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· Starting small. To get from a state where<br />
you just feel like sitting on your chair and<br />
doing nothing much <strong>to</strong> one where you take<br />
action over and over you can do this: start<br />
small. Getting started with your biggest t<strong>as</strong>k<br />
or most difficult action may seem <strong>to</strong>o much<br />
and land you in Procr<strong>as</strong>tinationland. So<br />
instead, start with something that doesn’t<br />
seem so hard. One of my favorites is simply<br />
<strong>to</strong> take a few minutes <strong>to</strong> clean my desk.<br />
After that <strong>the</strong> next thing doesn’t seem so<br />
difficult <strong>to</strong> get started with since I’m now in<br />
a more of a ―take action‖ kind of mode.<br />
5. Tomorrow will come anyway. Live and fully<br />
enjoy here and now.<br />
―Worry never robs <strong>to</strong>morrow of its sorrow, it only<br />
saps <strong>to</strong>day of its joy.‖<br />
-- Leo F. Buscaglia<br />
vibe of presence by hanging out with him or<br />
her (just like you can pick up positivity or<br />
enthusi<strong>as</strong>m from people). If you don’t know<br />
someone like that <strong>the</strong>n I have often<br />
recommended listening <strong>to</strong>/watching Eckhart<br />
Tolle in <strong>the</strong> p<strong>as</strong>t. I still do. I especially like<br />
his audio book ―Stillness Speaks‖. Ano<strong>the</strong>r<br />
guy that I find helpful for picking up presence<br />
from is Wayne Dyer.<br />
If you found this article helpful, <strong>the</strong>n ple<strong>as</strong>e share it<br />
with someone else by using <strong>the</strong> sharing but<strong>to</strong>ns at <strong>the</strong><br />
websites below. Thank you! J<br />
http://www.positivityblog.com/<br />
index.php/2009/10/23/how-<strong>to</strong>-overcome-yourworries<br />
http://www.positivityblog.com/<br />
index.php/2011/08/09/overcome-worries<br />
To be able <strong>to</strong> let go all that excessive thinking about<br />
<strong>the</strong> future (which often leads <strong>to</strong> worries in <strong>the</strong> end),<br />
<strong>to</strong> live better <strong>to</strong>day and <strong>to</strong> be able <strong>to</strong> take that<br />
positive action <strong>to</strong> move forward it really h<strong>as</strong> been<br />
very helpful for me <strong>to</strong> develop a habit of learning <strong>to</strong><br />
live in <strong>the</strong> present moment. Because it’s <strong>the</strong>re that<br />
you can do things in <strong>the</strong> best possible way with your<br />
focus fully on what you are doing.<br />
Three of my favorite techniques for developing this<br />
habit and drawing myself back <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> now when I get<br />
lost thinking <strong>to</strong>o much about <strong>the</strong> future or p<strong>as</strong>t are<br />
<strong>the</strong>se:<br />
· Focus on what’s right in front of you. Or<br />
around you. Or on you. Use your senses. Just<br />
look at what’s right in front of you right<br />
now. Listen <strong>to</strong> <strong>the</strong> sounds around you. Feel<br />
<strong>the</strong> fabric of your clo<strong>the</strong>s and focus on how<br />
<strong>the</strong>y feel. Be still right <strong>the</strong>re and just take in<br />
<strong>the</strong> world around you.<br />
· Focus on your breathing. Take relatively<br />
deep breaths with your belly. Focus your<br />
attention on just <strong>the</strong> in- and out-breaths for<br />
about two minutes. This aligns you with<br />
what is happening right now and it also<br />
calms down a stressed and worried body.<br />
· Pick up <strong>the</strong> vibe from present people. If<br />
you know someone that is more present than<br />
most people <strong>the</strong>n you can pick up his/her<br />
Henrik Edberg is <strong>the</strong> author of <strong>the</strong> Simplicity course,<br />
The Art of Relaxed Productivity and The Power of<br />
Positivity. He writes regularly on Positivity Blog, an<br />
internet blog with over 40,000 readers, talking about<br />
improving your social life, health, happiness,<br />
productivity and general awesomeness. For more<br />
information about Henrik and his blog, ple<strong>as</strong>e go <strong>to</strong>:<br />
http://www.positivityblog.com .<br />
40 <strong>Yang</strong>-<strong>Sheng</strong> (Nurturing Life) Volume 1, Issue No. 7