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Q & A WITH TIM BROWN<br />

with a terminal disease. Most<br />

people do not live past their<br />

teens with this diagnosis. This<br />

young man lived his short life<br />

fully and completely. He lived<br />

life to the fullest and as an example<br />

to others. I’m inspired<br />

by these courageous young<br />

people and others like them.<br />

How does your faith influence<br />

your work at MCH?<br />

I couldn’t do what I do without<br />

my faith. I have to be able to<br />

trust God to make something<br />

good happen out of something<br />

bad; to know that when<br />

bad things happen they’re not<br />

punishment or intentionally<br />

inflicted pain in someone’s life.<br />

God is a loving god and He<br />

wants the best for us.<br />

How do you think faith<br />

plays a role in the lives<br />

of MCH youth?<br />

It’s hard sometimes for our<br />

youth to trust God. Many times<br />

we refer to God as our Father,<br />

but fathers do not always love<br />

their children, or at least may<br />

not act as a father should act<br />

toward his children. In other<br />

cases, children may have a good<br />

father, but he died or divorced.<br />

Thus, children begin to think<br />

that if God is anything like their<br />

earthly father, they don’t want<br />

anything to do with Him.<br />

I encourage youth to come<br />

to peace with their past and<br />

disappointments by forgiving<br />

those who hurt or disappointed<br />

them. I encourage them to<br />

think about a loving God, who<br />

cares so much about them<br />

that He sent His own Son to<br />

heal them, forgive them, love<br />

them and give them every opportunity<br />

to love others. I want<br />

them to have that as their image<br />

of God – one who loves<br />

them enough to stick with<br />

them, even when they are not<br />

too loveable at times.<br />

You have mentioned that<br />

you want to be more like<br />

Barnabas from the Bible.<br />

Can you tell me a little<br />

about that?<br />

Barnabas was an incredible<br />

encourager. I grew up around<br />

people who placed value on<br />

Ashley (pictured, left to right), Kristin and Taylor enjoy a visit<br />

with Tim Brown during a Christmas activity at MCH in December.<br />

Brown enjoys opportunities to support and encourage MCH youth<br />

and to help them develop a sense of worth and value.<br />

remaining quiet, serving others<br />

and taking little credit for<br />

the things they did. Thus, I’ve<br />

always admired and gravitated<br />

toward people who were encouragers.<br />

My joy comes in<br />

seeing others find and experience<br />

joy.<br />

I’m reminded of a story in<br />

2 Kings 7:3-16. Four beggars are<br />

sitting at a gate outside a city<br />

under siege. The city has run<br />

out of food and water. The enemy<br />

is camped some distance<br />

away waiting for the city to give<br />

up. One of the beggars speaks<br />

up and says, “We have to do<br />

something. If we sit here, we’re<br />

going to die. If we go inside the<br />

gates to the city, we’ll surely<br />

die. But if we go out to the enemy,<br />

maybe they’ll have mercy<br />

on us and give us food and water<br />

and we’ll live.” They found<br />

the courage and strength to<br />

face the enemy, and they were<br />

rewarded for their effort.<br />

Before the beggars arrived,<br />

the Lord caused the enemy to<br />

hear the sound of many horses<br />

and they fled in fear, leaving<br />

behind treasure, food, clothing<br />

and supplies. In the midst<br />

of their joy and good fortune,<br />

one of the beggars said, “This<br />

is a day of good fortune and we<br />

must not keep it for ourselves,<br />

we must share it with others.”<br />

They eventually returned to<br />

tell the king, and the city under<br />

siege was saved because of the<br />

beggars’ courage, risk and generous<br />

spirits.<br />

When good things happen,<br />

we are called to share them with<br />

others. God provides those opportunities<br />

not just for us, but<br />

for others through us. I identify<br />

with Barnabas because he was<br />

that kind of person. He wasn’t<br />

satisfied just experiencing the<br />

good things in his life. He wanted<br />

to share them with others.<br />

What are the challenges of<br />

being a president at a children’s<br />

home and a husband<br />

and father?<br />

Time management is the greatest<br />

challenge. I have to take it<br />

one day at a time and schedule<br />

my time accordingly. I focus on<br />

trying to remain flexible and<br />

available. I enjoy and seek solitude<br />

at times, but my presence,<br />

visibility and involvement in<br />

my family’s life and activities<br />

and MCH are competing priorities<br />

at times.<br />

I try every day to tell my<br />

wife and kids that I love them.<br />

I try to encourage our staff<br />

and youth, and tell them how<br />

much I appreciate the work<br />

they do and the support they<br />

provide each other and MCH.<br />

It’s something I have to be<br />

intentional about because it’s<br />

not an easy thing to do. When<br />

I encounter people who are<br />

good at encouraging others, I<br />

try to incorporate those skills<br />

in what I do. I’ve learned that<br />

when I make a mistake, I need<br />

to quickly and humbly ask for<br />

forgiveness and move on, and<br />

then strive to work on learning<br />

from my mistakes and do better<br />

next time.<br />

Part 3 in this series will appear in<br />

the next issue of <strong>Sunshine</strong>.<br />

<strong>Sunshine</strong> I I Winter 2011<br />

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