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The Spiritual Self Schema (3-S) Development Program

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First consider your mind wandering -- what was the typical theme of<br />

your daydreaming last week when your habitual self-schema was being<br />

accessed (was it worry, fear, desire for something you want, aversion<br />

towards something you don't want, fantasy, memories of the past,<br />

anticipation of future outcomes, ... ?) How would you describe the<br />

general theme of your daydreaming last week?<br />

Next list one cognitive script -- what did you tend to tell yourself last<br />

week (was your inner-dialogue encouraging you, was it chastising you,<br />

...?) Describe a typical cognitive script.<br />

<strong>The</strong>n list a feeling -- how did you typically react emotionally to<br />

whatever was going on (would you characterize a typical emotional<br />

reaction as agitation, depression, satisfaction, ... ?) Describe a typical<br />

emotional reaction experienced last week.<br />

Finally, list a typical behavior -- what behavioral action sequence do<br />

you associate with the habitual self-schema that was active during the<br />

past week (was it a sequence of behaviors for making money, providing<br />

care to others, self-improvement, ...?) What specific behavioral action<br />

sequence do you associate with the habitual self-schema that was active<br />

during the past week?<br />

Step 3: Increasing awareness of the consequences of your<br />

habitual self-schema(s)<br />

Reflect. Does my habitual path relieve, or contribute to, suffering?<br />

Mine? Others?<br />

Sometimes when we go on "automatic pilot" -- after our mind<br />

wanders and our cognitive scripts, habitual emotional responses,<br />

and behavioral action sequences are activated -- we inadvertently<br />

harm ourselves or others. Consider the consequences of your own<br />

habitual ways of experiencing and expressing yourself last week<br />

that could potentially cause harm.<br />

Rehearse (visualization): Visualize the actor once again, this<br />

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