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FREWEN<br />

Prep<br />

School<br />

The Dyslexia School<br />

Since 1910<br />

Senior<br />

• •<br />

School<br />

A unique Day & Boarding school for girls and boys<br />

aged 7-19 with Dyslexia, Dyspraxia & Dyscalculia<br />

Come and see how Frewen College<br />

can help your child at our<br />

OPEN MORNING<br />

on Saturday 12 <strong>May</strong><br />

10.00 - 12 noon<br />

“I feel like Frewen has given<br />

me back my child.”<br />

Year 6 parent<br />

To register, please call Annabel on:<br />

01797 252494 or email:office@frewencollege.co.uk<br />

Frewen College, Northiam, East Sussex, TN31 6NL<br />

www.frewencollege.co.uk<br />

COLLEGE<br />

Sixth<br />

Form<br />

Keep calm and<br />

carry on (revising)<br />

It’s exam time, not much fun for Year 11s and 13s – or their<br />

parents – so Hilary Wilce offers some expert advice<br />

Exams are coming up fast, and<br />

there will be many households<br />

where tensions are running high<br />

about revision. But psychologists have<br />

discovered that many traditional revision<br />

techniques don’t work at all. High on<br />

that list is highlighting.<br />

Highlighting, as we all know, is fun.<br />

But our brains don’t like highlighting<br />

one bit. They don’t want to remember<br />

facts and figures in isolation Why would they? What’s the use of that?<br />

Neither do they like summaries. Making a summary of something can<br />

feel very effective in the moment, but afterwards, apparently, our brains<br />

just go ‘meh’ and forget it. On the other hand, our brains absolutely love<br />

trying to fully understand something and then teaching it to someone<br />

else. If our brains do that, they have got it for ever. What do parents need<br />

to do to support their children when exams are looming?<br />

*Encourage them to start early and take gaps Learning something<br />

for an hour over six days has been shown to be much more effective<br />

than cramming for six hours just before the big day. In fact, according<br />

to Professor John Dunlosky of Kent State University, in Ohio, this is the<br />

most important thing any student can do.<br />

*Tell them that cramming can also be useful But only, apparently, if<br />

it comes after earlier ‘distributed’ revision (see above).<br />

*Encourage them to test themselves This really helps them focus and<br />

learn, and shows them how well they’re doing, and where they need to<br />

put in more work.<br />

*Make them turn their music off Students who revise without music<br />

have been shown to do significantly better than those who keep it on.<br />

*Remove their phone Yes, remove it. Psychologists in the US have<br />

discovered that it’s not enough to keep it turned off. Even just a glimpse<br />

of a phone can cause a major distraction and loss of focus.<br />

*Make sure they get enough sleep We’re now making huge<br />

discoveries about the power of sleep to ease stress, absorb knowledge, and<br />

boost biological processes. Shakespeare, of course, knew this more than<br />

four hundred years ago, when he named it “chief nourisher in life’s feast”.<br />

*Encourage healthy breaks, with exercise and fresh air, and also<br />

drinking plenty of water Brains need to be looked after, just like skin<br />

and muscles and hearts and lungs.<br />

If you do all these things your child will probably hate you (especially<br />

the phone thing). But you’ll just have to deal with it. You’re the adult<br />

here. Try using good comparisons to encourage revision. Would they<br />

play an important game of rugby, or embark on a dance performance<br />

without practising a lot beforehand? Personally, I’m no fan of offering<br />

bribes for results. I believe that the most effective revision comes when<br />

students are doing it for themselves. But children and families vary, and<br />

it might work for you. What all students respond to, though, is lots of<br />

tender, loving care. Tell your child you understand the pressures of exam<br />

revision. Let them off any regular chores. Make sure they have a friendly,<br />

warm environment to revise in. Offer good food and drink, and hold<br />

out the prospect of something to look forward to when it’s all – at last –<br />

behind them.<br />

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