Education<br />
Foundation Board of Directors wishes to<br />
thank the many guests <strong>and</strong> contributors who<br />
made our first Gala Dinner-Dance on March<br />
27 a huge success.<br />
The Foundation is now poised to move into<br />
its next phase of operation, which is to offer<br />
grants to district staff that encourage <strong>and</strong><br />
fund innovative projects in teaching <strong>and</strong><br />
SOUND OFF:<br />
I live in the ghost town of <strong>Webster</strong>, <strong>and</strong> I am<br />
wondering why the gas prices in this town<br />
are 20 cents or more higher than not only the<br />
Clearing up an error<br />
SOUND OFF<br />
Why are gas prices so high?<br />
so much for your part in the event — Town of<br />
Dudley; PC Triage; Shaw’s; Radius<br />
Healthcare Center; Park <strong>and</strong> Shop.<br />
REV.PATRICK O’LOUGHLIN<br />
CALVARY ASSEMBLY OF GOD<br />
gift of time, energy <strong>and</strong> talent to support<br />
Relay for Life <strong>and</strong> the American Cancer<br />
Society is truly appreciated. We save lives<br />
<strong>and</strong> create more birthdays by helping you<br />
stay well, helping you to get well, by finding<br />
cures <strong>and</strong> by fighting back.<br />
Dinner dance a ‘huge success’<br />
To the Editor:<br />
If you really want to turn around the<br />
under-performing schools in Massachusetts,<br />
I feel those school districts should be entirely<br />
turned over to charter school-operation for a<br />
least a five-year period. I would then like to<br />
see the charter school operated like the<br />
Harlem Village schools in New York City. The<br />
key features of their educational program<br />
include:<br />
• A rich liberal arts curriculum based on<br />
rigorous st<strong>and</strong>ards of excellence.<br />
• A longer day (7:30 a.m. to 4:40 p.m.) that<br />
provides enough time for students to both<br />
master basic skills <strong>and</strong> to reflect deeply on<br />
what they're learning.<br />
• Individualized tutoring, after-school<br />
homework center, <strong>and</strong> Saturday school for<br />
students needing extra help <strong>and</strong> attention.<br />
• A small-group advisory system that provides<br />
personal attention <strong>and</strong> support by connecting<br />
each student with an adult advisor.<br />
• School uniforms that reflect our commitment<br />
to a culture of mutual respect <strong>and</strong> serious<br />
scholarship.<br />
• A clear, strict code of conduct that operates<br />
consistently across the school.<br />
• After-school activities that include karate,<br />
chess, yoga <strong>and</strong> dance.<br />
Frequent, diagnostic assessment of student<br />
progress that enables teachers to check<br />
how students are doing <strong>and</strong> customize<br />
instruction or tutoring groups accordingly.<br />
• A focus on college preparation including<br />
annual year-end college trips.<br />
• A culture <strong>and</strong> system of accountability<br />
for academic achievement.<br />
• Talented, dedicated teachers with expertise<br />
in their subject areas <strong>and</strong> a passion for<br />
teaching.<br />
• A small, close-knit, nurturing school environment<br />
built around the values of compassion,<br />
hard work, responsibility, integrity <strong>and</strong><br />
kindness.<br />
It is my underst<strong>and</strong>ing that the first week<br />
of school at the Harlem Village schools is<br />
CINDY GALLANT<br />
THE RELAY FOR LIFE OF<br />
CENTRAL SOUTH COUNTY<br />
learning.<br />
The momentum gained at the Gala Event<br />
will extend far beyond that evening to provide<br />
innovative opportunities for students<br />
<strong>and</strong> the communities we serve.<br />
Again, many thanks to all who supported<br />
this effort.<br />
DCEF BOARD OF DIRECTORS<br />
Something to be learned from NYC schools<br />
devoted to explaining <strong>and</strong> establishing their<br />
strict code of conduct. Many times this is<br />
missing or lacking in our public schools.<br />
Harlem Village schools are proud to point<br />
out that their schools are designed for teachers<br />
so students can be successful. As they<br />
point out on their Web site, “In 2001, we developed<br />
a dramatic new approach to education<br />
reform that could revolutionize public education.<br />
We did not start with a ‘school design’ to<br />
