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Hunger Report 2017: The Rising Cost of Housing and its Impact on Hunger in Ontario

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equired me to drive them to various<br />

locati<strong>on</strong>s <strong>in</strong> the city. I needed f<strong>in</strong>ancial<br />

assistance until I could secure a job <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

my divorce f<strong>in</strong>alized, so my husb<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

would pay support payments.<br />

Becky’s Story<br />

EAST WELLINGTON COMMUNITY<br />

SERVICES<br />

I called <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> made an appo<strong>in</strong>tment<br />

at <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> Inn <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> Good Shepherd to<br />

expla<strong>in</strong> my situati<strong>on</strong> <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> determ<strong>in</strong>e<br />

any help available. I had been given an<br />

evicti<strong>on</strong> notice from the l<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g>lord. Life<br />

was spirall<strong>in</strong>g out <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> c<strong>on</strong>trol.<br />

I met with the <str<strong>on</strong>g>Hous<strong>in</strong>g</str<strong>on</strong>g> Assistance<br />

worker, <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> they created a budget<br />

for me to follow. <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> Inn was able to<br />

assist me with a porti<strong>on</strong> <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> my overdue<br />

rent payment. <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>Hous<strong>in</strong>g</str<strong>on</strong>g> worker<br />

c<strong>on</strong>tacted my l<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g>lord <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> expla<strong>in</strong>ed<br />

the assistance <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> budget now <strong>in</strong> place,<br />

to avoid evicti<strong>on</strong>. <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> l<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g>lord accepted<br />

the plans <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> I will rema<strong>in</strong> <strong>in</strong> my home. I<br />

will c<strong>on</strong>t<strong>in</strong>ue to use <str<strong>on</strong>g>The</str<strong>on</strong>g> Inn’s food bank.<br />

I also know that the soup kitchen will<br />

provide me <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> my girls with a hot meal<br />

when needed.<br />

I am an example <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> everyday life go<strong>in</strong>g<br />

sideways. Life can take twists <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> turns<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> create obstacles <strong>in</strong> which we must<br />

reach out for help. I am thankful for the<br />

assistance provided to me.<br />

had a great childhood. My dad<br />

worked, my mom stayed home<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> did day care. My brother <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

I participated <strong>in</strong> pizza days at Ischool, dance class, swimm<strong>in</strong>g, karate<br />

less<strong>on</strong>s. We were ‘normal’ – the average<br />

family.<br />

When I turned 10, my parents<br />

separated. My dad moved out, <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

struggled with addicti<strong>on</strong>s. My childhood<br />

home was sold. My mom, brother <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> I<br />

moved to a new community <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>in</strong>to an<br />

apartment. My mom started work<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> my brother <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> I started at new<br />

schools. It was hard! A completely new<br />

life – my world turned upside down. My<br />

brother <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> I were c<strong>on</strong>cerned about the<br />

small th<strong>in</strong>gs that seemed like the end<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> the world at the time.<br />

Now, as a wife <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> mother, I can look<br />

back <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> see that what was a hard<br />

change for me was <strong>in</strong>surmountable<br />

for my mom. A s<strong>in</strong>gle parent, work<strong>in</strong>g<br />

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