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ocean itself, unaffected by these small, transient things.<br />

So many times we act as though we are the waves of the<br />

ocean. Up one minute, down the next, changed by every<br />

gust of wind, by every passing boat. Yet, we are not these<br />

waves. I am using the analogy of the waves of the ocean,<br />

but you must realize that the waves I am really talking<br />

about are the waves of anger, anxiety, jealousy, greed, and<br />

lust that are just as vast, just as strong and just as restless<br />

as the waves of the sea.<br />

We are not waves, pulled this way and that by every<br />

passing breeze, by the daily changes in the moon. Yet we<br />

act like that.<br />

We act as though we are light bulbs and anyone who wants<br />

to can simply switch us on or off. Isn’t it true? Can’t the<br />

slightest comment or look or action of another change our<br />

mood 180 degrees? Isn’t it so frequent that we are in a<br />

wonderful mood and someone at the grocery store is rude<br />

to us, or someone on the freeway passes in front of our<br />

car, or a friend is cold and distant? Any of these things can<br />

immediately switch our mood as though we were a light<br />

bulb.<br />

from a person have so much control over us? Are we so<br />

volatile in our emotions that others have more power over<br />

our moods than we, ourselves, do?<br />

Aren’t we more than this? Aren’t we bigger, more divine,<br />

and deeper than this? Isn’t there more to this human<br />

existence than the law of action and reaction? We must<br />

learn to keep that light switch in our own hands and to<br />

give it only to God. Otherwise we are switched on and off,<br />

on and off, all day long and the only effect is that the light<br />

bulb burns out!<br />

Let us take whatever comes as prasad, as a gift from God.<br />

Let us remain calm and steady in the face of both prosperity<br />

and misfortune. We must not lose our vital energy in this<br />

constant action and reaction to everyone around us.<br />

But how? How to remain unaffected by the waves of life?<br />

This is called spiritual practice! I always say that one of<br />

the best ways to learn “no reaction” is through silence.<br />

When we are anxious, angry, tense or frustrated, we tend<br />

to say things which we later regret; we tend to let our words<br />

fuel the reaction in our hearts. So, let us learn the power of<br />

silence. Silence on the outside will lead to silence on the<br />

inside. This is why so many saints and other spiritual people<br />

have “silence time;” it’s a time of remembering that we<br />

are more than our reactions, a time of tuning in to the<br />

Divine Insurance Company, a time of charging our inner<br />

batteries.<br />

So many times I hear people say, “Oh, I was in such a good<br />

mood, but then Robert called and told me what Julie said<br />

about me,” or “Oh, that phone call just ruined my day.”<br />

And the same works the other way. We are sad or<br />

depressed and we get a nice phone call or letter in the<br />

mail or we eat some good cookies. Then we feel better.<br />

How is that? How can one phone call, or one rude comment<br />

So, let us learn to meet life’s waves with silence — that will<br />

make “no reaction” much easier to achieve.<br />

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