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Q & A WITH TIM BROWN<br />

Sharing the vision:<br />

An interview with<br />

MCH President Tim Brown<br />

In part two of this series, Tim Brown discusses how faith<br />

plays a role in his career, the experiences that drive him, and<br />

the challenges of being a husband, father and president of<br />

Methodist Children’s Home.<br />

During the first message you<br />

gave as president at MCH<br />

during a Sunday service on<br />

the Waco campus, you mentioned<br />

a quote by Marianne<br />

Williamson from her book,<br />

“Return to Love.” Part of<br />

the quote reads, “We ask<br />

ourselves, ‘Who am I to be<br />

brilliant, gorgeous, talented,<br />

fabulous? Actually, who<br />

are you not to be? You are a<br />

child of God.” Why did you<br />

choose that quote?<br />

Many of our kids are here purely<br />

due to painful circumstances<br />

in their lives. Bad things happen<br />

– death, abuse, neglect,<br />

school issues, divorce, anger,<br />

illnesses – that lead children to<br />

MCH. In many cases, it’s not<br />

necessarily something they did<br />

or something they could have<br />

prevented, things just happen.<br />

There’s a saying that we<br />

tend to become what the most<br />

important person in our life<br />

thinks we’ll become. As caring<br />

adults and staff members, if we<br />

help children believe they have<br />

worth and value and will do<br />

great things in life, they typically<br />

fulfill that vision and do<br />

great things. I’ve had the blessing<br />

many times to hear from<br />

former residents years later,<br />

who thanked me and other<br />

staff members for believing<br />

in them. It makes a difference<br />

in the lives of our youth when<br />

they know we support them<br />

and believe in their potential.<br />

Are there any past experiences<br />

in this profession that<br />

keep you motivated?<br />

I’m convinced there is always<br />

hope when I see the resilience<br />

our children have in overcoming<br />

the difficult or traumatic<br />

circumstances that bring them<br />

to MCH. There is always potential<br />

for children to successfully<br />

turn their lives around.<br />

They can accomplish things<br />

they never dreamed they could<br />

do. I’m inspired to know that<br />

MCH contributes to the success<br />

of our youth. This keeps<br />

me motivated to maintain our<br />

good work and find even better<br />

ways to serve children.<br />

Can you share any specific<br />

experiences?<br />

I’m frequently reminded of my<br />

experience with four sisters who<br />

were here several years ago.<br />

Horrendous family losses led<br />

them to the Home. Their caregivers<br />

all died – first their father,<br />

then their mother, grandmother<br />

Tim Brown speaks to members of the December graduating class<br />

from the University of Texas University Charter School on the<br />

Waco campus. Throughout his career, Brown has drawn strength<br />

and encouragement from letters, phone calls and personal visits<br />

he receives from former residents who provide updates on their<br />

success since leaving the Home.<br />

and aunt. They struggled with<br />

relationships because everyone<br />

they ever loved had died. One of<br />

the girls even said she thought<br />

they died because she loved<br />

them.<br />

Closeness, love and trust<br />

were challenges for them. Even<br />

though none of their family<br />

attended college, they came to<br />

MCH, stuck with our program<br />

and did well in school. They’re<br />

all doing great now – they attended<br />

college, have good jobs,<br />

and one is married with children.<br />

They’re all healthy, confident<br />

and successful people. The<br />

girls remain in touch with each<br />

other, and they have developed<br />

their own extended families and<br />

support systems.<br />

There are those youth who<br />

learn valuable lessons from living<br />

at MCH, and there are those<br />

youth who teach us important<br />

lessons. There was another<br />

young man who came to live at<br />

the Home who was diagnosed<br />

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<strong>Sunshine</strong> I I Winter 2011

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