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The Spiritual Self Schema (3-S) Development Program

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proceed directly towards your destination? Will it have a<br />

system of signs and signals so that you can avoid obstructions?<br />

Signs. Reflect on how you will know that you are on the right<br />

Path. What signs will you look for along the way? For example, by<br />

continuing to stop briefly three times a day to conduct a <strong>Self</strong>-<strong>Schema</strong><br />

Check-In (as in Phase 1), you will be able to determine whether you are<br />

on your <strong>Spiritual</strong> path or another incompatible path. By interrupting the<br />

automaticity of whatever self-schema is active, you will also be able to<br />

determine the extent to which you are able to experience and express<br />

your <strong>Spiritual</strong> nature while this self-schema is active. This will provide<br />

you with important data for making a conscious choice to stay on that<br />

path or access another.<br />

Warning signals. Reflect on what has the potential to be an<br />

obstruction along your Path and what could cause you to detour from<br />

your Path. Buddhist traditions speak of hindrances, such as lust (greed,<br />

craving), ill-will (hatred, envy, aversion), anxiety (restlesness), sloth<br />

(laziness), and doubt. Members of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) use the<br />

acronym H.A.L.T. (Hungry - Angry - Lonely - Tired) to remind them of<br />

potential obstacles in the path of recovery that trigger alcohol or drug<br />

use. You may find this a useful acronym to use as a warning signal<br />

along your own <strong>Spiritual</strong> path. <strong>The</strong> hunger or craving for any sensual<br />

pleasure, the feeling of anger or any negative emotion, the need for the<br />

company of others in order to feel whole, and physical and mental<br />

fatigue that can reduce your diligent effort and obscure your view --<br />

these are all early warning signals informing you that increased<br />

vigilance and/or access to support services are urgently needed. Other<br />

easy-to-remember warning signals, also borrowed from AA, are<br />

'People, Places, and Things.' Become aware of any people in your life in<br />

whose company you find it difficult to experience and express your<br />

<strong>Spiritual</strong> nature, and be alert for any places or things that are likely to<br />

cause you to detour from your <strong>Spiritual</strong> path. By increasing your<br />

awareness of the hindrances -- the potential obstacles and detours along<br />

the Path -- they can be avoided or transformed. (You will have the<br />

opportunity to practice transforming these stimuli in Phase 3).<br />

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