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HYPNOTERAPl - Dansk Selskab for Klinisk Hypnose

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deux" and retains a stable reality <strong>for</strong> the therapist's permanent self - to which the therapist<br />

can return when the treatment has been accomplished. This "subject-object relationship"<br />

permits simultaneously two different perspectives <strong>for</strong> understanding the patient, an external<br />

and an internal one. It results in greater understanding than an "object relationship" alone.<br />

2) For a theoretical explanation and rational as to how this can be accomplished from the<br />

standpoint of Federn's Ego Psychology (1952) see Watkins & Watkins (1997).<br />

and perhaps it is the "person" of the therapist, not the technique or approach, that is the really<br />

significant factor in patient change.<br />

If therapists are not willing to commit their own selves to the co-experiencing, the cofearing,<br />

the co-raging, the co-hating, then those therapists should not do abreactions.<br />

person of the therapist adds to the diagnostic understanding of the patient. But it keeps the<br />

therapist as an external object to the patient and simply as a passive target on which to project<br />

his or her past. Moreover, the transference/counter-transference stance adds nothing to the<br />

ego strength or the patient's ability to confront and master such traumas, horrors or abusers. A<br />

transference interpretation educates the patient into what is the problem and how he/she must<br />

take the respon-sibility <strong>for</strong> it, but by itself does not provide the patient with the strength to do<br />

that. This interpretation may be "understood". It also makes sense , but this "insight" may<br />

only be cognitive, not experi-ential throughout the patient´s whole person<br />

The alliance of the therapist's resonance, however, adds to the patient's ego strength making<br />

it possible <strong>for</strong> him to risk a confron-tation with an internal abuser representation and prevail.<br />

Good abreactions require a personal, experiential investment by the thera-pist through<br />

resonance; transference does not. While waiting <strong>for</strong> transference to happen one observes the<br />

patient's emotional storm from the outside but does not enter into it personally. That is being<br />

objective, but it lacks the "weness" of resonance. Accordingly, a good abreaction may be an<br />

exhausting emotional experience <strong>for</strong> "the self" of the therapist, but it is not counter-transference.<br />

Perhaps the reason our patients are not overwhelmed and re-traumatized is because we<br />

involve ourselves intensively in emotionally resonating with them when they abreact.<br />

The addition of the therapist's self through resonance is illustrated in a specific case we<br />

have recorded.<br />

Ed, was a young man whose mother locked him at the age of three in a closet she said was<br />

filled with monsters. From fright he passed out and when awakened had regressed to a one<br />

year-old ego state which could not walk or talk. He had to learn to walk and talk all over<br />

again - a fact that caused much concern in the family. After working-through some fear<br />

abreactions his rage at his mother began to emerge, but regressed under hypnosis to the age of<br />

two he was afraid of confronting her and reported a "had headache." (The object representation<br />

of the introjected mother was punishing him <strong>for</strong> attempting to confront her.)<br />

Ed: I'm not supposed to he mad. She told me when I got mad at her she was gonna beat me<br />

with the belt. Th. (Helen Watkins): You're going to grow up a little bit now. You're gonna get<br />

bigger. And you can see Mommy there with the helt? Now she's gonna hit you with that belt.<br />

But you're bigger and bigger, and you can get mad. You can get mad.<br />

(His ego is still not strong enough to confront the object represen-tation of the punishing<br />

mother: So he replies.)<br />

Ed: No, I´m just a little, tiny kid.<br />

(Had he been <strong>for</strong>ced or overly encouraged to express his anger at this point he could have<br />

been inundated with fear. The strong object representation of his mother would probably<br />

prevail. The abreaction would have been a failure if not a re-traumatizing. However, the<br />

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