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Winter 2011 - Methodist Children's Home
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Q & A WITH TIM BROWN<br />
with a terminal disease. Most<br />
people do not live past their<br />
teens with this diagnosis. This<br />
young man lived his short life<br />
fully and completely. He lived<br />
life to the fullest and as an example<br />
to others. I’m inspired<br />
by these courageous young<br />
people and others like them.<br />
How does your faith influence<br />
your work at MCH?<br />
I couldn’t do what I do without<br />
my faith. I have to be able to<br />
trust God to make something<br />
good happen out of something<br />
bad; to know that when<br />
bad things happen they’re not<br />
punishment or intentionally<br />
inflicted pain in someone’s life.<br />
God is a loving god and He<br />
wants the best for us.<br />
How do you think faith<br />
plays a role in the lives<br />
of MCH youth?<br />
It’s hard sometimes for our<br />
youth to trust God. Many times<br />
we refer to God as our Father,<br />
but fathers do not always love<br />
their children, or at least may<br />
not act as a father should act<br />
toward his children. In other<br />
cases, children may have a good<br />
father, but he died or divorced.<br />
Thus, children begin to think<br />
that if God is anything like their<br />
earthly father, they don’t want<br />
anything to do with Him.<br />
I encourage youth to come<br />
to peace with their past and<br />
disappointments by forgiving<br />
those who hurt or disappointed<br />
them. I encourage them to<br />
think about a loving God, who<br />
cares so much about them<br />
that He sent His own Son to<br />
heal them, forgive them, love<br />
them and give them every opportunity<br />
to love others. I want<br />
them to have that as their image<br />
of God – one who loves<br />
them enough to stick with<br />
them, even when they are not<br />
too loveable at times.<br />
You have mentioned that<br />
you want to be more like<br />
Barnabas from the Bible.<br />
Can you tell me a little<br />
about that?<br />
Barnabas was an incredible<br />
encourager. I grew up around<br />
people who placed value on<br />
Ashley (pictured, left to right), Kristin and Taylor enjoy a visit<br />
with Tim Brown during a Christmas activity at MCH in December.<br />
Brown enjoys opportunities to support and encourage MCH youth<br />
and to help them develop a sense of worth and value.<br />
remaining quiet, serving others<br />
and taking little credit for<br />
the things they did. Thus, I’ve<br />
always admired and gravitated<br />
toward people who were encouragers.<br />
My joy comes in<br />
seeing others find and experience<br />
joy.<br />
I’m reminded of a story in<br />
2 Kings 7:3-16. Four beggars are<br />
sitting at a gate outside a city<br />
under siege. The city has run<br />
out of food and water. The enemy<br />
is camped some distance<br />
away waiting for the city to give<br />
up. One of the beggars speaks<br />
up and says, “We have to do<br />
something. If we sit here, we’re<br />
going to die. If we go inside the<br />
gates to the city, we’ll surely<br />
die. But if we go out to the enemy,<br />
maybe they’ll have mercy<br />
on us and give us food and water<br />
and we’ll live.” They found<br />
the courage and strength to<br />
face the enemy, and they were<br />
rewarded for their effort.<br />
Before the beggars arrived,<br />
the Lord caused the enemy to<br />
hear the sound of many horses<br />
and they fled in fear, leaving<br />
behind treasure, food, clothing<br />
and supplies. In the midst<br />
of their joy and good fortune,<br />
one of the beggars said, “This<br />
is a day of good fortune and we<br />
must not keep it for ourselves,<br />
we must share it with others.”<br />
They eventually returned to<br />
tell the king, and the city under<br />
siege was saved because of the<br />
beggars’ courage, risk and generous<br />
spirits.<br />
When good things happen,<br />
we are called to share them with<br />
others. God provides those opportunities<br />
not just for us, but<br />
for others through us. I identify<br />
with Barnabas because he was<br />
that kind of person. He wasn’t<br />
satisfied just experiencing the<br />
good things in his life. He wanted<br />
to share them with others.<br />
What are the challenges of<br />
being a president at a children’s<br />
home and a husband<br />
and father?<br />
Time management is the greatest<br />
challenge. I have to take it<br />
one day at a time and schedule<br />
my time accordingly. I focus on<br />
trying to remain flexible and<br />
available. I enjoy and seek solitude<br />
at times, but my presence,<br />
visibility and involvement in<br />
my family’s life and activities<br />
and MCH are competing priorities<br />
at times.<br />
I try every day to tell my<br />
wife and kids that I love them.<br />
I try to encourage our staff<br />
and youth, and tell them how<br />
much I appreciate the work<br />
they do and the support they<br />
provide each other and MCH.<br />
It’s something I have to be<br />
intentional about because it’s<br />
not an easy thing to do. When<br />
I encounter people who are<br />
good at encouraging others, I<br />
try to incorporate those skills<br />
in what I do. I’ve learned that<br />
when I make a mistake, I need<br />
to quickly and humbly ask for<br />
forgiveness and move on, and<br />
then strive to work on learning<br />
from my mistakes and do better<br />
next time.<br />
Part 3 in this series will appear in<br />
the next issue of <strong>Sunshine</strong>.<br />
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