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Youth in Dialogue - Nelson Mandela Foundation

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Interview with Maleke, 17<br />

case<br />

study:<br />

Mhluzi<br />

Maleke<br />

We are shy<strong>in</strong>g away from<br />

speak<strong>in</strong>g about HIV/AIDS.<br />

You see, HIV/AIDS <strong>in</strong> our<br />

community is someth<strong>in</strong>g<br />

which we never talk about, it is<br />

taboo.<br />

I’ll make a practical<br />

example. When one goes to<br />

shows, say at that show they<br />

are go<strong>in</strong>g to address the youth<br />

or they are go<strong>in</strong>g to address<br />

the community or the society<br />

at large and they are go<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

speak about HIV/AIDS.<br />

People will go there, we will<br />

go there, not hav<strong>in</strong>g an aim<br />

that we’re go<strong>in</strong>g to get more<br />

<strong>in</strong>formation or we’re go<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

get some details about HIV/<br />

AIDS, but we’re go<strong>in</strong>g to go<br />

there because we know that<br />

some stars are com<strong>in</strong>g.<br />

Les<br />

What I’m hear<strong>in</strong>g from you is<br />

that the messag<strong>in</strong>g, some of<br />

the vehicles that are be<strong>in</strong>g used<br />

to grab our attention as young<br />

people, like for <strong>in</strong>stance hav<strong>in</strong>g<br />

big concerts and stuff, they<br />

are not work<strong>in</strong>g the way that<br />

they should. They are tak<strong>in</strong>g<br />

attention from the messages<br />

and the attention is go<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

the enterta<strong>in</strong>ment.<br />

Maleke<br />

Yes, however I do believe that<br />

if the set-up of these shows<br />

or these concerts is changed,<br />

then we’ll see a change <strong>in</strong> our<br />

community.<br />

Say now for example,<br />

rather than them say<strong>in</strong>g that<br />

these people will come here<br />

and perform, they should<br />

say that we’re go<strong>in</strong>g to have<br />

a talk show and we’re go<strong>in</strong>g<br />

to have celebrities<br />

or people who are<br />

<strong>in</strong> the media or<br />

people who are <strong>in</strong><br />

the public eye and<br />

they are go<strong>in</strong>g to be<br />

<strong>in</strong>volved <strong>in</strong> that talk<br />

show.<br />

And the people<br />

who are go<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

organise those<br />

k<strong>in</strong>ds of events<br />

should make sure<br />

that the people who<br />

are go<strong>in</strong>g to talk<br />

or are go<strong>in</strong>g to be<br />

hosted at that event<br />

Maleke.<br />

should be the youth, because it<br />

is appeal<strong>in</strong>g for me if someone<br />

of my age comes to me and<br />

says that I’ve had this k<strong>in</strong>d<br />

of experience, this and that<br />

happened.<br />

And also I believe that <strong>in</strong><br />

those k<strong>in</strong>ds of talk shows we<br />

should <strong>in</strong>clude parents because<br />

we cannot empower the youth<br />

while at the same time we<br />

leave beh<strong>in</strong>d [parents], you get<br />

what I’m say<strong>in</strong>g<br />

Les<br />

Yes, it’s difficult gett<strong>in</strong>g<br />

through to the parents. How do<br />

you handle the issue of respect,<br />

the level of communication<br />

with old people<br />

Maleke<br />

Yes, exactly, now there’s a<br />

loveLife say<strong>in</strong>g that I like<br />

us<strong>in</strong>g: “if you are not talk<strong>in</strong>g to<br />

your child, who is” So parents<br />

have a huge <strong>in</strong>fluence on us<br />

because they are role models. I<br />

grew up under their <strong>in</strong>fluence,<br />

they speak to me, they are the<br />

ones who <strong>in</strong>stil morals, values<br />

and pr<strong>in</strong>ciples with<strong>in</strong> me, but<br />

it is up to me whether I <strong>in</strong>tend<br />

to keep those morals, values<br />

and pr<strong>in</strong>ciples.<br />

However, I do believe that<br />

if we empower the youth, we<br />

should also empower parents<br />

because it doesn’t make sense<br />

to empower the youth and<br />

leave parents beh<strong>in</strong>d. They<br />

should accept that these kids<br />

are a different generation.<br />

We’ve got issues affect<strong>in</strong>g us,<br />

we’ve got teenage pregnancies.<br />

HIV/AIDS is one of the killers<br />

that kills the youth <strong>in</strong> South<br />

Africa and com<strong>in</strong>g to th<strong>in</strong>k<br />

about it, if we the youth are<br />

dy<strong>in</strong>g of HIV/AIDS then who<br />

YOUTH IN DIALOGUE 31

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