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Chapter 1: Team Tools<br />

Regional Management Team Handbook<br />

4/13<br />

Sometimes, a chorus or individual may select you personally to be the counselor. Some<br />

counseling situations may require coordinators to refer a person to someone outside the<br />

team who is more highly skilled. Before agreeing to help, you must decide whether the<br />

situation is within the realm of your duties. Communication is vital among your team<br />

members in this aspect. If the area of contention could best be addressed by another<br />

member of the regional team, notify her, explain the situation, and then remove<br />

yourself from the situation as tactfully as possible. Never be afraid to seek assistance<br />

with a problem situation.<br />

Counseling is a relationship that involves someone seeking help, someone willing<br />

and capable of helping, and a setting that permits help to be given and received.<br />

Counseling includes these characteristics:<br />

• A basic acceptance of the perceptions, feelings, and values of another<br />

• Confidentiality and privacy<br />

• Voluntary participation by the counselee<br />

• A focus on the counselee rather than the counselor<br />

• Communication, awareness, and sensitivity<br />

Counseling is not:<br />

• Giving information, though information may be conveyed<br />

• Giving advice<br />

• Trying to change an individual’s attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors by persuading,<br />

admonishing, threatening, or compelling<br />

• Selecting and assigning individuals to jobs<br />

• Interviewing, though interviewing may be involved<br />

In your role as counselor, you may function in various capacities:<br />

• You may intervene in a conflict situation<br />

• You may serve as mediator, helping factions hear and understand each other<br />

• You may serve as a negotiator, helping bring about certain results or behaviors<br />

Regardless of the situation and its seriousness, you can follow certain logical steps to<br />

prepare yourself to act as a counselor:<br />

• Find ways to develop and polish your communication skills, such as reflective<br />

listening, giving “I”­messages (I think..., I feel...,What I think I’m hearing is...),<br />

interpreting nonverbal communication, etc.<br />

• Become familiar with problem-solving and goal-setting processes and with<br />

conflict management and facilitation techniques<br />

• Enlist people whose opinions and ideas you respect as sounding boards.<br />

Sometimes just verbalizing your thoughts and strategies will help solidify your<br />

thinking. Your sounding board also may bring out other viewpoints that you may<br />

not have considered<br />

• If possible, accompany a seasoned counselor on a counseling visit and observe<br />

how she handles the situation and what skills she uses<br />

Team Tools • 1-15

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