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The Good Life Magazine – September-October 2023

On the cover – Veterans Honor Flight of North Dakota / Minnesota. Also in this issue, the Changing Roles of Dad’s in Modern Parenting, Life Lessons with Fargo Police Captain and Local Hero Bill Ahlfeldt, How to Find the Perfect Squash and Pumpkin and more!

On the cover – Veterans Honor Flight of North Dakota / Minnesota. Also in this issue, the Changing Roles of Dad’s in Modern Parenting, Life Lessons with Fargo Police Captain and Local Hero Bill Ahlfeldt, How to Find the Perfect Squash and Pumpkin and more!

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LOCAL HERO | BILL AHLFELDT<br />

I applied for it, got it, and made a really good friend and<br />

mentor there, who I am still in touch with. He’s a retired<br />

trooper and such a great example of an officer and how<br />

they can communicate and de-escalate, and he’s just a<br />

very, very good person. And a good officer. I learned a<br />

lot from him as a whole.”<br />

With every summer internship, however, once those<br />

leaves turn brown, the work must come to an end.<br />

“I just got engaged to my wife, and we had this big<br />

plan that I was going to be a North Dakota Highway<br />

Patrolman,” he said. “And she was going to be a college<br />

professor; that was her dream, and we would settle in<br />

North Dakota.”<br />

But of course, life always has ways of throwing a wrench<br />

into plans.<br />

“I applied for a full-time job (with the North Dakota<br />

Highway Department), but I didn’t get it,” he said. “So<br />

I just started applying everywhere. I knew I wanted<br />

to be a police officer after Tom McDonald’s class and<br />

after doing my internship with the Highway Patrol. So I<br />

applied everywhere. I applied to Fargo; I applied to the<br />

Minnesota Highway Patrol, Bismarck PD, I think I filled<br />

an application out to South Dakota Patrol, Nebraska<br />

Highway Patrol, Border Patrol, Montana Highway<br />

Patrol, and the first to pick me up was the Border<br />

Patrol.”<br />

After a discussion with his wife, they decided moving<br />

far from home was not the choice for them or their<br />

new marriage, and he turned down the border patrol<br />

position.<br />

<strong>The</strong> next offer came from the Montana Highway Patrol.<br />

He packed his bags and set out for a 17-week training<br />

academy in Helena, MT.<br />

“I didn’t get to see my wife for quite a while, it was 800<br />

miles (from Fargo to Helena) I think,” he said. “We were<br />

only married three months at that time.”<br />

With three weeks left in the Montana Highway Patrol<br />

academy, Ahlfeldt’s wife was offered a scholarship for a<br />

Ph.D. at NDSU in her field of study.<br />

“So we had to make another very important life<br />

decision,” he said.<br />

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