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Kingstown College Coaching Magazine vol.5 2019/2020

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how applicable the vertical journey

towards the greater Self could be within

a coaching context, as opposed to a

mentoring or teaching relationship.

Also, I kept recognising both my therapy

and coaching clients presenting with a

need to explore their inner dimension.

For example: L, a 45-year-old, senior

executive for a well-known Irish

company opened with, “After 20 years

working for this company, I feel spent,

emotionally empty. The company in

its quest for profit and following major

corporate reorganisation, has turned us

into mere cogs in a machine. Something

inside me is waking up and knows there

has to be more to life. I want to go to

work feeling inspired; to feel part of a

force for good. I want to come home

and smile at my wife and children

and feel my day has made a valuable

contribution. And most of all, I want to

discover the inherent joy of my being

which I have read about in several

books, but I have no idea how to reach

it”

L is not alone with such feelings, though

for the most, such feelings within the

work environment are not expressed

and instead are held in check, adding to

the stress load and often an inner sense

of fading away.

It was interesting to me, when I read

Sir John Whitmore’s seminal book,

“Coaching for Performance” how

towards the end, he emphasises the

need for evolved leadership and

introduces “transpersonal coaching”

mainly on the basis of “Assagioli’s”

model of psychosynthesis (Assagioli

was a psychiatrist and early pioneer

of humanistic and transpersonal

psychology who developed an approach

which was years ahead of its time).

A few quotes from Whitmore’s book

highlight the need for a transformational

approach to coaching within leadership:

“So we need leaders who are values

driven – that means collective values,

not selfish values ……. “

“So leaders for the future need to have

values and vision and to be authentic

and agile, aligned and on purpose. Add

awareness and responsibility to the

mix, self-belief and a good measure of

emotional intelligence and we have a

powerful recipe.”

“A psychosynthesis trained coach will

invite the coachee to reframe life as

a developmental journey, to see the

creative potential within each problem,

to see obstacles as stepping stones, and

to imagine that we all have a purpose

in life with challenges and obstacles to

overcome in order to fulfil that purpose.”

“transpersonal coaching opens the door

to the superconscious”

“coaches are midwives at the birth

of a new social order, one in which

compassion for all people and caring

for all of nature and our only home form

the core theme.”

When you contemplate Whitmore’s

words it is apparent that the

transpersonal is a natural progression

for coaching and “spiritual” within

this context is about a natural inner

evolution as opposed to adopting

some kind of externally imposed belief

system or religious dogma.

When I asked “L”, the executive

mentioned above, what kind of a leader

he wanted to be and what would make

his work purposeful, he said, “ I want

to show up for work as myself and be

authentic. I want to bring my humanity

to work. I want to make my employees

feel valued and I want to be able to act

not only from my head, but also from my

heart and my spirit. And I want to feel

alive and joyful and help my company

be truly relevant”.

When you hear this, it is obvious that

the executive needed transformational

coaching (I use the word transformational

as opposed to trans-personal because

I feel it embraces more of the journey

from self centered and goal orientated

to being humanity and globally centred,

based on Being, Heartfullness and

Wisdom and the discovery of the Transpersonal

Self. )

Personally, I felt the need to look at

models other that Assagioli’s, not

least because he prescribes lengthy

psycho-analysis as the starting point

and because through my own journey,

I discovered many valuable approaches

and tools which are as good if not more

effective.

One such approach is that of Leon

VanderPol, founder of the Centre for

Transformational Coaching, author of “

A Shift in Being: The Art and Practices

of Deep Transformational Coaching and

probably the world’s leading authority

on transformational coaching.

VanderPol sees coaching approaches as a

polarity between transactional coaching

(goal orientated) and transformational

coaching (aimed at awakening a person

to their true spiritual essence) with

everything in between being what he

calls developmental coaching.

VanderPol begins his book with: (Chapter

1: The Deep Coaching Potential)

“Evocation: Around the world,

across cultures and religions, people

are awakening to the potentials

and realities of higher consciousness.

More and more people are

sensing and desiring a connection

with their deeper essence, and feel

compelled by an inexplicable life

force to understand the greater

nature and meaning of existence.

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