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By JESSICA MESZAROS<br />

“Make new friends, but keep the old,”<br />

isn’t just a rule for Girl Scouts to follow.<br />

The advice extends to kids of all ages,<br />

especially with a variety of camps and new<br />

friends on the horizon this summer.<br />

Summer camp is a prime<br />

opportunity for kids to<br />

expand their social circle<br />

outside of the typical<br />

classroom environment.<br />

But for some kids, it can<br />

be difficult to step outside<br />

their comfort zones and<br />

master the technique of<br />

expanding their circles.<br />

Below are tips from local<br />

guidance counselors and<br />

school staff members that campers of all<br />

ages can keep in mind when making new<br />

acquaintances this summer:<br />

Keep it natural: It can be intimidating<br />

to take that first step into a camp environment<br />

and getting up the nerve to meet new<br />

people. But the best advice for students is<br />

to be yourself and don’t try to “put up a<br />

front.” Also, it’s helpful if mom and dad<br />

don’t try to help.<br />

Keep it real: While kids range from<br />

extroverted to introverted, everyone is in<br />

the same boat on the first day of a new<br />

experience.<br />

It’s normal to have some anxiety when<br />

making friends, going to a new place and<br />

meeting new people. In reality, everyone<br />

that gets off that bus on the first day is a<br />

little shy.<br />

Keep it positive: Summer camp provides<br />

a wonderful opportunity for students<br />

to navigate new places and meet new<br />

people, but it also can be overwhelming<br />

for some kids. According to Minichiello, a<br />

trick for coping with any anxiousness that<br />

might occur is to turn apprehension into<br />

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Tips for making, keeping friends at camp<br />

positive energy and promote a change in<br />

mindset.<br />

Keep it social: Gone are the days of letters<br />

and long-distance phone calls. Keeping<br />

in touch with new friends after camp<br />

ends has never been easier, thanks to the<br />

prevalence of social media.<br />

The convenience of apps<br />

like Facetime and Snapchat<br />

might also encourage<br />

shyer campers to make<br />

connections knowing that<br />

future communication<br />

with new friends is a feasible<br />

option.<br />

As kids get older<br />

and [social media use]<br />

becomes appropriate social<br />

media can keep them in<br />

touch with their new friends, allowing their<br />

communications to stay current.<br />

Keep it open: Just because students<br />

make new friends doesn’t mean their old<br />

friends need to be put on a shelf. The<br />

important thing is to keep in mind is that<br />

within their circle of friends, there’s room<br />

for many.<br />

“If you’re worried about balance, just let<br />

the people in your life know that they are<br />

important to you,” high school counselor<br />

Erin Schulte said.<br />

Acknowledging the presence of old<br />

friends while remaining open to new<br />

friendships will help kids expand their<br />

circle of friends without others feeling left<br />

out or jealous.<br />

“I think friendships, in general, are just<br />

making the people you’re with and the<br />

people you’re friends with feel appreciated<br />

and important,” Schulte said. “While<br />

you’re at camp and you’re making new<br />

friends, be with them and enjoy that, but<br />

if you miss your friends from home, tell<br />

them ‘this would have been so funny if you<br />

were there.’”<br />

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