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Youth in Dialogue - Nelson Mandela Foundation

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Galeshewe, Northern Cape<br />

Kimberley Community Hall, Galeshewe, Northern Cape:<br />

November 20, 2007<br />

Galeshewe suffers from rife alcoholism and a high<br />

rate of teenage pregnancy. The older generation<br />

do not talk to their children. It is not uncommon<br />

to f<strong>in</strong>d 12-year-olds gett<strong>in</strong>g drunk and spend<strong>in</strong>g their<br />

even<strong>in</strong>gs at taverns.<br />

dialogue<br />

summary:<br />

Galeshewe<br />

There is pressure to be seen <strong>in</strong> the latest trendy cloth<strong>in</strong>g, sport<strong>in</strong>g the most expensive sneakers<br />

and carry<strong>in</strong>g the latest mobile phone. Peers consider these assets as the greatest achievements <strong>in</strong><br />

their young lives. Young girls exchange sexual favours with older men for money.<br />

Attendance<br />

Over 750 people attended, with some hav<strong>in</strong>g to stand <strong>in</strong> the 600-capacity hall. The enthusiastic crowd<br />

comprised community members, members of NGOs, CBOs, loveLife groundbreakers, community<br />

development workers, educators, members of the ANC <strong>Youth</strong> league, etc.<br />

Summary<br />

This dialogue was considered the best of the series, not only because the youth were passionate<br />

and engag<strong>in</strong>g, but also because of the pace at which the issues were exposed and the strong<br />

commitment the youth showed to stopp<strong>in</strong>g the spread of HIV themselves.<br />

The <strong>Youth</strong> Noted<br />

◊ The culture of alcoholism is crippl<strong>in</strong>g the youth. Either the elders are too drunk to listen when<br />

their children reach out, or the youth are too drunk to heed the messag<strong>in</strong>g, which they admit is<br />

everywhere.<br />

◊ <strong>Dialogue</strong> among the youth should be encouraged.<br />

◊ <strong>Youth</strong> need to shift their energies from try<strong>in</strong>g to impress each other and work on their dreams.<br />

◊ Homosexuals are part of the community, too. They are part of the problem and want to be<br />

accepted as part of the solution, too.<br />

◊ The church should play a role <strong>in</strong> HIV/AIDS issues and stop pretend<strong>in</strong>g people are not dy<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

◊ The elders should also stop po<strong>in</strong>t<strong>in</strong>g<br />

f<strong>in</strong>gers at young people; they need<br />

to take their place and start guid<strong>in</strong>g<br />

young people <strong>in</strong> life. They should stop<br />

consider<strong>in</strong>g sex talk taboo because<br />

whether or not they want to admit it,<br />

young people are hav<strong>in</strong>g sex.<br />

The community of Galeshewe.<br />

Commitments<br />

◊ Young people are tired of stand<strong>in</strong>g<br />

on the sidel<strong>in</strong>es and wait<strong>in</strong>g for<br />

someone to do someth<strong>in</strong>g about AIDS,<br />

so they are all committed to chang<strong>in</strong>g<br />

behaviour.<br />

◊ Young people need to be proactive<br />

and engage <strong>in</strong> community activities.<br />

◊ <strong>Dialogue</strong> should be encouraged.<br />

YOUTH IN DIALOGUE 19

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