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Volume I • <strong>Issue</strong> 2 • <strong>November</strong> <strong>2011</strong><br />
Help For<br />
Your Life!<br />
Hope For<br />
Your Heart!<br />
Health For<br />
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and Spirit!<br />
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Love Is The Key!<br />
A Publication of Champion’s Heart…<br />
Bringing Out the Champion in You!<br />
About a year ago,<br />
I was driving down<br />
the road asking<br />
God to show me<br />
how to meet<br />
the vast needs of<br />
people coming to our ministry. Just as<br />
quickly as I asked, He answered with the<br />
words, "Love them. Love is the key." Just then,<br />
a drawing from my daughter (shown at right)<br />
flashed into my mind. I saw the heart, the door and<br />
the key. Suddenly I understood the meaning of what<br />
she had drawn just days before… Love is the key that<br />
God uses to bring hope, healing and restoration into the<br />
lives of His people.<br />
I thought to myself, “Can it be this simple? Can love<br />
really be all that is required?” Over the course of the<br />
last year I have uncovered the answer to my own<br />
question: Yes, love is indeed the answer. God’s love, a<br />
love which is unconditional, is exactly what the world<br />
and our community needs. I have seen it give hope to<br />
the hopeless, hope that enables a person to face<br />
another day. I have seen it carry the grieving and broken<br />
hearted through incredibly tough times. I have seen<br />
it break down barriers created by cultural and<br />
socio-economic differences and build a bridge for unity<br />
and relationship.<br />
Love IS the answer, but it’s an answer that isn’t<br />
always popular because love isn't easy. In fact, it is<br />
down right hard. You see, love isn’t a gushy feeling; it’s<br />
not an emotion. God’s love is an action. God’s love<br />
requires you to get in the trenches with people. It<br />
requires sacrifice. It requires perseverance and patience.<br />
It requires forgiveness and putting other people above<br />
yourself. But oh is love worth it! Giving love has been the<br />
most rewarding experience of my life.<br />
In this issue of Victorious Living, we are going to<br />
explore the topic of “love.” It is our prayer that as you<br />
read the ‘love’ stories contained in the following pages,<br />
stories from people just like you, that you will be<br />
encouraged by God’s love and also challenged to both<br />
give love and accept it. I believe that as we all begin to<br />
walk in love, our families, communities and world will<br />
be changed one person at a time.<br />
God bless,<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
Picture by<br />
Ivy Johnson<br />
Publisher/Editor<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
Publication Advisor<br />
Karen Lake<br />
Contributors<br />
Minta Bennett<br />
Barbara Collins<br />
Bonnie Hagemann<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
Lisa Johnson<br />
Karen Lake<br />
Carey Morford<br />
Pastor Rob Morford<br />
Margarita Oganisyan<br />
VeRonica Owens<br />
Jeannie Hodges Peoples<br />
Anna Purkey<br />
Lisa Rund<br />
Paulette Sikes<br />
John Whitfield<br />
Creative Director/Graphic Design<br />
Amy Zackowski<br />
amy@whisperingdog.com<br />
Advertising<br />
Ron Lilly<br />
ron@kojministries.org<br />
Victorious Living<br />
205 Magnolia Avenue<br />
Keystone Heights, FL 32656<br />
352.478.2098<br />
fax 888.837.9153<br />
Table of Contents<br />
What Is Love? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 4<br />
Love’s Unexpected Blessings . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5<br />
The Death and Life of Emily Rund. . . . . . . . . . . . 6<br />
The Emily Rund Champion’s Heart Scholarship . . 7<br />
Want to Move Forward? Forgive. . . . . . . . . . . . . 7<br />
Back To Russia… Armed With Love . . . . . . . . . . 8<br />
What If? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9<br />
Melodious Love . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10<br />
Unconditional Love . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11<br />
Me?Worthy? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12<br />
Love Heals All Wounds. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14<br />
For The Love Of A Community . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15<br />
He’s Been Faithful . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16<br />
Love At Work. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17<br />
No Laughing Matter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17<br />
Love Bombers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18<br />
Unique Outreaches . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19<br />
Community Interest . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20<br />
Mama Lisa’s Holiday Pecans. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20<br />
Calendar of Events. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21<br />
Ongoing Events and Activities . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22<br />
Ripple Effect . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23<br />
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Victorious Living is published quarterly in Keystone Heights,<br />
Florida. ©<strong>2011</strong>, all rights reserved by Victorious Living.<br />
Contents may not be reproduced in any form without the<br />
written consent of the publisher. The publisher reserves the right<br />
to refuse advertising. The publisher accepts no responsibility<br />
for advertsiting errors beyond the cost of the advertisement<br />
itself. The publisher accepts no responsibility for submitted<br />
materials. All submitted materials subject to editing.<br />
Victorious Living’s<br />
MISSION<br />
The mission of Victorious Living is to provide<br />
hope for the heart and help for life through the<br />
inspirational stories of people just like you. We<br />
commit to provide REAL STORIES by REAL<br />
PEOPLE so you can experience REAL HOPE!<br />
Do you have a story of victory? Share it with us!<br />
Your life story can change the life of another.<br />
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What Is Love?<br />
by Carey Morford<br />
Love is…<br />
Adam might tell you love is giving up your rib.<br />
Romeo might tell you love is death. Sampson might<br />
tell you love means giving up your strength. Titanic,<br />
the movie, tells us love is standing at the edge of a<br />
boat with your arms out like wings. John Lennon<br />
might tell you that love means giving up the Beatles.<br />
Cupid would say love is an arrow. A Red Sox fan<br />
would tell you love is witnessing “the curse” being<br />
broken after gutting it out through a lifetime of heartwrenching<br />
defeats. Jacob might tell you love is 14<br />
years of hard labor.<br />
So, what is love? Love is patient, as Eugene<br />
Peterson translated the phrase, “Love never gives up,”<br />
which doesn’t mean that you are obnoxious as you<br />
wait, just that you are willing to wait through anything.<br />
Love is kind. Love says, “Is there anything I can get<br />
you, dear?” Love rejoices with the truth. If Truth were<br />
running a race, Love would be standing, whooping and<br />
hollering, as Truth crossed the finish line. Love always<br />
protects. Love is like the mother hen who keeps<br />
the chicks right under her wing, keeping them out of<br />
trouble. Love always trusts. Love always gives the<br />
benefit of the doubt, always thinks with grace in<br />
mind, and above all trusts in the Lord. Love always<br />
perseveres. Love is tough; it always gives its all.<br />
Love does not envy. When at a restaurant, Love<br />
does not look at what the other person ordered and<br />
say, “Oh, I really want that!” Love does not boast. It<br />
does not strut its stuff for all to “ooh” and “ah.” Love<br />
is not proud. Love’s head is a nice proportioned shape,<br />
not so big that it can’t fit through a doorway. Love is<br />
not rude. Love does not change the channel while<br />
someone else is watching TV. Love is not self-seeking.<br />
Love does not always try to be the first in the buffet<br />
line or first to the only bathroom when you have both<br />
been waiting for the last four hours of the trip. Love<br />
is not easily angered. Love does not start a screaming<br />
match over some socks left on the floor.<br />
Love keeps no record of wrongs. Love may carry<br />
around a lot of sentimental notes and pictures and<br />
cards, but it doesn’t carry around the last mean thing<br />
that was said, or the last time he didn’t offer to clean<br />
the kitchen, or the last time she turned away instead<br />
of kissing him. Love does not delight in evil. Love does<br />
not curl up in evil’s lap like a cat on its owner’s lap.<br />
Finally, love never fails. Love is like the 90 year old<br />
couple who can still be<br />
caught kissing in their<br />
room at the nursing<br />
home. It never<br />
ends.<br />
Why should we<br />
love? It’s true that<br />
sometimes love<br />
hurts. It’s true that<br />
love isn’t always easy.<br />
So, why risk it? Because<br />
love is the most excellent<br />
way. Think, for a minute, about<br />
a wedding ceremony. Think of the<br />
bride and groom, with their two smiling,<br />
shiny, tearful faces. They are an example of love<br />
being the most excellent way, but in ten years when<br />
they’ve been through some valleys and pits together<br />
and are still looking at each other with smiling, shiny,<br />
tearful faces; they will be an even better example of<br />
love being the most excellent way. Christ Himself is an<br />
example — He gave himself up, that we might live.<br />
He is the ultimate example of love being the most<br />
excellent way. The playwright, Sir James M. Barrie, said,<br />
“If you have love, you don’t need anything else, and if<br />
you don’t have it, it doesn’t much matter what else<br />
you have.” Paul in his letter to the Corinthians says<br />
that love is better than any of the gifts of the Spirit.<br />
Not only is love better than any of the gifts of the<br />
Spirit, and not only is it better to have love than<br />
anything else; but also it is better to love than to do<br />
anything else. Suppose a girl is given 16 roses and a<br />
beautiful diamond ring on her sixteenth birthday.<br />
Other than a car, a sixteen year old girl, might think it<br />
was the most wonderful gift she could receive on her<br />
birthday. But, if it were given to her by a father who<br />
hadn’t spoken to her in almost two years, it wouldn’t<br />
really be that great of a gift, would it? Because that<br />
father wouldn’t know who she was, and that<br />
daughter would not know that her father loved her;<br />
the gifts would be meaningless.<br />
We are all guilty of that sometimes. We offer a gift,<br />
but we don’t send love with it. We do something for<br />
a loved one, or even a stranger, because we feel like<br />
we have to, and they sense it. We give a gift to make<br />
ourselves feel better, and it comes off as arrogance.<br />
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., said, “Without love,<br />
benevolence becomes egotism.”<br />
Jesus said, “Greater<br />
love has no one than<br />
this; that he lay down his<br />
life for his friends.” Doing<br />
the things of I Corinthians<br />
13 is a way we can lay down<br />
our lives on a daily basis. We<br />
can lay down our lives in our<br />
marriages, in our churches, in<br />
our world. I pray that we do,<br />
because<br />
love<br />
NEVER<br />
fails.<br />
Love is patient,<br />
love is kind. It does<br />
not envy, it does not<br />
boast, it is not proud.<br />
It is not rude, it is<br />
not self-seeking, it<br />
is not easily<br />
angered, it keeps<br />
no record of<br />
wrongs. Love<br />
does not delight<br />
in evil but<br />
rejoices with<br />
the truth. It<br />
always protects,<br />
always trusts,<br />
always hopes,<br />
always perseveres.<br />
Love never fails.<br />
I Corinthians 13:4-7<br />
Carey Morford was raised in<br />
Keystone Heights by Chuck and<br />
Suzie Head. After attending college<br />
in South Carolina, Carey returned<br />
to Keystone Heights where she<br />
currently resides with her husband,<br />
Isaac and their two daughters,<br />
Layla and Rigby. Carey and Isaac<br />
both work at Keystone Elementary<br />
and Keystone Jr./Sr. High School.<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Love’s Unexpected Blessings<br />
by Barbara Collins<br />
My dad lost his battle with emphysema in<br />
December 2008, leaving the responsibility of caring<br />
for my mom who has Alzheimer’s to my sister and me.<br />
This road has often been tough and overwhelming,<br />
but along the way, I have found many unexpected<br />
blessings. Let me share…<br />
A few months ago I stumbled into a Bible Study<br />
that was being led at my mother’s new ‘home’ by a<br />
resident named James. James was very knowledgeable<br />
of the Word. When I commented to a caregiver about<br />
how much I had enjoyed listening to him, she shared<br />
that James was having to cut the Bible study to<br />
one day a week. She asked if I would help her find<br />
someone to teach the study the second day.<br />
Through this experience,<br />
I have come to realize that<br />
God does not always choose<br />
the most qualified,<br />
the best spoken,<br />
or the most knowledgeable<br />
to accomplish His work.<br />
He is just looking for<br />
someone willing to step out<br />
in faith and remain<br />
faithful to the task.<br />
I immediately asked my church home group, but no<br />
one could take on the task. Several members<br />
suggested I do the Bible study. I was shocked<br />
and alarmed. I told them I was not qualified or<br />
