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Featured Stories<br />

10 | A SWEET LEGACY<br />

H & R Bakery<br />

16 | FOOD TRAIL<br />

Southern Indiana Coffee Trail Beckons<br />

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21 | EMPOWERING A COMMUNITY<br />

502 Power Yoga in Jeffersonville<br />

26 | GRACEFUL & INSPIRED<br />

Glass artist Paige Kissinger’s creations honor father<br />

32 | PRESERVING HISTORY<br />

Proctor House, Marengo, Indiana<br />

42 | SINGING HOOSIERS<br />

Acclaimed group performs in Southern Indiana<br />

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In Every Issue<br />

7 | FLASHBACK PHOTO<br />

Snow Day, 1968<br />

8 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />

Go West, Old Man. At Least Go Somewhere.<br />

36 | COMMUNITY PAGES<br />

Choices Life Resource Center, Jasper Flower & Gifts,<br />

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38 | #SHOPLOCAL<br />

Local Business Spotlight<br />

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42 | GRAND IN GRANDPARENTING<br />

That First Smile<br />

46 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />

For the Love of Dogs<br />

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According to library records, this snapshot was taken in <strong>Jan</strong>uary of 1968 by Ed<br />

Moss. The view shows a snow-covered Spring Street in New Albany, Indiana,<br />

looking east. Part of the Elsby building is seen on the left, and Singer’s is just<br />

beyond it on the NE corner. The St. Marks United Church of Christ tower is in the<br />

center of the picture. Holiday decorations are still up. According to a handwritten<br />

note on the back of the photo, 16 inches of snow covered the streets.<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 7


A Note to Baby Boomers<br />

Go West, Old Man. At Least Go Somewhere.<br />

Iknow Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et.<br />

I do not know if they attend<br />

church or dye their hair or watch<br />

“Dancing with the Stars.” I do not<br />

know if they pay their parking tickets<br />

or have sworn off red meat. To be<br />

honest, maybe they are not Tammy<br />

and <strong>Jan</strong>et at all.<br />

They could be Phyllis and Bertha,<br />

in witness protection.<br />

Still, I know them. I know them<br />

because we met in Seattle and reunited<br />

in Baltimore. I know mostly that<br />

they, like me, love the San Francisco<br />

Giants and that they, like me, go to<br />

crazy lengths to watch Giants games.<br />

That is enough for now.<br />

I look forward to knowing more,<br />

though, if or when we get together in<br />

Cleveland or San Diego or Toronto or<br />

Miami or wherever else the Giants<br />

show up. Our beloved, beleaguered<br />

team is our common denominator.<br />

But there is also another.<br />

They, like me, have suitcases and<br />

know how to use them.<br />

It is work to not work. I fumble<br />

through retirement. I win some and<br />

lose some in my stare-down of senior<br />

citizenship. Am I saving enough? Am<br />

I eating right? Should I see doctors<br />

more? Do all old guys spend half the<br />

night in the bathroom?<br />

Why, all of a sudden, am I ready<br />

for lunch by 11?<br />

Then there is travel. Some old<br />

people know flight attendants as well<br />

as I know my cousins. They head<br />

off to Africa and to Alaska – and all<br />

points in between – like I head off to<br />

Aldi.<br />

One friend, a decade my senior,<br />

actually visited Timbuktu. He<br />

showed me pictures. I guess there really<br />

is a Timbuktu.<br />

These wrinkly vagabonds are on<br />

cruise ships and airplanes and tour<br />

buses. They bike, they hike. Meanwhile,<br />

I check Facebook for updates<br />

of their adventures. I more often look<br />

forward to doing nothing rather than<br />

doing anything. Sure, I occasionally<br />

convince myself to blow the budget<br />

on ballgame tickets and beach sunburns.<br />

Then I occasionally opt instead<br />

to play it safe, to be ready for new<br />

hips and the nursing home. I envy<br />

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these whirlwinds. Yet somehow I do<br />

not join them.<br />

I think longingly of far-out ZIP<br />

codes. Then I think of staying close to<br />

kids and grandkids and pets, in some<br />

order. Predictability is here, after all.<br />

Predictability and I get along<br />

great.<br />

The thing is, unpredictability is<br />

where the fun is, where the sights are,<br />

where the other Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et<br />

types are. Millions of strangers, ready<br />

not to be strangers, are out there.<br />

And too few of them are here.<br />

A trip to Jeffersonville is not on their<br />

bucket list, believe it or not.<br />

I shared a recent afternoon trading<br />

lies and chugging beers with an<br />

ox-sized, tattoo-plastered, missingfingered<br />

butcher. I had to go to Florida<br />

to do it.<br />

Here is home and family. But<br />

most incredible museums are not<br />

here. Most top-shelf history is not<br />

here. Most of the greatest hits of nature<br />

are not here.<br />

Plus, of course, the Giants are<br />

not here.<br />

So why am I here almost all<br />

the time? Why, as I write this, do my<br />

wife and I have absolutely no trips<br />

firmed up? We debate the options like<br />

we debate flavors of potato chips. We<br />

list the maybes and then, a week later,<br />

list them again. We rule in, then out,<br />

the usual places as well as the unusual<br />

ones.<br />

We have made reservations but<br />

sent in no deposits. So no new memories<br />

are around the corner.<br />

Good reasons to go lose out to<br />

bad reasons to stay. We somehow say<br />

no to cruises and no to Vegas. Canada?<br />

Mexico? Europe? If only they<br />

sold passports at Sam’s Club.<br />

We say yes to too little, that’s<br />

clear. These strangers and their stories<br />

are out there. They must be fetched<br />

like yogurt and orange juice. To go, to<br />

stay, it goes back to the guts to live in<br />

the moment, to do what’s best with<br />

one’s best-left years.<br />

Why worry so much today about<br />

tomorrow? Why not join those who<br />

never will see enough, do enough,<br />

take enough pictures or go through<br />

enough airport pat-downs?<br />

Are these wanderlust people to<br />

be envied or committed? Are vacations<br />

worth the expense or the time?<br />

How many stolen little hotel shampoo<br />

bottles are too many?<br />

The value of getaways is in the<br />

These wrinkly vagabonds are on cruise<br />

ships and airplanes and tour buses.<br />

They bike, they hike. Meanwhile, I check<br />

Facebook for updates of their adventures.<br />

anticipation, of course. It’s a treat to<br />

look forward. Here I am, nonetheless,<br />

with absolutely no pressing reason to<br />

hit up AAA for maps and tour books.<br />

Here I am, another winter without<br />

joining the snowbirds in Florida. Another<br />

Christmas will come and go<br />

without me checking out the New<br />

York lights.<br />

Not everyone is worth meeting,<br />

I assume. But why just assume? Why<br />

don’t I go find out, make my own<br />

Facebook news? Instead, while others<br />

wander, I leave people to wonder.<br />

Is that Moss guy on house arrest or<br />

something? Why is he not in Timbuktu<br />

or at least in Tuscaloosa?<br />

Why should Tammy and <strong>Jan</strong>et<br />

have all the fun? •<br />

After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />

retired as Indiana columnist for<br />

The Courier-Journal. He now<br />

writes weekly for the News and<br />

Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />

live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />

that has been in his family<br />

since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />

mail is dale.moss@twc.com


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Cover Story<br />

A Sweet Legacy<br />

A favorite Southern Indiana bakery moves to Salem Square<br />

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Story by Darian Eswine<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman


