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<strong>Siouxland</strong> <strong>Magazine</strong> | Grow/37<br />

Building Our Own Form of Strength<br />

By Emily Vondrak<br />

Oftentimes, strength refers to physical ability,<br />

the power of one’s muscles. Sometimes<br />

it is handling a difficult situation well, not<br />

breaking down, keeping it together. But,<br />

frankly, sometimes strength is getting out of bed<br />

in the morning, brushing your teeth, and going<br />

to work. There are times even the smallest things<br />

require great strength.<br />

It is funny how our perceptions of strength have<br />

changed.<br />

A hundred years ago, strength was lying about your<br />

age to sneak into the military or staying home to<br />

raise children. “Strong” was mainly a masculine term<br />

and it meant you didn’t cry, you got up and threw<br />

some dirt on it. Strength was keeping it together, no<br />

matter what, and it was selfish to focus on yourself.<br />

Humans kept everything bottled up and put on a<br />

face when something was wrong.<br />

While a soldier and mother are still noble professions,<br />

as we have progressed as a society, we have<br />

learned more about mental health, equality, and the<br />

opportunities offered. We have learned to better<br />

take care of ourselves and others. We know that<br />

emotions and feelings are not a sign of weakness.<br />

And we know that it takes strength to overcome<br />

struggles with our mental health.<br />

Ultimately, strength is different for everyone.<br />

We all face different trials and tribulations. Some of<br />

us overcome homelessness, cancer, disability, and<br />

other difficulties others could not even begin to<br />

imagine. Those people are undeniably strong. But<br />

there is strength in all of us. Being a good parent or a<br />

good friend, taking steps to improve your health, seeing<br />

a therapist, or going back to school all take an immense<br />

amount of strength, too.<br />

I believe that we all build our own form of strength to face<br />

our own struggles. Hopefully, we can do our best to help<br />

others have strength, as well. To be there to listen, pick<br />

them up when they are down, be the shoulder to cry on or<br />

the sounding board for ideas. After all, at the end of the<br />

day, we are all in it together.<br />

Sioux City Growth Organization welcomes progressive<br />

and innovative ideas. As a group, we work to put these<br />

ideas into action and build the momentum to take Sioux<br />

City into the future.<br />

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