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Abbey Infirmary<br />

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12 | HEALTH HEROES<br />

St. Meinrad Abbey Infirmary Staff<br />

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22 | FOLLOWING YOUR DREAMS<br />

Local horse owner shares tips in book<br />

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7 | FLASHBACK<br />

An Old-Fashioned Snow Day, 1967<br />

8 | A WALK IN THE GARDEN WITH BOB HILL<br />

The history of basketball<br />

11 | A NOTE TO BABY BOOMERS<br />

Who’s right during this pandemic?<br />

30 | EVERYDAY ADVENTURES<br />

Winter Escape<br />

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A Walk in the Garden with Bob Hill<br />

Having some connections to<br />

the game, most Hoosiers<br />

surely realize our beloved<br />

basketball was invented in<br />

one day by Dr. James A. Naismith,<br />

who was born in a farmhouse near<br />

Almonte, Ontario – yes, he was a Canadian<br />

– on Nov. 6, 1861.<br />

Yes. Basketball. Farm. Canadian.<br />

Promise.<br />

I know so because about 30 years<br />

ago I wrote “The Amazing Basketball<br />

Book,” a paperback, now out-of-date<br />

history of the game available for only<br />

$2.50 on Amazon (plus who-knowswhat<br />

shipping) and on forgotten<br />

bookshelves everywhere.<br />

Naismith was orphaned at 9,<br />

taken in by a tough-minded uncle,<br />

worked farm fields and as a lumberjack,<br />

dropped out of high school at<br />

15 and eventually attended McGill<br />

University in Montreal to become<br />

a minister. He earned his doctorate<br />

and then found himself, in 1890, at a<br />

Young Men’s Christian Association<br />

(YMCA) school in Springfield, Massachusetts.<br />

The sports world already had<br />

football, track and baseball. But believe<br />

it or not there was this sports<br />

hole in the calendar all winter just<br />

waiting to be filled.<br />

In the fall of 1891, Naismith’s<br />

boss, Dr. Luther Halsey Gulick Jr.,<br />

asked Naismith to come up with that<br />

very sport those bored students could<br />

try in gymnasium class scheduled for<br />

two weeks away. On the fourteenth<br />

day, Dec. 21, Naismith came up with<br />

basketball.<br />

Merry Christmas.<br />

Seasonal serendipity ruled. Naismith<br />

found a soccer ball and a janitor<br />

found a pair of peach baskets and<br />

nailed them to a running track 10 feet<br />

above the gym floor. Imagine if that<br />

running track had been 12 feet off the<br />

floor. Or, if as originally intended,<br />

square wooden boxes were to have<br />

served as goals. Would wooden boxball<br />

with 12-foot dunks have survived?<br />

Thus, Naismith had the equipment,<br />

but the game needed some<br />

rules. So, he blasted out 13 of them in<br />

about an hour – promise – and basketball<br />

rolled out its first game with<br />

a few changes to occur over the next<br />

129 years.<br />

Those original 13 rules were<br />

printed in the school newspaper. Naismith<br />

suggested the goal be 15 inches<br />

across – it is now 18 inches. He explained,<br />

“The object of the game is<br />

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This is the History of Basketball. Promise.<br />