When Duane and Juanita<br />

Daugherty bought H&R<br />

Bakery in 2000, they acquired<br />

a Salem landmark.<br />

Now, they’re adding their own bit of history<br />

by moving the bakery to town square.<br />

Duane said he always wanted to<br />

run his own business — his mother and<br />

grandmother were bakers for a living for<br />

a combined total of about 60 years. Funnily<br />

enough, baking was not Duane’s specialty.<br />

“Peanut butter and jelly, I can do.”<br />

Juanita was the one who threw the<br />

idea out as they often stopped by the<br />

bakery before going to work. She asked<br />

Duane if he’d ever be interested in it if it<br />

ever went up for sale. Not more than a<br />

year later, the question became relevant.<br />

“We were looking for a business and<br />

wanted to work for ourselves and have<br />

that challenge,” Juanita said.<br />

Duane said the bakery didn’t start<br />

out with much in terms of equipment, and<br />

the building wasn’t in the best shape.<br />

“Really what we bought was the<br />

name and the recipes, to be perfectly honest<br />

about it,” Duane said. “There were<br />

nights that we would sleep in front of the<br />

oven; we wouldn’t make it home.”<br />

Duane and Juanita have been married<br />

for 24 years.<br />

“It was a blind date and I tried to<br />

back out. My boss had set it up and he<br />

said, ‘I’ll kill you if you back out,’ so I said,<br />

‘OK, I’ll go,’ ” Duane said.<br />

“We went to Burger King,” Juanita<br />

said.<br />

Their dynamic makes them great<br />

business partners.<br />

“You’ll find he’s our talker. I sit quietly<br />

back and do all the work,” Juanita<br />

said, laughing.<br />

“Juanita is the brains of the operation,”<br />

Duane said. “Without her, it would<br />

not fly. We’re really a team; even though<br />

I have the bigger mouth, we’re a team.<br />

We’re hard on each other when someone<br />

has an idea and we’ll bat it back and forth<br />

until the tennis ball is about beat to death.”<br />

“ ’Til it concedes that I’m right,”<br />

Juanita interjected.<br />

“That’s usually what happens, that’s<br />

true,” Duane said, laughing. “We’re brutally<br />

honest with each other and we have<br />

to be before we put something out there.”<br />

They’ve been especially thoughtful<br />

with every decision they’ve made related<br />

to the bakery’s move to the square. One of<br />

the things they love about the new space<br />

is that it’s just around the corner from<br />

their current location.<br />

One thing they didn’t anticipate was<br />

the challenge of self-employment, including<br />

paying for insurance and finding good<br />

employees.<br />

“We’re very fortunate we’ve got a<br />

When Duane and Juanita Daugherty<br />

bought H&R Bakery in 2000, they<br />

acquired a Salem landmark. Now,<br />

they’re adding their own bit of history<br />

by moving the bakery to town square.<br />

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They had 15 full-time<br />

employees at their<br />

Walnut Street location,<br />

and when fully staffed,<br />

they plan to double<br />

that number at their<br />

new location. Their<br />

new location was a<br />

department store and<br />

then a fabric shop for<br />

several years.<br />

Pictured: (this page, from top) a wide selection of baked goods is available daily; Neill Phelps, training<br />

staff on coffee beans and knowledge.<br />

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good crew now,” Duane said. He added<br />

that it’s hard to keep staff with the quick<br />

turnaround of today’s society. “Knock on<br />

wood, I’ve got some really good people<br />

and we couldn’t do it without them.”<br />

Juanita said they had 15 full-time<br />

employees at their Walnut Street location,<br />

and when fully staffed, they plan to<br />

double that number at their new location.<br />

Their new location was a department store<br />

and then a fabric shop for several years.<br />

“When they vacated it, we knew this<br />

property had been built very structurally<br />

sound,” Duane said. “That’s perfect for us<br />

because the machinery we’re bringing in<br />

weighs up to 1,200 pounds apiece.”<br />

The Daughertys also happen to have<br />

a love and appreciation for older buildings.<br />

“The biggest thing is we did a lot<br />

of the work ourselves,” Duane said. “We<br />

gutted the building, we had 17 dump<br />

truck loads of the stuff that went out of<br />

here and we did all the framing, hung all<br />

the drywall and then we started bringing<br />

in contractors to put the finishing touches<br />

on.”<br />

Doing a lot of it yourself may make<br />

the project last longer, but Duane said it<br />

adds to the satisfaction.<br />

“There’s limited space (at the Walnut<br />

Street location); here, we’ll be able to do<br />

everything simultaneously,” Juanita said.<br />

The unique stamp the Daughertys<br />

are putting on the bakery involves model<br />

trains — a lot of them — displayed on<br />

shelves covering an entire wall of the new<br />

space.<br />

“I grew up in New Albany and the<br />

trains of course come right through town,<br />

right down 15th Street, and that was my<br />

old neighborhood, so I would start watching<br />

trains as a young child and I just continued<br />

to have that interest,” Duane said.<br />

He had his first train set at birth because<br />

his dad saved one for him from his<br />

childhood. He said the hobby kept him focused<br />

throughout his life. Growing up in a<br />

poor family, it gave Duane the goal to one<br />

day be able to have the trains he didn’t<br />

have, and that inspired his work ethic.<br />

“I remember one of the first train<br />

cars I got, it was like $4.50 and I made a<br />

quarter a week in allowance, so you can<br />

calculate how many weeks it took to save<br />

up to buy this little car,” Duane said. “But<br />

I still have it and it’s one of the cars that<br />

means the most to me.”<br />

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Pictured: (this page, top) teacher Lisa Nice (back, right) with the Salem middle school Cubs news staff (clockwise from Lisa) Brooklyn Davisson, Macye Crane,<br />

Josh Burton, Jada Cooley, and Noah Risen. (this page, bottom) the new storefront on the Salem square.


