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STYLE | landscaping 47<br />

W<br />

hen you go out into your garden, are you truly present? Are you really<br />

experiencing each moment? The smell of the plants; the touch of a leaf on your<br />

shoulder; the feel of dirt between your fingers? Or are you thinking about your list of<br />

chores, planning a birthday party, or even talking on the phone?<br />

Jon Kabat-Zinn is the founder of the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction<br />

programme, which he developed to help patients deal with stress, pain and illness<br />

at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. He defines mindfulness as the<br />

“awareness that arises through paying attention, on purpose, in the present moment,<br />

non-judgementally”. If you are not experiencing the moments in your life as they occur,<br />

but are instead thinking about the past or future, then are you really living this life? If<br />

you spend your life thinking and not experiencing, then your life is really just an illusion<br />

created by your mind. Your actual life is passing you by, while you are thinking about<br />

what you are having for dinner tonight.<br />

It is, of course, the very nature of the mind to wander, and this is okay. When you<br />

realise it has happened, just gently bring it back. Herein lies the practice. There is no<br />

point in doing this for 20 minutes sitting on a cushion in the morning, then being a<br />

frazzled animal for the rest of the day. Being mindful during the day gives you your true<br />

life experience back, and correspondingly the joy that comes from little things that you<br />

may otherwise miss.<br />

A garden is an ideal place to practise mindfulness, containing so many things to<br />

be consciously aware of – things that activate the senses. The call of a thrush in the<br />

evening air; the smell of freshly cut wood; the softness of a petal. If you cannot be<br />

mindful in your garden, how on earth can you be mindful in the rest of your life?<br />

So, how can you design a garden to help you remain mindful? The answer is to<br />

provide as many things as possible to activate your five senses, to remind you to come<br />

back into the moment, each time you experience them.<br />

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