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SPRING AWAKENING - Segerstrom Center for the Arts

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Today <strong>the</strong>re’s plenty of advice <strong>for</strong> parents,<br />

teachers and o<strong>the</strong>r adults on how to help<br />

teens cope with this difficult period of<br />

development. Certainly more than <strong>the</strong>re<br />

was in <strong>the</strong> 1800s. Websites like Teenwire<br />

help teens understand <strong>the</strong>ir sexuality and<br />

o<strong>the</strong>r problems facing <strong>the</strong>m. But does<br />

understanding translate into coping?<br />

Does <strong>the</strong> advice that “it’s just a phase and<br />

everything will be fine in <strong>the</strong> end if you just<br />

stick it out” make it any easier? Afterall,<br />

<strong>the</strong>y’re still battling hormones, lack of<br />

peer acceptance, depression, academic<br />

pressure. Unless families can af<strong>for</strong>d long<br />

term <strong>the</strong>rapy, teens are on <strong>the</strong>ir own—<br />

fledgling adults in a world which keeps<br />

insisting, “In <strong>the</strong> end, it will all be okay.”<br />

While feelings of <strong>the</strong>ir own sexuality are<br />

not going away, and social, academic and<br />

adult pressure will be <strong>the</strong>re no matter<br />

what, all we can really do is help <strong>the</strong>m<br />

cope. Life doesn’t come with an owner’s<br />

manual. We have to figure it out <strong>for</strong><br />

ourselves. When it comes to growing up<br />

adults don’t have all <strong>the</strong> answers. Some<br />

who think <strong>the</strong>y do quickly discover <strong>the</strong>y<br />

are not always <strong>the</strong> ones teens want to<br />

hear. Without options, teens may become<br />

disillusioned and make bad choices, like<br />

Wendla and Moritz and Melchior and even<br />

Wendla’s mo<strong>the</strong>r, who chose a dangerous<br />

abortion procedure ra<strong>the</strong>r than bear <strong>the</strong><br />

shame of her daughter’s pregnancy.<br />

As teachers <strong>the</strong>re are several things we<br />

can do to. Involve students in group<br />

activities that are not stressful; try to<br />

eliminate teasing and belittling and any<br />

behavior that may humiliate <strong>the</strong> student;<br />

encourage and praise doing well on<br />

assignments; promote leadership roles;<br />

encourage contributions to community<br />

and world activities that are meaningful<br />

and noteworthy; respect <strong>the</strong>ir needs <strong>for</strong><br />

physical, creative and expressive outlets.<br />

And most important, listen. If you’re really<br />

worried, ask. Teens see things a lot more<br />

clearly than you might think.<br />

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