knowledgeable enough to do such a class. You see,<br />
I had been to church all my life and had attended<br />
many Bible studies, but I had always depended on<br />
others to do the studying and to teach ME. I just could<br />
not see myself doing it.<br />
Time went on and James reduced the Bible study to<br />
one day a week. As I would walk by the room, I would<br />
hear God say, “You do it”. I literally said to God,<br />
“There is no way. James will be in there. He knows a<br />
lot about the Bible and he will know that I don’t!”<br />
But God kept laying it on my heart. Finally I said,<br />
“Fine, but I will look like an idiot!”<br />
I went to the Christian book store and bought a<br />
book entitled ‘Spiritual Warfare’ by John Franklin &<br />
Chuck Lawless. Being an elementary teacher for 33<br />
years, I put my notes on a big notepad. But when I<br />
presented the material, I finished in ten minutes! To<br />
my horror, one of the residents asked, “Is it over?”<br />
After she pointed out that we had more time, I suggested<br />
to the group we finish our class with some exercises...and<br />
we did!<br />
I was so embarrassed but they were so kind, loving<br />
and appreciative. They told me I did a great job. The<br />
next week, I studied even harder. I could not believe<br />
how much I was learning. This time when I presented<br />
the lesson, it lasted twenty minutes! As the weeks<br />
progressed, I became more and more comfortable and<br />
the residents began to participate more.<br />
Through this experience, I have come to<br />
realize that God does not always choose the<br />
most qualified, the best spoken, or the most<br />
knowledgeable to accomplish His work. He<br />
is just looking for someone willing to step<br />
out in faith and remain faithful to the task.<br />
Over the last months, I have learned so<br />
much about the Word of God. My faith<br />
has grown and so has my relationship<br />
with God. The residents have become like<br />
family. During our lessons, I have the<br />
opportunity to hear their stories as they<br />
share about their lives. I never cease to be<br />
captivated. They have such wisdom, peace<br />
and understanding. They still want to<br />
enjoy each day laughing and loving deeply.<br />
One day as I was hurriedly trying to leave<br />
the facility and run some personal errands,<br />
one of the residents stopped me and asked me to sit<br />
down. Immediately I thought, “Oh no, he’s got a story<br />
to tell and I have to get to the grocery store!”<br />
But what this man said to me touched my life<br />
forever. He said, “I want to thank you.”<br />
“For what?” I asked.<br />
He said, “For loving us!”<br />
Tears ran down my face. All I could think was,<br />
“No, thank you for loving me.”<br />
As I leave my mom each day I still feel a sense of<br />
loss and sadness, but at the same time, I am filled<br />
with joy knowing that God, in His infinite wisdom, has<br />
begun to heal my heart through these precious<br />
people. God knew the grief I’ve carried over losing my<br />
dad and the continual loss of my mom. He has given<br />
me the love and comfort I so miss. I now have many<br />
mothers and fathers to love on me, and I have the<br />
privilege to love them back. Who would have thought<br />
I would have received so many blessings by stepping<br />
out of my comfort zone to teach a Bible study?<br />
Imagine the blessings waiting for you.<br />
Barbara Collins and her husband,<br />
Dean, have been life-long friends<br />
of Kristi Overton Johnson and<br />
faithful supporters of Johnson’s<br />
ministries. Barbara has a BA &<br />
Masters Degree from Clemson<br />
University in Elementary<br />
Education. Now retired from<br />
teaching, she lives with her husband in Anderson, SC.<br />
They have 2 children. Barbara’s passions are painting,<br />
reading, & spending time on the water.<br />
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The Death and Life of Emily Rund<br />
I Am Not Abandoned<br />
A different<br />
kind of title, but<br />
a story of a victorious<br />
woman who<br />
by Lisa Rund<br />
did more in her 23<br />
years than most do in a<br />
lifetime. Life is short, a journey<br />
which starts from birth until death. Death can be seen<br />
one of two ways...you either believe in eternal life or<br />
you simply doubt there is such a thing. For our family:<br />
“To live is Christ, to die is gain” (Philippians 1:21).<br />
As a wife and mother, God gave me an incredible<br />
husband and five amazing children. Things were going<br />
pretty smooth until our world came crashing down on<br />
April 19, 2007.<br />
That day over four years ago was a very dark time in<br />
our lives. Where is God when tragedy strikes? Why do<br />
we have to endure such emotional pain? And how do<br />
we get through? Those questions were repeated over<br />
and over with seemingly little answers at the time.<br />
It was a different kind of morning as Emily filled her<br />
SUV with her belongings preparing to surprise her<br />
fiancé. She was so excited to start this new chapter in<br />
her life before her July wedding. Emily and I spent the<br />
morning talking, laughing, making wedding plans and<br />
running errands. We got lunch and went to see her<br />
siblings at school. I took photos of the kids together<br />
and as always when when they are traveling, we pray<br />
together, asking God for protection.<br />
Those close to Emily knew she was a radiant<br />
Christian who loved Jesus with all her heart. She<br />
enjoyed photography, music, dancing and everyone she<br />
met. Emily smiled infectiously and truly laughed out<br />
loud. As one person put it, “She was the Alka<br />
Seltzer in the water.”<br />
Like all young people, Em had her<br />
share of struggles growing up, but she<br />
was an overcomer. She persevered in<br />
her dreams and life goals by touching<br />
lives, especially children. Emily invested<br />
heavily in people locally and around the<br />
world through missions.<br />
After leaving Keystone, Emily visited her dad<br />
at work and then headed north on I-95. As she drove<br />
through Savannah, her tire tread separated, throwing<br />
her into the guardrail. Her SUV landed on the other side<br />
of the railing. Emily was<br />
pronounced dead at the scene<br />
of the accident; however, when<br />
rescue came, she was put on life<br />
support. God sustained our<br />
daughter for a little while longer.<br />
As a parent,<br />
you usually fix<br />
most things for<br />
your kids as well<br />
as give wisdom<br />
and instructions to<br />
guide them. You fix<br />
their toys, bandage<br />
up a wound…<br />
anything to make<br />
their lives better. But<br />
we couldn’t fix this<br />
situation. We were<br />
struggling and helpless.<br />
Though we didn’t<br />
see it then, we know that<br />
God had His hand on Em. For example, we were<br />
able to see Emily before she left, taking our last photos<br />
of her. There was no one else in her vehicle, nor did she<br />
hit anyone when the accident happened. Through life<br />
support, Emily was able to “hang on” until Nathan and<br />
I, and her fiance, Andrew, were able to arrive at the<br />
hospital. God knew how much we needed to say<br />
“goodbye.” He blessed us with that time. A few<br />
minutes past midnight on April 20th, Emily Kiersten<br />
Rund went home to be with Jesus (II Corinthians 5:6).<br />
Intense pain from head-to-toe shocks your system<br />
when you lose a child. People often say, “Our kids are<br />
God’s children.” But in reality, Emily was our child and we<br />
didn’t want to let her go. As a Christian, I was amazed<br />
at the emotions that rose within me… hurt, anger, pain<br />
and despair. But God understood. He listened to our<br />
cries and lovingly put His arms around us.<br />
The last few years have been extremely difficult as<br />
many things still don't make sense. We are real people<br />
with real hurts. We shed tears and experience real pain.<br />
But through God’s Word, His love, and the love and<br />
prayers of His people, we have endured. We remain<br />
focused on what we know… Emily is alive and well<br />
and we will see her again!<br />
(L to R) Four of the five Rund siblings… Julie, Wes, Emily and Laura<br />
bottom photo: Emily and Andrew, her fiancé<br />
Emily’s last journal entry was 2 Corinthians<br />
4:16-18, “Therefore we do not lose heart.<br />
Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet<br />
inwardly we are being renewed day by<br />
day. For our light and momentary troubles<br />
are achieving for us an eternal<br />
glory that far outweighs<br />
them all. So we fix our<br />
eyes not on what is<br />
seen, but on what is<br />
unseen, since what is<br />
seen is temporary, but<br />
what is unseen is eternal.”<br />
Life is not easy. It seems<br />
unending with grief at times.<br />
The pain hasn’t gone away, nor do<br />
I believe we will ever get over it.<br />
But, with the Lord’s help, through<br />
His peace and comfort, we will get<br />
through it.<br />
In her journal, Emily wrote the<br />
words “I am not abandoned.” These<br />
words have meant so much to our<br />
family as we have realized that God has<br />
not abandoned us during our darkest<br />
moments. He is with us, giving us peace and<br />
comfort to keep moving forward.<br />
Em’s life left a legacy… a testimony to share. We<br />
have become strong in weakness. We long for<br />
Heaven where we will be with our loved ones<br />
and see Jesus face to face! But for now, God<br />
has us here on earth and like our daughter Emily,<br />
our life goal is to love others and invest in people.<br />
One day we look forward to seeing her and hearing<br />
the words "well done!" (Matthew 25:21)<br />
Lisa Rund, a mother of 5, has resided in Keystone Heights for many years. Lisa is currently living in the<br />
United Kingdom where her husband, Nathan, is employed with the Department of Defense.<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Want to Move Forward? Forgive.<br />
by Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
Love. Forgiveness.<br />
When we have learned to live in a flow of forgiveness,<br />
we will be living in freedom.”<br />
These words can stir up various emotions. What if<br />
I told you the two are one in the same. You can’t love<br />
someone without forgiving them for “love keeps no<br />
record of being wronged.”<br />
As I look at my own circle of family and friends I see<br />
many people with great reasons to be offended. I<br />
myself have had many occasions to be upset, angered<br />
or hurt by people. It is often a tall order to extend<br />
forgiveness to someone who has hurt you.<br />
How does one forgive? How do you forgive<br />
someone who has abandoned you? How do you<br />
forgive a group of people who have maliciously<br />
attacked you with lies and schemes designed to<br />
destroy your life? How do you forgive someone who says<br />
you will never amount to anything? How do you forgive<br />
a spouse who has chosen to spend life without you?<br />
Not only how, but why? Why should we want to extend<br />
forgiveness to someone who has hurt us so deeply?<br />
Forgiveness is difficult. In fact, it is only possible<br />
through the help of God. But forgiveness is something<br />
we desperately need to extend.<br />
Brother Yun, a heavily persecuted Chinese Christian<br />
wrote, “FORGIVENESS is a great gift that God has<br />
given us so we can survive in an evil world where<br />
people hurt us, betray us and do terrible things to us.<br />
What we have to realize is that forgiveness is not<br />
for the offender, it is for us! Forgiveness is an opportunity<br />
to find release and restoration in our own lives.<br />
Study the life of Joseph. His forgiving heart towards his<br />
family and those in authority over him kept Joseph in<br />
the protection, provision and presence of God. Because<br />
Joseph continually focused on God rather than the<br />
offense and offender, God was able to bring Joseph out<br />
of the pit and place him in the palace!<br />
Forgiveness isn’t the same thing as reconciliation.<br />
Reconciliation requires two parties to come together<br />
and sort out their differences. Forgiveness requires only<br />
one… YOU.<br />
In addition to the fact that forgiveness is<br />
commanded by God (Luke 6:32-36), protects us from<br />
Satan’s attacks (Eph. 4:25-27), and the fact that our<br />
forgiveness from God is tied to our forgiving others<br />
(Matt 6:14-15), there are many other reasons to<br />
consider forgiveness.<br />
First of all, it will release you from the offender’s<br />
control over your life. It will release you from the past,<br />
free up precious space in your mind and enable you to<br />
move forward in life. It will also protect you from the<br />
consequences that stem from a bitter, angry heart.<br />
Things such as sickness, depression, and a ping-pong<br />
game of retaliatory acts. It will also release the offender<br />
to God so that God can deal with the person or<br />
Forgiveness<br />
requires<br />
only one…<br />
YOU.<br />
situation (Rom. 12:18-20). God will not deal with the<br />
person while we are dealing with them. Furthermore,<br />
forgiveness will keep our light shining bright for others<br />
to see Christ in us (Phil 2:14-16).<br />
If you are offended today, I encourage you to go to<br />
God and present the person or offense to God. Ask God<br />
to give you His perspective on the situation. Realize<br />
that hurting people hurt people. This will give you a<br />
grace perspective towards the person. Then as God<br />
directs, communicate with the person. Often times, the<br />
offender never intended the offense the way it was<br />
received. Communication and openness can heal many<br />
broken bridges in a relationship. Remember to pray for<br />