The H&R Bakery has been in Salem<br />

since 1946 and has always been a big part<br />

of the town. Duane and Juanita look at it<br />

as not only a big commitment, but also as<br />

something they can weave into their own<br />

legacy as well.<br />

“We’re the owners, but really we’re<br />

the caretakers,” Duane said. “We’re all<br />

only on this Earth for a certain amount of<br />

time — we all move on, and you want to<br />

leave something behind that’s positive. •<br />

For more information, check out the webstie<br />

at hrbakery.food73.com<br />

“I grew up in New Albany and the trains of course come right through town, right down<br />

15th Street, and that was my old neighborhood, so I would start watching trains as a<br />

young child and I just continued to have that interest.”<br />

- Duane Daugherty, Co-Owner, H & R Bakery<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 15


Southern Indiana Food Trail<br />

Southern<br />

Indiana<br />

Coffee Trail<br />

Beckons<br />

If you love coffee and tasting unique coffee brews with amazing flavors — or if you just like yours straight — this is the perfect time to indulge.<br />

Blustery winter weather is upon us, and Southern Indiana offers several places to get in from the cold and enjoy tasty food and hot drinks in a cozy<br />

atmosphere. Enjoy other delectable delights as well as gourmet coffees and teas. You can find a new favorite at each stop. The following are some of<br />

the most popular in the area.<br />

KentJava Bar<br />

kentjavabar.com<br />

227 E. Chestnut St.<br />

Corydon<br />

812-736-0032<br />

Coffee Crossing<br />

coffeecrossing.com<br />

4212 Charlestown Road<br />

New Albany<br />

812-981-2633<br />

Story by Sara Combs<br />

Photo by Michelle Hockman<br />

Located in historic downtown Corydon, KentJava Bar is a local<br />

coffee shop serving gourmet coffee and espresso, teas, smoothies<br />

and pastries. The shop is known for quality espresso, roasted<br />

by Quills Coffee in Louisville, fresh scones and biscotti baked<br />

in-house, friendly service and a pleasant atmosphere. Regular<br />

events include a monthly open mic night, euchre tournaments<br />

and trivia. Free wi-fi is available. The hours are Monday through<br />

Thursday, 7 a.m. to 6 p.m.; Friday, 7 a.m. to 8 p.m.; Saturday, 8<br />

a.m. to 8 p.m.; and Sunday 8 a.m. to 2 p.m.<br />

Quills Coffee<br />

quillscoffee.com<br />

137 E. Market St.<br />

New Albany<br />

812-221-1778<br />

Quills is an attractive coffee spot and cafe in downtown New<br />

Albany featuring its own specialty brew. Breakfast is served and<br />

wheelchair seating is available. The hours are Monday through<br />

Friday, 6:30 a.m. to 5 p.m.; Saturday, 7 a.m. to 5 p.m.; and Sunday,<br />

8 a.m. to 5 p.m.<br />

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Coffee Crossing is about more than just coffee; it’s about a community<br />

of people who love their job and bring that to all who<br />

walk through the doors. Along with numerous gourmet coffee<br />

selections, Coffee Crossing offers a complete menu of tea and<br />

fruit smoothie alternatives. The hours at this location are Monday<br />

through Thursday, 6:30 a.m. to 10 p.m.; Friday, 6:30 a.m. to<br />

11 p.m.; Saturday, 7 a.m. to 11 p.m.; and Sunday, 8 a.m. to 10 p.m.<br />

For hours and information about other Coffee Crossing locations,<br />

call 888-465-6067.<br />

Kolkin Coffee<br />

www.kolkincoffee.net<br />

2736 Charlestown Road<br />

New Albany<br />

502-526-8576<br />

Kolkin is a great place for conversation and amazing drinks, such<br />

as Sunergos coffee, as well as smoothies, Italian sodas and more.<br />

Seasonal items are available. The hours are Monday through Friday,<br />

6:30 a.m. to 8 p.m.; Saturday, 7:30 a.m. to 6 p.m.; and Sunday,<br />

9 a.m. to 6 p.m.


Village House Coffee<br />

villagehousecoffee.com<br />

8251 State Road 64<br />

Georgetown<br />

812-501-5042<br />

Village House Coffee serves breakfast, is vegetarian-friendly and<br />

offers gluten-free options. Takeout is available, and so is wi-fi.<br />

Village House offers a wide selection of drinks in a friendly, homey,<br />

relaxed atmosphere. It is a good place to meet friends or come<br />

to study. The hours are Monday through Friday, 6 a.m. to 7 p.m.;<br />

Saturday, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m.; and closed Sunday.<br />

“The powers of a man’s<br />

mind are directly<br />

proportioned to the<br />

quantity of coffee he<br />

drinks.”<br />

- Sir James McIntosh<br />

Bean Street Cafe<br />

starlightcoffeecoandbeanstreetcafe.com<br />

3131 Grant Line Road<br />

New Albany<br />

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a.m. to 5 p.m.; Saturday, 7:30 a.m. to 1 p.m.; and closed Sunday.<br />

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Jeffersonville<br />

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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 17


Enjoy a 20-mile panoramic view of the Ohio.<br />

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Dining with a Romantic Ohio River View!<br />

The Overlook Restaurant sits on SR<br />

62 in Leavenworth, and is located<br />

only 3 miles from I-64, off Exit 92.<br />

It is uniquely positioned high above<br />

the Ohio River. The view only rivals<br />

the delicious food and friendly<br />

service.<br />

We feature weekend specials that<br />

can be viewed on Facebook and our<br />

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Call ahead seating, simply call<br />

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We welcome large parties and<br />

set up buffets for parties of 25 or<br />

more.<br />

With Valentines Day just around the<br />

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for you and that special someone for<br />

Friday, <strong>Feb</strong>. 14; or Saturday, <strong>Feb</strong>. 15<br />

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We open daily at 11:00 and close at<br />

7:00 Sunday-Thursday and 8:00 on<br />

Friday and Saturday. You can reach<br />

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Facebook, or check out our website<br />

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Call us to reserve your next Party,<br />

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Overlook Restaurant | 812-739-4264 | www.theoverlook.com<br />

18 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 19


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Cat Crawford, owner of 502 Power<br />

