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LOVING<br />
Love is not what we become but who we already are.<br />
— Stephen Levine<br />
Pay special attention to what happens to the energy<br />
of the space that exists between you and a person or<br />
anything that you love as you are experiencing that<br />
love. Does it not come alive and connect you with<br />
what or who is loved?<br />
Perhaps this insight sounds completely nonsensical,<br />
but it is one of life’s most important discoveries and<br />
illuminates what Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh refers<br />
to as “The Miracle of Mindfulness.” All of Buddhist<br />
teaching is aimed at getting us to notice and pay<br />
attention to that which we typically overlook but which<br />
when closely observed and deeply experienced,begins<br />
to reveal the most important secrets of Life, and there<br />
is no more vital hidden truth in our culture than that<br />
the space between objects is living energy. So too are<br />
the objects – even those we conventionally think of as<br />
inert - and this energy resonates with the quality of the<br />
consciousness of the person experiencing the space<br />
and the objects within it. We are energetic beings in an<br />
energetic universe with consciousness energy pervading<br />
this unity.<br />
So what is love? We might describe it as to hold<br />
dear, to feel passion, desire, affection, to take pleasure<br />
in something or someone. We know it is a very strong<br />
emotion that arises when we are very attracted to and<br />
strongly like or identify with something or someone,<br />
but does any of this really explain what is happening<br />
and why it is happening? We need to know what is<br />
happening and why because we tend to have a rather<br />
passive sense of love – it happens or not - if it’s there<br />
it’s there, if it’s not, it’s not. We don’t have much of a<br />
sense of whether we have any active role in creating<br />
love, cultivating it and sustaining it and this is unfortunate,<br />
for the cultivation of love is quite possible and<br />
very necessary for love to bloom optimally. It is very<br />
important to know that we can have a very active and<br />
creative relationship with love, and that this knowledge<br />
contributes greatly to living an awakened life.<br />
So – what is love? Simply stated, it is connection. Is<br />
it not? For what is experienced when love is present if<br />
it is not connection? But then, what is this connection?<br />
As with every aspect of the human realm, there are<br />
two fundamental dimensions, and here I am addressing<br />
the egoic realm and the very poorly understood<br />
spiritual, or realm-of-Being dimension, that which we<br />
struggle to find words to describe, for our culture lacks<br />
any agreed-upon vocabulary for this most precious of<br />
experiences. As we are a strongly materialistic culture,<br />
if an experience is not anchored in the material we tend<br />
to overlook it, and for this conversation concerning<br />
love, we will be entering what we might call the purely<br />
subjective heart-realm, and there is nothing material<br />
about it.<br />
At the level of ego, that experience of our own separate<br />
and insecure identity in the world seeking to be<br />
buttressed and comforted, love is of course connection,<br />
but the quality of the connection is limited. It is the<br />
experience of the ego connecting and identifying with<br />
a person, object or experience and seeking its own<br />
validation and significance through this experience. It<br />
is the “I love it!” in response to a personal validation,<br />
victory, enhancement or stimulation, even if the “it” is<br />
another person. The experience maintains a strongly<br />
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dualistic quality even as a unifying connection occurs. I<br />
am here - experiencing and loving that which is there.<br />
If we pay very close attention, however, we might<br />
realize that there occurs an extension of our senseof-self<br />
boundary to include the object of the love, and<br />
for this to happen, the space of consciousness energy<br />
that is our essence must amplify and now include the<br />
object of the love. Almost amoeba-like an extension<br />
of the boundary of ourself extends and includes that<br />
which was not previously included. To love means<br />
to have the sense of self expand to include what is<br />
loved - and this is non-dualistic; two becomes one in<br />
intense connection. The space between becomes alive<br />
with consciousness and connecting energy where it<br />
was previously experienced as a separation. What is<br />
extended is the essential core of ourself and here we<br />
make a discovery: this essential core is love.<br />
As consciousness energy extends and encompasses<br />
the object of love, the experience begins to shift from<br />
the egoic into the heart-realm, and now there is a very<br />
important choice to be made. We can either retain<br />
much of our sense of identity in our separateness,<br />
continually assessing whether the enhancement of<br />
self-experience is sufficient to maintain the connection<br />
or we can release into real union – our Self-that-is-love<br />
encompassing that which is the focus of our attention.<br />
If we remain primarily the separate ego-self, attention<br />
will drift, searching for some new experience. We likely<br />
will find some deficiency in the object/situation/person,<br />