the offender and remember that you too are capable of<br />
sin. Ask God to forgive, tell God you forgive, and then<br />
ask God to help you move forward one step at a time.<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson is the founder of Champion’s<br />
Heart and In His Wakes, divisions of KOJ Ministries. Kristi<br />
currently resides in the Lake Area Region with her husband,<br />
Tim and three children.<br />
The Emily Rund Champion’s Heart Scholarship<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Center Announces The Emily Rund Scholarship…<br />
Emily Rund, a 2002 graduate of Keystone Heights High School, exemplified a<br />
Champion’s Heart and lived out her passions on a daily basis. Her compassion<br />
for the needy and less fortunate and her desire to reach out and serve others<br />
impacted not only people residing in Keystone Heights, but also around the world.<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
presenting 2010 Emily Rund<br />
Scholarship Award<br />
The Emily Rund Champion’s Heart Scholarship honors 2 students who possess the<br />
heart of a champion, a heart filled with passion, perseverance, integrity,<br />
purpose, and hope. Although academic history is included in the evaluation, it is not<br />
the primary criteria of the scholarship. The weight of the evaluation is the heart and<br />
passions of the individual students.<br />
To apply, students are required to complete an application and return it to Champion’s<br />
Heart Life Center by April 27, 2012. Applications are available at Keystone Heights High<br />
School and Champion’s Heart.<br />
Both recipients of the scholarship will receive a check for $1,000.00 to be used to help<br />
the student meet expenses associated with furthering their education or following a<br />
passion that will impact the community.<br />
Nathan and Lisa Rund with Scholarship Award<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
BACK TO RUSSIA… Armed With Love<br />
by Margarita ‘Rita’ Oganisyan<br />
In 2005, my husband and I adopted two precious children from Russia. Through our adoption, God opened the door<br />
for an incredible connection with a Russian family. Months ago I received a request from my friend, Svetlana, asking<br />
if her daughter could come spend three months with us through a cultural exchange program. “Love” prompted us<br />
to open our hearts and home to Rita and “love” forever changed us all. Below is Rita’s testimony of how the love of<br />
God shown through the words, smiles and actions of those she met while in the United States has impacted her life.<br />
~Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
Everything was against my coming to the<br />
United States right from the beginning. My<br />
University did not want me to go because<br />
I would miss classes. I had difficulty finding a job here<br />
in America that was accepted by the organization<br />
sponsoring my trip. The American Embassy toughened<br />
visa requirements for students like me. Even my friends<br />
discouraged me with their words. They told me how<br />
difficult it would be to adapt to life in the USA. They<br />
said that everything would be completely different.<br />
Nevertheless, I had a strong<br />
belief that I must visit America.<br />
Only now, after being here for<br />
awhile, can I understand that<br />
my time here was more than<br />
just a trip abroad. It was part of<br />
God’s plan for me.<br />
My trip was exactly what I expected in some ways.<br />
I experienced different foods, different jokes, and a new<br />
way of life. I struggled a bit with the English language<br />
and communicating clearly with people. What I didn’t<br />
expect though was the differences I found in people.<br />
From the first hours of my stay I noticed this<br />
difference. People were smiling at me. To receive a<br />
smile from an unknown person in Russia is rare. Here<br />
almost everyone I had eye contact with smiled, greeted<br />
me and even sometimes waved to me. I've never heard<br />
so many compliments in my life, from people I didn’t<br />
even know. I've never seen so much kindness,<br />
happiness and sympathy in EVERYONE! I always had<br />
one question running in my head, “Why?” Why are<br />
people here so nice, open-hearted and kind to people<br />
they don't even know? Why, why, why…?<br />
The second difference I noticed immediately was<br />
how many people live with a strong belief in God.<br />
I felt this love for God everywhere… at the church,<br />
in every house, in every family, in every person and in<br />
every heart.<br />
During my stay, I was given a Bible from my<br />
American family. Once when I was reading my Bible,<br />
I came across Colossians 3:12. It says, "Since God<br />
chose you to be the holy people He loves, you must<br />
clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness,<br />
humility, gentleness and patience.” As I read this verse<br />
it was a like a lightbulb went off in my head. That's<br />
the exact answer to my question!<br />
The people I met were treating me with kindness,<br />
patience, humility and gentleness because they were<br />
clothed in God’s virtues. They were smiling at me and<br />
encouraging me with kind words because they were<br />
being obedient to God’s command to love people.<br />
I am so thankful for those people who clothed<br />
themselves in God’s virtues, for, through them I was<br />
able to see God. For many people, these virtues may<br />
seem so simple, so ordinary, because perhaps they are<br />
just a way of life. But for me, it is different. It’s not what<br />
I am accustomed to in my native country of Russia.<br />
Unfortunately, the majority of people in Russia<br />
don't trust in God. Some of them have never even<br />
heard about Him. Because their hearts are not opened<br />
to God's love they have difficulty expressing this love<br />
towards others.<br />
But it used to be different. Russia used to be a very<br />
religious country. The people lived in the name of God,<br />
their life was inseparably connected with God.<br />
But nearly one century ago, a radical change came<br />
over the life of Russians.<br />
The Revolution came and destroyed the Tsarist<br />
autocracy. With the Tsar deposed, the Soviet Union<br />
was formed and a Communist government emerged<br />
who’s policy was to make people forget about God<br />
and the Bible.<br />
Communists spoke strongly against religion<br />
saying, "Communism is incompatible with religious<br />
Rita with the Johnson Family<br />
faith." During Communist reign, millions of believers<br />
were killed, imprisoned and deported. Thousands of<br />
priests were humiliated and humbled. A lot of ancient<br />
temples and churches were destroyed. All in all, the<br />
Soviet Union became an atheist state, in which religion<br />
was largely discouraged and heavily persecuted.<br />
In the early 1990’s, the Soviet Union was dissolved<br />
and the Communist government was deposed. In our<br />
new Constitution, freedom of<br />
religion was proclaimed. But<br />
the damage from the<br />
previous century had<br />
been done. Nowadays,<br />
the majority<br />
of Russians<br />
don't trust in<br />
God. They have<br />
grown up in an<br />
era where the<br />
government<br />
told them that<br />
there is no God.<br />
Because of this,<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
As I dress myself<br />
in God’s virtues,<br />
the people I encounter<br />
in my life will be<br />
changed by the love<br />
of God, just as my<br />
life has been<br />
forever changed.<br />
many of the Russian people have never even heard of Him.<br />
When I think about the history of my nation, I feel unbearable<br />
pain for my native country and for the people living there. If only it<br />
had been different, if only people had known about a loving God.<br />
I can’t change the past, but I can change the future by strengthening<br />
the faith of the Russian people. How? By living out Colossians<br />
3:12. As I dress myself in God’s virtues, the people I encounter in<br />
my life will be changed by the love of God, just as my life has been<br />
forever changed.<br />
I am so thankful to God for making a way for me to come to<br />
America and to witness His love in action. I thank Him for all the<br />
wonderful people I've met here who became examples for the rest<br />
of my life. I thank Him for showing me how one’s faith should<br />
impact personalities and form life principles.<br />
I thank Him for giving me support for<br />
my faith and for revealing the Bible<br />
to me as it has shown me<br />
answers to many of life’s<br />
questions. Finally, I thank Him<br />
for the opportunity to realize the<br />
main things in life: to love Him and<br />
to love the people around me.<br />
Rita Oganisyan, a third year<br />
law student in Moscow,<br />
Russia, visited the Lake<br />
Area Region on a<br />
cultural exchange<br />
program in <strong>2011</strong>.<br />
During her time<br />
here, Rita worked<br />
for the local<br />
ministries of<br />
Champion’s Heart<br />
and In His Wakes.<br />
What If?<br />
by Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
One day when my husband and I were eating lunch at Cracker<br />
Barrel, I noticed a young family. When they were leaving, one of<br />
the couple’s children, a girl about 5 years old, was given a walker<br />
to support her as she walked. As she struggled to walk out of the<br />
dining room, I noticed the mother patiently encouraging her<br />
daughter as she moved forward.<br />
Why did I have to get<br />
up and go over to<br />
them in the middle of a<br />
restaurant? What if<br />
they didn’t want<br />
prayer? What if they<br />
thought I was crazy?<br />
What if people looked<br />
at me and became uncomfortable?<br />
What if,<br />
what if, what if…<br />
As I sat there and watched this interchange, I was moved<br />
with an overwhelming sense of compassion. As I envisioned<br />
what this family’s life must be like on a daily basis, my heart<br />
cried out to God, “Oh Lord, heal that little girl. Help that<br />
family.” I then silently vowed to pray for them. As I made<br />
my promise to pray, a thought quickly entered my mind<br />
that said, “Go pray for them right now.”<br />
Immediately my internal battle over whether to obey<br />
what I knew the Holy Spirit was directing me to do began.<br />
“Lord,” I argued, “Why can’t I just pray from a distance?”<br />
Wouldn’t He move in this family’s life regardless of<br />
whether or not I audibly prayed for this couple in their<br />
presence? Why did I have to get up and go over to them<br />
in the middle of a restaurant? What if they didn’t want<br />
prayer? What if they thought I was crazy? What if people<br />
looked at me and became uncomfortable? What<br />
if, what if, what if…<br />
As I flooded my mind with negative “what if”<br />
scenarios, a new thought pattern began to fight for<br />
attention. What if what God was leading me to do<br />
would somehow affect the life of this family now<br />
or for eternity? What if God touched this little girl<br />
physically because of my obedience? What if, through<br />
a simple prayer of faith and a simple act of love, this family<br />
was encouraged to carry on for one more day?<br />
What if this family needed to know that someone in<br />
the world noticed their life?<br />
Why would I not want to be a part of that?<br />
Why would I want to let my fear and pride<br />
stand in the way of what God may be ready<br />
to do? As I weighed the two “what if” arguments,<br />
I realized that I really didn’t care<br />
what people thought. For the sake of that little<br />
girl and her family, I had to get out of my seat<br />
and tangibly show them the love of Christ no matter<br />
the cost and no matter the result.<br />
I looked at my husband, Tim, and said with all<br />
seriousness, “I have to go pray with that family.<br />
Don’t let the waitress take my salad!”<br />
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Melodious Love<br />
by Anna Purkey<br />
There is a sermon that I constantly remember when<br />
faced with a simple “yes or no” situation. It was a discussion<br />
regarding the Holy Family, and most poignantly<br />
the fact that Joseph does not say a word nor is he ever<br />
quoted biblically. The point of the sermon was to show<br />
that obedience is a result of love and Joseph, being the<br />
head of his family, needed only to say “yes” to love.<br />
As a waiting foster parent, I received a telephone<br />
call last fall that presented me<br />
with an opportunity to reply “yes”<br />
to love. According to the person<br />
on the phone, there was a hospitalized<br />
little girl who<br />
needed to be released to a<br />
home without other children<br />
and to someone able<br />
to provide very specific<br />
medical care. As a single<br />
mom with no children and<br />
a background in medicine,<br />
I fit the profile. My only<br />
thought was “God expects<br />
me to either say ‘yes or no’<br />
right now;” and thus began<br />
my journey with Melody.<br />
I am convinced that opening<br />
ourselves to a child expands<br />
our love connection with<br />
God. Melody and I<br />
stepped out of the<br />
hospital 4 days shy of<br />
her 10 month birthday<br />
and she felt,<br />
heard, tasted,<br />
breathed and enjoyed<br />
nature for<br />
the very first time.<br />
I remember feeling<br />
overwhelmed<br />
with knowing that<br />
God was entrusting<br />
His child to my care.<br />
Tears fell down my<br />
cheeks as I whispered,<br />
“Am I worthy?”<br />
It would have been easy to be overly gentle, protective,<br />
and reclusive, using the excuse that Melody was<br />
fragile; instead, I chose to listen to love and we<br />
bounced, tickled, laid in the grass and went to the<br />
