The Good Life Magazine – September-October 2023

and open communication between fathers and their
children, creating an environment where children feel
comfortable sharing their feelings with their fathers.
There’s nothing “beta,” about being there emotionally
for your kids.
As a self-diagnosed workaholic, I have come to
fully understand that, yes, quantity of time is just as
important as quality of time. Being under the same roof
as your child does not necessarily equate to quality
time spent together. I have had to work very hard to be
actively engaged – does that mean I sometimes have
to sit through detailed explanations of the computer
game Roblox and its many intricacies? Absolutely. But
it’s hard not to smile and be excited about something
my son is excited about… even if I have no idea what
he’s talking about.
Kings of the Kitchen and Lords of Laundry
In modern parenting, the division of responsibilities
between parents is becoming increasingly fluid. We
dads are not just lending a hand; more and more we
are equal partners in the daily grind of parenting and
family life. Gone are the days of “barefoot and pregnant
wife”. Us dads are now donning the domestic roles in
an effort to balance out household responsibilities.
This shift has come due to the changing scope of
everyday family life. My father was able to work one or
two jobs and support our family while my mother was
able to stay home for most of our lives growing up. We
were very fortunate. However, for millions of families,
this is no longer an option due to the rising cost of
living and the expensive nature of raising a family.
Sports participation is a prime example of rising
costs: see my previous articles for a full rundown of
the expenses.
From managing household chores to making important
decisions, the collaborative and shared approach to
parenting and household duties benefits both parents'
personal growth and the overall family dynamic. The
sharing of responsibilities not only eases the burden
on mothers but also encourages a more balanced
and happy household where both parents are equally
involved. Happy wife, happy life, correct?
The Future of Parenting: A Shared Vision
As more fathers embrace their multifaceted roles,
they are creating a future where children grow up with
a broader understanding of changing gender roles,
empathy, and the importance of working together
as a family unit. Us modern dads are rewriting the
script, actively participating in our children's lives,
and nurturing a sense of partnership within families.
By breaking free from outdated stereotypes and
embracing our roles wholeheartedly, fathers are
shaping the future, one bedtime story, fart joke, and a
shared laugh at a time. Welcome to the new fraternity
of paternity, gentlemen. •
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