Fall 2010 - Asian University for Women
Fall 2010 - Asian University for Women
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OCTOBER <strong>2010</strong> VOL. 4, NO. 2<br />
LEFT: The members of the Sri Lankan summer project<br />
pose with faculty and advisors.<br />
BOTTOM: The Sri Lankan students attend a workshop in<br />
Colombo on the involvement of women in peace ef<strong>for</strong>ts.<br />
One student’s amorphous suggestion that they<br />
“go back to Sri Lanka and do something”<br />
became more concrete as the students petitioned<br />
AUW to support the project. The students<br />
also planned a fundraiser, surpassing their goal<br />
of 50,000 taka, and collaborated with LEADS, a<br />
Sri Lankan community development organization,<br />
to plan the trip. In May, the students<br />
headed home, where the real work began.<br />
Cleaning a graveyard. Visiting a temple. Playing cricket. As disparate as these<br />
activities may seem on the surface, they all were used as part of ef<strong>for</strong>ts to reach<br />
a singular and elusive goal: fostering dialogue, trust, and reconciliation between<br />
the mostly Buddhist Sinhala and mostly Hindu Tamil communities in Sri Lanka<br />
that have endured decades of mutual animosity.*<br />
Reconciling these two groups is a lofty<br />
goal, but AUW’s undergraduate Sri Lankan<br />
students learned during their Summer<br />
Project that a strong community working<br />
together has the power to heal, connect, and<br />
inspire people from any background. And in the<br />
process, they strengthened their own academic<br />
and life skills.<br />
Reconciliation, like most meaningful change,<br />
does not happen over night; much vision, planning,<br />
and hard work is involved. At AUW, the<br />
work began in September 2009, when the students<br />
attended a workshop led by Evangeline<br />
(Evan) Ekanayake, then serving as counselor and<br />
deputy director of AUW’s Health and Wellness<br />
Center. This workshop successfully defused<br />
growing tensions between AUW’s Tamil and<br />
Sinhalese students by helping them recognize<br />
their own prejudices and exchange personal stories<br />
with each other. (See AUW’s January <strong>2010</strong><br />
newsletter <strong>for</strong> more in<strong>for</strong>mation.)<br />
In true AUW fashion, the students were not content<br />
with just their own enlightenment: the<br />
Sinhalese and Tamil students wanted to share<br />
their newfound understandings that reconciliation<br />
is not only possible, but also invigorating.<br />
In the capital city of Colombo and the central city<br />
of Kandy, students met with 14 experts to discuss<br />
the war in Sri Lanka, peace and reconciliation<br />
practices, psychosocial ramifications of war, ethnic<br />
identity, Sri Lankan politics, and women’s<br />
roles in all of the above. One highlight, according<br />
to the students’ final report, occurred when<br />
economist Dr. Nishan De Mel “made us question<br />
how and why we have labels that make us<br />
believe we are different from some and similar to<br />
some.” Student Umaiyal, who is Tamil, thinks that<br />
this workshop “changed [us] the most” because<br />
they learned that identities and ethnicities are<br />
man-made cultural creations whose meanings<br />
and boundaries change over time and are far<br />
from immutable. The lesson was profound: now,<br />
Umaiyal says, “I do not feel that I have ‘Sinhala’<br />
friends because I think that we all are from the<br />
same community.”<br />
*(A 26-year war between the government army and the<br />
rebel Liberation Tigers of Tamil Eelam ended just last year.)<br />
Moving Beyond Conflict<br />
SPREADING HOPE<br />
by Mariah Steele