beach – we socialized with neighbors and Melody<br />
enjoys a life not much different from any other infant.<br />
Although I have been a nurse for 25 years, Melody<br />
introduced me to life within the medical system and to<br />
weeks “vacationing” in a hospital room. At first, we<br />
“camped” and watched lots of movies as our bond became<br />
unbreakable. Then I learned humility, patience, and<br />
finally what it means to “lay down your life for another,”<br />
as I experienced loss personally and professionally.<br />
As many before me have said, “I would not trade a<br />
day…” My experiences and lessons are countless and<br />
love is the prevailing thread. Melody forgives easily and<br />
readily although she has been put through countless<br />
painful procedures. At a year old, she knew how to<br />
“muster a smile” when medical staff walked into the<br />
room and could perform even when her strength was<br />
waning. I have seen her look rather puny but when the<br />
doctor came to discharge her, she would jump up with<br />
remarkable energy.<br />
Melody continues to thrive surprising her entire<br />
medical team. We were told that her prognosis was<br />
poor, that she was in “failure,” that she “wouldn’t”…<br />
“couldn’t”…<br />
Every day God shows us His strength. Because of<br />
the gift of Melody, I now view things differently, even<br />
scriptures. Recently, I heard the story of the blind man<br />
who had been blind since birth. The disciples asked<br />
Jesus who carried the sin of his illness – the man or his<br />
parents – Jesus replied that the blind man existed so<br />
others could witness God’s awesome power, at which<br />
time, Jesus healed the man.<br />
Like the blind man, Melody’s life reveals the awesome<br />
power of God. Her life touches so many people. On many<br />
occasions, I have seen her reach out her hand to strangers<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Center would like<br />
to recognize individuals who<br />
exhibit the heart of a champion…<br />
a heart of love, integrity, patience,<br />
and perseverance. In this issue of<br />
Victorious Living, Champion’s Heart<br />
would like to present Melody Purkey<br />
with The Champion’s Heart Award. Baby<br />
Melody has touched more lives in her<br />
mere 2 years than many do in a lifetime.<br />
Thank you Melody for inspiring us to<br />
enjoy each day and to never give up!<br />
Melody’s story is submitted to us by<br />
her mother, Anna Purkey.<br />
or smile at someone who was frowning. Melody is always<br />
faithful and always kind. She never gives up, never loses<br />
faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every<br />
circumstance. To know Melody is to know love. To know<br />
Melody is to witness the Living Word.<br />
I have always had a sense that through God’s gift of<br />
free will, it is expected of us to create heaven on earth<br />
beginning with the simplicity of our daily choices. We<br />
have the ability to do this by making the choice to say<br />
“yes” when presented with the opportunity to love. The<br />
result is often an unexpected journey of sharing that<br />
love exponentially.<br />
Anna Purkey grew up on a dairy<br />
farm in southern Ohio with a large<br />
extended family. Following her<br />
grandmother and mother, Anna<br />
became a nurse in 1990. After<br />
becoming a nurse practitioner in<br />
2007, Anna moved to Florida<br />
where she currently works for the Bradford/ Union<br />
County Health Department. In 2007, Anna received<br />
her license to be a foster home to children in need.<br />
She currently resides in the Lake Area Region with her<br />
daughter, Melody, who she adopted in June, <strong>2011</strong>.<br />
Do you know someone with a Champion’s Heart? Write to us and let us know!<br />
We’d like to recognize champions in our upcoming issues.<br />
Send nominations to “Champion’s Heart,” PO Box 968, Keystone Heights, FL 32656.<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Unconditional Love<br />
by Paulette Sikes<br />
Everyone in a family has a perceived role. A failure<br />
to fulfill that role can result in disappointment to the<br />
other members of the family. When dealing with a<br />
loved one with addictions, disappointment can be<br />
even greater. For many years I have been disappointed,<br />
angry, saddened and even scared for my<br />
brother’s safety. To be honest, at times I have been<br />
just plain disgusted with his addictive patterns.<br />
I’ve watched him disappoint my parents, his<br />
wife, his children and me. My common thought was<br />
how dare him waste our time to satisfy his own<br />
selfish desires.<br />
We all have emotional investments in the ones we<br />
love and I was not getting a return on my investment<br />
in my brother. I ended up avoiding him as much as<br />
possible thinking he was just a lost cause. All the years<br />
of my “Conditional Love” had been constant for my<br />
brother, but not fruitful.<br />
Recently I got a call from my niece who shared a<br />
conversation she had had with my brother. He claimed<br />
he deserved the hardships and physical ailments he<br />
has suffered in his life. He felt no worth because of<br />
his inability to overcome his addictions. Suddenly, I realized<br />
that my brother, the ‘addict,’ suffers more from<br />
his own disappointment in himself than the disappointment<br />
of the ones who love him. I was moved<br />
with compassion and saw him with new eyes.<br />
I’ve always loved my brother, just not unconditionally.<br />
Unconditional love is a love without strings. It’s<br />
a love that seeks nothing in return. It’s a love demonstrated<br />
to me by God on a daily basis, a love filled<br />
with patience and forgiveness, a love that is there for<br />
me despite my sinful nature. Don’t I owe my brother<br />
the same love that Christ has so freely given me?<br />
What I finally realized is that Christ not only died<br />
for me, but He also died for my brother. When God<br />
looks down at my brother and me, He sees us both<br />
with the same eyes of love. He doesn’t divide us into<br />
categories according to our past or our addictions<br />
(thank goodness as I think we’d all fall into some category<br />
or another!). No, God sees us for who we can<br />
become in Him and it is that person that He faithfully<br />
pursues with His great love.<br />
While it is not for me to condone the actions of my<br />
brother, nor enable them, I do want to be there for<br />
him as the Lord leads. Will unconditional love change<br />
my brother? God’s unconditional love has changed<br />
my life. By sharing this same love, I can only hope that<br />
perhaps my brother will find forgiveness towards<br />
himself, new hope and a better way… a way to true<br />
freedom in Christ.<br />
Paulette Sikes lives in Starke with<br />
her husband, Dan, and her two<br />
teenage daughters. She works<br />
with her husband in their private<br />
law practice. Paulette’s passion<br />
is encouraging people to press<br />
forward in life victoriously.<br />
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Me? Worthy?<br />
Finding Forgiveness<br />
for Yourself<br />
If you were to look at a family picture from my<br />
childhood, you would say, “What a nice looking<br />
family.” We were picture perfect. I grew up in the<br />
country in a large home built by my father, a<br />
“self-made man” who started his own company that<br />
grew to great financial success. My mother, a beautiful<br />
woman, worked in marketing, taught Sunday<br />
school, and was involved in school activities. She even<br />
taught aerobics on the side. We were a busy and<br />
“successful” family. It was in the midst of this<br />
busyness that my world began to privately crumble.<br />
As a young child, we often had babysitters. One<br />
babysitter, a high schooler, would often take us over<br />
to her boyfriend’s house while she was caring for us.<br />
It was there that I was first exposed to pornographic<br />
videos. I was 10.<br />
Not too long after, friends of the boyfriend began to<br />
commit acts against me. They would physically hurt me<br />
or threaten me if I resisted. At that age, I wasn’t able<br />
to comprehend what was happening. All I knew was<br />
that I had a terrible secret and I began to hate myself.<br />
The abuse continued as I moved into junior high.<br />
It expanded from the friends of my babysitter’s<br />
boyfriend to the boys in the neighborhood. I then<br />
began to enter into controlling relationships.<br />
I remember one in particular.<br />
“You were dead<br />
because of your<br />
sins and because of<br />
your sinful nature…”<br />
When I was 15, I met a boy in<br />
high school who was older than<br />
me. He preyed on controlling<br />
others and I willingly came under<br />
his mental, emotional and physical<br />
control with little resistance.<br />
If I spoke to another boy in the<br />
hallway, he would come beside<br />
and hold my hand. What<br />
others could not see is that he<br />
would squeeze my hand until<br />
I wanted to drop to my knees in pain.<br />
My boyfriend had a friend, Jason, and the three of<br />
us did a lot together. Jason was very nice to me, he<br />
was kind and non-threatening. When my boyfriend<br />
saw that Jason and I were friends, he told me that I<br />
couldn’t hang around with Jason anymore. I obeyed<br />
and ended the friendship.<br />
One night a couple of weeks later, my friend Jason<br />
drove to my house in tears. He was armed with a<br />
bottle of Tequila and a loaded 22 caliber hand gun. He<br />
said that he wanted to kill himself and could not<br />
understand why I stopped being his friend. We talked<br />
for two hours and mended our friendship. During our<br />
conversation, I asked him to unload the gun and he<br />
did. By the time we were finished talking we were<br />
both smiling and we hugged. I gave him back the<br />
bullets as there didn’t seem to be a threat<br />
anymore… another secret I hid from my family.<br />
The next day I learned Jason was dead. After Jason<br />
left my house his car slid off the icy country road and<br />
got stuck. According to police, he tried to dislodge<br />
his car from the icy hole with some boards,<br />
but was unsuccessful. He sat back down in<br />
the driver’s seat, reloaded the gun and<br />
shot himself in the head. I was the last<br />
person to see him alive. Since I had<br />
given him the bullets, I naturally<br />
blamed myself. I was 16 and now<br />
another negative emotion was<br />
added to my life… GUILT.<br />
From that point forward<br />
I stopped actively living life in a<br />
healthy way. I got pregnant,<br />
suffered a miscarriage and<br />
barely graduated high school.<br />
I surrounded myself with abusive<br />
relationships familiar to what I had<br />
experienced in the past. Distrust for<br />
Then God made you aliv<br />
with Christ, for He forgave<br />
all our sins. He canceled<br />
the record of the charges<br />
against us and took it away by<br />
nailing it to the cross.”<br />
people grew<br />
and I began to view myself as<br />
“damaged goods” with no value to anyone. I turned<br />
to alcohol as it helped block out the voices in my mind<br />
that screamed, “You aren’t good enough, pretty<br />
enough, or smart enough.”<br />
These voices continued into my early twenties<br />
when I finally hit rock bottom. I suffered a rape from<br />
my boss, a trusted authority figure. Not knowing how<br />
to deal with it, I began to think of ways to end my<br />
life. To make it worse, his wife was like a mother to<br />
me. Now, I had yet another secret from another<br />
woman I cared about.<br />
One night I drank as much wine as I could stand,<br />
drove myself to a quiet, out of the way area and put<br />
my plan of suicide into action. I carefully tucked rags<br />
around the tailpipe of my car and inserted a garden<br />
hose. Next, I placed the other end of the hose in the<br />
driver’s side window of my car, carefully wrapping it<br />
with towels. As I sat in the car and sobbed, I begged<br />
God to end my pain and all the suffering, guilt and<br />
shame I had carried throughout my childhood. I was<br />
tired of living everyday feeling like an unworthy,<br />
unlovable, ugly person.<br />
I cried and breathed in deeply, but nothing<br />
happened. Frustrated, I got out of my car to see the<br />
poisonous fumes escaping into the cold, night air<br />
through thousands of tiny holes in the hose. It turns<br />
out that the hose I used was a porous water hose that<br />
would not allow the poison to enter my car. I believe<br />
God divinely intervened and saved my life.<br />
That night in my desperation, God began to reveal<br />
Himself to me. I sensed great peace as He showed me<br />
that my life had a bigger purpose than just dealing<br />
with my own pain. He had a plan where my life would<br />
actually be a light for other’s who were struggling<br />
with deep hurts.<br />
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e<br />
From that point, I began to seek God and He met me with open arms. He<br />
granted me forgiveness from past decisions and He gave me grace to move<br />
forward. No, my pain from the past didn’t magically disappear, but God began<br />
to heal me one wound at a time. It wasn’t long before I was blessed with an<br />
incredible husband and 2 beautiful children. My life became filled with good<br />
things. However, a part of me remained tied to the past.<br />
As I grew in my relationship with the Lord, He began to show me that my tie<br />
to the past was because of un-forgiveness towards myself. You see, I had forgiven<br />
God as I realized that He hadn’t done those things to me; rather, it was people<br />
who were acting under their own freewill. I had even forgiven the many people<br />
who had hurt me. I knew the Word of God said to forgive those who have offended<br />
