Sarah Schachterle - HERLIFE Magazine
Sarah Schachterle - HERLIFE Magazine
Sarah Schachterle - HERLIFE Magazine
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FAILED ADOPTION<br />
One of the most catastrophic dangers<br />
of adoption is a failed adoption. This<br />
fear among prospective adopting parents<br />
stems from the reality that there are<br />
cases wherein birthparents have returned<br />
and reclaimed their children. If both<br />
birthparents’ rights are not terminated<br />
in strict compliance with the governing<br />
laws, where the adoption is finalized, the<br />
adoption is not legal and binding and can<br />
be contested.<br />
AGENCY CLOSING/FINANCIAL LOSS<br />
Making the financial commitment<br />
to adopt a baby is a huge step for adopting<br />
couples. This investment can be a<br />
mistake if the wrong entity is employed.<br />
For a couple to guard against this danger,<br />
there are a number of factors to consider<br />
including size of the adoption entity,<br />
national presence, longevity in business<br />
and recent history of success.<br />
UNDISCLOSED MEDICAL/PSYCHOLOGI-<br />
CAL OR HEALTH CHALLENGES<br />
There are many medical issues to<br />
be considered when adopting a child. If<br />
you adopt internationally, these medical<br />
concerns are significantly increased.<br />
Even when adopting domestically, it<br />
can be a challenge to secure accurate<br />
and complete medical records. Ask your<br />
prospective adoption entity what background,<br />
history and medical information<br />
will be provided about the birthparents<br />
before you make a final decision about<br />
who to employ to conduct your adoption.<br />
ENDLESS WAIT TIMES RESULTING IN<br />
INCREASED EMOTIONAL STRESS<br />
Couples engaging in adoption are<br />
commonly quoted a vast range between<br />
the minimum and maximum wait times<br />
reported by adoption entities, and there<br />
are multiple factors that contribute to<br />
adoption wait times. Larger entities with<br />
a strong and widespread birthparent<br />
marketing efforts and a substantial<br />
Internet presence will be more successful<br />
in attracting a larger number of<br />
birthparents resulting in a higher number<br />
of adoption opportunities, which in turn<br />
reduces anticipated wait times.<br />
Take the time to research and let<br />
your knowledge give you the power to<br />
navigate your decision making and give<br />
you the precious miracle your heart is<br />
longing for.<br />
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