to put the ball into your opponent’s<br />

goal. This may be done by throwing<br />

the ball from any part of the grounds,<br />

with one or both hands.”<br />

The “grounds” part assumed<br />

this new game could be played outdoors,<br />

which it was – and is. The first<br />

men’s game was played at the YMCA<br />

in Springfield in 1891 with women<br />

joining in shortly afterward at nearby<br />

Smith College in 1893, although their<br />

game would take much too long to<br />

spread.<br />

Reading those first 13 rules – and<br />

remember they were written in about<br />

an hour – shows some foresight into<br />

the best and worst possibilities of basketball.<br />

Along with Naismith’s intent<br />

on keeping the Christian game and<br />

participants healthy and “clean,” as<br />

we say in the modern vernacular.<br />

Players could not run with the<br />

ball. There was no dribbling. No<br />

shouldering, holding, tripping or<br />

striking would be allowed. The first<br />

infringement was a foul. The second<br />

would disqualify a player until the<br />

next goal was made.<br />

Think that over. Commit a second<br />

foul and your team is short a<br />

player until the next goal. The good<br />

news is the original game had nine<br />

players on a side – there were only 18<br />

people in the whole class – so losing a<br />

teammate or two was not so damaging.<br />

Also – and again think of this<br />

in the modern game – if either side<br />

made three consecutive fouls it would<br />

count as a goal for the other team. It<br />

does sound quite Christian.<br />

Here was another rule with<br />

larger implications. If a ball went out<br />

of bounds, it would be thrown back<br />

into play by the first person touching<br />

it. Which indicates a mad scramble<br />

off the court and into the spectators<br />

with 18 people chasing an errant soccer<br />

ball.<br />

After thinking things over, Naismith<br />

suggested the number of players<br />

on a team should vary with court<br />

size with the number fluctuating between<br />

three and 40. He also invented<br />

the “center jump” to start a game but<br />

never imagined a pair of 7-footers


Players could not run with the ball. There was no<br />

dribbling. No shouldering, holding, tripping or<br />

striking would be allowed. The first infringement<br />

was a foul. The second would disqualify a player<br />

until the next goal was made.<br />

would be involved. Later in basketball<br />

history, wire cages were placed<br />

around the court to keep the ball inbound.<br />

Hence the word “cagers.”<br />

Promise.<br />

Speaking of nomenclature, in<br />

those very early days basketball was<br />

often called “football in a gym” and<br />

each half an “inning.” Backboards<br />

were just a necessity. They were hung<br />

up behind the baskets because fans<br />

sitting up in the balcony – or using<br />

the running track – could swat the<br />

balls away. Thus, the first wooden<br />

backboards were 6 feet tall and 12 feet<br />

wide.<br />

Anticipating the future, Naismith<br />

declared his game should consist<br />

of two 15-minute halves with fiveminute<br />

breaks in between. He just<br />

couldn’t anticipate the 267 halftime<br />

car commercials and mindless commentary<br />

breaks in today’s game in<br />

which coaches are paid $9 million a<br />

year and NBA players $40 million a<br />

year.<br />

The inventor never made a nickel<br />

on it.<br />

Somewhere about 1900, as basketball<br />

bounced forward and rules<br />

committees were established, it was<br />

decided a player could dribble once,<br />

but only with two hands, and take a<br />

single step over before passing. The<br />

killjoys also decided a goal from out<br />

of bounds would not count.<br />

In the early years, basketball<br />

moved all over the northeast but<br />

with no universal rules. Lessening<br />

the rough play became a further talking<br />

point when one Harvard player<br />

was whistled for 15 fouls. The limit<br />

was then set at four, moved to five in<br />

high school and college and six in the<br />

NBA.<br />

Do I hear seven?<br />

Prior to 1923, each team was allowed<br />

a designated player to shoot<br />

free throws and it wasn’t until 1932<br />

that the 10-second line at midcourt<br />

came into play. Prior to that a team<br />

could hold the ball forever. The threesecond<br />

rule – now five seconds – for<br />

people hanging in the lane didn’t<br />

come into play until 1932.<br />

Oh yeah, the center jump after<br />

every basket was dropped after 1937.<br />

And because early-1890s Naismith<br />

basketball was first modeled on<br />

football, those first basketball “field<br />

goals” were worth three points. It just<br />

took a while to get back to that.<br />

Promise.<br />

Image credit: Ntdanai / shutterstock.com<br />

About the Author<br />

Former Courier-Journal<br />

columnist Bob Hill<br />

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<strong>Jan</strong>et, have created on<br />

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Who’s Right During This Pandemic?<br />

A Note to Baby Boomers<br />

Our yard was bigger than<br />

most.<br />

So, I had my share of<br />

childhood friends.<br />

When enough kids showed up,<br />

we smacked plastic baseballs onto<br />

our tin roof and into the vegetable<br />

garden. When enough kids showed<br />

up in dirty clothes, we got dirtier<br />

playing football.<br />

Rimmed in trees and shrubs and<br />

rickety sheds, the place was fit too for<br />

epic games of tag and hide and seek<br />

and cowboys and Indians. Political<br />

correctness was not a concern.<br />

Breaking up by dinnertime was.<br />

Bruce usually was there. Bruce<br />

got into more hot water than Dennis<br />

the Menace. He also had more fun.<br />

I never told him, but I envied<br />

Bruce. Still do.<br />

In fourth grade, maybe fifth,<br />

Bruce stopped by with a cast on his<br />

arm, ready to play like always. The<br />

phone rang at our house.<br />

Bruce’s mom asked my mom<br />

to be sure Bruce sat out. Mom did<br />

her motherly duty. Bruce threw a fit.<br />

Mom went back in. When the coast<br />

seemed clear Bruce, well, you know<br />

… . Mom again laid down the law.<br />

Bruce again went ape.<br />

Best as I recall, Mom wore down.<br />

Bruce never did.<br />

We all know a Bruce, don’t we? I<br />

thought of my Bruce as this nightmarish<br />

pandemic took hold and wouldn’t<br />

let go.<br />

Bruce took chances like I ate<br />

Hershey bars. Rules were meant to be<br />

bent on an off day, broken otherwise.<br />

Today’s leaders, at least most<br />

of them, urge us not to be Bruce. Be<br />

careful, they urge. Sacrifice. Keep<br />

one another in mind. This virus hates<br />

risk-takers like Bruce hated being<br />

grounded.<br />

We all know people who have<br />

holed up these past too many months.<br />

And we know others who mostly go<br />

about their routines. Many of us pick<br />

and choose our ventures and hope for<br />

the best. Who’s right? Who’s wrong?<br />

Where are you on the spectrum?<br />

How much Bruce is too much, too<br />

little?<br />

I again work out at the gym.<br />

Should I? I again eat occasionally inside<br />

restaurants. Is that foolish?<br />

I am a senior. I am stuck with<br />

health challenges. My father and my<br />

grandfathers did not live all that long.<br />

None of this reality helps me sleep.<br />

All of it is right up the virus’ alley.<br />

Then again, maybe at last I am<br />

a bit more like Bruce. Should I be<br />

proud? Or do I still need a mother to<br />

keep me in line?<br />

Mom, bless your soul, do not<br />

worry. My Bruce imitation only goes<br />

so far. Down deep, risk and I do not<br />

get along, pandemic or no pandemic.<br />

I like flu shots and don’t like heights.<br />

Flying in planes is cool, jumping out<br />

of them isn’t.<br />

And these days, I wear my mask<br />

and keep my distance.<br />

I grab a rail when going up stairs.<br />

I’ve given up wading more than knee<br />

deep in the ocean. Sure, sunscreen<br />

could be more of a friend and flossing<br />

less of a hassle. But I learned to<br />

text message the kids.<br />

Change need not be a four-letter<br />

word after all.<br />

Aging is as much about change<br />

as was every other step along the way.<br />

To think I figured pimples would be<br />

as bad as bad gets. To recall believing<br />

money flow like water once the last<br />

diaper was bought.<br />

To assume it gets easier when<br />

family and friends die. To have<br />

counted on needing like 19 seconds<br />

to settle comfortably into retirement.<br />

Like to imagine this virus stuff<br />

would be practically history by Easter<br />

or the Fourth of July or surely by<br />

Labor Day. No March Madness, no<br />

Olympics, no plays or concerts. Work<br />

at home, learn at home and worship<br />

at home. Get together on Zoom or<br />

whatever. Live large a virtual life? No<br />

way.<br />

Way.<br />

The Bruce in us cannot be trusted<br />

any more than Bruce could be trusted<br />

that day in my backyard. A busted<br />

arm was no more an excuse to Bruce<br />

than, to some of you, is this virus. I<br />

could try to convince you to believe<br />

the experts, to follow science.<br />

Then again, we remain almost<br />

as much at a loss for answers as were<br />

last March, don’t we? I go on doing<br />

what I do. You go on doing what you<br />

We all know people who have holed up these<br />

past too many months. And we know others<br />

who mostly go about their routines. Many of<br />

us pick and choose our ventures and hope for<br />

the best. Who’s right? Who’s wrong?<br />

do. Who’s right?<br />

Bruce moved to Louisville not<br />

long after the cast came off. We lost<br />

touch. I suspect my mom was relieved.<br />

No one came along to take<br />

over the Bruce part.<br />

A few summers ago, more than a<br />

half-century later, I settled into a lawn<br />

chair for a blues concert in my hometown.<br />

Wearing a Lite beer T-shirt, the<br />

group’s husky-voiced singer wailed<br />

and bounced about like he was at<br />

Woodstock.<br />

He looked familiar. He was familiar.<br />

He is Bruce.<br />

We caught up briefly at intermission<br />

and talked of getting together. It<br />

hasn’t happened.<br />

If it does, will Bruce have on a<br />

mask? •<br />

After 25 years, Dale Moss<br />

retired as <strong>Indiana</strong> columnist for<br />

The Courier-Journal. He now<br />

writes weekly for the News and<br />

Tribune. Dale and his wife Jean<br />

live in Jeffersonville in a house<br />

that has been in his family<br />

since the Civil War. Dale’s e-<br />

mail is dale.moss@twc.com<br />

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The spirit of the Saint Meinrad<br />