and hurt you. But there was a third person I had not forgiven… ME.<br />
Because of this un-forgiveness towards myself, I continually carried a load of guilt,<br />
shame, self-hate, and a sense of unworthiness. I wasn’t able to move forward in life<br />
and help others move forward because I was weighted down by these emotions.<br />
I didn’t realize that every time I clung to my guilt and reminded myself of how<br />
unworthy I was for anything good in life it was like I was saying “No thanks” to the<br />
love of God, a love full of forgiveness and redemption. It was like I was receiving the<br />
cross as a mere splinter!<br />
Colossians 2:13-14 says, “You were dead because of your sins and because of<br />
your sinful nature ... Then God made you alive with Christ, for He forgave all our<br />
sins. He canceled the record of the charges against us and took it away by nailing it<br />
to the cross.” What I realize now is that the moment I asked Christ to be the Lord of<br />
my life, He made me alive in Him by forgiving my sins and canceling the charges<br />
against me. WOW! Everything I had done in my past, all the poor decisions I had<br />
made, were forgiven and nailed to the cross over two thousand years ago.<br />
Let me ask you something. If God has forgiven me and you, isn’t it time we<br />
forgive ourselves? Why do we constantly remind ourselves of our shortcomings when<br />
God has already forgotten them? Psalms 103 says He has removed our sin as far<br />
as the east is from the west and He remembers them no more! If God doesn’t<br />
condemn our past, then why should we?<br />
Will you join me and toss aside the weighted rope of un-forgiveness so that we can<br />
run the race of life victoriously and discover God’s peace and forgiveness? Ask God<br />
to reveal any areas of bitterness, anger, guilt, shame or hatred that are weighing you<br />
down and then FORGIVE. Forgive your parents, spouse, boss, friend, a stranger,<br />
co-worker, sibling, child or Pastor. Most of all, forgive yourself. Jesus already has.<br />
In God’s eyes, it’s time to realize YOU are worthy. Yes… you! Not because of<br />
anything you have done or not done but because God says so. He says you are worth<br />
it all. Think about it...before a day of your life ever came to be, God, knowing every<br />
decision you would ever make, knowing everything that would ever happen, still<br />
saw value in your life and allowed your life to be. And then, in the gift of His Son,<br />
Jesus, who laid down His life FOR YOU, God said, “You are worth everything to me.”<br />
Allow God to heal your innermost wounds, unleash the weights and ropes that are<br />
binding you up, and choose today to move forward with a new view of yourself…<br />
worthy of love, worthy of joy, worthy of healing, and worthy to be used by God.<br />
God is waiting for you to agree with Him so that He can use you to touch the world.<br />
The above story was submitted by a Keystone Heights resident who has asked to remain<br />
anonymous. If you have a story similar to the one above and need help finding forgiveness<br />
for yourself or for your abusers, visit Champion’s Heart Resource Center for support.<br />
What If?<br />
by Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
continued from page 9<br />
I got up and found the family in the merchandise section<br />
of the store. I walked over to the mother and said, “Hi. I<br />
know this may sound crazy, but I feel the Lord wants me to pray<br />
for your little girl.”<br />
I waited for the lady to grab her daughter and run or yell an insult back at<br />
me, but instead she smiled and said, “I don’t think that sounds crazy at all.” She<br />
asked my name and introduced me to her daughter, Sophia Rose. Then, right<br />
there in the middle of Cracker Barrel, I knelt down, laid my hands on this little<br />
girl’s legs, and prayed. When I finished, I rose up and faced the parents. The<br />
mother had tears streaming down her face, as did I. Through tears, we hugged<br />
and I left promising the family that I would continue to pray for them.<br />
As I reflect back on the above story, I honestly don’t know all that God was<br />
doing in this interchange. This young girl didn’t suddenly shed her walker and<br />
run through the store. Lightening bolts didn’t pop down from heaven giving us<br />
a “sign” that God was moving in some miraculous way. But you know what…<br />
I really don’t need a sign. I know it was God who prompted my heart to get up<br />
and pray for this family and I trust Him. It certainly wasn’t my flesh directing me<br />
to do this because my flesh would have preferred to stay in my chair and continue<br />
eating my salad! I know from scripture and from experience that when<br />
God places a burden on the hearts of His people and they obey, God is moving.<br />
He is doing something whether we “see” anything or not.<br />
Yes, God could’ve touched this family whether or not I got up out of my chair.<br />
God is God. He can do anything. But for reasons I cannot explain, God has chosen<br />
you and me to be His vessels in which He demonstrates His love, power, provision<br />
and presence to the world. Through OUR prayers of faith and simple acts<br />
of kindness, hope is carried to people and mountains are moved in their lives.<br />
We have to remember that we are God’s hands and feet on this earth. Our purpose<br />
on earth is to show His love to others whether or not it is convenient or comfortable.<br />
How will they know His love, how will they know He cares, otherwise?<br />
Please don’t get me wrong. I am not saying there is anything wrong with<br />
praying for others from afar or saying, “I will pray for you.” But how often do<br />
we actually remember to pray? If you are like me, life somehow has a way of<br />
erasing our promise to pray from our minds and we never end up praying at all.<br />
What if we actually stop, rise up, and out of our compassion, move out of<br />
our comfort zones and pray a simple prayer of faith with someone today?<br />
I believe people will be healed, hearts will be encouraged, and circumstances will<br />
be changed.<br />
So what are waiting for? Let’s lay aside our fears, pride and “what if”<br />
scenarios, get out of our seats, and risk something for the sake of another.<br />
“What if” God is ready to use us today to change the life of another? It’s a<br />
chance worth taking.<br />
The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great<br />
power and produces wonderful results. James 5:16<br />
Kristi Overton Johnson is the founder of Champion’s<br />
Heart and In His Wakes, divisions of KOJ Ministries.<br />
Kristi currently resides in the Lake Area Region with her<br />
husband, Tim and three children.<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Love Heals All Wounds<br />
by Minta Bennett<br />
When I was a child there was a family member in<br />
my life who verbally abused me. This person was so<br />
hateful to me. He never missed an opportunity to<br />
remind me how stupid I was and he made sure I felt<br />
as worthless as possible by constantly reminding me of<br />
everything that was wrong with me.<br />
I was very young, not even in school yet. At that age<br />
you tend to believe the adults in your life. So naturally,<br />
I began to believe every horrible thing he said about<br />
me and I began to ‘see’ myself according to his<br />
hateful words.<br />
As I grew older, I made it a point to stay out of his<br />
way. Fortunately, he didn’t live near our family so I<br />
didn’t have to be around him daily, but boy did he<br />
make up for it when he was in town. I never told my<br />
mom and dad about what was going on. I also never<br />
told her how I felt about him. She was always so happy<br />
when he came home to visit and I didn’t want to ruin<br />
that for her.<br />
After years of verbal abuse at his hand I learned to<br />
hate him. At the time, I didn’t have the ability to<br />
understand that hurting people hurt people. It was<br />
much easier for me to just hate him back. I spent a<br />
great amount of time thinking how awful he was, and<br />
somehow that made me feel better about myself.<br />
During my teenage years he was not around at all,<br />
but that didn’t stop me from allowing all of that anger<br />
and hate to grow secretly inside of me. I used to dream<br />
of how someday I would get back at him and cause<br />
him to hurt like he hurt me. I wanted him to feel as<br />
helpless and scared as he had made me feel.<br />
While all of this anger was growing inside of me,<br />
I developed an extremely painful back problem.<br />
The pain in my lower back grew to the point<br />
that I couldn’t stand up for more than a<br />
couple of minutes at a time.<br />
One day my Uncle Steven was<br />
visiting and he prayed for me.<br />
He looked at me and asked<br />
pointedly, “Who do you<br />
hate?” My immediate<br />
response,<br />
“No one.” At<br />
this point I<br />
hadn’t<br />
told<br />
anyone about what that person had done to me, and<br />
I sure didn’t tell anyone about how much I hated him.<br />
Suddenly, it all came back to me, it was like a video<br />
of all the wrongs suffered at his hands began to play in<br />
my mind. All my childhood emotions emerged as<br />
I remembered how he made me feel like the worst person<br />
on earth. I just sat there thinking he deserved to be<br />
hated. Why should I be the one who has to forgive him?<br />
Then I realized I had a decision to make: Do I forgive<br />
him or do I continue to hate him?<br />
Forgiveness empowered me to<br />
live my life as God intended me to<br />
live. I was no longer a victim.<br />
I decided to make the choice to forgive. I decided it<br />
was time to let go of my past and refuse to give this<br />
person any power over me anymore. I cried out to God<br />
and asked Him to help me forgive, and He did. He took<br />
away my hurt and anger and with it, He lifted what<br />
seemed to be a hundred pound weight off my<br />
shoulders. All of a sudden I didn’t feel like a victim<br />
anymore. I didn’t feel helpless anymore. And you know<br />
what else? My back pain began to get better.<br />
Now I realize that my anger had kept me tied to<br />
this person. It had caused me to remain a victim every<br />
time I thought of what he had done to me. For years,<br />
my anger had caused me to feel powerless and afraid<br />
over and over again. And, my anger had caused me<br />
physical pain.<br />
Forgiveness empowered me to live my life as God<br />
intended me to live. I was no longer a victim. Yes, the<br />
memories are still there; however, they don’t cause me<br />
pain anymore. Forgiveness healed my hurts.<br />
God is so awesome. Not only did He give me my<br />
life back, but he also brought restoration in my<br />
relationship with this person. How amazing that the<br />
person who had been so hateful and mean to me is<br />
now a wonderful part of my life. How could this<br />
happen? Prayer! After I forgave him, I prayed for him<br />
constantly. For years there was no contact, but I kept<br />
praying for him. Now, I see him frequently and I am so<br />
thankful. God turned that relationship around because<br />
I chose to love him in spite of what he did to me.<br />
The Greatest Commandments in the<br />
Bible ... “Love the Lord God with all<br />
your heart, soul, strength and mind…<br />
love others as yourself.”<br />
We often remember to love God and others but<br />
do we remember to love ourselves? We have to<br />
realize it’s often hard to extend God’s love to others<br />
if we fail to take care of ourselves emotionally,<br />
physically and spiritually.<br />
Here are a few ways you can<br />
“love yourself”…<br />
…Protect Your Health…<br />
Eat Right and Exercise!<br />
…Get Some Rest<br />
…Enjoy Those God Has Put In Your Life<br />
…Forgive Yourself For Not Being Perfect<br />
…Forgive Others<br />
…Stop Being So Critical Towards Yourself<br />
…Speak Positive Words Over Your life<br />
…Get Alone<br />
…Ask For Help<br />
…Enjoy A Hobby<br />
…Laugh More<br />
…See Yourself As God Sees You…<br />
His Treasure!<br />
God says in 1 John 4:20, “If someone says, ‘I love<br />
God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who<br />
does not love his brother whom he has seen, how can<br />
he love God whom he has not seen?” I remember one<br />
night arguing with God about my right to be angry<br />
with this person but God kept leading me back to this<br />
verse. After reading it three times I finally understood<br />
what He was saying… If we love God, we will love<br />
others and part of love is forgiveness. It’s not an<br />
option, it’s a requirement. But the beautiful thing is<br />
that as we free others with our forgiveness, God will<br />
free us, heal us and empower us to walk in victory.<br />
Beloved if God so loved us, we also ought to<br />
love one another. 1 John 4:11<br />
Minta Bennett is the former<br />
director of the Champion’s Heart<br />
Resource Center. She is married<br />
and is the mother of two<br />
teenagers. Her passion is helping<br />
people walk in victory through<br />
mentoring and tutoring.<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
For the Love of a Community<br />
by Karen Lake<br />
Whether you believe in Hillary Rodham Clinton’s<br />
politics or not, I think she got it right when she coined<br />
the phrase, “It takes a whole village to raise a child.”<br />
Generations ago, in villages across the world, the<br />
predominant social denominator amongst small<br />
living communities were that people shared day-today<br />
responsibilities with one another. Extended<br />
families lived together, children cared for smaller<br />
children, and communal cooking was common.<br />
Much has changed.<br />
Here we are in the 21st century and looking at our<br />
