‘Just Say Goodbye’ (January 2013 online edition)

Chapter 6Conclusion:Shining some light in the darkThis discussion paper has outlined international research and caseexamples of parents who kill their children in the context of parentalseparation. It has explored the motives, and other contributing factors,in these filicides. While the research shows that separation is a central elementin many filicides, there is a limited understanding of the impact and role it playsin filicide. We have sought to contribute to the understanding of intentionalfilicide in the context of separation in order to stimulate further research anddiscussion, which is necessary to develop effective prevention strategies.The paper argues that intentional filicides that occur in the context of separationdiffer to other types of filicide and therefore require a different approach toexplanation and prevention. It also shows there are gender differences betweenfathers and mothers who perpetrate these filicides, which also need to beconsidered. The paper highlights a distinct type of separation filicide, primarilyperpetrated by fathers, in which the children are killed to harm the otherparent. This final chapter focuses on such filicides, described in the literature as‘revenge’ or ‘retaliation’ filicides. As an organisation that aims to prevent familyviolence, this is the area in which we are most likely to be able to make acontribution.The first part of this chapter highlights the importance of recognising thesignificance of separation in some filicides, the gendered patterns in filicideoccurring in this context and the role and impact of intimate partner violence.The second part considers issues relevant to the prevention of these filicides. Itconsiders ideas for improving legal, mental health and social service responses,and for assessing risks to children. This chapter also provides some suggestionsfor future research and data collection in Australia.78