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The Good Life Magazine – September-October 2023

On the cover – Veterans Honor Flight of North Dakota / Minnesota. Also in this issue, the Changing Roles of Dad’s in Modern Parenting, Life Lessons with Fargo Police Captain and Local Hero Bill Ahlfeldt, How to Find the Perfect Squash and Pumpkin and more!

On the cover – Veterans Honor Flight of North Dakota / Minnesota. Also in this issue, the Changing Roles of Dad’s in Modern Parenting, Life Lessons with Fargo Police Captain and Local Hero Bill Ahlfeldt, How to Find the Perfect Squash and Pumpkin and more!

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LOCAL HERO | BILL AHLFELDT<br />

“My purpose is to be a<br />

guardian or protector. I<br />

was made to do this.”<br />

– Bill Ahlfeldt<br />

to be involved in a<br />

person’s life when<br />

they need someone<br />

the most.”<br />

He says a simple traffic crash could be just one of three<br />

in a day for an officer, but for the people involved, that<br />

simple crash could be the only one they ever experience.<br />

“It may be the only experience with law enforcement<br />

they are going to have,” he said. “How you treat them<br />

at that time is going to leave a lasting impression of not<br />

only your department but law enforcement as a whole.<br />

If law enforcement is involved in a negative situation in<br />

another part of the country, we pay for it in North Dakota<br />

as well. And we have to understand and be accepting of<br />

that, and we have to understand another side of it and<br />

say ‘yeah, I can see why people might see it that way.<br />

This is the only experience they've had.’”<br />

But the hatred of their profession that stems from<br />

incidents in other parts of the world can be taxing.<br />

“Law enforcement almost has to put on this facade<br />

because we’re the protectors, we’re the guardians,<br />

right? But (officers) are very emotional, caring people<br />

and they care about their community. <strong>The</strong>y didn’t go<br />

into the job because they didn’t care. So when portions<br />

of the community hates, it affects us. Emotionally and<br />

mentally.”<br />

However, as Ahlfeldt says, the Fargo-Moorhead<br />

community is different.<br />

“We live in a very supportive community with great<br />

people,” Ahlfeldt said. “I’m not going to say it’s been<br />

easy, but our community has definitely supported us<br />

through everything. We are very fortunate.”<br />

This is especially evident in the wake of tragedies such<br />

as the 2016 death of Officer Jason Moszer, as well as<br />

July 14, <strong>2023</strong>, when Officer Jake Wallin sacrificed his<br />

life in the line of duty.<br />

“Our community is just so supportive of our mission<br />

here and of us,” he said. “This person just gave their life<br />

for their community and you see this huge outpouring<br />

of support. Our culture in the upper Midwest is just very<br />

good at that.”<br />

Support within the department has evolved as well.<br />

<strong>The</strong> peer support team works to help lessen the<br />

impacts of post-traumatic stress with officers through<br />

many different methods. <strong>The</strong> team also looks for signs<br />

officers might be showing that indicate they may need<br />

additional support and provides resources for them to<br />

reach out to if they need help.<br />

Lesson Four: Sometimes it’s about the<br />

5-9, not the 9-5.<br />

Ahlfeldt’s life isn’t entirely about his career though.<br />

<strong>The</strong> Police Captain enjoys hunting and fishing in<br />

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