Archabbey infirmary is one of<br />

calm and comfort. Like many<br />

other health-care facilities, it is<br />

filled with dedicated people and caring<br />

hearts. Many days are long and<br />

tiring, but the compassion is inspiring.<br />

Ann Phillips, director of health<br />

services, who manages the health<br />

clinic, wellness department and the<br />

infirmary, has been with the Archabbey<br />

for 22 years. “Working at the Archabbey<br />

is definitely more family-oriented.<br />

You are respected and valued<br />

as an individual,” she said.<br />

Saint Meinrad Archabbey was<br />

founded in 1854 by monks from Einsiedeln<br />

Abbey in Switzerland. They<br />

came to <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> at the request<br />

of a local priest who was seeking<br />

help to serve the pastoral needs of<br />

the growing German-speaking population<br />

and to prepare local men to be<br />

priests.<br />

The Benedictine community<br />

at Saint Meinrad consists of about<br />

85 men who dedicate their lives to<br />

prayer and work. The monks live<br />

by the wisdom and guidance of the<br />

Rule of St. Benedict, the sixth century<br />

instructions for community living,<br />

written by St. Benedict.<br />

The infirmary, which averages<br />

around 10 monks, is an integral part<br />

of this community, as it allows those<br />

needing extra care and attention the<br />

ability to have that without leaving<br />

their home, whether for a short time<br />

of recuperation or for their remaining<br />

time.<br />

Archabbot Kurt Stasiak, OSB,<br />

speaks very highly of the staff. “It<br />

has been quite a few years since<br />

one of our monks has had to die in<br />

a hospital. Our monks, like so many<br />

people, would prefer to die at home<br />

rather than away, and the excellent<br />

and competent care our nursing staff<br />

provides usually makes that wish a<br />

reality.”<br />

The pandemic this year has been<br />

challenging for the staff and community<br />

alike.<br />

“COVID has challenged me and<br />

my staff, especially when many of the<br />

monks and nursing staff were both<br />

sick. We had a lot of fatigue. I also experience<br />

COVID-decision fatigue, as<br />

this can be very overwhelming. People<br />

rely on you to know the answers,”<br />

Phillips said.<br />

All but two of the monks in the<br />

infirmary have had, and have recovered,<br />

from COVID-19.<br />

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Cover Story<br />

Health Heroes<br />

Saint Meinrad Archabbey infirmary staff provides<br />

care and comfort during the pandemic<br />

Story and Photos by Carol Ubelhor Troesch


“Those were the hardest few<br />

weeks we have had. We were short<br />

on staff, as some were off because of<br />

COVID. It was challenging, yet it’s a<br />

rewarding feeling now, because we<br />

made it through really well,” added<br />

Ann Wahl, a CNA who has been part<br />

of the staff for nine years. She says<br />

that the Saint Meinrad staff works<br />

hard to respect the fact that this is the<br />

monks’ home. She adds that she likes<br />

to serve people and help them maintain<br />

their individualism.<br />

Fr. Bonaventure Knaebel, OSB,<br />

agrees. Along with traditional healthcare<br />

needs, the monks often call on<br />

the staff to help with other important<br />

details. Knaebel says that he has macular<br />

degeneration, and that someone<br />

reads the Community Bulletin to him<br />

each week. The former archabbot<br />

(1955-66) is now 102 years old and<br />

has the rare ability to say he has lived<br />

through two pandemics, in 1918 and<br />

2020.<br />

“The nurses take care of us. A lot<br />

of little things come up that demand<br />

their attention. When I’m looking for<br />

something, and cannot see it due to<br />

my eyesight, they are always willing<br />

to help.”<br />

The daily activities for each of<br />

the monks varies, depending on their<br />

health and interests.<br />

Mass is celebrated each day in<br />

the Infirmary Chapel, with various<br />

monks coming from the monastery<br />

to assist. Meals are also taken together,<br />

often in silence, but occasionally<br />

with talk of current events, television<br />

shows or spiritual topics.<br />

Br. Jerome Croteau, OSB, who<br />

spent many years on the Archabbey<br />

building crew and working with the<br />

vineyards, also enjoys being able to<br />

go outside when the weather permits.<br />

The courtyard is a popular spot<br />

for many of the monks on beautiful,<br />

sunny days. He agrees that the staff<br />

is there for them, not only medically,<br />

but also in a very caring way.<br />

“Here, our patients are like part<br />

of our family,” said Doris Schaefer,<br />

who has worked in the department<br />

for 10 years. “If they need help with<br />

special things, like reading, writing<br />

letters or mailing things, I can help<br />

them. One of the greatest achievements<br />

is earning the trust and love of<br />

my patients.”<br />

Fr. Micheas Langston, OSB,<br />

mentions that the monks often try<br />

not to bother the nurses, but the nurses<br />

will tell us “that’s what I’m here<br />

for.” An Army chaplain for many<br />

years, Langston also taught Spanish<br />

“Care of the sick must rank above and before all else, so<br />

that they may truly be served as Christ, for He said:<br />

I was sick and you visited Me,<br />

and what you did for one of the least<br />

brothers and sisters you did for Me.<br />

Let the sick on their part bear in mind that they are<br />

served out of honor for God, and let them not, by excessive<br />

demands, distress their nurses. Still, the sick must<br />

be patiently borne with, because serving them leads to<br />

greater ground.”<br />

- Rule of Saint Benedict, Chapter 36<br />

Pictured: (left hand page) ) Doris Schaefer and Br. Jerome; (this page, top) Br. Giles and Mary Jo Waninger ; (this page, bottom)<br />

Br. Jerome Crouteau, OSB, Fr. Bonaventure Knaebel, OSB, Fr. Micheas Langston, OSB, and Ann Phillips<br />

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and German at Saint Meinrad and<br />

was involved in parish work here in<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>. He returned to the<br />

