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Sarah Schachterle - HERLIFE Magazine

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think about my daughter and how it<br />

would affect her,” she says. “I want to<br />

live as long as I can…I don’t want to<br />

leave Reagan.” <strong>Sarah</strong> admits she was<br />

angry at first, trying to figure out how<br />

she was going to rearrange her life.<br />

With her life on fast-forward most of the<br />

time, she realized it was time to slow<br />

down, but finding that balance wasn’t<br />

so easy. At first, she quit everything but<br />

quickly realized that wasn’t living.<br />

“I decided that I needed to fight<br />

this, I needed to change my attitude,”<br />

she says. “It’s mind over matter; no<br />

matter what life sends your way,<br />

there’s a way to overcome.” <strong>Sarah</strong> rose<br />

to the challenge just as she has with<br />

everything in her life, and surmounted<br />

her fears even through her near death<br />

experience due to her heart condition.<br />

She admits that if she was to choreograph<br />

a dance for her life and give it a<br />

name she would call it a ‘roller coaster<br />

ride.’ “It is the first thing that comes to<br />

mind when I think about my life,” she<br />

says. “I have actually even had dreams<br />

about roller coasters. One night when<br />

I was really sick I woke up and heard a<br />

voice say hold on, ‘here we go’ ...and I<br />

pictured a roller coaster.”<br />

She agrees that she doesn’t look<br />

through life with rose-colored glasses or<br />

live in denial, but has made a conscious<br />

decision that her illness isn’t going to<br />

rule her road. With a positive attitude<br />

comes a higher altitude, and she’s<br />

concluded, instead of it making her<br />

bitter, she’s letting it make her a better<br />

person.<br />

“I know this sounds cliché, but I’ve<br />

learned to stop and smell the roses. I<br />

don’t remember a lot of my life because<br />

I ran though it so fast. Every event;<br />

birthdays, my graduation…I ran through<br />

them like they were a Broadway show. I<br />

ran through life so fast I never enjoyed<br />

the moment I was in, but always looking<br />

beyond to the next and ready to move<br />

onto the next thing. But not anymore. I<br />

stay in the moment, enjoy the moment<br />

for what it is. Every day is a day I’m<br />

thankful for and try to become more<br />

than I was the day before. Instead of<br />

saying to myself ‘why me,’ I say to<br />

myself ‘why not me?’”<br />

<strong>HERLIFE</strong>magazine.com 17 17

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