be imposed on teachers; rather we set out to<br />
design a school for teachers. We believed that<br />
teachers, not programs, are the key drivers of<br />
student achievement — <strong>and</strong> by tapping into<br />
the knowledge, talent <strong>and</strong> passion of teachers,<br />
we could achieve ground-breaking<br />
results. We called our strategy ‘Schools<br />
Designed for Teachers.’”<br />
I taught math in an “under-performing”<br />
high school for five years, but I have to agree<br />
with Paula Macy of Blackstone. I feel it was<br />
not the school that was under-performing,<br />
but it was usually the students <strong>and</strong>/or parents/guardians<br />
that were the root of this academic<br />
problem. We had an outst<strong>and</strong>ing math<br />
department with a great department chair,<br />
but many of our students did not get academically<br />
reinforced at home or via their circle of<br />
friends. Teenage pregnancy, drug <strong>and</strong> alcohol<br />
abuse, violence <strong>and</strong> gangs were a major part<br />
of some of these students’ lives.<br />
I feel an extended school day, strict discipline<br />
(including a dress code, so gang colors<br />
can be eliminated), <strong>and</strong> schools designed for<br />
teachers must be the minimum steps taken<br />
toward solving the problems with academic<br />
<strong>and</strong> life achievements for our students. If we<br />
want to turn around our “under-performing”<br />
schools, then the Commonwealth must be<br />
willing to fund <strong>and</strong> emulate the success of<br />
the Harlem Village schools.<br />
HERBERT J. ANDREWS<br />
NORTH OXFORD<br />
surrounding towns, but the entire state of<br />
Massachusetts.<br />
Hopefully, someone can weigh on this <strong>and</strong><br />
let us know what is going on.<br />
the goods<br />
A few words in praise of the best job I ever had to<br />
leave.<br />
Since January I had been involved with Meals on<br />
Wheels, delivering hot lunches to Southbridgians in<br />
<strong>and</strong> around my neighborhood. It was rewarding<br />
work. First of all, it was nice to be following the biblical<br />
edict: “Feed my sheep.” Secondly, it was nice<br />
getting to know such wonderful people — seniors<br />
<strong>and</strong> housebound neighbors who, for a variety of reasons,<br />
needed, <strong>and</strong> generally welcomed, a late-morning<br />
pop-in:<br />
“Hi, how’re ya doing? Here’s your lunch. Have a<br />
great day! See you tomorrow.”<br />
Alas, my new work schedule<br />
doesn’t have the flexibility to<br />
continue in this calling, so<br />
here’s your notice — <strong>and</strong> your<br />
chance, if you’re available <strong>and</strong><br />
interested, to consider joining<br />
in this important effort.<br />
I’m not sure how it works in<br />
AS YOU<br />
LIKE IT<br />
MARK<br />
ASHTON<br />
other towns, but in<br />
Southbridge the Meals on<br />
Wheels program is run by Tri-<br />
Valley Inc., an organization<br />
long known for its work in<br />
behalf of senior citizens, the<br />
frail <strong>and</strong> elderly. With the help<br />
of both paid <strong>and</strong> volunteer<br />
staff, they dish out, serve up,<br />
<strong>and</strong> deliver dozens (<strong>and</strong> dozens) of meals every<br />
weekday, monitoring the production <strong>and</strong> distribution<br />
so as to keep tabs on folks who might otherwise<br />
“fall through the cracks” of our modern, hectic<br />
world.<br />
The meals provided are simple but nutritious,<br />
everything from shepherd’s pie to crumb-flaked<br />
fish, from ham, green beans, <strong>and</strong> mashed potatoes to<br />
corned-beef <strong>and</strong> cabbage. Folks opt in <strong>and</strong> out as<br />
their palates <strong>and</strong> activities require. No attempt is<br />
made to force-feed Brussels sprouts; no one is<br />
coaxed into giving peas a chance. At 96, a person<br />
should get to decide when — or even if — to eat her<br />
lunch, or if the family pooch should get it!<br />
Not everyone on my Meals on Wheels route was<br />
96 — but those who were certainly proud of it,<br />
reminding me daily of their “situation” <strong>and</strong> my<br />
need to speak up, listen up, <strong>and</strong> pay attention. It was<br />
good advice. It has taught me to appreciate some of<br />
the benefits, <strong>and</strong> the challenges, of aging.<br />