and the consciousness energy will diminish or withdraw<br />
completely. We will return to our sense of separate and<br />
restless sense of self, and the thing, situation, or person<br />
that was loved becomes separate and just ordinary<br />
again, as do we. Or – and here we have the opportunity<br />
to fully manifest ourselves as loving beings - we<br />
can, recognizing that our greatest fulfillment occurs in<br />
the state of connected oneness, deliberately energize<br />
the connection and sustain and amplify the loving<br />
heart-realm that is our truest self in enfoldment. This<br />
is conscious loving. We commit to the decision and<br />
intent to BE love. Here, we surrender our separateness<br />
and commit to union.<br />
To live the mystical life, the awakened life, is to know<br />
and practice this truth of the power of love as consciousness<br />
energy to connect with all the elements of<br />
Life all around us always. It is to love all that passes<br />
through our field of consciousness – the bird in the<br />
tree and the tree, the clouds passing overhead and the<br />
warmth of the sun, even the previously insignificant or<br />
repulsive; it is to recognize and love as self everything.<br />
This is, of course, particularly powerful and important<br />
with people, and of most importance with those with<br />
whom we are in loving relationships. The wisdom<br />
traditions teach us that ego separates and conscious<br />
heart-felt presence connects, and this does not have to<br />
be random and accidental. It can be the centerpiece<br />
of one’s spiritual practice, which is simultaneously a<br />
commitment to sane and healthy living, including our<br />
most significant relationships. We can live as loving<br />
presence.<br />
For this to occur, we must awaken to the realization<br />
of self-as-consciousness-as-love. We have to take<br />
the concept of consciousness as energy that connects<br />
us to heart-realm out of the theoretical and into living<br />
reality and this is the real purpose of our mindfulness<br />
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practice. To do this, it is most helpful to repeatedly,<br />
choicefully, anchor into the present moment through<br />
our senses - seeing, hearing, touching the object, circumstance,<br />
or person with the intention to love without<br />
distraction. We must be really present, as the heartrealm<br />
can only be accessed from within the present<br />
moment, realizing the present moment is the only actual<br />
reality. Only then can silent, intuitive consciousness<br />
fully energize and our nature-as-consciousness-that-islove<br />
come fully alive. Presence, full presence without<br />
mental commenting or distraction, with full focus of<br />
consciousness-energy on the loved one, is essential.<br />
Then we can deliberately further energize the space<br />
of consciousness with our loving essence to envelope<br />
what or who we have focused our loving intention upon<br />
to create what consciousness teacher Stephen Levine<br />
called The Beloved, a union of what was two that<br />
becomes one.<br />
Loving human relationships are complicated. Often<br />
they are filled with as much wound and disappointment<br />
as with shared beauty and this can be an obstacle to<br />
opening and sustaining the connection of the heartrealm<br />
in living consciousness energy. Ego wants to<br />
hold on to and feed these resentments. This is why all<br />
spiritual traditions have emphasized forgiveness and<br />
gratitude, and why making a practice of releasing any<br />
resentment or negative feeling towards our loved ones<br />
and replacing it with reasons for gratitude when the<br />
relationship is challenging is essential. This shift from<br />
mental focus on the ego’s accounting system where resentment<br />
is stored (for the ego is always keeping track<br />
of whether it is getting what it wants) into the heartspace<br />
where gratitude is realized will open us and allow<br />
our consciousness energy-field to enfold and embrace,<br />
to shift us from two to one, from “me” to Beloved.<br />
The Beloved is within you and right in front of you<br />
and all around you awaiting your choice to open and<br />
embrace with living consciousness energy, to discover<br />
the Beloved IS you. The paradox is that while it is<br />
the ego that is tracking whether it is happy or not, the<br />
ego has no idea how to generate happiness. It is the<br />
heart-realm that is the true source of happiness, both<br />
the giving and receiving of happiness, and for it to be<br />
actualized, the separation caused by the ego must<br />
be bridged and self-as-love uniting with Life realized.<br />
When we open our heart-realm, understanding that this<br />
is really consciousness-energy, love - that which is our<br />
original and true nature - embraces us as it embraces<br />
others. The Beloved comes alive as truly do our relationships<br />
and the entirety of our life.<br />
Bill Walz has taught meditation and<br />
mindfulness in university and public forums<br />
and is a private-practice meditation teacher<br />
and guide for individuals in mindfulness,<br />
personal growth and consciousness.<br />
Information on classes, talks, personal<br />
growth and healing instruction, or phone consultations at<br />
(828)258-3241, e-mail at healing@billwalz.com Learn<br />
more, see past columns, video and audio programs at www.<br />
billwalz.com<br />
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