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THE HAIRPOLITAN MAGAZINE VOL 6 MAY 2017

Celebrating Mothers

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Leo Salon & Barber, Westlands Branch<br />

people out.” A testament to this is that her longest<br />

serving staff member has been with her for 16years.<br />

As we chat, Leo’s staff members are moving around<br />

expertly tending to the clientele. They call her Aunty<br />

Agnes, a testament to their view of her as their<br />

mother.<br />

Agnes is trained Economist, and was a lecturer in<br />

Economics & Research Methods at the University of<br />

Nairobi for 8 years. She quit to take up consulting<br />

and at the height of her consulting career she was a<br />

CEO of the firm she worked. She was earning Kes.<br />

80,000/= per day, choosing jobs, living the good<br />

life, traveling extensively and shopped at high-end<br />

stores.<br />

Then 7 years ago she started to notice she had<br />

trouble pronouncing some words, but laughed it off<br />

and concluded that she was suffering from dementia.<br />

Her eyesight was also deteriorating but she got<br />

spectacles to take care of that problem. Eventually<br />

it’s the constant headaches that took her to seek<br />

medical attention.<br />

want to go through that process be it chemo or<br />

radiation.” With the permission and support of her<br />

husband and an American Neurosurgeon she opted<br />

to go the natural route, which she had come across<br />

out of interest a few years earlier.<br />

She took 3-months to learn as much as she could.<br />

In the interim she changed her lifestyle and started<br />

to juice her fruits and vegetables in earnest. For<br />

120days she lived on 8 glasses of juice a day. Her<br />

research took her to Spain, Britain and South Africa<br />

to benchmark on natural healing remedies. While in<br />

the Mediterranean country she was challenged not<br />

only about her diet; but also what she applied to her<br />

skin, the largest organ on her body. She then started<br />

to explore natural ingredients that would work well<br />

with her skin.<br />

I ask her if her hair was natural before she was<br />

diagnosed with cancer. She responded that she had<br />

a perm and retouched every month. She shares that<br />

going and living natural, as a salon owner was a<br />

struggle to her. She wondered why she was applying<br />

chemicals to clients but not to herself. “Three years<br />

ago I almost sold Leo, until God told me that my<br />

task was to create awareness and help people to<br />

make informed choices.” Today, Leo hairdressers<br />

advise clients to have breaks as long as 4 months<br />

before retouching. This mitigates the amount and<br />

frequency of chemicals entering the body. She also<br />

declines to apply a perm or retouch anyone under<br />

the age of 14.<br />

“I think I might have contributed to that cancer. My<br />

lifestyle wasn’t ok. I wasn’t resting enough. I was<br />

flying like crazy, and feeling good about making<br />

money. I was stressed up; something so small would<br />

stress me! I wanted to be perfect. I needed to present<br />

myself perfectly to the world. So in that fight to be<br />

perfect I really stressed out. Now I’ll still feel that<br />

that’s not ok but we shall sit and talk about it. It<br />

doesn’t have to affect my day, or how I am feeling<br />

or my emotions.<br />

I ask Agnes what advise she would give to a young<br />

mother who wants to open a salon business. She<br />

advises that as a woman one should develop a<br />

healthy life philosophy of. It’ll help you instead,<br />

you create time and interact with people that<br />

matter most in your life. Do not take mothering as a<br />

weakness; communicate when you need to focus on<br />

your family. “Create time for your children,<br />

should surround themselves with good people that<br />

you can pass the knowledge to. “The people that<br />

you are working with, empower them, trust them,<br />

and incentivize them. Make them feel important<br />

about themselves, that they are doing something<br />

great for you. It’s ok to be vulnerable.”<br />

Finally, she says if you are married or in a relationship,<br />

find a way to balance the marriage vs. the business/<br />

work. At the end of the day the business, money<br />

and success will come and go but it is important to<br />

have someone by your side. “Being friends with your<br />

husband is an important thing.”<br />

Agnes just turned 55 in April and while she used<br />

to check the tumor every 6 months, she hasn’t in a<br />

while. “I am so grateful to God. I don’t tell people<br />

not to go to hospital, as this was my own personal<br />

choice. But whatever you decide, I think changing<br />

your lifestyle, not just food, but also your entire<br />

lifestyle. From the sense of stress, to your sense of<br />

rest, to what I eat, to my rhythm and to what I put on<br />

my skin & my hair. I really guard my emotions now;<br />

you won’t push me. I devised a saying, ‘No one can<br />

annoy Aggie apart from Aggie herself.’”<br />

LOCATION CONTACTS:<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Garden City Mall<br />

0708440797<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Victoria Court, Westlands<br />

0701299296<br />

Leo Salon & Barber<br />

Two Rivers Malls<br />

0715815441<br />

Social Media Pages<br />

Facebook: Leo Salon and Barber<br />

Twitter & IG: @weareleoske<br />

She was met with the news that she had a golf ball<br />

sized stage two tumor in her brain. Her options<br />

were either surgery or surgery but her heart told her<br />

otherwise. “Once they remove such, people don’t<br />

go so well. I told myself that if I die let me die the<br />

way I am. I wasn’t afraid of death, I just knew I didn’t<br />

Do not think that money is everything, “When I<br />

started to relax about looking for money, I realised<br />

that it started to look for me and I started to get a<br />

healthy attitude towards money.”<br />

In regards to hiring, she would advise that one<br />

Agnes explaining the function of the<br />

carrier oils and essential oils<br />

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