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Hunger Report 2017: The Rising Cost of Housing and its Impact on Hunger in Ontario

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ONTARIO ASSOCIATION OF FOOD BANKS HUNGER REPORT <str<strong>on</strong>g>2017</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

a full-time job <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> try<strong>in</strong>g her best to<br />

provide the same opportunities to her<br />

children who didn’t fully underst<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> why<br />

the change happened <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> that m<strong>on</strong>ey<br />

doesn’t grow <strong>on</strong> trees.<br />

When I look back, I can’t help but<br />

th<strong>in</strong>k how differently th<strong>in</strong>gs might have<br />

g<strong>on</strong>e if car<strong>in</strong>g people hadn’t existed<br />

<strong>in</strong> the communities that we l<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g>ed.<br />

My life experiences def<strong>in</strong>itely shaped<br />

the pers<strong>on</strong> I am today <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> steered me<br />

<strong>in</strong>to my pr<str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g>essi<strong>on</strong>. Through my work, I<br />

can now appreciate that it took special<br />

people, organizati<strong>on</strong>s, communities, as<br />

well as an extraord<strong>in</strong>arily courageous<br />

mom to shape the pers<strong>on</strong> I am today.<br />

“I remember com<strong>in</strong>g to the<br />

realizati<strong>on</strong> that if so many<br />

people <strong>in</strong> my community <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>in</strong><br />

my life thought I was worth all<br />

the effort, extra k<strong>in</strong>dness <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

special gifts – then I was, <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />

that I would not let them down.”<br />

I can recall ph<strong>on</strong>e calls to distress<br />

l<strong>in</strong>es <strong>in</strong> the middle <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> the night when<br />

all <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> the “what if’s” float through your<br />

head <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> the night can feel so l<strong>on</strong>ely<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> isolat<strong>in</strong>g. I remember go<strong>in</strong>g to food<br />

banks <strong>in</strong> Brampt<strong>on</strong>, Georgetown, Er<strong>in</strong><br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> Owen Sound.<br />

I f<strong>on</strong>dly remember be<strong>in</strong>g so excited<br />

when staff at the food bank told me<br />

to go ahead <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> pick out mittens<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> scarves from the basket. I now<br />

underst<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> that they were lov<strong>in</strong>gly knit<br />

by groups <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> senior ladies with names<br />

like the “Knotty Knitters <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> In Stitches.”<br />

I remember w<strong>on</strong>der<strong>in</strong>g how my mom<br />

found the m<strong>on</strong>ey for backpacks filled<br />

with everyth<strong>in</strong>g to be successful at the<br />

start <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> each school year.<br />

I remember complet<strong>in</strong>g a ‘wish list’<br />

with my mom <strong>on</strong>e year – not<br />

underst<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g><strong>in</strong>g that the wish list would<br />

be submitted to a local organizati<strong>on</strong>’s<br />

Christmas Gift Hamper Program.<br />

I remember wak<strong>in</strong>g up Christmas<br />

morn<strong>in</strong>g to f<strong>in</strong>d everyth<strong>in</strong>g that I had<br />

asked for lov<strong>in</strong>gly wrapped <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> under<br />

our tree, despite my mom tell<strong>in</strong>g me<br />

through tears that Christmas would be<br />

small that year <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> to not get my hopes<br />

up.<br />

Most importantly, I remember com<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to the realizati<strong>on</strong> that if so many people<br />

<strong>in</strong> my community <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>in</strong> my life thought<br />

I was worth all the effort, extra k<strong>in</strong>dness<br />

<str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> special gifts – then I was <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> that I<br />

would not let them down.<br />

I have spent my adult life pay<strong>in</strong>g it<br />

forward <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> try<strong>in</strong>g to create the same<br />

hope <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> assurance <strong>in</strong> others that they<br />

are also worth the sec<strong>on</strong>d thought,<br />

extra effort <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> the extra jar <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> peanut<br />

butter at the grocery store.<br />

I have been successful because<br />

communities that care c<strong>on</strong>t<strong>in</strong>ue to exist,<br />

c<strong>on</strong>t<strong>in</strong>ue to give <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> c<strong>on</strong>t<strong>in</strong>ue speak up<br />

<strong>on</strong> behalf <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> those who are struggl<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to f<strong>in</strong>d work, hous<strong>in</strong>g, childcare <str<strong>on</strong>g>and</str<strong>on</strong>g> a<br />

reas<strong>on</strong> to not give up hope.<br />

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