Archabbey five years ago and still has<br />

frequent calls and letters from past<br />

students and those he knew from<br />

service. “Being able to talk to people<br />

is wonderful, since we cannot have<br />

visitors at this time, and we only go<br />

out for any necessary doctor appointments.”<br />

Wellness Coordinator Jill Memmer<br />

exercises with a group of monks<br />

twice a week in the infirmary. “With<br />

COVID, I have had to switch my<br />

mindset from mainly face-to-face interactions<br />

to virtual. I count my blessings<br />

that I have been able to adapt my<br />

programs and everyone seems willing<br />

to adapt along with me.”<br />

Memmer says that one of her<br />

favorite memories is from a few<br />

years ago when she asked the eldest<br />

monk about the key to living so long<br />

and he simply smiled and said, “just<br />

keep breathing.” “The experiences<br />

and knowledge the monks have to<br />

share with me and the world make<br />

our twice-a-week workouts a mutual<br />

benefit to them and to myself.”<br />

“I’m proud to call myself a<br />

nurse,” said Phillips. “This profession<br />

is definitely a calling, a lifestyle<br />

and a passion; the monks have taught<br />

me to view the profession as a ministry.<br />

It takes a lot of compassion and<br />

empathy to be a nurse. You have to<br />

have the desire to make a positive impact<br />

on the lives of our patients. Even<br />

though the days are long, and, at<br />

times, stressful, I leave knowing that<br />

we did a darn good job.”<br />

Stasiak easily sums up the compassion<br />

of the infirmary staff: “I’ve always<br />

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Making a Difference<br />

Brandon’s House Counseling<br />

Local non-profit offers much needed mental health services to teens at no cost<br />

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Story by Darian Eswine<br />

Photo by Michelle Hockman (page 17) // Quorthon1 / shutterstock.com(page 16)<br />

