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May 2019 Foster Care Special Edition

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ENVISION EQUITY MAY <strong>2019</strong><br />

these three qualities in a child will drastically increase their ability to succeed at home and in<br />

the classroom.<br />

Consistency<br />

Children who have experienced trauma need time to process what has happened in their lives.<br />

Something has happened to them that has caused them to be removed from their family and<br />

start a lot of<br />

“new”.<br />

Understandably,<br />

this takes time<br />

to come to terms<br />

with and the<br />

new adults in<br />

their lives need<br />

to comprehend<br />

that these<br />

children are not<br />

going to jump in<br />

and be okay<br />

immediately.<br />

Students from a<br />

traumatic background typically come from inconsistency and chaos. By having consistent<br />

routines that are applicable to all students, you will bring a sense of normalcy back to the<br />

student’s life. Along with these types of expectations, students will also need to see fairness<br />

and follow through. Consequences need to be the most consistent system in your classroom<br />

and in your home. Very simply put, “if this happens then this happens,” and it needs to happen<br />

every time. If some students receive a consequence while others do not, you will not be<br />

providing a consistent environment that promotes normalcy. However, the most consistent<br />

thing about education and life in general, is inconsistency.<br />

Things happen during the school day and in life that cause schedules and routines to change.<br />

One thing you can do to help students who have experienced trauma to cope with these<br />

variations is to communicate them clearly. Remember, children who are in foster care come<br />

from chaos, so much that inconsistencies have become their normal. This is the main barrier<br />

between them developing healthy, positive relationships with the adults in their lives. By<br />

30<br />

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