Barefoot Vegan Mag Jan_Feb 2017
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one breath, while updating their Facebook statuses<br />
describing the sentient being they ate for lunch or serving<br />
the dead bodies or secretions of tortured farmed animals<br />
at events to celebrate equality or advancement for women<br />
or queer folk. And when the issue of animal oppression is<br />
raised (in the same way that they attempt to gain support<br />
for their particular cause), reactions generally fall into two<br />
camps: “I know, but I don’t care enough to change my<br />
lifestyle to give up my gustatory delights,” or “I don’t want<br />
to know because I don’t want to give up my power and<br />
privilege. Besides, (insert type of creature here) tastes so<br />
good.”<br />
Some are often accompanied by a patronising smile<br />
and a comment along the lines of, “Aw, your love of<br />
animals and vegan lifestyle is so sweet.” Imagine the<br />
reaction if you said that about their anti-racism work.<br />
Unsurprisingly, such disagreements result in an<br />
interminable amount of infighting—in which I admit I’ve<br />
contributed my share. Activist movements are full of<br />
people who have experienced cruelty, oppression,<br />
discrimination, and often physical violence. We’ve been<br />
told that we’re “broken,” “wrong,” “not good enough,”—<br />
not only by individual people, but through the<br />
perpetuation of overt as well as the insidious<br />
reinforcement of what is considered culturally acceptable<br />
or unacceptable.<br />
Depending on the educational or emotional resources<br />
we have access to at any given time, many of us will live in<br />
a state of unconsciousness about our own or others’<br />
oppression, reacting with anger each time we are triggered<br />
by others’ comments. Many of us are fuelled by a deepseated<br />
rage, which can on one hand be a motivator to take<br />
action against injustice, yet unchecked on the other hand<br />
destroys not only our own sense of peace but very often<br />
any power or leverage we may get to achieve our goals of<br />
liberation. While we’re busy putting all our energy into<br />
fighting each other and our potential allies, it seems<br />
oppressors are finding new ways to hold onto and extend<br />
their privileges.<br />
Integrating the Shadow Self and Embracing<br />
Compassion for All<br />
In July 2011, my personal life was a mess. Despite being in a<br />
relationship of 18 years with a woman who loved me very<br />
much and living in an apartment that I co-owned, I was<br />
deeply unhappy and dissatisfied with my life. My career as<br />
a freelance writer and editor wasn’t bringing me the joy it<br />
used to; I felt like I’d lost my writing mojo and felt<br />
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As social change<br />
makers, we owe it<br />
to ourselves, and<br />
to humanity,<br />
animals, and the<br />
planet, to take<br />
action that comes<br />
from a place of<br />
compassion: for<br />
others and<br />
ourselves.<br />
resentful and trapped. Up until that time, I believed that<br />
life happened to me, that my feelings ran the show and I<br />
was at the mercy of external circumstances—in other<br />
words, despite my obvious privileges, I was a victim.<br />
Fortunately, a close friend offered a different<br />
perspective on my situation, one which suggested that I<br />
had a choice in how I acted, reacted, and behaved. At<br />
the age of 46, I was finally ready to hear the pearl of<br />
wisdom that personal development gurus had been<br />
spouting for decades. I felt not just a light bulb but a<br />
whole panorama of bright stadium lights switch on in<br />
my mind. The following 12 months saw me devour<br />
books, audio recordings, and DVDs, and attend<br />
workshops and seminars, all of which taught me that<br />
the past only defines you if you let it; it is possible to<br />
consciously choose to move beyond it and decide who<br />
you want to become.<br />
Now, I realise this may be all very well for a whiteskinned,<br />
middle-class lesbian with certain privileges,<br />
and I’m not suggesting it’s easy (I still struggle with<br />
negative self-talk, but it’s lessening as I equip myself<br />
with the tools of self-awareness), but I have come to<br />
believe that compassion for self and others is the key to<br />
making a difference in the world. As I allowed myself to<br />
be open to new possibilities, I found myself exposed to<br />
individuals who had figured out the importance of<br />
integrating our shadow parts into our lives, instead of<br />
running away from them.<br />
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