community, there is much to like about the way we’re<br />
living. But with the changes in our lifestyles, one can’t<br />
deny that problems have arisen. We face many<br />
challenges. Even our small community is not immune to<br />
the issues families face living in larger cities. I, personally,<br />
do not want to be an adult in my community that<br />
denies the existence of these problems. Denying them,<br />
won’t make them go away. But I also know – and have<br />
witnessed – the very best we have to offer, too.<br />
Case in point: several weeks ago, the Community<br />
Church of Keystone held its annual back-to-school<br />
event which helped families get their children ready<br />
for the first day of school. This is a big deal for a child<br />
and thankfully, this church membership and other<br />
community members recognized the need, and<br />
worked tirelessly to fill the need.<br />
Each family was assigned a personal shopper to<br />
help them pick out five outfits and a pair of shoes.<br />
I was helping out in the shoe room when a personal<br />
shopper brought in a young man who looked to be<br />
11 or 12 years old, the same age as my youngest son.<br />
When he found a pair of shoes he liked, he sat in a<br />
chair to put them on with his personal shopper by his<br />
side. They were lace-up shoes. After he had them on<br />
his feet, he looked at his personal shopper and said,<br />
“I’m sorry. I don’t know how to tie my shoes. Can you<br />
help me?”<br />
It was, as they say, a teaching moment.<br />
His personal shopper could have reacted in a<br />
number of ways. She could have negatively judged<br />
the young man for being an older child and not<br />
knowing how to tie his shoes. He, most likely, would<br />
have felt her condemnation. She could have found it<br />
funny, laughed at him and made him feel badly<br />
because he didn’t know how to tie his shoes.<br />
Instead, she responded, “That’s OK. I’ll help<br />
you. Let me show you how to tie your shoes.”<br />
That was the loving response.<br />
A younger child came into the shoe<br />
room. She was probably five years old. As<br />
I knelt down on the floor to help her put<br />
on her shoes and tie them, she said quite<br />
adamantly, “I can do it for myself.”<br />
“Of course you can,” I said. “I’m<br />
really proud of you that you can do that for<br />
yourself.”<br />
As both a witness and a participant, they were<br />
divine moments for me. Love was present from adult<br />
to a child. If Love is present, there too, is God.<br />
I really love and am proud to be a part of this<br />
community. I admire and care for the people who help<br />
me raise my son because there are many and our lives<br />
are much richer for it. In return, I’ll do my part and help<br />
raise yours. After all, it takes a village to raise a child.<br />
Karen Lake and her children have<br />
lived in the Lake Region for over<br />
ten years. She was the former<br />
editor of the Lake Region Monitor<br />
and presently works at Sante Fe<br />
College’s Watson Center. Over<br />
the years, she has advocated for<br />
many local causes and organizations. She is a member<br />
of the Keystone Rotary Club, executive director of<br />
the Florida Youth Challenge Academy Foundation<br />
and works for her local schools. She is acting as a<br />
publication advisor for Victorious LIving.<br />
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He’s Been Faithful<br />
by Jeannie Hodges Peoples<br />
I never expected the news I got that day in the<br />
summer of 1999. It was what was supposed to be an<br />
exciting doctor’s appointment for us. I, along with my<br />
husband, James, our daughter, Emily, and other family<br />
members piled into a little ultrasound room to find out<br />
the sex of our precious unborn baby. As we watched<br />
with anticipation, the ultrasound tech finally said,<br />
“It’s a girl!” We were elated to know we were having<br />
another girl and thankful for the opportunity to see her<br />
on that small screen.<br />
As we exited the room, the nurse pulled me aside<br />
and informed me that a blood test I had taken several<br />
weeks before had come back abnormal. It showed a<br />
possibility that our little girl could have Down<br />
Syndrome. She explained that often this particular<br />
test can come back with a false positive result and<br />
suggested I repeat the test.<br />
The next few weeks of testing and waiting proved to<br />
be very grueling. We fervently prayed that whatever the<br />
results, that God would guide and direct us and give<br />
us the strength to care for our baby’s needs. After<br />
weeks of waiting, we got the phone call that will<br />
forever be etched in our hearts and minds. It was<br />
confirmed, our little angel had Down Syndrome.<br />
“For I know the plans<br />
I have for you, declares<br />
the Lord, plans to<br />
prosper you<br />
and not to harm<br />
you, plans to give you<br />
a future and a hope.”<br />
Jeremiah 29:11<br />
As we heard those words, James and I both felt a<br />
sea of emotions rush over us. We were so afraid. Would<br />
she be alright? Would we be everything she needed as<br />
parents?<br />
It’s so hard to explain, but even in the midst of<br />
our questions and doubts, we were filled with an<br />
overwhelming peace… peace that can only come from<br />
the Lord.<br />
The days and weeks ahead held many ups and<br />
downs. Praise the Lord, Dana was born a healthy<br />
little girl on February 24, 2000. Did she have Down<br />
Syndrome? Yes! Was she “fearfully and wonderfully<br />
made” by God? Absolutely, YES!<br />
The path we have travelled and are<br />
traveling is challenging each and every day.<br />
But who of us doesn’t face challenges?<br />
They may be different in nature, but they<br />
are challenges nonetheless. Those we<br />
face with Dana have actually become<br />
more difficult in recent years.<br />
Several years ago, Dana received a<br />
diagnosis of Autism that in many ways<br />
has proven to be even harder than Down<br />
Syndrome. Along with this diagnoses<br />
came a whole new set of ever increasing<br />
challenges for Dana and for us.<br />
How thankful we are for the love,<br />
peace and strength of God. This journey<br />
is one our family could never travel<br />
alone. Without Him upholding us, we<br />
would have drowned years ago. In our<br />
darkest hours of struggle, God’s love<br />
has consistently enveloped us so tightly and constantly<br />
reminded us that we are not alone.<br />
Jeremiah 29:11 says, “For I know the plans I have for<br />
you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to<br />
harm you, plans to give you a future and a hope.”<br />
There is no doubt in my mind that Dana was exactly<br />
what God had planned for our family, the same way<br />
He planned for our other precious child, Emily.<br />
Nothing we have experienced has come as a surprise<br />
to Him. Both of our girls were a part of God’s plan<br />
for our lives all along. He created them and then<br />
blessed us with the awesome privilege of parenting and<br />
loving them both.<br />
Over the years so many people have felt sorry for us,<br />
and quite frankly, many people view a child like our<br />
Dana as nothing more than a burden. In fact, the<br />
percentage of people who terminate their pregnancies<br />
when their baby is diagnosed with Down Syndrome is<br />
staggering, approximately 90%!<br />
What people don’t realize is that those situations<br />
we may be tempted to view as a burden can be the<br />
biggest blessing in our lives if only we embrace them<br />
and face them with God. Dana has brought us so much<br />
joy in the midst of the challenges, and in the process,<br />
she has blessed the lives of others. God is faithful and<br />
because of Dana, we have been able to see Him prove<br />
His love and faithfulness to us time and time again.<br />
Jeannie Hodges Peoples was<br />
born and raised in Jacksonville,<br />
FL by Gene and<br />
Leanne Hodges. She attended<br />
Liberty University in<br />
Lynchburg, VA where she<br />
met her husband James Peoples.<br />
James, Jeannie and<br />
their two daughters, Emily<br />
and Dana reside in Keystone<br />
Heights, FL where James has<br />
pastored Trinity Baptist<br />
Church for the past 17 years.<br />
Photo Credits: Pam Saxon<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Love At Work<br />
by Bonnie Hagemann<br />
Love at Work? Love and workplace are rarely used<br />
in the same sentence and when they are, it is typically<br />
not a good thing. However, love can be a powerful<br />
force in the workplace. You may be wondering how<br />
we can show “love” at work. Is it even possible? It’s<br />
not only possible, but it makes the workplace better<br />
for everyone.<br />
Love is an action; so in the workplace, we show<br />
love with our actions. Two actions that demonstrate<br />
love at work are mercy and patience.<br />
In the book Nuts! Southwest Airlines' Crazy Recipe<br />
for Business and Personal Success, the authors tell a<br />
story about Herb Kelleher, the CEO at the time, and<br />
one of his line leaders. The line leader made a verbal<br />
decision with an airport in another city that turned<br />
out to be a very expensive one for Southwest.<br />
Remember, in the workplace,<br />
a little patience goes a long way.<br />
Patience enables us to maintain<br />
our peace, make wise decisions,<br />
and it reduces the amount of<br />
pressure we put on people<br />
and situations.<br />
When Herb analyzed the decision, he concluded it<br />
was not the right decision for Southwest Airlines at<br />
the time. Herb went to the line leader and asked if he<br />
had signed a contract. The line leader said, no, but<br />
that he had verbally agreed to it. Herb decided to back<br />
the verbal decision of this line leader.<br />
A year or more later, the line leader was sitting next<br />
to Herb on an airplane. He thanked Herb for backing<br />
his decision and shared how it had been a learning<br />
experience for him.<br />
Herb showed the line leader mercy. Some companies<br />
would have fired the line leader. Few companies<br />
would have backed his verbal<br />
commitment to a bad decision<br />
and even fewer<br />
would have allowed the<br />
line leader to learn, grow<br />
and eventually be promoted<br />
after such a major<br />
judgment blunder. In the<br />
end, Southwest Airlines<br />
survived and made the<br />
best of the situation; the<br />
line leader learned a lesson, and Herb gained an<br />
eternally grateful and committed leader.<br />
Another way love plays out in the workplace is<br />
through patience. It’s often easy for leaders and<br />
employees to get angry and demanding at work. As<br />
pressure builds, the atmosphere can become tense.<br />
When this happens, the first and biggest mistake is<br />
that people lose their patience. They want what they<br />
want, when they want it. ‘Wants’ can range from<br />
more resources to another sale, a raise, a new work<br />
location, new job, or anything else that will make<br />
one’s work or life better.<br />
Remember, in the workplace, a little patience goes<br />
a long way. Patience enables us to maintain our<br />
peace, make wise decisions, and it reduces the<br />
amount of pressure we put on people and situations.<br />
It also keeps us from acting rashly and making<br />
matters worse.<br />
Mercy and Patience - make them a part of your job<br />
description today. Then watch as your workplace becomes<br />
more productive and a more pleasant place to be.<br />
Bonnie Hagemann is a member<br />
of the Board of Directors for<br />
Champion’s Heart Life Centers.<br />
Bonnie is the CEO of Executive<br />
Development Associates, a<br />
28-year-old internationally known<br />
boutique consulting firm that<br />
specializes in executive development, executive<br />
coaching, and high potential development. To date,<br />
Bonnie has 11 published works.<br />
No Laughing Matter!<br />
By VeRonica Owens<br />
An elderly patient required a heart transplant and met with his doctor to discuss<br />
possible donors. The doctor told the patient that he had three choices: a talented<br />
high school athlete, a brilliant school teacher, or a lawyer. The patient immediately<br />
chose the lawyer’s heart. After the transplant, the doctor asked the patient the<br />
reason for his decision. “It was simple,” the patient replied, “I wanted a heart that<br />
hadn’t been used.”<br />
When I tell people that I decided to become a lawyer because I wanted to help<br />
people in my community, that’s usually the sort of cynical response I receive.<br />
For some reason, it is often difficult for people to see our Christian life shine<br />
through our calling. Lawyer and Christian? Can the two truly commingle? If we<br />
profess to truly know Christ, we cannot stop showing His love to others once we<br />
step foot in our workplace. Our office, our desk, our cash register should be a place<br />
of refuge to our coworkers and clients.<br />
difficult situation and truly need someone to take time with them; to listen to their<br />
heart’s cry, not just their words; to try to understand what they are facing, and<br />
offer a hug or a word of kindness. If we profess to truly know Christ, we are<br />
required to show His love to those in need. And when we choose to show the love<br />
of Christ in this manner, the Bible says, the God of all healing counsel comes<br />
alongside. (2 Cor. 1:3-4; MSG).<br />
God uses our love for others to share His heart with the hurting. After all,<br />
nothing in this world heals, mends, strengthens, and fulfills like the love of Christ.<br />
It rekindles burned-out lives with fresh hope, restores dignity and brings back<br />
respect. Mother Teresa said, “Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever<br />