Yoga, has built a community<br />

of self-development and mental<br />

health in Kentuckiana.<br />

Crawford became interested in yoga<br />

when she lived in California around 2006.<br />

“I was a runner at the time and had<br />

heard yoga was a good thing to incorporate<br />

into our fitness routine,” she said. “A<br />

coworker invited me to go with her once.”<br />

Eventually, she moved back to Louisville<br />

and tried to search for classes similar<br />

to those she had attended in California.<br />

“I didn’t find anything, which led<br />

me to dive into yoga as a whole,” she said.<br />

Crawford immediately recognized<br />

the physical benefits and then grew to understand<br />

all of the other bonuses accompanying<br />

the practice of yoga.<br />

“I carry a lot of anxiety and stress,”<br />

she said. “The physicality of the practice<br />

works to relieve that tension.”<br />

In 2011, she received her teacher’s<br />

certification at Yoga East.<br />

Crawford, an art major focused on<br />

graphic design and illustration, worked<br />

in marketing at a small business and began<br />

to get an inside look at what it takes<br />

to keep a business going.<br />

“I felt like I had yoga know-how<br />

and I had business know-how,” Crawford<br />

said. “I thought it’d be great to open<br />

something like what I had been to in LA.”<br />

She met someone with a like-mind,<br />

Sarah Smith, and they began working together.<br />

“I was 7 months pregnant and Sarah<br />

had a daughter that was 3 months old,”<br />

Crawford said. “Two new mommies<br />

equals one full person.”<br />

Smith had been introduced to a<br />

practice called Baptiste Power Vinyasa.<br />

This practice is a type of hot power yoga<br />

that focuses on poses, self-reflection and<br />

meditation. It is meant to be easily adaptable<br />

to any level of physical ability.<br />

“The room is heated to 90 degrees,”<br />

Crawford said. “It focuses on flow and<br />

linking movement to breath. It’s very<br />

rhythmic.”<br />

Crawford and Smith opened a location<br />

in the Highlands neighborhood in<br />

Louisville in <strong>Feb</strong>ruary 2014. The studio is<br />

Baptiste-specific.<br />

“It focuses more on self-development,”<br />

Crawford said. “There are messages<br />

tied in with the class — ‘if you can<br />

stay through the pose when it’s hard, you<br />

can stay through it when it’s hard off the<br />

mat.’”<br />

The Highlands location, which<br />

Crawford said is the perfect neighborhood,<br />

was the first studio to have been<br />

dedicated to power vinyasa.<br />

“If I’ve had a rough morning or I’m<br />

distracted, I’ll go to a 70-minute class and<br />

Health & Fitness<br />

Instructor Stephanie Kersting,, teaching a class<br />

Empowering a Community<br />

Yoga classes provide outlet for anxiety and stress<br />

Story by Darian Eswine<br />

Photos by Michelle Hockman<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 21


“If I’ve had a rough morning or I’m distracted, I’ll go to a 70 minute class<br />

and it’s basically a moving meditation. The benefits are far too many.”<br />

- Cat Crawford<br />

Owner, 502 Power Yoga<br />

22 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


it’s basically a moving meditation,” she<br />

said. “The benefits are far too many.”<br />

After Smith moved to South Carolina<br />

in 2017, Crawford became the full<br />

owner of the studio. She opened a second<br />

location in Jeffersonville in 2017.<br />

One side effect of this studio has<br />

been the network of community and support<br />

that has been built. Crawford said she<br />

loves the connection that’s been fostered.<br />

“It happened organically,” she said.<br />

“Our teachers are vulnerable and raw in<br />

their teaching and their hands-on assisting.<br />

It’s just naturally breaking down barriers<br />

and building this community.”<br />

She said friendships and partnerships<br />

have evolved from people who<br />

have met in the studio. “The teacher demonstrates<br />

messy,” Crawford said. “It gives<br />

permission to the students to be themselves.”<br />

Crawford herself said she’s not sure<br />

what she would do without yoga. She<br />

hears that from others who come in and<br />

out of the studio as well. “I can feel when<br />

stress is physically stuck in my body. It<br />

works it out.”<br />

Each location also has a shop for<br />

merchandise that has been specifically<br />

created for the students. They sell yoga<br />

mats, sweatshirts, towels and more.<br />

On top of all of that, they also offer<br />

yoga instructor certification. Crawford<br />

said those trainings usually begin in November,<br />

with students graduating in May.<br />

If you’re new to yoga, Crawford<br />

suggests you consider the Introduction to<br />

Power Yoga series. This series will be held<br />

at the Jeffersonville location in <strong>Jan</strong>uary.<br />

The series takes place on four Mondays<br />

and it covers the absolute basics of yoga,<br />

from poses to proper attire and breathing.<br />

“It’s great if you’re brand new or<br />

if you’re coming from a different type of<br />

yoga practice,” Crawford said.<br />

The studio encourages feedback as it<br />

regularly gives students opportunities to<br />

rate their classes and provide suggestions.<br />

The students also are the ones who really<br />

connect and create the community piece.<br />

Crawford said two students who met in a<br />

class are getting married this year.<br />

“I would love to develop more little<br />

community studios,” she said. “But there<br />

are limited resources and staff right now.”<br />

Regardless, Crawford opened a third<br />

location in October at the corner of Rudy<br />

Lane and Brownsboro Road in Louisville.<br />

All locations offer an Intro to Power<br />

Yoga package, for new students only. It<br />

includes 40 days of unlimited classes for<br />

$40, and it allows students to get a feel<br />

for what they’re doing and what kind of<br />

classes they like.<br />

“Yoga just makes me a happy person,”<br />

Crawford said. “It’s a great release<br />

for all the things we as humans like to<br />

hold onto.”<br />

Crawford likes to say “the issues are<br />

in your tissues.” These words to live by<br />

align perfectly with the business’ goal to<br />

“empower people to transform their bodies,<br />

minds, lives, and communities one<br />

breath and one pose at a time.” •<br />

Visit 502poweryoga.com to register for the<br />

<strong>Jan</strong>uary Introduction to Power Yoga series or<br />

any other classes.<br />

Pictured: (left to right) Baely Talley, Cat Crawford, Stephanie Kirsting, and Kristina Gerard.<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 23


Smith had been introduced<br />

to a practice called<br />

Baptiste Power Vinyasa.<br />

This practice is a type<br />

of hot power yoga that<br />

focuses on poses, selfreflection<br />

and meditation.<br />

It is meant to be easily<br />

adaptable to any level of<br />

physical ability.<br />

Pictured: (left) Cat Crawford, owner of 502 Power Yoga, participating in one of the classes at<br />

the Jeffersonville location. (bottom) A power vinyasa class at the studio.<br />

24 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


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Pictured: (top and bottom) merchandise available for purchase at 502 Power Yoga; (middle)<br />

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Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 25


