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strong desire to be socially accepted <strong>and</strong> to have a particular image. This was achieved by dress<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong><br />

the latest fashions.<br />

“So you want to be <strong>in</strong> the style <strong>and</strong> they can’t afford it so you go out <strong>and</strong> you beg<br />

somebody for that money. In exchange for the money you have to give them sex.”<br />

[females, 14-16, <strong>in</strong> school]<br />

Another reason for engag<strong>in</strong>g <strong>in</strong> such promiscuous behavior for monetary ga<strong>in</strong> was to ga<strong>in</strong> status <strong>and</strong><br />

popularity with peers.<br />

It was further <strong>in</strong>dicated that poor girls had the tendency to engage <strong>in</strong> prostitution for economic<br />

reasons, which was <strong>in</strong> some <strong>in</strong>stances even encouraged by their mothers.<br />

“Your mother will be like br<strong>in</strong>g<strong>in</strong>g men <strong>in</strong>to her ho<strong>use</strong> for you to have sex with so that she<br />

can collect money at the end of the day.” [females, 17-19, <strong>in</strong> school]<br />

Lack of parental love <strong>and</strong> concern<br />

Five groups, ma<strong>in</strong>ly females <strong>in</strong> <strong>and</strong> out of school <strong>and</strong> <strong>in</strong> school males 14-16 years old, highlighted that<br />

the tendency for <strong>young</strong> girls to engage <strong>in</strong> sex was a direct result of lack of love, neglect <strong>and</strong> problems<br />

at home. <strong>The</strong>y were seek<strong>in</strong>g love <strong>and</strong> thus became victims of male prowlers seek<strong>in</strong>g sex.<br />

“I believe it’s a lack of love at home beca<strong>use</strong> most children don’t get love at home, so if<br />

they f<strong>in</strong>d a boy to love them,…that person ask them for sex obviously they will give them.<br />

“You mother who does push you so you go<strong>in</strong>g somewhere else <strong>and</strong> get their love.<br />

Sometime they even go<strong>in</strong>g for a man <strong>and</strong> all. Miss, when you eh get love home, they does<br />

go out <strong>and</strong> see whey they gett<strong>in</strong>g love; if you eh get from you father you go<strong>in</strong>g by a man.<br />

So you sex<strong>in</strong>g whey you gett<strong>in</strong>g love. ” [females, 14-16, <strong>in</strong> <strong>and</strong> out of school]<br />

Love<br />

Female participants from four groups <strong>in</strong>dicated that <strong>young</strong> females engaged <strong>in</strong> first time sexual acts as<br />

an expression of love towards their boyfriends.<br />

“I had sex beca<strong>use</strong> I felt that I was <strong>in</strong> love with the boy. Beca<strong>use</strong> they love their boyfriend<br />

they tend to get <strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> sexual activity.” [males <strong>and</strong> females, <strong>in</strong> <strong>and</strong> out of school, 17-<br />

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It was further <strong>in</strong>dicated that <strong>in</strong> such <strong>in</strong>stances it was the boyfriend who had <strong>in</strong>itiated the desire for<br />

sexual contact, <strong>and</strong> though the girls did not wish to have sex, they did it to please their boyfriends.<br />

In school males 14-16 reported that the girls seemed to express a greater desire for love <strong>and</strong> admitted<br />

that males manipulated these girls to obta<strong>in</strong> sexual favors.<br />

“Sometimes, well you will lie for them. Ssometimes <strong>and</strong> you will tell them if you love me<br />

have sex with me <strong>and</strong> th<strong>in</strong>g <strong>and</strong> the boy just say<strong>in</strong>g that to have sex with you <strong>and</strong> the girl<br />

will th<strong>in</strong>k that you love her. Girls tend to feel that anytime a boy tell them that he love<br />

them that is what they mean but apparently they don’t m<strong>in</strong>d; they don’t learn from their<br />

mistakes. It happen to them once, three times <strong>and</strong> like they can’t see that you know.”<br />

[males, 14-16, <strong>in</strong> school]<br />

Media <strong>in</strong>fluence<br />

<strong>The</strong> barrage of sexy material, music <strong>and</strong> enterta<strong>in</strong>ment aired on the electronic media was cited by four<br />

groups as <strong>in</strong>fluenc<strong>in</strong>g <strong>young</strong> persons <strong>in</strong>to sexual behavior.<br />

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