chosen not to receive advanced degrees butare far<strong>in</strong>g well <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> world.ESTEBAN CARDEMIL ’93Providence, R.I.“NEGATIVE PATHOLOGIES”I write not to support <strong>the</strong> decision to dropfootball (as <strong>the</strong> College asserted on its Website) but to po<strong>in</strong>t out that <strong>the</strong> issue is farmore complex than ei<strong>the</strong>r side’s public commentsadmit.Look<strong>in</strong>g at Swarthmore’s won-lost recordss<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>the</strong> 1960s—when <strong>the</strong> NationalCollegiate Athletic Association allowed twoplatoonfootball, mak<strong>in</strong>g it impossible tocompete with a team of 30 players—it isclear that most Swarthmore football teamsendured los<strong>in</strong>g records and <strong>the</strong> pa<strong>in</strong> thatgoes with <strong>the</strong>m. Even those who experiencedw<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g seasons felt marg<strong>in</strong>alized asma<strong>in</strong>stream male athletes on Swarthmore’scampus. One of my ex-players commentedon <strong>the</strong> Board’s decision, “at least kids won’thave to suffer what we did”—and this youngman played on teams with w<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g records3 of his 4 years at Swarthmore! Many negativepathologies develop on los<strong>in</strong>g teamsand <strong>in</strong> environments where people feel likeoutcasts.All members of <strong>the</strong> Board should also behonest concern<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>ir role <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> deteriorationof traditional team sports at <strong>the</strong> College.Several teams (<strong>in</strong>clud<strong>in</strong>g football, witha 7–3 record <strong>in</strong> 1990 and a 5–3–1 secondplaceConference f<strong>in</strong>ish <strong>in</strong> 1992; and basketball,with an Eastern Collegiate AthleticConference playoff team <strong>in</strong> 1991) enjoyedsuccess <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> last years of Bob Barr’s [’56]tenure as dean of admissions.When <strong>the</strong> Board hired Al Bloom andapproved his policies to <strong>in</strong>crease diversitywhile also <strong>in</strong>creas<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> academic rigor of<strong>the</strong> enter<strong>in</strong>g class, it set <strong>in</strong> motion <strong>the</strong>demise of football. By <strong>the</strong> mid-1990s,almost all team sports were laughably bad,and <strong>the</strong> traditional male team sports wereanemic. It was at that po<strong>in</strong>t that <strong>the</strong> Board“discovered” <strong>the</strong> crisis and attempted <strong>the</strong>heroic rescue of football that has beenended by last December’s decision.S<strong>in</strong>ce 1992, <strong>the</strong> Bloom adm<strong>in</strong>istrationmade clear that its mission was to makeSwarthmore more uniquely Swarthmorean.Although <strong>the</strong>re was no overt desire to harmathletics, it was a case of malevolent neglect.At a school where <strong>the</strong> successful teams operatedon such a small marg<strong>in</strong>, <strong>the</strong> new admissionsemphases (without any correspond<strong>in</strong>grole for athletics) spelled doom. The Boardof Managers and its tradition of consensus(or, more precisely, its <strong>in</strong>ability to reach aconsensus on ei<strong>the</strong>r elim<strong>in</strong>at<strong>in</strong>g football orsupport<strong>in</strong>g it properly) produced a negativesituation where players failed to enjoy <strong>the</strong>positive aspects of <strong>the</strong> sport and wherecoaches had <strong>the</strong>ir careers short-circuited—or else retired embittered. Perhaps a fewpowerful alumni “preserved” football but atwhat human cost?Although <strong>the</strong> Board’s action was traumaticfor <strong>the</strong> current coaches and players,what has been done to <strong>the</strong>m