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OCTOBER <strong>2010</strong> VOL. 4, NO. 2<br />

LEFT: The members of the Sri Lankan summer project<br />

pose with faculty and advisors.<br />

BOTTOM: The Sri Lankan students attend a workshop in<br />

Colombo on the involvement of women in peace ef<strong>for</strong>ts.<br />

One student’s amorphous suggestion that they<br />

“go back to Sri Lanka and do something”<br />

became more concrete as the students petitioned<br />

AUW to support the project. The students<br />

also planned a fundraiser, surpassing their goal<br />

of 50,000 taka, and collaborated with LEADS, a<br />

Sri Lankan community development organization,<br />

to plan the trip. In May, the students<br />

headed home, where the real work began.<br />

Cleaning a graveyard. Visiting a temple. Playing cricket. As disparate as these<br />

activities may seem on the surface, they all were used as part of ef<strong>for</strong>ts to reach<br />

a singular and elusive goal: fostering dialogue, trust, and reconciliation between<br />

the mostly Buddhist Sinhala and mostly Hindu Tamil communities in Sri Lanka<br />

that have endured decades of mutual animosity.*<br />

Reconciling these two groups is a lofty<br />

goal, but AUW’s undergraduate Sri Lankan<br />

students learned during their Summer<br />

Project that a strong community working<br />

together has the power to heal, connect, and<br />

inspire people from any background. And in the<br />

process, they strengthened their own academic<br />

and life skills.<br />

Reconciliation, like most meaningful change,<br />

does not happen over night; much vision, planning,<br />

and hard work is involved. At AUW, the<br />

work began in September 2009, when the students<br />

attended a workshop led by Evangeline<br />

(Evan) Ekanayake, then serving as counselor and<br />

deputy director of AUW’s Health and Wellness<br />

Center. This workshop successfully defused<br />

growing tensions between AUW’s Tamil and<br />

Sinhalese students by helping them recognize<br />

their own prejudices and exchange personal stories<br />

with each other. (See AUW’s January <strong>2010</strong><br />

newsletter <strong>for</strong> more in<strong>for</strong>mation.)<br />

In true AUW fashion, the students were not content<br />

with just their own enlightenment: the<br />

Sinhalese and Tamil students wanted to share<br />

their newfound understandings that reconciliation<br />

is not only possible, but also invigorating.<br />

In the capital city of Colombo and the central city<br />

of Kandy, students met with 14 experts to discuss<br />

the war in Sri Lanka, peace and reconciliation<br />

practices, psychosocial ramifications of war, ethnic<br />

identity, Sri Lankan politics, and women’s<br />

roles in all of the above. One highlight, according<br />

to the students’ final report, occurred when<br />

economist Dr. Nishan De Mel “made us question<br />

how and why we have labels that make us<br />

believe we are different from some and similar to<br />

some.” Student Umaiyal, who is Tamil, thinks that<br />

this workshop “changed [us] the most” because<br />

they learned that identities and ethnicities are<br />

man-made cultural creations whose meanings<br />

and boundaries change over time and are far<br />

from immutable. The lesson was profound: now,<br />

Umaiyal says, “I do not feel that I have ‘Sinhala’<br />

friends because I think that we all are from the<br />

same community.”<br />

*(A 26-year war between the government army and the<br />

rebel Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam ended just last year.)<br />

Moving Beyond Conflict<br />

SPREADING HOPE<br />

by Mariah Steele

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