Founded in 1993, Brandon’s<br />

House Counseling was, is and<br />

will always be a place to provide<br />

much-needed mental<br />

health services to teens at no cost to<br />

their families.<br />

Susan Parr created the counseling<br />

center as part of her master’s degree<br />

project before graduation. She<br />

realized there was a gap for a lot of<br />

people seeking services who either<br />

had insurance that limited the services<br />

they could receive, couldn’t afford<br />

the co-pay or didn’t have insurance<br />

and couldn’t afford the out-of-pocket<br />

cost for therapy.<br />

Parr was working with a young<br />

man at the time who had witnessed<br />

his father murder his mother. What<br />

was obviously a very traumatic event<br />

was made worse because he had a lot<br />

of limits to the care he could receive<br />

to aid his healing process.<br />

Parr saw that and realized it just<br />

wasn’t right, so she partnered with individuals<br />

in the community and with<br />

Depauw United Methodist Church<br />

in New Albany to create Brandon’s<br />

House.<br />

“We officially serve 13- to<br />

19-year-olds,” director Kathleen Randelia<br />

said. “We will make some exceptions<br />

generally on the younger<br />

end of that for siblings, for example.<br />

It’s a case-by-case basis.”<br />

For the past 27 years, Randelia,<br />

who became the director in 2018 after<br />

Parr retired, said they have focused<br />

on providing mental health counseling<br />

in a professional manner to as<br />

many people as they can at no cost to<br />

families.<br />

“We provide outpatient therapy,<br />

individual and family therapy for<br />

the most part. There are times where<br />

we’ll do group therapy, career counseling<br />

or couples counseling,” Randelia<br />

said. “We don’t do crisis intervention<br />

where if someone is having<br />

a mental crisis they would call us.<br />

We always refer to hospitals or other<br />

agencies that do that. We are exclusively<br />

outpatient.”<br />

One of the things Randelia<br />

makes sure clients understand is that<br />

even though they are getting free<br />

care, the staff is equally professional<br />

and educated and they stick with<br />

the state and national guidelines for<br />

mental health practices.<br />

With COVID-19 affecting everyone<br />

in different ways, Randelia said it<br />

has greatly affected the teens her team<br />

works with and their well-being. At<br />

the beginning of the pandemic, they<br />

switched to telehealth appointments<br />

exclusively. In June, they transitioned<br />

back to in-person only to switch back<br />

to telehealth in November.<br />

“At one point, we had 40 individuals<br />

on our waiting list. It really<br />

spiked,” Randelia said. “Mental<br />

Health Association sent out a State of<br />

Mental Health Report and their 2020<br />

data showed a marked increase in


individuals seeking help for anxiety<br />

and depression since COVID started.<br />

I want to say it was a 90% increase.”<br />

Randelia said research is showing<br />

what she’s seeing with their clients.<br />

Teens are facing a lot of uncertainty<br />

in their lives right now. Their<br />

anxiety and depression symptoms<br />

have increased. In fact, in <strong>Indiana</strong><br />

suicide is the second-leading cause of<br />

injury death in teens, just behind auto<br />

accidents.<br />

“A lot of them are really not<br />

adapting well to the online school<br />

process,” Randelia said. “I have a lot<br />

of parents who are frustrated because<br />

their kids who were really good students<br />

are now failing in classes and<br />

that adds stress to the whole family.”<br />

Randelia said that although<br />

everyone is facing uncertainty and<br />

stress this year, teens are seeing an<br />

even greater impact on their health.<br />

“If you think about all of the<br />

challenges adults have had adapting,<br />

teens feel everything much more intensely<br />

just because of where they’re<br />

at developmentally,” Randelia said.<br />

“So they’re going to feel those highs a<br />

lot higher and those lows a lot lower<br />

so for them it’s been even more of an<br />

emotional roller coaster this year.”<br />

Because of this, she said a lot<br />

of their focus in therapy has turned<br />

to working with clients on life skills,<br />

whereas the focus used to be more on<br />

the problem or issue for which they<br />

came to counseling.<br />

“We’re doing a lot more of<br />

‘how do you stay connected to your<br />

friends,’ because for adolescents social<br />

support is even more important<br />

than it is for adults,” Randelia said.<br />

“How do you organize your day<br />

when you’re not in the classroom that<br />

separates their lives in periods? How<br />

do you manage to keep yourself on<br />

task and focused?”<br />

Family members are encouraged<br />

to stay involved and often bring<br />

the teen to the session whether virtually<br />

or in-person.<br />

“One of the things with therapy<br />

that we find often, in order to help the<br />

teens the best possible way we can,<br />

we need to include family members<br />

and their support system in that process,”<br />

Randelia said.<br />

If you are a family or friend and<br />

notice a loved one saying they’re always<br />

tired, ignoring their personal<br />

hygiene or having a general lack of<br />

interest in themselves, withdrawing<br />

from social situations or being more<br />

emotionally vulnerable, these may be<br />

signs of a deeper issue.<br />

“If you think about all of the challenges adults<br />

have had adapting, teens feel everything much<br />

more intensely just because of where they’re at<br />

developmentally,” Randelia said. “So they’re going<br />

to feel those highs a lot higher and those lows a<br />

lot lower so for them it’s been even more of an<br />

emotional roller coaster this year.”<br />

“Those are things you want to<br />

have conversations about. Teens especially<br />

aren’t always comfortable<br />

talking about their emotions and<br />

thoughts and that is where counseling<br />

can come in because it’s that outside,<br />

third-party to talk to,” Randelia<br />

said.<br />

She said there used to be a fear<br />

that if you asked someone direct<br />

questions – “have you thought of<br />

self-harm?” – then you could put<br />

thoughts there that weren’t there before.<br />

But, she said this isn’t the case<br />

and that these questions are sometimes<br />

necessary. “It’s not going to<br />

make them think of it if they haven’t<br />

already.”<br />

As director of Brandon’s House,<br />

Randelia does a little bit of everything,<br />

including managing her own<br />

caseload of clients, managing the staff<br />

and handling the marketing and fundraising<br />

for the organization.<br />

Being very grassroots in nature,<br />

Brandon’s House does not take federal<br />

funds or tax dollars as they usually<br />

come with very specific restrictions to<br />

- Kathleen Randelia<br />

services.<br />

“We don’t want to have any barriers<br />

in place,” Randelia said. “We<br />

do accept some local grants and also<br />

have many individuals who sponsor<br />

us and support us throughout the<br />

year.”<br />

They also hold five to six fundraisers<br />

throughout the year. This year,<br />

they have switched to virtual events<br />

and are seeing about 50% of the revenue<br />

they usually make from in-person<br />

events. •<br />

To support Brandon’s House Counseling,<br />

visit brandonshousein.com to donate or<br />

find more information. For more resources<br />

on mental health, visit mhanational.<br />

org or nami.org.<br />

If you or someone you know is entertaining<br />

suicidal thoughts or thoughts<br />

of harming themselves or others, visit<br />

suicidepreventionlifeline.org or call 800-<br />

273-8255.<br />

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Painters of SoIN<br />

“Cock of Walk”<br />

The Creative Heart of Susie Byerley<br />

Oil painter and grandmother<br />

Standing at the top of a small hill<br />

within the town of Hardinsburg<br />

in Washington County,<br />

the home of Susie and Wayne<br />

Byerley is surrounded by 7 acres<br />

of woods. Here, in this green world<br />

where diverse species of birds come<br />

to feed, goats saunter and fish swim<br />

in the pond, Susie Byerley is often<br />

thinking about how to translate these<br />

refreshing scenes and myriad inflections<br />

of color onto canvas.<br />

“I am always painting and mixing<br />

colors in my head,” Byerley said.<br />

“I am always evaluating what process<br />

to use so others can enjoy seeing<br />

what I am seeing.”<br />

Wildlife and domestic animals<br />

are some of her favorite subjects to<br />

paint. “Animals have always been<br />

a part of my life,” she said. “As a<br />

young girl, I loved horses and spent<br />

hours drawing their fine details. I<br />

later worked for a veterinarian for almost<br />

30 years. It is not surprising that<br />

when I began to paint seriously, in<br />

my mid-40s, I would paint animals.”<br />

A female cardinal perched in the<br />

snow is the subject of Byerley’s painting<br />

titled “Proud Lady.”<br />

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“There are actually hints of blue<br />

and green in her tan feathers,” Byerley<br />

said, explaining the title of the<br />

piece. “Her confident demeanor suggests<br />

that she knows she is as beautiful<br />

as the more brilliant red male.”<br />

“Proud Lady” is a fairly recent<br />

painting that Byerley compared to<br />

one of her earlier works done when<br />

she was aiming at something closer<br />

to photorealism. “Allie With Fish,”<br />

the earlier work, is characterized by<br />

painstaking detail and precision,<br />

looking almost photographic.<br />

Byerley explained the shift: “As<br />

I grew as a painter, I wanted to capture<br />

more movement rather than the<br />

stillness of a photograph. In ‘Proud<br />

Lady,’ I softened the edges and<br />

blurred some details to create more<br />

vitality and also to leave something<br />

to the viewer’s imagination.”<br />

In a painting titled “Lambright’s<br />

Barn,” Byerley captures the mellow<br />

and peaceful attitude of a group of<br />

cows lazing inside a barn where light<br />

breaks through the stall gate and a<br />

small window.<br />

“I have a lot of fun representing<br />

the personalities of animals,” Byerley<br />

Story by Judy Cato<br />

Photos by Lorraine Hughes<br />

said of this painting.<br />

In a painting titled “Cock of the<br />

Walk,” a strutting rooster with a bright<br />

red cockscomb and grand arching tail<br />

feathers stands his ground over his<br />

hens and a piece of watermelon.<br />

Byerley is also well known for<br />

her still-lifes and exquisite portraits<br />

that often incorporate nature. Her<br />

response to the COVID-19 pandemic<br />

was to get to work painting portraits<br />

of her three granddaughters. “If I got<br />

the virus, I wanted them to have these<br />

portraits,” she said.<br />

When doing portraits, Byerley’s<br />

preference is to paint from live models,<br />

but her granddaughters’portraits<br />

were painted from photographs.<br />

“From models, I learn real skin tone,<br />

the anatomy of the face and where exactly<br />

light hits the face,” Byerley said.<br />

“With COVID, this had to shut down.<br />

Also, I would not ask my granddaughters<br />

to sit still for me. That<br />

would be torture. But they do like to<br />

get dressed up for photographs.”<br />

In her portrait of Macie holding<br />

a bunny, the frame is filled with<br />

the thrill of a moment. The little girl,<br />

oblivious to her strap falling down or


hair blowing about, is wholly captivated<br />

by the furry, wriggling animal.<br />

Lillie, reading by the pond, is under<br />

the spell of her book. The book’s<br />

title is hidden from view, leaving it to<br />

the viewer to guess what story might<br />

have provoked her trace of a smile.<br />

Charli, in a blue strapless dress,<br />

appears all grown up and poised with<br />

her hands gracefully folded. But there<br />

is some ambiguity in her face. Her<br />

eyes and expression seem to plead<br />

that she is still just a kid. Byerley said<br />

of this portrait: “Charli is 12, the time<br />

of metamorphosis.”<br />

The Byerley home and property<br />

is reminiscent of an artist retreat<br />

center. Byerley’s husband, Wayne, is<br />

also an artist - a wood turner - with a<br />

woodshop on the property where he<br />

creates segmented bowls on a lathe.<br />

Byerley’s studio, a transformed<br />

bedroom, is brimming with artist’s<br />

supplies and stacks of completed canvases.<br />

The magnificent windows in<br />

the home provide ample light to display<br />

the couple’s artwork in a gallerylike<br />

setting.<br />

When the couple are not making<br />

art, they enjoy other creative pursuits,<br />

such as gardening, cooking, canning,<br />

reading and fishing, and Byerley also<br />

sews and makes jewelry.<br />

Although Byerley has studied<br />

with several nationally known artists,<br />

she feels the most gratitude to Trish<br />

“Lambright’s Barn”<br />

“Animals have always been a part of my life.<br />

As a young girl, I loved horses and spent hours<br />

drawing their fine details. I later worked for<br />

a veterinarian for almost 30 years. It is not<br />

surprising that when I began to paint seriously, in<br />

my mid-40s, I would paint animals.”<br />

- Susie Byerley<br />

Artist Susie Byerley at her home in Washington County<br />

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there. “She opened myeyes to art and<br />

