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The Positivity Issue (v.13)

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<strong>Positivity</strong> In <strong>The</strong> Face Of Negativity<br />

Tawanda Suessbrich- Joaquim<br />

When we think of the past few months, on social, economic,<br />

political and global levels, it’s enough to make<br />

most of us frustrated. Some of us might laugh nervously.<br />

Others might actually take a few moments to<br />

hold in tears. It may, for some, seem like the world is<br />

falling apart—an incapable president, environmental<br />

issues not being taken seriously, police brutalities, less<br />

and less rights for marginalized groups every day. <strong>The</strong><br />

list seems endless.<br />

​But how do we stay positive in the face of all this negativity?<br />

Is it even possible?<br />

​I’ve found the answer to be yes. We can absolutely stay<br />

positive, and here’s why—it’s the only way to make it<br />

to where we want to go.<br />

​We tend to think of things in terms of everlasting dichotomies—light<br />

and dark, happy and sad, good and<br />

bad, positive and negative. <strong>The</strong>se ideas come from<br />

thousands of years of survival through distinction,<br />

knowing which plant is poisonous, expressing our<br />

emotions, trusting the people in our tribe and protecting<br />

ourselves against those who aren’t and so on and<br />

so forth. But I don’t think things have to be so black<br />

and white.<br />

​Personally, I like to relate positivity and negativity to<br />

ebbs and flows—picture a wave rushing in and out<br />

again with the tide. Good times and not so good times<br />

are like the seasons. We all go through our spring,<br />

summer, fall and winter cycles, just like our environment<br />

around us. <strong>The</strong> world and all the people in it<br />

need to go through beautiful warm, sunny days spent<br />

outside into cold, snowy days where we’d rather stay<br />

in, because just when we think winter will never end,<br />

the sky will clear and the flowers will start blooming.<br />

And the seasons will begin all over again.<br />

​Staying positive in times like these means understanding<br />

that life is filled to the brim with happiness and<br />

sadness, and both of them are good. <strong>The</strong>y are good<br />

because they are both essential to our growth as beings.<br />

If we were never sad, we wouldn’t be so thankful<br />

for laughter, for hugs and kisses, family and friends.<br />

Sometimes we need a little bit of difficulty to push us<br />

towards doing the best we can, towards working hard.<br />

And at the end, it’s all worth it!<br />

​I guess what I’m trying to say is: with the change in the<br />

global atmosphere during the last year, you know this<br />

year, 2017, is going to be all about big moves and even<br />

bigger changes. So GO FOR IT. Don’t let anyone, including<br />

yourself, keep you down. Begin every day with<br />

an affirmation—a simple “I can do this,” “I’m beautiful”<br />

or “inner peace equals outer peace” will help you<br />

move mountains. Get off the couch. Take matters into<br />

your own hands,<br />

and don’t be afraid<br />

to learn, to ask for<br />

help. Spread love,<br />

joy and knowledge<br />

everywhere<br />

you<br />

with the change in the global<br />

atmosphere during the last<br />

year, you know this year,<br />

2017, is going to be all about<br />

big moves and even bigger<br />

changes. So GO FOR IT.<br />

go. Stay educated. Stay aware. Stay healthy, and do<br />

whatever is best for you. Get together with people who<br />

make you happy, eat your favorite foods, learn some-<br />

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