A Review of the Literature on Three Types of Disenfranchised Grief ...
A Review of the Literature on Three Types of Disenfranchised Grief ...
A Review of the Literature on Three Types of Disenfranchised Grief ...
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To counter <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>se problems Aloi (2009) suggested that nurses be provided with<br />
birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r grief educati<strong>on</strong> and awareness training and be informed when a relinquishing<br />
birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r is first admitted to <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> hospital. Because birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>rs may be afraid to bring up <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
relinquishment for fear <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> being judged, <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> nurse should bring up <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> subject in order to foster<br />
an open exchange and make <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> woman feel comfortable. The nurse should focus <strong>on</strong> listening,<br />
acknowledging, and validating without <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g>fering advice. It would also be beneficial for <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> nurse<br />
to <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g>fer <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> mo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> opportunity to see, hold, and say goodbye to <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> child. All <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>se<br />
measures will serve to lessen birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r disenfranchisement and allow for effective grieving.<br />
C<strong>on</strong>clusi<strong>on</strong>s. Although a fair amount <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> literature <strong>on</strong> birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r grief exists, we are still<br />
far from having a full understanding <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r grief experience and <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> l<strong>on</strong>g-term<br />
effects that relinquishment can have. At this time <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>re are numerous articles that validate that<br />
birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>rs experience grief; however, <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>re are very few that recognize <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g> disenfranchisement<br />
<str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> that grief. It is very important for <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>re to be fur<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r research that specifically addresses <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g><br />
disenfranchisement <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>r grief; this type <str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g> work would inform health care<br />
pr<str<strong>on</strong>g>of</str<strong>on</strong>g>essi<strong>on</strong>als, counselors, and family members about ways to reach out to birthmo<str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>rs and<br />
assist <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>m in fully grieving <str<strong>on</strong>g>the</str<strong>on</strong>g>ir loss.<br />
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