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homerhorizon.com FAITH<br />
the Homer Horizon | March 15, 2018 | 21<br />
Local parishes to sponsor presentation on transgenderism<br />
The Rev. Loya<br />
to speak at<br />
Annunciation<br />
Byzantine Church<br />
Jacquelyn Schlabach<br />
Assistant Editor<br />
Five area<br />
parishes are<br />
sponsoring a<br />
presentation<br />
titled Transgenderism:<br />
A<br />
Compassionate<br />
Approach Loya<br />
on Thursday,<br />
March 15, as part of the<br />
Knowledge and Prayer Series<br />
held throughout the year<br />
at the participating churches.<br />
The series is sponsored<br />
by Our Lady of the Woods,<br />
St. Francis of Assisi and St.<br />
Michael in Orland Park, as<br />
well as Our Mother of Good<br />
Counsel and Annunciation<br />
Byzantine Catholic Church<br />
in Homer Glen. Transgenderism:<br />
A Compassionate<br />
Approach will be held at<br />
Annunciation Byzantine<br />
Church, where The Rev.<br />
Thomas Loya will speak.<br />
The Knowledge and<br />
Prayer Series was created<br />
in response to the sense that<br />
people, not only in the parishes,<br />
but in the communities,<br />
need more opportunities<br />
to learn about their faith, particularly<br />
in regards to issues<br />
revolving around life. Loya<br />
said topics discussed during<br />
these monthly presentations<br />
include abortion, current<br />
events in the government,<br />
marriage, taking care of the<br />
elderly and more. The prominence<br />
of transgenderism in<br />
society sparked the interest to<br />
talk about it with parish and<br />
community members.<br />
“It’s one of the many<br />
events related to life issues,<br />
and it’s a very prominent<br />
topic right now where a lot<br />
of people have questions<br />
about, a lot of confusions<br />
about, so we thought that<br />
now would be a good time to<br />
address it,” Loya said.<br />
Loya said the key aspect to<br />
his presentation is focusing<br />
on the word compassionate.<br />
“I’m going to talk about<br />
that compassionate is a function<br />
of truth, that we have to<br />
really know the truth about<br />
something,” he said. “And<br />
if we’re very, very honest<br />
about something, absolutely<br />
honest about something, that<br />
that’s the only way we can<br />
be truly compassionate. So,<br />
I will explore the truth about<br />
this issue of transgenderism,<br />
this phenomenon, and suggest<br />
then what would be a<br />
way of responding to it that<br />
is most honest, most compassionate.”<br />
This event is geared toward<br />
families and parents,<br />
with Loya presenting what<br />
he believes to be the compassionate,<br />
wise and appropriate<br />
responses toward a child or<br />
someone in their family who<br />
identifies as transgender.<br />
“Their origins are not necessarily<br />
originally in just sexuality;<br />
there are other issues<br />
related to the human person<br />
and human development that<br />
are more fundamental, that<br />
are really at the base of all<br />
this,” Loya said. “You want<br />
to help the person to look at<br />
that, in other words, what’s<br />
behind this. If you are born as<br />
a male person and you want<br />
to be a female, OK, what’s<br />
really behind that thinking,<br />
that desire?”<br />
Loya mentions that he will<br />
discuss how he believes,<br />
“It’s important to not seize<br />
[sexual development] at any<br />
moment and concretize any<br />
expression like that, even<br />
with same-sex attraction.<br />
These things cannot be concretized,<br />
especially during<br />
the developmental periods<br />
of a person that are very<br />
fluid.”<br />
As a result, Loya will explain<br />
to those in attendance<br />
Thursday evening that those<br />
responding to someone identifying<br />
as transgender should<br />
do so in a compassionate<br />
way that is honest with the<br />
person, keeping in mind the<br />
fluidity of development and<br />
the “realities” behind it.<br />
“There’s a why behind<br />
this, why has a person developed<br />
this what is a disconnect<br />
or dysphoria,” Loya<br />
said. “It’s a delusion for a<br />
certain length of time that<br />
this is what you are and to<br />
pretend or imagine you can<br />
be something else. It’s delusionary<br />
and will ultimately<br />
be destructive for the person<br />
and society. So, it’s important<br />
to work with the person<br />
on the why behind it all, to<br />
get to the root of it, and not<br />
to concretize their expression<br />
at any point and not<br />
just simply take it face value.<br />
That’s a very misguided<br />
form of compassion.”<br />
Transgenderism: A Compassionate<br />
Approach will<br />
look at true compassion and<br />
not phony compassion, because<br />
there is no real compassion<br />
without truth and<br />
absolute honesty, Loya said.<br />
All ages are welcome to<br />
attend the free event held 7<br />
p.m. Thursday, March 15,<br />
at Annunciation Byzantine<br />
Catholic Church, 14610 S.<br />
Will Cook Road, Homer<br />
Glen.<br />
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Communion<br />
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Annunciation Byzantine Catholic Church<br />
(14610 S. Will Cook Road, Homer Glen)<br />
Transgenderism: A<br />
Compassionate Approach<br />
7 p.m. Thursday, March<br />
15. The Rev. Thomas Loya<br />
will speak on the “Theology<br />
of the Body” to discuss<br />
the issue of transgenderism.<br />
This presentation is part of<br />
the Knowledge and Prayer<br />
series and is sponsored by<br />
the Multi-Parish Respect<br />
Life Ministries.<br />
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0652.<br />
New Life Community Church - Homer Glen<br />
(14832 W. 163rd St., Homer Glen)<br />
Weekly Worship Services<br />
10 a.m. Sundays; for more<br />
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1416<br />
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Participants should arrive<br />
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