Artist Spotlight<br />

Graceful and inspired<br />

Pictured: Detail of sculpture, titled Titian<br />

Glass artist Paige Kissinger honors father with her creations<br />

26 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />

Story by Judy Cato<br />

Photos provided by Lorraine Hughes


Overflowing with bright energy<br />

and flair, Paige Kissinger<br />

welcomes visitors into her<br />

Sellersburg “villa” in Clark<br />

County with stories about her home’s<br />

unique history. This graceful and inspired<br />

space — with some of the earmarks of an<br />

art gallery — “was once a chicken coop,”<br />

Kissinger said gleefully. “My late father,<br />

Robert Allen Kissinger, an architect,<br />

purchased the property in the late 1950s<br />

and refashioned it, using skills that would<br />

later win him acclaim as a local architect.<br />

This house was his first project.”<br />

As an architectural glass artist with<br />

a broad range of skills, Kissinger later<br />

added to the home’s pizzazz by designing<br />

all of its art glass windows. She also created<br />

many individual artworks arranged<br />

through the home.<br />

This house is not the only project that<br />

eventually developed into a collaboration<br />

between father and daughter. The Jeffersonville<br />

Township Public Library was<br />

designed by the firm of Kissinger’s father,<br />

Kissinger and Associates Architects. All of<br />

the art glass windows and panels in the<br />

library were designed by Kissinger when<br />

she worked for VitraMax, an architectural<br />

glass company.<br />

These windows depict the Ohio River<br />

with fossils, riverbed and sky. A touch<br />

of bronze gilding in the design adds just<br />

enough contrast to make the images pop.<br />

“Because of the importance of the river<br />

and fossils to the area,” Kissinger said,<br />

“every window I designed here has this<br />

theme.”<br />

Kissinger also designed the imposing<br />

sculpture titled “On Holy Ground”<br />

that hangs over the library elevator. Made<br />

of kiln-formed bronze glass with luster,<br />

Kissinger created it, as captioned on a<br />

nearby plaque, “In Honor and Adoration<br />

of her Father.”<br />

“My father was my greatest mentor,”<br />

Kissinger said. Robert Kissinger<br />

studied architecture at the Illinois Institute<br />

of Technology under the late Ludwig Mies<br />

van der Rohe, who had been the last director<br />

of the Bauhaus in Germany before it<br />

was closed by the Nazis. “The Bauhaus<br />

style was founded on the idea of bringing<br />

all the arts together, combining the fine<br />

arts with the utilitarian. This synthesis<br />

principle characterizes most of my work.<br />

I grew up immersed in painting, music,<br />

crafts, dance and design,” Kissinger said,<br />

then laughed: “I started dance lessons at<br />

the age of 3, and my father never missed<br />

a recital.”<br />

Kissinger’s work titled “The Azure<br />

Flame” (a 14-inch-by-27-inch piece) demonstrates<br />

this merging of the arts. The<br />

front of the work is kiln-formed cast glass<br />

created in part with the artist’s fingers<br />

“The Bauhaus style was founded on the idea of<br />

bringing all the arts together, combining the fine<br />

arts with the utilitarian. This synthesis principle<br />

characterizes most of my work. I grew up immersed<br />

in painting, music, crafts, dance, and design.”<br />

- Paige Kissinger<br />

“The Azure Flame”<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 27


Paige also designed the<br />

imposing sculpture titled<br />

“On Holy Ground” that<br />

hangs over the library<br />

elevator. Made of kiln<br />

formed bronze glass with<br />

luster, Paige created it,<br />

as captioned on a nearby<br />

plaque, “In Honor and<br />

Adoration of her Father.”<br />

Pictured: (this page, top) the sculpture above the elevators at the Jeffersonville Public Library is titled<br />

“On Holy Ground”; (this page, bottom) the view through the art glass window that Paige designed in the<br />

Jeffersonville Public Library; (right hand page, top) Paige, pictured in front of the art glass she designed at<br />

the library; (right hand page, bottom) the art glass depicts the Ohio River, fossils, and the sky.<br />

28 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


swirling — or “dancing” — through the<br />

pliable cast. Behind this is her painting in<br />

shades of turquoise, teal, aqua, navy and<br />

lime green, showing the influence of abstract<br />

expressionism. There is an impression<br />

of spontaneity in each gestural brushstroke.<br />

Many of Kissinger’s glass sculptures<br />

were influenced by her travels to arts<br />

destinations. Her bowl-shaped sculpture<br />

titled “Water Lily” is her take on Monet’s<br />

famous series painted in Giverny, France.<br />

A brilliant orange and red glass sculpture,<br />

titled “Titian,” alludes to the Venetian artist’s<br />

bold use of color.<br />

Glass held a fascination for Kissinger<br />

even when she was a little girl. “I would<br />

pick up any piece of glass I found and<br />

hold it up to watch the light sparkle and<br />

dance through ripples of color,” she said.<br />

When she went to work for VitraMax, she<br />

said she “felt like Charlie in the chocolate<br />

factory of glass.”<br />

Although glass artists use many different<br />

methods and techniques to create<br />

their work, glass art is usually divided<br />

into three broad categories: hot glass, cold<br />

glass and warm glass. Hot glass involves<br />

working with glass that has been melted<br />

in a furnace. This hot viscous glass can be<br />

used in glass blowing, sculpting and casting<br />

into molds. Examples of cold glass<br />

work include etching, carving and engraving.<br />

Warm glass is glass heated in an<br />

oven or kiln to a temperature high enough<br />

to be bent, fused with other glass shards<br />

or cast into a mold.<br />

Kissinger’s work is kiln-formed,<br />

although she has done some work in all<br />

glass mediums. She has four kilns in her<br />

garage, which she uses for smaller pieces.<br />

For bigger projects, she uses kilns made<br />

available to her through the courtesy<br />

of others. She also has a small studio in<br />

Clarksville, but dreams of a studio big<br />

enough to accommodate all of her projects.<br />

Kissinger graduated from the University<br />

of Louisville with a concentration<br />

in interior design and began her career in<br />

Indianapolis at Rowland Design. Since<br />

moving back “home” to Clark County,<br />

she has become known for her extensive<br />

creative outreach. She has permanent art<br />

installations on exhibit at Humana, St.<br />

Francis Hospital and Technidyne Corp.<br />

She has established a worship arts ministry,<br />

paints at live events, consults and<br />

teaches. •<br />

“I would pick up any piece of glass I found<br />

and hold it up to watch the light sparkle<br />

and dance through ripples of color.”<br />

- Paige Kissinger<br />

For more information on the artist, visit<br />

paigekissinger.com.<br />

<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 29


812-936-3418 • vflwb.com • #MyFrenchLick<br />

30 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


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Paoli Peaks<br />

Wine Pairings<br />

West Baden Springs Hotel<br />

Mixology Class<br />

West Baden Springs Hotel<br />

Wine and Dessert Soiree<br />

West Baden Springs Hotel<br />

Air Supply Concert<br />

French Lick Springs Hotel<br />

Visit French Lick<br />

West Baden Upcoming Events<br />

Pioneer Park Slopestyle Event<br />

Paoli Peaks<br />

<strong>Jan</strong>uary 25,<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 15<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 7<br />