My route had about 30 (active) participants <strong>and</strong><br />
took a couple of hours to complete, through some of<br />
my old paper route neighborhoods <strong>and</strong> streets at<br />
opposite ends of the town. Because someone else<br />
was always waiting to receive their meal, it was<br />
impossible to spend too much time with any one<br />
client, but it was amazing to me how much joy <strong>and</strong><br />
good cheer could be delivered in a mere 30 seconds.<br />
Not by me, but by the recipients of this simple service!<br />
My route took me to some of the town’s tripledeckers,<br />
<strong>and</strong> though stair climbing is not among my<br />
favorite pastimes, it was always rewarding at “the<br />
h<strong>and</strong>-off” in the doorway or kitchen.<br />
“Here’s your lunch,” I’d say.<br />
“God bless you; thank you, sir,” came the reply,<br />
which was always enough to get me to the next second-floor<br />
apartment, even while juggling a hot plastic-wrapped<br />
meal, a bag of beverage, bread, <strong>and</strong><br />
dessert, a cold-packed supper, a Styrofoam container<br />
of soup, <strong>and</strong> a cardboard box of frozen weekend<br />
meals.<br />
Jim, who continues as a Meals on Wheels deliverer,<br />
recently dropped out of his Thursday morning<br />
golf group because it conflicts with his delivery<br />
schedule.<br />
“Where else can you go to work where people say,<br />
‘God bless you!’ <strong>and</strong> really mean it?” he asks.<br />
He’s right. The appreciation that accompanies<br />
this simple service is truly rewarding. As you learn<br />
the individual stories of these oft-neglected neighbors,<br />
you gain insight into where we’ve come from<br />
as a community <strong>and</strong> a nation.<br />
Not to mention any names or locations — because<br />
privacy needs to be maintained, I will truly miss<br />
many of my clients/customers. These are (mostly)<br />
the survivors of The Greatest Generation, who still<br />
have stories to tell about serving in B-17s in World<br />
War II, who raised families <strong>and</strong> sent them off to live<br />
lives of their own, who taught school or worked in<br />
local offices for half a century, who ran businesses<br />
<strong>and</strong> retired, who coached Little League, who drove<br />
milk trucks <strong>and</strong> climbed utility poles before cable<br />
<strong>and</strong> Internet connections even came into being.<br />
I’ll miss my favorite dog lady, my friend awaiting<br />
her biopsy results, the guy who always attributed<br />
good weather to my “sunny face,” the feisty nonagenarian<br />
who proclaimed her age at every visit, the<br />
independent senior who refused to open her door on<br />
cold days, the friendly walker who made sure to get<br />
home in time for my arrival, the “h<strong>and</strong>icapped”<br />
widower who stills shovels snow <strong>and</strong> mows his<br />
lawn, <strong>and</strong> the gentle lady who sat at her door to<br />
await my arrival <strong>and</strong> who knits cozy slippers for<br />
any <strong>and</strong> all comers. I’ll definitely miss the lady who<br />
said, “You can’t be that guy who writes for the paper.<br />
That picture doesn’t look anything like you!”<br />
We’re supposed to worry about the minds, the<br />
memories, <strong>and</strong> the nutritional habits of these folks.<br />
We’re charged with watching over them, monitoring<br />
their driving, fretting over the fragility of their<br />
bones. But ask Jim, ask my buddy Buddy, ask Edith<br />
<strong>and</strong> Cliff <strong>and</strong> other drivers. These folks CAN<br />
remember names — especially of those who take<br />
the time to visit, <strong>and</strong> to listen to them. These folks<br />
have minds worth exercising <strong>and</strong> memories from<br />
which great tales <strong>and</strong> great wisdom are yet to be<br />
drawn.<br />
Ask not for whom the (door)bell tolls. It tolls for<br />
thee. I hope Tri-Valley is still running the Meals on<br />
Wheels (senior nutrition) program when I’m in<br />
need of such things way down the road (about six<br />
weeks) in the future. I hope you’ll consider helping<br />
them out. You’ll bless so many lives — including<br />
your own!<br />
Mark Ashton writes a weekly column for<br />
<strong>Stonebridge</strong> <strong>Press</strong> publications.