follows <strong>the</strong> historyof Swarthmore College. Many playersand coaches who loved <strong>the</strong> school and <strong>the</strong>irsport have had <strong>the</strong>ir hearts broken by failurepredest<strong>in</strong>ed by <strong>the</strong> College’s admissionspolicies. Like me <strong>in</strong> 1990, <strong>the</strong>y were foolishenough to believe that <strong>the</strong>y had a chance todo what had never been done s<strong>in</strong>ce <strong>the</strong>1960s—to make football a long-stand<strong>in</strong>g,successful program. Should we all haveknown better? Probably so, but hope canbl<strong>in</strong>d even <strong>the</strong> smartest people.KARL MIRANSwarthmore, Pa.Miran was head football coach from 1990 until1998.CHANGING THE COLLEGE’S CULTUREI write as a former member of <strong>the</strong> Board ofManagers and a fellow educator to expressmy deepest concern about <strong>the</strong> abolition offootball at Swarthmore. I believe this decisionwould, first, be disastrous for Swarthmore;second, alter <strong>the</strong> ethos of <strong>the</strong> campus;and, third, be socially irresponsible.Swarthmore’s deserved reputationamong undergraduate liberal arts collegesstems from its decades-long, successful pursuitof two <strong>in</strong>terrelated goals: academicexcellence and diversity among its studentbody. Abandonment or significant narrow<strong>in</strong>gof its current <strong>in</strong>tercollegiate athleticsprogram (of which football is <strong>the</strong> flagshipprogram because of <strong>the</strong> unique historicaland cultural role it has played <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> historyof American higher education) would signalthat <strong>the</strong> college has decided to abandon itsprevious commitment to recruit a diversestudent body.Abandonment of football would signalthat <strong>in</strong>stead of consider<strong>in</strong>g Williams, Wesleyan,Amherst, Oberl<strong>in</strong>, Lawrence, Pomona, orCarleton as our peer <strong>in</strong>stitutions, Swarthmorewould be configur<strong>in</strong>g itself to competewith Benn<strong>in</strong>gton, Antioch, Haverford, SarahLawrence, Vassar, or Brandeis.The absence of football would tell applicantswho wish to be part of a well-roundedstudent body: You’ll be happier elsewherebecause at Swarthmore your class will notconta<strong>in</strong> a total range of classmates withwhom you can <strong>in</strong>teract; this college excludesand does not esteem <strong>the</strong> physically robustwho enjoy teamwork and vigorous athleticcompetition.Retention of a diverse student body is asocial responsibility of <strong>the</strong> College. Swarthmoreis unique <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> education it provides—especially<strong>the</strong> social ethic it transmits.Perhaps unique among American colleges,its Quaker tradition encourages itsstudents to select socially mean<strong>in</strong>gfulcareers and to assist <strong>the</strong> less fortunate <strong>in</strong>our society. And I th<strong>in</strong>k our nation would be<strong>the</strong> poorer if, 20 years and more from now,Swarthmore’s <strong>in</strong>fluence would no longer beas strongly felt among our nation’s leaders<strong>in</strong> commerce, politics, law, and even academics.Such people are frequently scholar-athletes.Instead of an <strong>in</strong>stitution with a futureorientedmission, Swarthmore will havetransformed itself <strong>in</strong>to a college that existssolely to serve a special k<strong>in</strong>d of contemporaryclientele. It will have become a preciouslittle community of <strong>the</strong> like-m<strong>in</strong>ded that haslittle sense of its responsibility to educateand <strong>in</strong>fluence <strong>the</strong> nation’s future leaders.MICHEL OKSENBERG ’60A<strong>the</strong>rton, Calif.This letter was written <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong> days before <strong>the</strong>Board of Managers’ decision on athletics. Sadly,Michel Oksenberg died on