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CHILDREN AT RISK GUIDELINES<br />

7.4 <strong>The</strong>re is dialogue with parents <strong>and</strong> caregivers so that they can make informed decisions<br />

<strong>and</strong> represent their families.<br />

■ Parents who are better informed, educated <strong>and</strong> supported will feel more confident<br />

when dealing with their children, with issues involving their children, <strong>and</strong> with<br />

decision-makers above them whose decisions influence their children.<br />

■ Parents who are well supported may feel able to lobby Government departments<br />

<strong>and</strong> churches for the services they need rather than the ones the Government <strong>and</strong><br />

churches believe appropriate. An example might be keeping open an afternoon<br />

mother <strong>and</strong> toddler group, threatened with closure, because it fits better with their<br />

own schedules.<br />

7.5 <strong>The</strong>re is dialogue with children so that, depending on age <strong>and</strong> ability, they can make<br />

informed decisions <strong>and</strong> speak for themselves <strong>and</strong> their peers.<br />

■ Some children will be supportive of their parents, although during the teenage<br />

years in particular it may be difficult for this to occur spontaneously. It cannot be<br />

over-emphasised that listening to children on how they perceive problems can help<br />

both parents <strong>and</strong> programme managers to identify the issues.<br />

7.6 <strong>The</strong>re is awareness of the biblical basis of advocacy on behalf of children <strong>and</strong> of the<br />

importance of prayer.<br />

■ See the Introduction to these Guidelines <strong>and</strong> the <strong>Tearfund</strong> Child Development<br />

Study Pack.<br />

VOLUME 1: CHILDREN AND FAMILY BREAKDOWN<br />

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