come to you without leaving happier.” The Bible tells us to do good, to be rich in<br />
helping others, to be extravagantly generous, so that we’ll build a lasting treasury,<br />
gaining a life that is truly life (I Tim. 6:18-19; MSG). That’s no laughing matter.<br />
VeRonica Owens' Law Practice is located in Keystone Heights, FL.<br />
She is dedicated to helping people walk in victory.<br />
Time after time, people visit my office seeking something more significant than<br />
advice on a particular matter or legal representation. They find themselves in a<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Love Bombers<br />
by Pastor Rob Morford<br />
In 1924 Community Church began as<br />
the lake area’s first attempt to breakdown<br />
denominational barriers. A group of<br />
believers decided to focus on what they<br />
had in common instead of their differences.<br />
They agreed Jesus was the only<br />
way to salvation, and you must be born<br />
again to enter the kingdom of God. Out<br />
of this the Community Church was birthed.<br />
I came to Community<br />
Church in 1976 as an unbeliever. My<br />
wife, Dotty, had come to the saving<br />
knowledge of Jesus right after the birth<br />
of our daughter, Bandi. For two years<br />
I watched Dotty to see if this Jesus was real<br />
and permanent. During that time, Dotty asked<br />
people in the church to pray for me. For two<br />
years I was bombed with love and prayer.<br />
Up until this point in my life<br />
I had felt condemnation. Now, for<br />
the first time, I began to feel<br />
unconditional love. In <strong>November</strong> of<br />
1978 I made Jesus the Lord of my life.<br />
Shortly after this I was filled with the Holy Spirit<br />
and that love I had felt suddenly enveloped me.<br />
Over the next three years our family grew as Zac and<br />
Isaac were born. I was growing also in this new found love.<br />
I volunteered at Community Church. I worked with the youth, started a<br />
men’s fellowship and began teaching an adult Sunday School class. The more<br />
I learned, the more I discovered how unfathomable this love is.<br />
In 1981, with a call on my life, Dotty and I packed up our three children and<br />
moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma to attend Rhema Bible College. Community Church<br />
supported us both financially and with the same love that had changed my<br />
eternity. After graduating in 1983, we packed up and moved back to<br />
Keystone Heights. The church hired me as the assistant pastor and<br />
youth pastor. I tell people the best job on the planet is to find<br />
someone to pay you to do what you love to do. In fact,<br />
I started doing it for free, because it is a calling and not a job.<br />
The church changed my position to co-pastor in 1990<br />
and then I became the senior pastor in 1999. My love for<br />
the people in this community continually grows. I have been<br />
involved in everything from KRA to Rotary. My passion is<br />
teaching the Word of God. I am an expository style teacher that<br />
teaches “line upon line and precept upon precept.”<br />
The vision of Community Church is to know Jesus and to make Him known.<br />
Every ministry in our church centers around this thought.<br />
…love bombing is the<br />
deliberate show of<br />
affection or friendship<br />
by an individual or group<br />
of people toward<br />
another individual.<br />
… God is the author of<br />
true love. In fact,<br />
He purposely<br />
bombed us with<br />
His love.<br />
One of the many outreaches of our church is<br />
Community Christian School. This ministry started<br />
in 1987 to help parents. Our primary directive is to<br />
“train up our children in the way they should go.”<br />
Once again our goal is not just to provide a great<br />
education, but to teach them to know love and to<br />
show love.<br />
Our youth pastor saw a phrase in his psychology book at<br />
Sante Fe College called “love bombing.” It was coined by<br />
psychologist Margaret Singer in a negative context.<br />
Wikipedia says love bombing is the deliberate show of<br />
affection or friendship by an individual or group of people<br />
toward another individual. Critics have asserted that this<br />
action may be motivated in part by the desire to recruit,<br />
convert or otherwise influence. It is sad to me to see this used in<br />
the negative since God is the author of true love. In fact, He<br />
purposely bombed us with His love.<br />
Recently, our youth made “LOVE BOMBER” tee shirts.<br />
We gave these out to all of our workers at the Back 2 School<br />
Outreach (B2SO) as a reminder of our mission… to bomb people<br />
with God’s love. B2SO gave more than clothes, shoes, haircuts and<br />
food to over 250 children in our community, it gave families love.<br />
I once was lost but now I am saved because of a bunch of love bombers.<br />
If I were to describe Community Church, I would say, “We are a bunch of sinners<br />
saved by grace… grace that continually changes us and leads us to be love<br />
bombers to those God brings in our path.”<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Unique Outreaches<br />
Love in the Great Outdoors By John Whitfield<br />
Do what you love. Love what you do.<br />
This simple formula is the basis for a “platform”<br />
ministry—doing what you love and having it count<br />
for a higher purpose. For Tim Tebow, it was football.<br />
For Pat Boone, it was singing. For Kristi Overton<br />
Johnson, it was water sports. For me and many<br />
others, it’s the great outdoors.<br />
As far back as I can remember, I have wanted to<br />
be outside. As a child, I would spend all day in the<br />
woods building forts and traps, shooting targets,<br />
making homemade slingshots, and of course, hunting.<br />
Love the outdoors? You bet! I lived it, dreamed it,<br />
desired it and wanted it. I loved it!<br />
When you love something, you pursue it. Literally,<br />
you chase it. I have chased the outdoors my whole life<br />
and I am still chasing it but now with a new purpose…<br />
I have joined in the greatest chase, or hunt, of all time.<br />
I seek men.<br />
In the Spring of 2010, Morry Cravey and I were led to<br />
join our passions for the Great Outdoors with God’s (and<br />
our) passion for people, the result...Crosshorn Ministries.<br />
Crosshorn ministers to outdoorsmen through a shared,<br />
mutual interest of outdoor activities such as hunting,<br />
fishing, trapping, camping, hiking, learning about<br />
survival skills, archery, fire, making primitive weapons…<br />
just about anything in the woods or on the water.<br />
If you want to expand and better experience your love<br />
for the outdoors, we invite you to join Team Crosshorn.<br />
It’s all FREE. You will learn much about the outdoors,<br />
make many friends, and deepen your spiritual walk with<br />
the One who created the very things we seek to enjoy.<br />
John Whitfield is the co-founder of Crosshorn Ministries.<br />
John is an avid sportsman with a passion for people,<br />
God and the great outdoors. For more information<br />
about Crosshorn’s monthly meetings in Starke and<br />
the new Crosshorn Training Center in Ft. McCoy, visit<br />
www.crosshornministries.org, email<br />
huntfishwriter@aol.com or call John at 352-475-1904.<br />
In His Wakes - The International Language of Love<br />
Whether a hardened teen, discouraged adult, mentally challenged person, or<br />
one of another culture, In His Wakes has found the secret of transforming lives.<br />
It’s a simple word called love.<br />
Since its inception in 2003, In His Wakes has traveled across the United States<br />
and even to foreign waters in countries such as Austria, Canada, Costa Rica and<br />
most recently, the Czech Republic, showing the love of God through water<br />
sports. The result? Thousands of people have found purpose, hope and the<br />
opportunity for victory in their lives.<br />
Founder Kristi Overton Johnson has seen the language of love break down barriers of distrust, fear,<br />
pride and hopelessness and establish a connection where hearts are radically changed.<br />
In His Wakes specializes in using water sports to shower people with<br />
the love of God through its “A Day to Remember” program. The D2R<br />
program provides an opportunity of a lifetime for predominately at-risk<br />
youth by giving them an unforgettable day on the water. Participants<br />
engage in various water sports activities such as swimming, boat<br />
riding, knee boarding and water skiing. Throughout the day, analogies<br />
are made between water sports, faith and life. In <strong>2011</strong>, In His Wakes<br />
hosted 60 events locally, nationally and internationally.<br />
“Our ministry specializes in youth who have faced unimaginable hurts<br />
and disappointments,” explains Johnson. “Most come to the lake broken, hurt and angry. You can sense<br />
their distrust and fear. But after a day on the water, after a day of being loved unconditionally, healing<br />
literally takes place at the water’s edge.”<br />
“Because most of our participants have little experience in the water, the activities present an<br />
opportunity for our team to bond quickly with the participants. The activities also provide a setting to teach<br />
life lessons. Our participants learn there are people in the world that care for them, who will help them<br />
move forward and who can be trusted. They also learn very quickly that if one lays aside whatever it is<br />
that is keeping them on the ‘dock’, whether in<br />
life or on the water, they will have victory.”<br />
“I am continually humbled and amazed<br />
at how God is able to take something so<br />
simple — water sports — and literally bring<br />
healing, hope and restoration into people’s<br />
lives. How thankful I am for the opportunity to<br />
be a part of this ministry and watch firsthand<br />
the international language of love speak hope<br />
and life to the nations!”<br />
Visit inhiswakes.com.<br />
Park Of The Palms<br />
A generation exists that is known as the “sandwich”<br />
generation. A generation exists that is known as “The<br />
Sandwich Generation”. It is a generation of people who<br />
care for their aging parents while supporting their own<br />
children. According to the Pew Research Center, just over<br />
1 out of every 8 Americans aged 40-60, is raising both a<br />
child and caring for a parent.<br />
Park of the Palms, Inc. a local Christian Retirement<br />
Community, recognizes the tough life that anyone in the<br />
Sandwich Generation experiences and that is why they<br />
have initiated their Adult Day Services. This service allows<br />
your Mom, Dad, Brother, Sister, Grandma, Grandpa, or<br />
whomever in your care, to remain at The Robert J. Willey<br />
Assisted Living Facility during the day while you are at<br />
work or are running your errands… just as you did for the<br />
kids when they were too little to go to school.<br />
Day service can help ease your life while giving your<br />
loved one the care they need. You can have peace of<br />
mind throughout the day knowing they are being loved,<br />
watched and fed.<br />
Participants of this service have remarked that “life<br />
isn’t as lonely as they thought.” During the day, they are<br />
now surrounded by new friends with whom they are able<br />
to discuss mutual interests and discover common<br />
backgrounds like previous military service.<br />
In addition to the Adult Day Service, The PARK also offers<br />
Respite Care Services which allows temporary overnight<br />
residence. There are often times when the family needs to<br />
travel on a trip not suitable for their loved one in their care.<br />
The Park of the Palmsʼ Respite Services can be the perfect<br />
answer for those times. Grandpa feels like he is on a cruise<br />
with great food (for those of you familiar with Keystone<br />
Heightsʼ history: Robert Sabo is our Food Service Manager),<br />
fun and friends and you get a vacation.<br />
Call Denise at 352-473-6100 extension 304 today to<br />
set up a family tour!<br />
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Love is the Key!<br />
Community Interest<br />
All Together Worship<br />
Champion’s Heart has opened it’s Chapel<br />
doors to the public to provide the residents of<br />
the Lake Area region a place to pray, receive<br />
prayer, have quiet time with God, and also be<br />
encouraged by other believers.<br />
According to Kristi Johnson, founder of<br />
Champion’s Heart the “ALL Together” worship<br />
and prayer time has provided an opportunity for<br />
their ministry to see God touch the hearts of<br />
people in incredible ways. “God is moving in our<br />
midst during the noon-time prayer and worship<br />
hour. God laid on my heart to open the chapel as<br />
a place for the community to all come together and worship God, to lay their<br />
burdens down at His feet and to lift up praises to His name. It has been amazing<br />
to watch people walk into the chapel completely broken and filled with despair, and<br />
then leave totally transformed, filled with peace, hope and joy. The anointing of<br />
God and the encouragement of His people enable people to look past their<br />
circumstances and be filled with hope to face another day.”<br />
The Champion’s Heart Chapel is open Monday through Friday from 9 to 3.<br />
Corporate prayer and live worship is at noon Monday through Friday.<br />
New City Manager<br />
On September 26th, Keystone Heights<br />
gained a new City Manager, Terry Suggs.<br />
When asked about his new position,<br />
Suggs replied, “I am excited about my<br />
position as city manager and look forward<br />
to meeting as many residents as possible<br />
by maintaining an open door at city hall<br />
and working closely with staff and local<br />