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Wine and Canvas<br />

West Baden Springs Hotel<br />

Ohh La Love: A Valentine’s Soiree<br />

French Lick Springs Hotel<br />

12th Annual Chocolate Fest<br />

French Lick Springs Hotel<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 8, 9 Chocolate Lovers Weekend<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 15, 16 French Lick Winery<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 14<br />

<strong>Feb</strong>ruary 15<br />

Chocolate Tasting Train<br />

French Lick Scenic Railway<br />

Dinner Train<br />

French Lick Scenic Railway<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 31


History of SoIN<br />

Preserving History<br />

Community fights to preserve a pre-civil war home in Marengo that<br />

served as a post office where mail was delivered by stagecoach<br />

32 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living<br />

Story by Sara Combs<br />

Photos by Mark Flanigan


History seemed to come alive<br />

when guests toured Marengo’s<br />

Proctor House during its grand<br />

opening this past fall. And<br />

that is just what the Crawford County<br />

Historical and Genealogical Society<br />

wanted to happen. The project – some<br />

15 years in the making – came to fruition<br />

with the event.<br />

“It is all about what a little band of<br />

people can do when they stick to their<br />

goals and stay dedicated,” said Carol<br />

Tomlinson, secretary of the society. The<br />

cast has changed some during the years,<br />

but the dedication has remained steadfast,<br />

she said.<br />

Proctor House, built with clay bricks<br />

made on the site just before the Civil War,<br />

was gifted to the society on June 14, 2004,<br />

by the town of Marengo, along with a<br />

pioneer cemetery and several acres. Since<br />

that time a lot of blood, sweat, tears and<br />

money have gone into its restoration.<br />

The house had been vacant for some<br />

time and was in serious disrepair when<br />

the society took ownership. “It took several<br />

years to clean up the property,” said<br />

Tomlinson. “That included hauling off<br />

many loads of debris.” The residence also<br />

needed lot of cleanup and repair.<br />

There were many hours of labor and<br />

some donations. The organization held<br />

yard sales and other fundraisers. However,<br />

more money was needed to further<br />

the project.<br />

“After I joined the historical society,<br />

it wasn’t long before I was elected secretary<br />

and all I heard was ‘Proctor House,’<br />

‘Proctor House,’” said Tomlinson, a retired<br />

teacher. “They were all saying what a historic<br />

treasure it was and how it should be<br />

preserved.” She soon caught the enthusiasm,<br />

was excited about the work already<br />

done and became interested in helping to<br />

secure funds to continue the restoration.<br />

“I looked to the Community Foundation<br />

of Crawford County for the possibility<br />

of a grant and found out they<br />

weren’t accepting applications. Then the<br />

foundation underwent some changes and<br />

began accepting them. So I attended a<br />

CFCC grant-writing workshop and wrote<br />

an application. We were awarded $10,000<br />

— our first grant. Wyatt Jackson, who was<br />

with the foundation then, suggested we<br />

use that as seed to obtain other grants.”<br />

That, along with funds the society<br />

raised, allowed leverage on further grants,<br />

she said, and resulted in the organization<br />

getting $324,000 for the restoration, which<br />

was done by Myers White Inc., a Louisville<br />

company.<br />

Then it was time to furnish the house,<br />

Tomlinson said. “It was quite a journey to<br />

find things,” she said. Because the society<br />

wants the Proctor House to be a county<br />

museum as well as a tribute to the Proctor<br />

history, they wanted donations of household<br />

goods to come from throughout the<br />

county. “That has been pretty successful,”<br />

she said. Items have come from most of<br />

the county’s towns and rural areas. Tomlinson<br />

donated her grandfather’s antique<br />

tools. Mark Flanigan of Bloomington<br />

donated a feather bed from the home of<br />

his grandparents, the late A.H. and Nell<br />

Flanigan, purchased when they were<br />

married just after the turn of the century.<br />

(Ironically, Tomlinson said, A.H. was instrumental<br />

in forming the first Crawford<br />

County Historical Society in 1923. “With<br />

World War II, the society went into a sleep<br />

mode until it was revived in the early<br />

1970s,” she said.)<br />

“Besides private donations, we<br />

scoured local antique shops, then went to<br />

surrounding counties looking for authentic<br />

pieces,” Tomlinson said. Using money<br />

wisely is an ongoing consideration of the<br />

society, so when a professional designer<br />

suggested Austrian shades for the window<br />

treatment, they were rejected as being<br />

too expensive. So Tomlinson made<br />

By 1835, Proctor was postmaster; mail arrived by stagecoach. His<br />

house was known as Proctorville until the post office was moved to<br />

Marengo in 1852. Also, Proctor operated a store at the site.<br />

Pictured: (left-hand page) Visitors got to step back in historywhen<br />

they toured Marengo’s Proctor House opening last fall,<br />

thanks to the Crawford County Historical and Genealogical<br />

Society and its 15-year restoration work; (this page) a glimpse<br />

inside the living room in the Proctor House.<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 33


