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Have Faith - October Edition

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Day 26<br />

There is a time for winning and a time for losing...<br />

Winners were once losers...<br />

It is true that failure and losing are essential<br />

parts of success and winning. I look with awe<br />

at our tennis ace, Andy Murray. It is not so<br />

long ago that we saw his disappointment at<br />

losing in the final of Wimbledon. Disappointment,<br />

frustration, exhaustion, I really felt for<br />

him. It seemed for years he could not quite<br />

get to the heights he wanted, no matter how<br />

he tried it just wasn't happening. Then all of<br />

a sudden, a year later, it all started to fall into<br />

place. Everything paid off and he lifted the<br />

first of two Wimbledon titles. Success was<br />

just beginning. He is now the World's No:1<br />

and he has just about won everything going.<br />

But to get there he had to lose and fail over<br />

and over again, each time making himself a<br />

little more experienced and a little stronger.<br />

The essence of his success was the willingness<br />

to keep trying and that old virtue, patience.<br />

Contrary to popular belief, losing and<br />

failure are nothing more than processes to<br />

success and normally happen when you are<br />

not ready to win or succeed yet. The important<br />

thing here is to keep trying. This has<br />

been such a hard, personal battle for me.<br />

The amount of times I have almost given up<br />

over my own illness is unreal but every time I<br />

think that way, there is a very small part of me<br />

that pushes me on to keep trying and to keep<br />

1 Corinthians 9:24-27<br />

living. I know in my heart that the little bit of<br />

me is starting to get bigger and bigger because<br />

I asked for God's help. I didn't get help<br />

straight away, I had to fail a few times more<br />

before I saw the road I needed to walk down<br />

to win. I haven't won yet but I feel my first title<br />

is just around the corner. Going back to<br />

Psalms, I found this: Psalm 37:23-24 “The<br />

Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights<br />

in him; though he may stumble, he will<br />

not fall, for the Lord upholds him with his<br />

hand.” Again, a great bible verse that inspires<br />

us to go on. Lyricist and Novelist Paulo<br />

Coelho once wrote “Defeat is for the valiant.<br />

Only they will know the honour of losing and<br />

the joy of winning. I am not here to tell you<br />

that defeat is a part of life: we all know that.<br />

Only the defeated know Love. Because it is<br />

in the realm of love that we fight our first battles<br />

– and generally lose. I am here to tell you<br />

that there are people who have never been<br />

defeated. They are the ones who never<br />

fought. They managed to avoid scars, humiliations,<br />

feelings of helplessness, as well as<br />

those moments when even warriors doubt the<br />

existence of God.’’ No matter how many<br />

times you have failed or lost, you are not a<br />

loser or failure. You just haven't won or succeeded<br />

yet.<br />

<strong>Have</strong> <strong>Faith</strong> 23 |

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