civic groups in a team effort to enhance<br />
the community of Keystone Heights. I truly<br />
believe we have a great city. I hope<br />
to provide efficient and effective government<br />
services that meet the needs of our<br />
community while providing a business<br />
climate and strategy to encourage<br />
growth. We may have a small workforce<br />
but I assure you it will be a strong one.”<br />
Mama Lisa’s<br />
Holiday Pecans<br />
From the kitchen of Lisa Johnson<br />
For generations food has been a way to express love one to another. This<br />
recipe has been my family favorite ‘love gift’ for years. Around the holidays,<br />
everyone knows they can expect some pecans on my party table or coming<br />
their way as a gift.<br />
Over the years, I have been updating my recipes to reflect a healthier<br />
lifestyle especially since my son Carter was diagnosed as a Type II Diabetic<br />
three months before he turned 21. Now THAT required a lifestyle change!<br />
These pecans are a loving gift for everyone including the Diabetic in your<br />
life. Just remind them to resist the temptation to eat the whole recipe at one<br />
time, and that goes for YOU too!<br />
Ingredients:<br />
2 Egg Whites ¼ tsp Salt<br />
1 ½ tsp Cinnamon 1 ½ pound Pecan Halves, toasted<br />
1 tsp Vanilla Extract 1/2 cup Sugar<br />
(not imitation)<br />
(or 1/2 cup Truvia for a Diabetic version)<br />
Directions:<br />
• Preheat oven to 225º<br />
• Beat egg whites with the vanilla extract until it forms soft peaks.<br />
• Add remaining ingredients except the pecans<br />
• Stir to blend. Now add toasted pecans. Toss to coat.<br />
• Spray cookie sheet with Pam. Bake 1 hour at 225º<br />
• Remove from the oven. Break apart if needed.<br />
• Cool completely. Store in airtight container.<br />
More ideas:<br />
★ For a holiday gift, put in a festive container and tie with ribbons. If container is<br />
not airtight and pecans will not be eaten for awhile, place pecans in a zip lock<br />
baggie before wrapping.<br />
★ Eat plain or use as a topping for ice cream. Don’t forget to drizzle your favorite<br />
caramel or chocolate sauce on top.<br />
★ Toss spinach leaves with balsamic dressing and put leaves on plates. Top plated<br />
portions with sliced shallots, sliced strawberries or halved red grapes, a sprinkle<br />
of goat or blue cheese and of course, chopped pecans.<br />
Lisa and her husband, Vic Johnson, now live in the Lake<br />
Area Region. They have created six of the most popular<br />
personal development sites on the Internet. One of them,<br />
AsAManThinketh.net, has given away over 400,000<br />
copies of James Allen’s classic book.<br />
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Calendar of Events<br />
Champion’s Heart First<br />
Anniversary Celebration<br />
& Pancake Breakfast<br />
<strong>November</strong> 19 • 8 am – 1 pm<br />
205 Magnolia Avenue, KH<br />
Fundraiser activities:Pancake Breakfast,<br />
Classic Car Show, Food, Inflatables, Arts &<br />
Crafts Vendors, Live Music<br />
Interested vendors, contact Ron<br />
at 352-478-2098<br />
Rummage Sale<br />
December 2 • 9 am – 4 pm<br />
December 3 • 9 am – Noon, $1/bag<br />
Community Church of Keystone Heights<br />
345 Palmetto Avenue, KH<br />
“A Walk Through Bethlehem”<br />
December 9-11 • 6:30 pm – 9:30 pm<br />
First Baptist Church of KH<br />
550 East Walker Drive, KH<br />
Highridge Book Bus<br />
December 10 & January 14, 2012<br />
Book bus makes 30 minute stops at<br />
Dennison, Skidmore, Purdue and Yale.<br />
Look for signs in Highridge for exact<br />
time and location.<br />
Christmas Parade<br />
December 10 • 6 pm<br />
Main St., Keystone Heights<br />
Sponsored by Kiwanis Club<br />
Christmas Musical<br />
December 11 • 10 am<br />
Freedom Baptist Church<br />
7207 State Road 21, Keystone Heights<br />
The Compassionate Friends<br />
Worldwide Candle<br />
Lighting Ceremony<br />
December 11 • 6 pm program,<br />
7 pm lighting ceremony<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Contact Alice Watts (352) 473-7261<br />
Cookies, Cocoa and Caroling<br />
with Live Performance<br />
by Lights of Evening<br />
December 16 • 7 pm - 10 pm<br />
Champion’s Heart Chapel and<br />
Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Join us for a night of live music, warm<br />
food & fellowship, community caroling.<br />
Bring your favorite cookies to share and<br />
don’t forget to bring a copy of your<br />
recipe!<br />
Crosshorn Ministry<br />
Fellowship<br />
for Outdoorsmen<br />
<strong>November</strong> 17, December 15<br />
January 26, 2012<br />
7:00 pm – 9:00 pm<br />
Starke Golf & Country Club<br />
15501 N.E. 14th Ave, Starke<br />
Contact John Whitfield (352) 475-1904<br />
huntfishwriter@aol.com<br />
Champion’s Heart<br />
Leadership Luncheons<br />
12:00 – 1:00 pm<br />
Thursdays, January 5, 12, 19, 26<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Special speakers including Pro Athletes,<br />
Military Leaders & National Motivational<br />
Speakers. Requires Registration, $20.00<br />
per luncheon, or $60 for all 4 sessions.<br />
Call Ron (352) 478-2098<br />
“TREASURED”<br />
Banquet/Conference<br />
February 10 - 11<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Special speakers, formal banquet to encourage<br />
the hearts of young women<br />
Call Reneé (352) 478-2098<br />
Bridal Show<br />
February 18 • 1 pm – 4 pm<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Interested vendors, contact Renee’ at<br />
352-478-2098<br />
Looking For Freedom from Your<br />
Hurts,Hang-ups and Habits? Looking<br />
for a place to be Loved, Accepted<br />
and Encouraged?<br />
Celebrate Recovery is for you!<br />
COME SEE WHAT CELEBRATE RECOVERY IS ALL ABOUT!<br />
Held weekly at Champion’s Heart on Thursday<br />
Evenings @ 7pm. For more information<br />
call Michelle at 904-449-4200<br />
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Parker & Becky Overton<br />
Dan & Sue Plaster<br />
Kyle & Hope Tate<br />
JM West<br />
ALL Together Worship/Prayer<br />
Monday-Friday<br />
The chapel is open from 9 am - 3 pm for<br />
private prayer. At Noon, there is corporate<br />
prayer and live worship music.<br />
Champion’s Heart Chapel<br />
205 Magnolia Avenue, KH<br />
Everyone welcome! Come pray, receive prayer and be<br />
encouraged!<br />
Celebrate Recovery<br />
Every Thursday • 7 pm<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, Keystone Heights<br />
Support to overcome hurts, habits<br />
and hang-ups<br />
Call Michelle Lawson (904) 449-4200<br />
Soup & Sandwich Lunch<br />
Every Saturday • 11am – 1 pm<br />
The Soup Kitchen<br />
The Keystone Senior Center,<br />
120 NE Commercial Circle, KH<br />
Every Saturday, all ages welcomed<br />
Expression Session! Art<br />
Classes for Youth<br />
Each Friday* • 3:30 pm -5 pm<br />
Champion’s Heart Resource Center Seminar Room,<br />
160 Nightingale St., KH<br />
*varies with holidays<br />
Call Donna (352) 235-6256<br />
Bible Club<br />
Each Monday* • 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm<br />
Champion’s Heart Education Center<br />
205 Magnolia Ave, KH<br />
For Children 1st - 6th Grade<br />
*current classes will run through<br />
Nov. 14, starting again in 2012<br />
Contact Dennis Barnhardt<br />
(352) 473-5100<br />
The Compassionate Friends<br />
7:00 pm – 9:00 pm<br />
2nd Monday of every month<br />
Trinity Baptist Church<br />
3716 SE State Road 21, KH<br />
Meets in The Potter’s House<br />
For parents who have lost children<br />
Contact Alice Watts (352) 473-7261<br />
www.freewebs.com/tclakearea<br />
Time to be free…<br />
Time to be healthy & whole…<br />
Time to get out of your rut…<br />
Time to step into your purpose…<br />
It's time to be VICTORIOUS!<br />
…Overwhelming victory is ours through<br />
Christ, who loves us. Romans 8:37<br />
Champion’s Heart Resource Center<br />
160 Nightingale St. • KH • Mon. - Thurs. 9am-1pm<br />
(352) 478-8076 • championsheart.net<br />
Lake Area Caregiver Support<br />
6:00 pm – 7:00 pm<br />
Second Tuesday Night of Each Month<br />
Senior Healthcare Center at Melrose<br />
5818 Centre Street, Melrose<br />
Free & Confidential<br />
All caregivers welcomed<br />
Call Deborah (352) 475-3792<br />
WWII War Brides Association<br />
Noon – 2:30 pm<br />
Third Saturday of Each Month<br />
Cedar River Restaurant<br />
Middleburg, FL<br />
Group of foreign-born brides/grooms from all parts of<br />
the world ranging from 80-98 years of age.<br />
Bride’s/groom’s children and grandchildren invited.<br />
Contact Joan at 352-473-5450<br />
Farmer’s Market<br />
Every Saturday • 9 am – 1 pm<br />
In park directly across from KH City Hall<br />
BEAUTIFUL!<br />
Come view our beautiful “Tuscany<br />
Themed” Chapel. It is perfect for small<br />
weddings. The chapel is connected to our<br />
newly renovated Education Center that can<br />
up to hold up to 140 people. The education<br />
center also makes a wonderful setting for<br />
business conferences and personal events.<br />
We are equipped with projection screens,<br />
seminar tables, kitchen and other necessary<br />
equipment to make your event a success.<br />
We also have a small seminar room available<br />
for events under 25 people.<br />
Call us for availability and pricing at<br />
352-478-2098 or email renee@kojministries.org<br />
www.championsheart.net<br />
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A Note From Kristi… THE RIPPLE EFFECT OF VICTORIOUS LIVING<br />
While praying over this publication, I felt the Lord directing me to expand<br />
the outreach of Victorious Living from a local resource guide to a national<br />
publication. Why? So that the stories contained in this magazine, your stories,<br />
can touch lives beyond our local borders.<br />
Your story of victory has amazing power! Now, with the expansion of our<br />
reader base, your life story will be able to impart hope into the lives of people<br />
in the Lake Area Region and beyond.<br />
Your story needs to be shared! People need to know that there are others<br />
who have lived through similar situations and emerged on the other side<br />
of their trial victoriously. For many, your story will be a matter of life or<br />
death — the difference between victory or defeat. As we unite our faith<br />
through the expression of our stories in this powerful publication, I believe God<br />
will cause His story of victory in our lives to have a powerful impact in the lives<br />
of people world-wide. ~Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
P.S. We invite all our readers to share their life stories.<br />
Perhaps you are thinking, “I can’t write!” It doesn’t<br />
matter! We aren’t looking for professional writers,<br />
we are simply looking for real stories, from real<br />
people like YOU, so that we can bring real hope<br />
to the hurting. See our editorial page or visit<br />
championsheart.net for more information on how<br />
to submit your stories and to view <strong>VL</strong> online.<br />
For more information about<br />
the ministries of In His Wakes<br />
or Champion’s Heart,<br />
visit inhiswakes.com and<br />
championsheart.net.<br />
Both ministries specialize<br />
in encouraging and equipping<br />
people to live victorious lives.<br />
Volunteers and financial support<br />
are always appreciated and<br />
needed. Both ministries are a<br />
501c3, non-profit organization.<br />
Donations are tax-deductible.<br />
In addition to the above<br />
ministries, Kristi Overton Johnson<br />
is also dedicated to encouraging<br />
people of all walks of life to step<br />
out onto the waters of life with<br />
God through her writing, singing<br />
and speaking ministry. To have<br />
her speak at your church, youth<br />
or business event, contact her<br />
assistant, Reneé Harp at<br />
352-478-2098, or email<br />
renee@championsheart.net.<br />
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Assisted Living in the Willey Manor<br />
The Manor can house 40<br />
residents in bright and<br />
cheerful accommodations<br />
with 24/7 assistance from<br />
nurses and care givers for<br />
activities of daily living with<br />
a personal touch.<br />
The beautifully appointed<br />
Weir Dining Room and<br />
common lounge provide a<br />
family atmosphere that encourages<br />
interaction and companionship.<br />
Each resident is encouraged to<br />
personalize their accommodations<br />
with their own favorite furniture.<br />
Special menu arrangements are<br />
made for dietary considerations.<br />
As Ambassadors of Christ and to the Glory of God,<br />
we will strive to maintain our properties to the highest<br />
standards. We will provide factual reporting to<br />
residents, tenants, contractors, employees, regulatory<br />
bodies; and we will respect the privacy of resident’s<br />
personal information. Recognizing that technologies<br />
are constantly changing, we will create an atmosphere<br />
in which we will upgrade and refurbish appropriate<br />
components to maintain the highest possible<br />
standards in all aspects of our service.<br />
Special Features:<br />
• Staff assistance available around the clock<br />
• Emergency call system in all rooms<br />
• Medication Assistance/ In-house Pharmacy<br />
• Daily Housekeeping and Laundry<br />
• Therapy Program<br />
• Individually-controlled HVAC units<br />
• Outdoor Garden Activities<br />
• Weekly Community Activities<br />
• On-campus transportation system<br />
• Extended Congregate Care (ECC)-when needed<br />
• Hospice Care seeks to enable patients to continue<br />
an alert, pain-free life, to manage symptoms so<br />
that their last days may be spent with dignity and<br />
quality surrounded by their loved ones<br />
Our highest purpose is serving our residents.<br />
Christian Assisted Living • Adult Day Care • Respite Services<br />
352.473.6100 • www.parkofthepalms.org<br />
ALF/ECC FL License #5265