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The Spiritual Self Schema (3-S) Development Program

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conversations or fantasies about future conversations or behavior which<br />

in turn have their own network of emotional and physiological links.<br />

When you increase your awareness of the intricate trail of activation<br />

through this vast network that is left behind by each seemingly<br />

inconsequential thought snippet, you will soon find that each and every<br />

thought, no matter how fleeting, leaves a trace.<br />

Once you are aware that every thought has consequence, you will<br />

become motivated to exercise control over the incessant chatter. Of<br />

course this does not mean you will stop the chatter, but rather you will<br />

learn to direct it, and make it work for you, rather than against<br />

you. As it is your intention to follow your personal <strong>Spiritual</strong> path, you<br />

will not want to allow what you believe to be inconsequential mental<br />

chatter to inadvertently activate habitual selfschemas that are actually<br />

incompatible with experiencing and expressing your <strong>Spiritual</strong> nature.<br />

<strong>The</strong>refore, during the next five days, continue the process of preparing<br />

the site for your Path by using each of the following strategies:<br />

1. Subvocal narration of thought, emotion, and action.<br />

Thought. Unless you are aware of the content of your "selftalk,"<br />

you will be unable to prevent even a fleeting thought from<br />

triggering a cascade of physiological, emotional, and behavioral<br />

responses that may take you mindlessly away from your desired<br />

destination. <strong>The</strong>refore, you need to monitor your ongoing<br />

thoughts, and as soon as you become aware that a harmful<br />

thought has arisen, do not attempt to block it, rather acknowledge<br />

it; say to yourself "a harmful thought has arisen in me.' Only by<br />

recognizing it as harmful can you activate alternate links in the<br />

network, such that the harmful thought subsides. Similarly, when<br />

a beneficial thought arises, say to yourself "a beneficial thought<br />

has arisen in me' and, having recognized it as beneficial, it will be<br />

more likely to return.<br />

Emotion. In addition, by immediately identifying an<br />

emotion that is arising, you have the opportunity to prevent the<br />

emotion from reverberating uncontrolled throughout the<br />

network, activating other links that are compatible with that<br />

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