Feb. 22.TCORRECTIONSThanks to Nell Lancaster ’74 for po<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>gout that <strong>the</strong> quotation attributed to NelsonMandela on <strong>the</strong> January 2001 page of <strong>the</strong>Swarthmore calendar is actually from apoem by Mary Ann Williamson. Mandelaused it <strong>in</strong> his <strong>in</strong>augural address, and it isfrequently misattributed to him.Also, <strong>the</strong> photos of Lea Haravon Coll<strong>in</strong>s’89 (December “In My Life”) were taken byJane Mart<strong>in</strong>, not L<strong>in</strong>da Kahlbaugh.M A R C H 2 0 0 179
O U R B A C K P A G E SS W A R T H M O R E C O L L E G E B U L L E T I N80F r i e n d s f o r L i f eS W A R T H M O R E C O N N E C T I O N S W I T H S T A N D T H E T E S T O F T I M E .By Andrea HammerThe power of Swarthmore friendships,tended over many decades, ispalpable. At campus ga<strong>the</strong>r<strong>in</strong>gs,chatt<strong>in</strong>g friends visibly soak up <strong>the</strong> pleasureof each o<strong>the</strong>r’s company. Three elderlywomen <strong>in</strong> match<strong>in</strong>g p<strong>in</strong>k jackets whisperto each o<strong>the</strong>r as <strong>the</strong>y did dur<strong>in</strong>g College; aquartet of men, at first <strong>in</strong>tently debat<strong>in</strong>g apo<strong>in</strong>t, pat each o<strong>the</strong>r on <strong>the</strong> back.Still central to <strong>the</strong>ir lives, Swarthmorefriendships rema<strong>in</strong> a guid<strong>in</strong>g force despite<strong>the</strong> challenges of time. Several groups from<strong>the</strong> 1940s—a fraction of <strong>in</strong>numerable lifetimefriends from Swarthmore—illum<strong>in</strong>ate<strong>the</strong> mysteries of keep<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>se lifelongl<strong>in</strong>ks connected.P a r a l l e l L i v e sM Ii r r o r e d i n M o d e s t ynseparable at alumni events, Lyn PurdyJones ’40 and Mary Lois Broomell Eberle’40 mirror each o<strong>the</strong>r <strong>in</strong> quiet modesty:crowns of white hair fram<strong>in</strong>g rosy cheeks,bashful giggles still percolat<strong>in</strong>g from <strong>the</strong>ir20s, and exchanged looks of <strong>in</strong>stant understand<strong>in</strong>gfrom a golden friend. Jones, currentclass secretary, and Eberle, currentclass agent and class president, first met <strong>in</strong>1936 as freshmen on <strong>the</strong> same hall <strong>in</strong>Parrish Fourth West—<strong>the</strong>y said simultaneously.As roommates <strong>in</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir senior year,<strong>the</strong>ir friendship bloomed.“Our bro<strong>the</strong>rs also became roommatesat <strong>the</strong> College,” Eberle said. “It just happened,”Jones marveled.Their common <strong>in</strong>terests at Swarthmorehave kept <strong>the</strong>ir steps <strong>in</strong> sync. Both wereFrench majors, members of <strong>the</strong> Women’sStudent Government Association, and fieldhockey players who jo<strong>in</strong>ed Gwimp—<strong>the</strong>sports managers group. After graduation,Jones and Eberle both also taught atPhiladelphia’s Friends Central School.Cont<strong>in</strong>u<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> rhythm, both married<strong>the</strong>ir College swee<strong>the</strong>arts <strong>in</strong> 1941 and“were <strong>in</strong> each o<strong>the</strong>r’s wedd<strong>in</strong>gs,” Jonessaid. She betro<strong>the</strong>d Edmund ’39, now asenior partner with Jones, Strohm, Cra<strong>in</strong> &Guthrie, and had four children. Eberlewedded Charles “Buzz” Eberle ’40, an avidathlete and class president who died <strong>in</strong>1986; she also had 4 children and 13 grandchildrento rally her—<strong>in</strong> addition to longtimefriends. Soon after her husband’sdeath, Eberle wrote: “One doesn’t realizehow important friends are until someth<strong>in</strong>glike this happens. My Swarthmore friendsare my oldest and best.”In memory of her husband, who wasactive with Friends of Athletics at <strong>the</strong>College, Eberle supported <strong>the</strong> EberleInternship Program for <strong>in</strong>terns tra<strong>in</strong><strong>in</strong>g towrite about sports. In 1965, Jones and herhusband also created <strong>the</strong> Edmund A. JonesScholarship—keep<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong> spirit of <strong>the</strong>irdeceased son, Ted, alive by help<strong>in</strong>g dozensof talented area scholars attend Swarthmore.These lifetime friends have both beendedicated to community service activities.