taught me that there is nothing I can’t<br />

do,” Byerley said.<br />

Byerley has also won several<br />

prestigious art awards that have validated<br />

her work, but awards are not<br />

her motivation for working hard.<br />

What does motivate her? She pointed<br />

to a quotation by Erma Bombeck<br />

tacked to her refrigerator. Bombeck<br />

wrote: “When I stand before God at<br />

the end of my life, I would hope that<br />

I would not have a single bit of talent<br />

left and could say, ‘I used everything<br />

you gave me.’”<br />

Byerley said “this quotation has<br />

had a profound effect on my life and<br />

work: I feel it deep down.” •<br />

To see more of the artist’s work,<br />

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Local Author<br />

Following Your Dreams<br />

<strong>Jan</strong>et Wolanin Alexander<br />

New Albany horse owner shares tips in book<br />

Story by Julie Engelhardt<br />

Photo by Letha Cupp<br />

We all have dreams, hopes<br />

and aspirations — whether<br />

they have to do with<br />

careers, relationships or<br />

personal goals — but we often have to<br />

let them pass by due to circumstances<br />

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the time to pursue them or be in the<br />

right place to make them happen,<br />

meaning we might have to wait until<br />

later in life for them to occur.<br />

Such is the case of former science<br />

teacher and nature enthusiast<br />

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in New Albany. She is the author of<br />

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Woods: A Journey into <strong>Living</strong> Your<br />

Ultimate Dream,” an inspiring collection<br />

of essays and poems. The book<br />

gives the reader insight into her quest<br />

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who are searching for ways to attain<br />

