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The Spark | Ignite / Connect / Achieve<br />

www.thesparkng.com<br />

“Only when you comb<strong>in</strong>e sound<br />

<strong>in</strong>tellect with emotional discipl<strong>in</strong>e do<br />

you get rational behavior”<br />

– Warren Buffett<br />

VITAL SIGNS<br />

HAVE YOU MEASURED<br />

YOUR EQ?<br />

Lanre Olusola<br />

EMOTIONS express themselves<br />

with<strong>in</strong> a spectrum.<br />

Do you know that a person’s<br />

emotions can affect his or her<br />

productivity level? Research suggests<br />

that Emotional & Spiritual<br />

Intelligence together, are responsible for<br />

as much as 85% of the success <strong>in</strong> our lives.<br />

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE is a phrase<br />

made up of two words put together to<br />

describe a narrative: The Intelligence humans<br />

display based on our understand<strong>in</strong>g<br />

or lack of understand<strong>in</strong>g of our Emotions.<br />

To really capture the real mean<strong>in</strong>g of<br />

Emotional Intelligence, we first need to<br />

understand each word separately, then<br />

together. An emotion is a subjective,<br />

conscious experience characterised by<br />

psycho-physiological expressions, biological<br />

reactions and mental states.<br />

Our emotions are often characterised by<br />

our feel<strong>in</strong>gs which to a large extent reveal<br />

our thoughts, values and beliefs. Our emotions<br />

are responsible for our motivations,<br />

whether negative or positive.<br />

What is Intelligence?<br />

Intelligence is the ability to acquire and<br />

apply knowledge and skills. It is the ability<br />

to deal with new or try<strong>in</strong>g situations: It<br />

is the skilled use of reason. Intelligence is<br />

the collection and timely use of <strong>in</strong>formation<br />

of military, political or other values.<br />

So what is Emotional Intelligence? Accord<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to - Freedman et al, “Emotional<br />

Intelligence is a way of recognis<strong>in</strong>g, understand<strong>in</strong>g,<br />

and choos<strong>in</strong>g how we th<strong>in</strong>k,<br />

feel, and act. It shapes our <strong>in</strong>teractions<br />

with others and our understand<strong>in</strong>g of ourselves.<br />

It def<strong>in</strong>es how and what we learn;<br />

it allows us to set priorities; It determ<strong>in</strong>es<br />

the majority of our daily actions”.<br />

Emotional Intelligence is an essential<br />

part of a whole person. It is the ability to<br />

identify and manage your feel<strong>in</strong>gs and<br />

the emotional state of others. Emotions<br />

drive people, people drive performance. A<br />

person go<strong>in</strong>g through depression or stress<br />

will produce little or no output; this is why<br />

emotional <strong>in</strong>telligence is a necessity <strong>in</strong><br />

every work environment.<br />

For an <strong>in</strong>dividual to be able to produce<br />

great results, his or her emotions have a<br />

major role to play, <strong>in</strong> how they perform<br />

and get results. In fact, our conscious self<br />

does not participate, or even witness what<br />

<strong>in</strong> our m<strong>in</strong>d triggers an emotion at a particular<br />

moment. Most people are ignorant<br />

of the energy that flows from them. We do<br />

not have much control over what we become<br />

emotional about, but it is possible,<br />

though not easy, to make some changes<br />

<strong>in</strong> what triggers our feel<strong>in</strong>gs and how we<br />

behave when we are emotional.<br />

The first step is to IDENTIFY the hot sensitive<br />

triggers that lead us to act <strong>in</strong> ways<br />

that we subsequently regret. By learn<strong>in</strong>g<br />

the triggers for each emotion, we may<br />

be able to lessen their impact, or at least<br />

learn why some emotional triggers are so<br />

powerful.<br />

Question: Can I <strong>in</strong>dependently measure<br />

my EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE (EQ)?<br />

Answer: YES you can if you have the right<br />

tools, and the right understand<strong>in</strong>g and<br />

<strong>in</strong>terpretation of the results. At the Olusola<br />

Lanre Coach<strong>in</strong>g Academy, we have several<br />

EQ component measurement tools and<br />

tests such as:<br />

• The Emotional Intelligence Quotient<br />

Test<br />

• The SPEAR Test<br />

• The Social Competence Test<br />

• The Self Motivation and Inspiration<br />

Quotient Test<br />

• The Self-Regulation and Responsibility<br />

Quotient Test<br />

• The D.A. M.E Test for the Assessment<br />

of your Self Discovery; Awareness;<br />

Mastery; Expression Quotients<br />

You can take these tests from wherever you are at the Catalyst<br />

Tests platform, here your emotional state, determ<strong>in</strong>es the<br />

quality of your life. www.catalysttests.com.<br />

10<br />

fli @thesparkng

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