curtains from vintage tablecloths for the<br />

downstairs and used antique lace for the<br />

upstairs windows.<br />

“It has been a labor of love,” she<br />

said.<br />

Proctor House History<br />

The original property was a grant<br />

from the U.S. government to Malachi<br />

Monk in 1818 – just two years after Indiana<br />

became a state, according to research<br />

by Evelyn Harper Jackson of Corydon,<br />

who originally co-chaired the Proctor<br />

House project.<br />

A recorded deed to the land, dated<br />

March 21, 1826, shows that two Clark<br />

County men, William Proctor and Absalom<br />

Wood, bought the property from<br />

Monk. Proctor had married Mary Ann<br />

Watson in May 1825, and Absalom had<br />

married her sister, Anna Watson, two<br />

years earlier. The 1830 census shows both<br />

families occupying the house.<br />

By 1835, Proctor was postmaster,<br />

and mail arrived by stagecoach. His house<br />

was known as Proctorville until the post<br />

office was moved to Marengo in 1852.<br />

Proctor also operated a store at the site.<br />

Eventually, William and Lula Byrd<br />

became owners. They sold the property to<br />

George and Anna Dean in 1919. Their son,<br />

Hershel Dean, took possession when they<br />

died. The Dean heirs sold the farm and<br />

buildings to the town of Marengo when<br />

the municipality developed its industrial<br />

park.<br />

Both the house and the Proctor-<br />

Wood pioneer cemetery on the grounds<br />

are on the Indiana State and the National<br />

Register of Historic Places.<br />

Proctor House’s Future<br />

“When the history bug bites you,<br />

you want to learn all you can,” Tomlinson<br />

said. “The more you learn, the more you<br />

want to know.”<br />

That is what she is hoping happens<br />

with students who participate in the interactive<br />

events planned for spring. “Children<br />

will have an opportunity to do laundry<br />

in an antique tub using a washboard,<br />

press clothes with an iron from the 1800s,<br />

roll out dough with an antique rolling pin<br />

and numerous other activities,” she said.<br />

“Several retired teachers have agreed<br />

to host stations. We want to include arts<br />

and crafts, music and games from the culture<br />

of that earlier era,” Tomlinson said.<br />

Group tours can be scheduled, said<br />

William Piper, president of the Crawford<br />

County Historical and Genealogical Society.<br />

Piper said he also would meet individuals<br />

who are interested in seeing<br />

the house. He can be reached by email<br />

at billgpiper@hotmail.com. The society’s<br />

headquarters are at 310 Oak Hill Circle<br />

in English. The office is open 11 a.m. to 2<br />

p.m. Tuesdays.<br />

The Proctor House is a work in progress,<br />

Piper said, “and likely will be for a<br />

while.” Volunteers and financial help are<br />

welcome.<br />

Officers besides Piper and Tomlinson<br />

are Roscoe Hooten, vice president;<br />

and Sharon Morris, treasurer. Directors<br />

are Louie Mitchell, Robin Piper, Dan<br />

Crecelius and Angela Thompson. Roberta<br />

Toby is a state-appointed county historian.<br />

•<br />

For more information about CCHGS, visit its<br />

web site at www.cchgs.org.<br />

Pictured: (this page) Among vintage furnishings displayed<br />

is an antique feather bed, purchased by Nell Tower Flanigan<br />

from the Sears catalog, just before her marriage to A. H. Flanigan<br />

in 1902; (right hand page) Period items were gathered<br />

from private collections and local antique shops.<br />

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“Children will have an opportunity to do laundry in an antique tub using<br />

a washboard, press clothes with an iron from the 1800s, roll out<br />

dough with an antique rolling pin and numerous other activities. Several<br />

retired teachers have agreed to host stations. We want to include arts<br />

and crafts, music and games from the culture of that earlier era.”<br />

- Carol Tomlinson,<br />

Secretary of the Crawford County Historical and Genealogical Society<br />

Southern Indiana Living • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • 35


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Glitz and sparkling personalities<br />

with celebrated voices will enliven<br />

the stage at Floyd Central<br />

High School when the famed<br />

Indiana University Singing Hoosiers<br />

from Bloomington will present a concert<br />

for the public. (See details in box.)<br />

The Grammy-nominated ensemble<br />

of 85 students and instrumentalists<br />

promise a toe-tapping evening of music<br />

from The Great American Songbook,<br />

jazz, Broadway, and contemporary hits.<br />

Its members also will conduct workshops<br />

earlier that day for Floyd Central’s choirs,<br />

directed by Angela Hampton.<br />

Singing Hoosiers<br />

Acclaimed group coming here<br />

Former Singing Hoosiers in the<br />

audience will be recognized that night,<br />

including two founding members, Kent<br />

McCaffrey and Bill Lohmeyer of New<br />

Albany. They both continued to sing in<br />

church choirs for years after performing<br />

with the group in the early 1950s.<br />

IU alumna and retired FCHS principal<br />

<strong>Jan</strong>ie Whaley orchestrated the concert<br />

efforts, wanting people to see firsthand<br />

that their love of music and opportunities<br />

to sing can last a lifetime.<br />

Proceeds will support the school’s<br />

music and theatre arts programs. •<br />

Pictured: Singing Hoosiers alumni<br />

Kent McCaffrey and FCHS Theatre<br />

Arts Director Rob Steiner; current<br />

member Marielle Hug, student<br />

teacher in vocal music at FCHS; and<br />

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42 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2020</strong> • Southern Indiana Living