their goals and follow their dreams,<br />

regardless of age or circumstance.<br />

Alexander, who’s now 68, has<br />

had a deep fascination with horses<br />

ever since she was a child. She grew<br />

up in the city, near Cleveland, Ohio,<br />

but never lived in close proximity to<br />

stables. “My parents weren’t horse<br />

people themselves and didn’t quite<br />

relate to or understand the whole<br />

thing,” she explained. “They probably<br />

thought it was a typical girl fancy,<br />

a passing stage that would go away<br />

when puberty and boys came along,<br />

but it never did.”<br />

In chapter 51 of her book, titled<br />

“A Range Horse,” Alexander ruminates<br />

on where her love for horses<br />

stemmed from. She writes, “Perhaps<br />

part of my horse craziness can be attributed<br />

to growing up in the 1950s<br />

and ’60s, when Westerns abounded<br />

on television.” She cites shows that<br />

were popular during that time period,<br />

which include “Big Valley,”<br />

“Cheyenne,” “Bonanza,” “Death Valley<br />

Days,” “Gunsmoke,” “The Lone<br />

Ranger,” “Maverick” and “The Rifleman.”<br />

These were shows where horses<br />

were as prominent as the human<br />

players.<br />

“I just fell in love with watching<br />

the horses,” Alexander said. “I had<br />

such a fascination with them.”<br />

Alexander’s love for horses increased<br />

when she was able to finally<br />

go on rides through her involvement


with area youth groups, like Campfire<br />

Girls, and local church organizations.<br />

“We’d go on field trips, and<br />

I enjoyed the outings where we got<br />

to ride horses,” she said. Also, near<br />

Cleveland, there was a stable where<br />

they could rent a horse for an hour<br />

and take guided rides. Her father<br />

also knew a professor through Case<br />

Western Reserve University who<br />

had opened a summer camp, which<br />

included riding. When she was old<br />

enough to drive, Alexander began<br />

leasing a horse and would head out<br />

to go on rides. “I’d take any opportunity<br />

I could get to go riding.”<br />

After high school, Alexander<br />

enrolled in the University of Dayton,<br />

where she majored in education with<br />

an emphasis in biology and English.<br />

She began teaching, and it was during<br />

this time that she was able to become<br />

seriously involved with horses.<br />

She began providing evening care<br />

for an Appaloosa gelding named<br />

Geronimo, and along with that, she<br />

was granted riding privileges. Eventually,<br />

Geronimo was for sale, so Alexander<br />

bought him. She began taking<br />

dressage lessons with Geronimo,<br />

and they began going on trail rides,<br />

which is an activity Alexander greatly<br />

enjoys to this day. When she was<br />

in her later 20s, Alexander decided<br />

that she wanted to return to college<br />

to earn her master’s degree. In order<br />

to pay for her schooling, she had to<br />

take out student loans, but she also<br />

reluctantly sold Geronimo. In chapter<br />

49, “My Worst Nightmare,” Alexander<br />

tells of her agony over selling the<br />

horse, something she thinks about to<br />

this day.<br />

When Alexander was in her<br />

early 40s, she met and married her<br />

husband, who was also an educator.<br />

She and her husband had different<br />

religious backgrounds, so in order<br />

to have a better understanding of<br />

his faith, she enrolled in a class at his<br />

church. One of the assignments she<br />

received was to schedule a private<br />

The book gives the reader insight into her quest<br />

to become a full-time horse owner, how she<br />

accomplished that goal in her 40s, her deep<br />

connection with her four-legged companions, and<br />

her personal and spiritual growth along the trail.<br />

meeting with a minister, a woman<br />

named Reverend Judy. Judy invited<br />

Alexander to discuss anything she<br />

wanted.<br />

“I had no idea what I was going<br />

to talk about,” Alexander explained.<br />

She eventually opened up to Judy<br />

about her passion, her burning desire<br />

to have a horse, and how she felt<br />

tortured when she drove past horse<br />

farms or saw owners in their riding<br />

garb. Alexander also expressed how<br />

angry she was at God. Right there,<br />

in front of Judy, Alexander said she<br />

“put God on notice.” In her book she<br />

writes, “I informed the big bully that<br />

I was no longer going to play the enabling<br />

victim in this game because I<br />

no longer wanted a horse. ‘So there,’ I<br />

told God, ‘you can’t hurt me any longer.’”<br />

Expecting that she would receive<br />

a dressing down from Judy, Alexander<br />

went on to tell how the next<br />

unexpected moment changed her life.<br />

“She wasn’t flustered or angry,<br />

and warmly looked at me and said,<br />

‘<strong>Jan</strong>, don’t you get it? Who do you<br />

think put your love of horses into<br />

your being? It’s not going to go away,<br />

until you fully open your heart and<br />

accept it.’”<br />

Alexander said that she was<br />

floored by this response to her outburst.<br />

“It was just so — this idea<br />

was so different than I had expected,<br />

and so pleasant,” she admitted. “I<br />

felt like the room was spinning and<br />

overwhelming, and I immediately<br />

accepted it. What’s wrong with being<br />

happy? If you’re happy, then you can<br />

be a better servant.”<br />

This was the turning point that<br />

Alexander needed, and after talking<br />

openly about it with her husband, the<br />

opportunities to work with horses,<br />

leading to eventual long-term horse<br />

ownership, began to take place.<br />

Through various personal connections<br />

and friends, she was offered the<br />

chance to ride and exercise a horse<br />

named Dancer’s Streak, a registered<br />

Arabian who was a 5,000-mile endurance<br />

champion who had entered 100<br />

endurance rides, including 13 oneday<br />

100-milers. Through Dancer’s<br />

owners, Alexander met others who<br />

gave her the opportunity to ride their<br />

horses, eventually meeting the horse<br />

that she’s now owned for 20 years,<br />

Highlander, a Tennessee Walker-<br />

Arabian mix. “He has great breeding<br />

and he’s a good trail horse,” she said.<br />

“A trail horse is the best of all horses<br />

because basically, they have to do everything<br />

a horse has to do in the ring.<br />

In nature, they’re performing similar<br />

activities. They have to be aware of so<br />

many different things we might encounter<br />

— wild turkeys, horse traffic,<br />

bicycles, people on four-wheelers, an<br />

errant truck that gets lost, backpackers,<br />

thunderstorms — you name it.”<br />

For many years, Alexander was<br />

under the impression that she had to<br />

be quite wealthy to own a horse, but<br />

soon realized that her dream was attainable.<br />

“Horses are still an expense, but<br />

we moved to <strong>Indiana</strong> because it’s less<br />

expensive, housing is less expensive<br />

and horse keeping is less expensive,”<br />

she said. “I don’t take lessons, so I<br />

don’t have that expense, I only have<br />

one horse, I don’t compete in any discipline,<br />

so I don’t have entry fees for<br />

shows or fancy costumes for me or<br />

my horse, I don’t own a truck and I<br />

don’t own a trailer, and I board at a<br />

stable next to 80 to 100 miles of trails.”<br />

And even though it took her 20<br />

years to realize that dream of fulltime<br />

horse ownership, Alexander<br />

made it happen. She found her home<br />

on the back of her horse.<br />

In the latter part of Alexander’s<br />

book, after sharing her stories and experiences<br />

that led her to horse ownership,<br />

she includes appendices to help<br />

guide the reader. The first includes<br />

safety riding tips, such as riding with<br />

someone if you can, items to carry<br />

while you’re on your ride, wearing<br />

a helmet and how to practice good<br />

trail etiquette. The second appendix<br />

is titled “Self-Study Discussion Questions.”<br />

In this chapter, readers will<br />

find 14 questions that will help them<br />

work through discovering how they<br />

can meet their goals.<br />

Her book gives readers an insight<br />

as to how they, too, can find<br />

their personal “home,” no matter<br />

what it is or where it may be. •<br />

Alexander’s book is available on Amazon<br />

at amazon.com/At-Home-Horse-Woods-<br />

Ultimate/dp/1640857850.<br />

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24 • <strong>Jan</strong>/<strong>Feb</strong> <strong>2021</strong> • <strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong> <strong>Living</strong><br />