“We are both members of <strong>the</strong> League ofWomen Voters,” said Jones, an activeSwarthmore Friends Meet<strong>in</strong>g member.Similarly, Eberle has given time and energyto <strong>the</strong> Unitarian Society of Germantown.The College recognized <strong>the</strong>ir outstand<strong>in</strong>gservice to <strong>the</strong> College by bestow<strong>in</strong>g <strong>the</strong>Joseph P. Shane Award on Eberle <strong>in</strong> 1990and Jones <strong>in</strong> 1992. Both have taken turnsas class secretary, class agent, and AlumniCouncil members.In between writ<strong>in</strong>g Class Notes, whichJones hand delivers on deadl<strong>in</strong>e withoutfail, she shares Eberle’s <strong>in</strong>terest <strong>in</strong> AlumniCollege Abroad trips. “I’ve been on 25 of<strong>the</strong>m,” said Eberle, who has relished <strong>the</strong>seopportunities to “learn from excellent professorsand achieve a close feel<strong>in</strong>g betweenSwarthmore alumni.”When <strong>the</strong>y’re not travel<strong>in</strong>g, you canf<strong>in</strong>d Jones and Eberle sitt<strong>in</strong>g side by side atMARY LO BROOMELL EBERLE (LEFT) AND LYN PURDYJONES GRADUATED TOGETHER IN 1940. DURINGVOLUNTEER LEADERSHIP WEEKEND THIS YEAR, THEYSTILL STOOD SIDE BY SIDE IN FRIENDSHIP.campus events like Volunteer LeadershipWeekend, when <strong>the</strong>y enjoyed baggedlunches toge<strong>the</strong>r on a Kohlberg Hall bench.Their eyes sparkle with a shared zest forlife, magnetiz<strong>in</strong>g two friends who radiate60 years of common connections—withSwarthmore at <strong>the</strong> center.P s y c h o l o g i c a l P r o x i m i t yD Ne s p i t e G e o g r a p h i c D i s t a n c eow liv<strong>in</strong>g worlds apart, Don Smith ’47of Long Island, N.Y.; Phil Gilbert ’48of Kennett Square, Pa.; and Si Goudsmit’48 of Amsterdam, <strong>the</strong> Ne<strong>the</strong>rlands, havema<strong>in</strong>ta<strong>in</strong>ed a strong connection across <strong>the</strong>miles and years. In addition to e-mail andsnail mail, <strong>the</strong>y have never hesitated to stay<strong>in</strong> touch by telephone <strong>in</strong>ternationally.“There may have been geographic distance,”Gilbert said, “but psychologically,we always live around <strong>the</strong> corner from eacho<strong>the</strong>r.”Gilbert and Goudsmit were first pulledtoge<strong>the</strong>r on campus when Smith drew <strong>the</strong>best Wharton suite and <strong>in</strong>vited <strong>the</strong>m <strong>in</strong> assuitemates. “In <strong>the</strong> beg<strong>in</strong>n<strong>in</strong>g, I much appreciatedPhil’s cheerful disposition,” Goudsmitsaid. “My family lived <strong>in</strong> Holland, andPhil soon <strong>in</strong>troduced me to his parents,whomade me welcome when I visited <strong>the</strong>m.”As a chemistry major who later receiveda master’s <strong>in</strong> bus<strong>in</strong>ess adm<strong>in</strong>istration fromAdelphi University, Gilbert also learnedmany lessons from his friends over <strong>the</strong>years. “Don <strong>in</strong>troduced me to Quakerism;Si <strong>in</strong>troduced me to <strong>in</strong>ternational affairs,”he said. Now, “I am <strong>the</strong> same garrulouscharacter. Don and Si are <strong>the</strong> same deep,quiet fellows. But I learned better and betterto listen when <strong>the</strong>y spoke, learn<strong>in</strong>g thatSTEVEN GOLDBLATT ʼ67