The Positivity Issue (v.13)
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<strong>Positivity</strong> In <strong>The</strong> Face Of Negativity<br />
Tawanda Suessbrich- Joaquim<br />
When we think of the past few months, on social, economic,<br />
political and global levels, it’s enough to make<br />
most of us frustrated. Some of us might laugh nervously.<br />
Others might actually take a few moments to<br />
hold in tears. It may, for some, seem like the world is<br />
falling apart—an incapable president, environmental<br />
issues not being taken seriously, police brutalities, less<br />
and less rights for marginalized groups every day. <strong>The</strong><br />
list seems endless.<br />
But how do we stay positive in the face of all this negativity?<br />
Is it even possible?<br />
I’ve found the answer to be yes. We can absolutely stay<br />
positive, and here’s why—it’s the only way to make it<br />
to where we want to go.<br />
We tend to think of things in terms of everlasting dichotomies—light<br />
and dark, happy and sad, good and<br />
bad, positive and negative. <strong>The</strong>se ideas come from<br />
thousands of years of survival through distinction,<br />
knowing which plant is poisonous, expressing our<br />
emotions, trusting the people in our tribe and protecting<br />
ourselves against those who aren’t and so on and<br />
so forth. But I don’t think things have to be so black<br />
and white.<br />
Personally, I like to relate positivity and negativity to<br />
ebbs and flows—picture a wave rushing in and out<br />
again with the tide. Good times and not so good times<br />
are like the seasons. We all go through our spring,<br />
summer, fall and winter cycles, just like our environment<br />
around us. <strong>The</strong> world and all the people in it<br />
need to go through beautiful warm, sunny days spent<br />
outside into cold, snowy days where we’d rather stay<br />
in, because just when we think winter will never end,<br />
the sky will clear and the flowers will start blooming.<br />
And the seasons will begin all over again.<br />
Staying positive in times like these means understanding<br />
that life is filled to the brim with happiness and<br />
sadness, and both of them are good. <strong>The</strong>y are good<br />
because they are both essential to our growth as beings.<br />
If we were never sad, we wouldn’t be so thankful<br />
for laughter, for hugs and kisses, family and friends.<br />
Sometimes we need a little bit of difficulty to push us<br />
towards doing the best we can, towards working hard.<br />
And at the end, it’s all worth it!<br />
I guess what I’m trying to say is: with the change in the<br />
global atmosphere during the last year, you know this<br />
year, 2017, is going to be all about big moves and even<br />
bigger changes. So GO FOR IT. Don’t let anyone, including<br />
yourself, keep you down. Begin every day with<br />
an affirmation—a simple “I can do this,” “I’m beautiful”<br />
or “inner peace equals outer peace” will help you<br />
move mountains. Get off the couch. Take matters into<br />
your own hands,<br />
and don’t be afraid<br />
to learn, to ask for<br />
help. Spread love,<br />
joy and knowledge<br />
everywhere<br />
you<br />
with the change in the global<br />
atmosphere during the last<br />
year, you know this year,<br />
2017, is going to be all about<br />
big moves and even bigger<br />
changes. So GO FOR IT.<br />
go. Stay educated. Stay aware. Stay healthy, and do<br />
whatever is best for you. Get together with people who<br />
make you happy, eat your favorite foods, learn some-<br />
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