Sculptors of SoIN<br />

In a remote, forested area of Orange<br />

County, close to the Craw-<br />

ford County line, sculptor David<br />

Cox built – mostly by himself –<br />

his home, two studios, a gallery and<br />

his bronze foundry. This place that<br />

he shares with his partner, emerging<br />

artist Ann Burns, may not be the easi-<br />

est place to get to, but once there, the<br />

sylvan landscape, with its nut-brown<br />

buildings nestled in a hollow, is idyl-<br />

lic.<br />

The function of a foundry is to<br />

take an original sculpture in clay,<br />

wood, stone or other material, and<br />

replicate it in cold metal. Cox creates<br />

his original sculptures in clay before<br />

rendering them in bronze. He has<br />

also produced work in bronze for<br />

dozens of other sculptors who must<br />

trust him to execute their sculptures –<br />

large, small, in various styles and ma-<br />

terials – to perfection. One national<br />

caliber work that Cox, as head techni-<br />

cian, cast into bronze is the Blue Ash<br />

Veterans Memorial in Blue Ash, Ohio.<br />

Sculpted by Ken Bradford, the<br />

work consists of 11 life-sized figures<br />

in period military uniforms repre-<br />

senting 11 wars of the United States.<br />

The method Cox uses to turn<br />

sculpture into bronze is called “lost<br />

wax casting,” also known in French<br />

as cire perdu. This is a painstaking<br />

process with deep roots and a distin-<br />

guished lineage. A variation of this<br />

method dates back 5,000 years ago,<br />

with the ancient Sumerians getting<br />

credit for developing it most effectively.<br />

Today, it is still the most accu-<br />

rate and reliable method of turning<br />

sculpture into metal. Rodin and Bran-<br />

cusi, to name only a couple, both had<br />

works cast using this method. Cox<br />

summed it up this way:<br />

“Lost wax casting is the gold<br />

standard, the only method sculptors<br />

use because of its precision.”<br />

There are at least seven distinct<br />

stages of this complex process. Cox<br />

thoroughly enjoys talking abou them.<br />

“The original sculpture, called a ‘pos-<br />

itive,’ is used to make a ‘negative’<br />

rubber mold,” he explained, sim-<br />

plifying as much as possible. “Hot<br />

wax is poured into the rubber mold<br />

to make another ‘positive.’ This wax<br />

figure is dipped into a mixture called<br />

a ‘slurry’ to create a negative mold<br />

that can withstand high tempera-<br />

tures. This is heated to 1300 degrees<br />

to melt, or “lose,” the wax, leaving<br />

an empty mold. The molten bronze is<br />

poured into this empty mold, heated<br />

to 1850 degrees, and when cool, the<br />

“Jeherek”, created by David Cox<br />

Cast in Bronze<br />

Local Sculptor, David Cox, uses lost wax casting<br />

to create original works of art<br />

Story by Judy Cato<br />

Photos by Lorraine Hughes


Some of Cox’s ideas come from books. He is<br />

an avid reader, with a floor-to-ceiling library<br />

that stretches the length of his living room.<br />

His sculpture “Jherek” is based on a character<br />

in Michael Moorcock’s science fiction trilogy<br />

“Dancers at the End of Time.”<br />

mold is broken open to reveal a solid<br />

bronze sculpture.” But there is more.<br />

“In a process called ‘metal chasing,’<br />

the sculpture is chiseled into its final<br />

form. Finally, chemicals may be add-<br />

ed to create a patina – a gloss or sheen<br />

– on the metal,” Cox concluded, ac-<br />

knowledging that a lot more could be<br />

said. But one thing is clear: The work<br />

requires an immense array of intri-<br />

cate technical skills and knowledge,<br />

as well as a whiff of brawn.<br />

The more imaginative side of<br />

Cox’s work happens when he cre-<br />

ates his clay sculptures. These shapes<br />

arise, he said, “from looking at the<br />

world askance rather than directly. I<br />

am open to shadows and forms that<br />

“Bull”, created by David Cox<br />

appear out of the corner of my eye.<br />

They seem to come out of ether.” In<br />

his sculptures “Leap” and a horseh-<br />

ead that is “Untitled,” he seems to<br />

sculpt movement itself. There is so<br />

much swirling and flowing vitality<br />

in these sculptures that the viewer<br />

might feel lighter – freer to move and<br />

transcend limitations – after seeing<br />

them.<br />

Some of Cox’s ideas come from<br />

books. He is an avid reader, with a<br />

floor-to-ceiling library that stretches<br />

the length of his living room. His<br />

sculpture “Jherek” is based on a char-<br />

acter in Michael Moorcock’s science<br />

fiction trilogy “Dancers at the End of<br />

Time.” “The sculpture is pure fanta-<br />

Artist David Cox in his studio<br />

sy,” Cox said.<br />

“This is how I imagined him. I<br />

was inspired by the book because the<br />

characters had powers to transform<br />

into other creatures.”<br />

His largest sculpture, “Totem,”<br />

weighing over 120 pounds, is also<br />

a fantasy that was inspired by Inuit<br />

carvings and totem poles. Other influences<br />

on Cox’s work include Cub-<br />

ism, Art Deco and the S-shaped curve<br />

of design. His sculpture “Bull,” for<br />

example, he said “is an exercise in Art<br />

Deco stylization.”<br />

“My work has its own rhythm,”<br />

Cox said to describe how he works. “I<br />

don’t follow a schedule. I moved here<br />

20 years ago to get away from all that<br />

scramble and noise.” Before moving<br />

here, Cox had traveled the U.S. in<br />

search of technical knowledge; over<br />

the years, he supervised numerous<br />

employees, and was the first to open<br />

a gallery/studio/foundry in Fountain<br />

Square in downtown <strong>Indiana</strong>po-<br />

lis where he worked for 30 years. But<br />

he is more himself here: “I love the<br />

quiet, the solitude, the freedom and<br />

being close to nature,” he said.<br />

He is also supportive of his part-<br />

ner Burns’ drawing and painting.<br />

Burns is unassuming and does not<br />

like to shine a light on her own work,<br />

but Cox pointed it out, noting that<br />

she was previously selected by the<br />

Krempp Gallery in Jasper to exhibit<br />

her work in a juried show.<br />

In this out-of-the-way place in<br />

<strong>Southern</strong> <strong>Indiana</strong>, off the beaten path,<br />

creativity and the artistic process<br />

matter, and are treated with uncondi-<br />

tional respect. •<br />

For more information about Cox’s work,<br />

go to dlcoxsculptor.com.<br />

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Ifeel sorry for my wife because she<br />

usually has crummy birthday weather.<br />

As a midwest <strong>Feb</strong>ruary baby, she’s<br />

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snow on the ground.<br />

By the time my April birthday rolls<br />

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the sun is shining and temperatures are<br />

comfortably in the seventies or higher.<br />

Sure I’ve had a few cold snaps and rain,<br />

but most of my birthdays have been absolutely<br />

beautiful. Last year it hit eight-five<br />

that day. No joke.<br />

About ten years ago, I was feeling<br />

guilty for hogging all of this spectacular<br />

birthday weather for myself, so I decided<br />

to take my wife somewhere warm. Out of<br />

the blue we received an offer in the mail<br />

for half off a <strong>Feb</strong>ruary stay at a Disney resort.<br />

What a deal, I thought. This would<br />

be the perfect chance to show her what a<br />

tropical birthday like mine felt like.<br />

The day we left home it was fortyfive<br />

degrees. When we touched down<br />

in Orlando, it was a balmy eighty-three.<br />

Now this was going to be living the dream.<br />

While all of those suckers back home were<br />

bundling up with hats and scarves, we<br />

were going to be soaking up the sun. It<br />

was awesome. For about five hours.<br />

Unfortunately, the night we arrived,<br />

a freak cold-front barrelled across Florida.<br />

Temperatures plummeted to the low fifties<br />

with blustery, biting winds. Every<br />

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We hadn’t packed anything warm so we<br />

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“This is so weird. It’s been in the eighties<br />

for weeks!”<br />

Maybe it was my imagination, but I<br />

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us dirty looks for bringing the bad<br />

weather with us. We had done our best to<br />

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he had come along for the ride.<br />

Of course, the morning we flew<br />

home, the temperatures rebounded, and<br />

Florida was back to its sunny self. All the<br />

local residents cheered when our plane<br />

left the tarmac.<br />

I guess, though, we’re not the first<br />

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just to find ourselves back in<br />

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No matter how far we run, the one person<br />

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our lives, the best place to start is with us.<br />

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loves and is more than happy to jump in<br />

and help us navigate the foul weather of<br />

our soul.<br />

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anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive<br />

way in me, and lead me in the way<br />

everlasting” (Psalm 139:23-24, NIV).<br />

That’s an uncomfortable prayer, a<br />

dangerous prayer, but a prayer that can<br />

Now this was going to be living the dream. While all<br />

of those suckers back home were bundling up with<br />

hats and scarves, we were going to be soaking up<br />

the sun. It was awesome. For about five hours.<br />

be the beginning of God transforming<br />

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beginning of a brand new day. •<br />

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