Grand in Grandparenting<br />

That First Smile<br />

I<br />

have one child, Jeff, and although I<br />

love our nieces and nephew who live<br />

far away, I never had the opportunity<br />

to share this mother’s love with more<br />

than one child as he grew and experienced<br />

life in Southern Indiana. I wondered how<br />

anyone could love another child equal to<br />

what I felt for Jeff.<br />

Then my first grandchild, Davis<br />

James “DJ” was born. DJ came earlier<br />

than his due date and spent several weeks<br />

in the NICU. I instantly felt a motherly<br />

love for DJ, but it was different. This love<br />

didn’t come attached to the usual responsibility<br />

that comes with raising a child –<br />

the stresses – the fears – the long sleepless<br />

nights. This love felt light and easy, and<br />

strangely even more intense than as a parent.<br />

As DJ’s personality developed, my<br />

love for him has grown even stronger.<br />

Fast forward to Christmas 2018, when DJ’s<br />

t-shirt joyfully spelled out, “big brother.”<br />

While thrilled with the news, I secretly<br />

wondered if I could love another human<br />

being as intensely as my first grandchild.<br />

I prayed it would come naturally.<br />

Thirty-three weeks seem to pass<br />

quickly (maybe not so fast for my daughter-in-law).<br />

Grandbaby number two, Case<br />

Thomas Dawson, like his brother, arrived<br />

early. Case needed some time in the Neonatal<br />

Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to grow.<br />

Although tiny, Case was perfect.<br />

My husband and I visited Case in<br />

the NICU multiple times after he was born<br />

the first day of summer. He was always<br />

sleeping quietly, seemingly content with<br />

his surroundings, working to outgrow<br />

the tubes and monitors. I knew the NICU<br />

routine and felt surprisingly comfortable.<br />

All we could do was watch him wiggle in<br />

the incubator, sleep, and breath.<br />

One evening I came by myself to<br />

visit Case in the NICU. He had escaped<br />

the incubator, but was sleeping, as he had<br />

been on each previous visit. I spoke to<br />

him in a whispered voice, “Case Thomas,<br />

I am your Mimi and I can’t wait to hold,<br />

comfort, cuddle, and love you. I promise<br />

to read to you and play for hours. We<br />

will jump into puddles of rainwater and<br />

I’ll catch you when you fall. We will<br />

swim, snuggle, and dance together. I<br />

will sing to you…a lot; oftentimes weird<br />

songs that I make up. I will pamper and<br />

spoil you. We will eat popsicles and blueberries<br />

together with your brother; I’ll<br />

teach you about colors and shapes…and<br />

the alphabet. I will demonstrate love, respect,<br />

and joy every time I am with you,<br />

and will explain about the importance of<br />

faith.”<br />

I felt the tears welling up and<br />

stopped for a moment to take in Case’s<br />

tiny features. Who does he look like...<br />

his hair is nearly black, and his brother’s<br />

is blonde. Case is smaller than DJ was<br />

when he was born and likes to curl up as<br />

if still in the womb, while DJ was all about<br />

stretching out. Case has his mother’s nose<br />

and his father’s eyes. He is part of them;<br />

he is part of me. Case is magnificent…he<br />

is perfect.<br />

I continued whispering to him, “<br />

Case, as long as I live, I will always be involved<br />

in your life. I will look out for you<br />

and be available when you want me near.<br />

I’ll work with your parents to teach you<br />

the importance of laughter; to laugh hard<br />

and long; the kind of laughter that brings<br />

tears and hurts your tummy.” Then, almost<br />

as if he was on cue, Case momentarily<br />

fluttered open his eyes and smiled.<br />

There it was; the same explosion of love<br />

I felt when first connecting to DJ in the<br />

NICU!<br />

Case Thomas is now 6 months old<br />

now. He already knows how much he is<br />

loved by family and friends, and he has<br />

This love didn’t come<br />

attached to the usual<br />

responsibility that<br />

comes with raising a<br />

child – the stresses<br />

– the fears – the long<br />

sleepless nights. This<br />

love felt light and<br />

easy, and strangely<br />

even more intense<br />

than as a parent.<br />

a bonus relationship in DJ, who makes<br />

it a point to kiss his baby brother’s head<br />

throughout the day while telling him he<br />

is “cute.” These two are going to be best<br />

friends.<br />

Having this second grandchild to<br />

love doesn’t mean I have less love to give<br />

DJ – it means my heart spontaneously exploded<br />

to embrace and hold all the emotions<br />

that make me a grandparent.<br />

Love for a child is embedded deep<br />

inside the heart; however, love for a<br />

grandchild gushes from the heart to consume<br />

the entire body. Love simply no longer<br />

is an adequate word to describe these<br />

deep grandparent feelings, and I’m not<br />

alone in this thought. But, for now, “love”<br />

will have to suffice. Case Thomas Dawson,<br />

I dearly love you. •<br />

Carol Baker Dawson, CCDP/<br />

AP, is President of EEO<br />

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volunteers as the Communication<br />

Director, Center for Lay<br />

Ministries, and is the owner of<br />

Broken Hearts, Inc. – featuring<br />

Joni’s Heart.<br />

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me into getting a dog. They<br />

threatened me with a rabbit. If I<br />

didn’t cave on the dog, we would<br />

have a long-eared carrot chomper stinking<br />

up a cage in my daughter’s bedroom.<br />

I wasn’t about to let that happen.<br />

Don’t get me wrong, I love to see<br />

a cute bunny hopping around the yard<br />

as much as the next person. I just didn’t<br />

want one as a roommate. If we had a big<br />

house or a basement or a barn, it would<br />

be a different story, but we don’t. When<br />

it came to Peter Cottontail, our house just<br />

wasn’t big enough for the both of us.<br />

But a dog? I love dogs. I love them<br />

so much I’ve had my heart broken more<br />

times than I care to remember when I’ve<br />

had to say goodbye. Honestly, I didn’t<br />

want to go through that again, especially<br />

with kids. Not only would I be an emotional<br />

wreck, but I’d have a house full of<br />

heartbreak on my hands.<br />

Besides that fact, I knew who<br />

changed the litter box. I had a pretty good<br />

hunch that the same guy would end up<br />

doing most of the walking, pooper scooping<br />

and cleaning up messes left behind<br />

this furry tornado. As much fun as all of<br />

that sounded, I just didn’t think I could<br />

take on any more pet butler responsibilities.<br />

But then my six-year-old, the baby<br />

of the family, really went to work on me,<br />

and I knew I couldn’t hold out for long.<br />

Owning a dog was the greatest dream of<br />

her life, and Bring Your Pet to School day<br />

was just around the corner. I just couldn’t<br />

see us hauling our fat, white cat into her<br />

classroom where he’d either scratch someone<br />

or pee in the corner. Probably both.<br />

Then my wife played the trump<br />

card. The bunny. If we couldn’t handle<br />

a dog, we would just have to get a rabbit.<br />

The next thing I knew we were looking at<br />

a litter of puppies.<br />

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My daughter picked a tiny fuzzball<br />

named Panda, and I was determined not<br />

to get too attached. That lasted about five<br />

seconds. Now she sleeps between my feet<br />

every night.<br />

All of my gloom-and-doom prophecies<br />

came true. She had accidents all over<br />

the house, raided the trash, barked all<br />

hours of the night and made the cat such a<br />

nervous wreck he started marking his territory,<br />

all of which meant more work for<br />

me.<br />

But now, five years later, no one<br />

loves that dog more than I do. My family<br />

might argue that point, but Panda and<br />

I both know the truth. I’m the one who<br />

hung out with her in the backyard at 3:00<br />

in the morning when she got into a bag<br />

of chocolate. I’m the one who rushed<br />

her to the vet when she got a fishhook in<br />

her paw. And someday, hopefully many,<br />

many years from now, I will probably be<br />

the one who will walk with her in the very<br />

end.<br />

Yes, I know she’s just a dog, but over<br />

the past five years she’s taught me a lot<br />

about love. Love isn’t a feeling. It’s a<br />

commitment. It’s being willing to do the<br />

hard stuff, the messy stuff and even the<br />

painful stuff that comes from sacrificing<br />

for the good of someone else.<br />

That’s what God did for us, not because<br />

we’re his pets but because we’re his<br />

creation. No one coerced him to love us.<br />

It was all his idea. Knowing the messes<br />

we would cause, knowing the trouble<br />

we would make and even knowing how<br />

much he would have to sacrifice for us, he<br />

chose to love us anyway.<br />

Of course the love we have for our<br />

pets or even the greater love we demonstrate<br />

for family and friends doesn’t even<br />

come close to comparing to the love God<br />

Don’t get me wrong, I love to see a cute bunny<br />

hopping around the yard as much as the next<br />

person. I just didn’t want one as a roommate.<br />

has for us. But it does remind us that love<br />

costs something. It’s inconvenient. It’s<br />

messy. It’s painful.<br />

Yet, for whatever reason, God<br />

thought you and I were worth it. Not because<br />

of anything we do for him, but because<br />

his love makes us worthy. •<br />

Pictured: Panda, playing keep away with her new found<br />

toy - a wet paint stirring stick.<br />

Jason Byerly is a writer, pastor, husband and<br />

dad who loves the quirky surprises God sends<br />

his way every day. You can read more from<br />

Jason in his books Tales from the Leaf Pile and<br />

Holiday Road. You can catch up with Jason on<br />

his blog at www.jasonbyerly.com.


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