18Our faith and love are tested when we become close enough to people where they canreally hurt us. This is part of the trials that the Bible talks about that will make us purer, strongerand better. As it says concerning Jesus, “. . . He learned obedience from what He suffered . . .”(Heb 5:8). Why should it be different with us? Is the servant greater than his Master?TEAM WORKWe have already seen how that when we become Christians we become members ofGod’s family. And the Bible is clear that this also means that we become members of oneanother. We constitute the body of Christ, the Church. As we study the New Testament itbecomes clear that we are to become functioning members of that body (1 Co 12; Eph 4:1-16).Paul put it,“It was He (Christ) who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some tobe evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, to prepare God’s peoplefor works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we allreach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and becomemature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.”Then we will longer be infants, tossed back and forth by the waves, and blownhere and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness ofmen in their deceitful scheming. Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will inall things grow up into Him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From Him thewhole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows andbuilds itself up in love, as each part does its work (Eph 4:11-16).Here we see the concern that the apostle has that each child of God become a maturebeliever built up to attain to the “whole measure of the fullness of Christ”(v. 13). Paul points outthat God has given to the Church, His body, ministers and ministries to prepare all of “God’speople for works of service”(v. 12). He states that we would “in all things grow up into Christour Head” and that from Him the “whole body, joined and held together by every supportingligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work” (vv. 15-16).But how are we to built up? How are we to grow toward maturity? Paul answers, “aseach does its work.” That is, as each believer does his part.In talking about mutual up building the New Testament uses the word allelon, mostfrequently translated “one another.” This word is used 58 times if we exclude the gospels. Pauluses it the most, mentioning it 40 times. Many of these concepts and commands are repeated butthere are about 22 different injunctions using this phrase that we ought to heed.
19The injunction, “love one another” is the foundation upon which all the other commandsare built. It is therefore the injunction repeated more than any other. Six teen times we are exhortedto “love one another” (Jn 13:34; 15:12,17; Ro 14:8; Gal 5:13; 1 Th 3:12; 4:9; 1 Pe 1:22;1 Jn 3:11,23; 4:7,11-12; 2 Jn 5).In his letter to the Christians at Colossians, Paul shows how that love is foundational toall other Christian virtues. He states,“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselveswith compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with eachother and forgive whatever grievances you may have against on other. Forgiveas the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which bindsthem all together in perfect unity (Col 3:12-14).Love is the cement that keeps all the other virtues together. In reality, as we shall see, allother virtues are expressions of love.DEFINITIONS OF <strong>LOVE</strong>We all talk and sing about love. But what is love? A secular song states, “What the worldneeds now, is love, sweet love.” But is this the kind of love the world needs? The word, “love”is undoubtedly the most misunderstood word in the English language. It is the most abused andmisused word in our vocabulary.In tennis “love” means “nothing.” In marriage love means “everything.” Love may mean“anything” to the rest of life. We have come to use the word love in talking about ice cream,candy and sports as well as in talking about our mates and children. The same word is being usedin describing the highest form of sacrifice as well as the lowest form of lust.When the Bible talks about love what is it talking about?A pastor was leaving his church to go to another. A young man came up to him and said,“Pastor, I am sorry we are going to lose you. When you came to us three years ago, I was ayoung man who did not care for God, man, or the devil, but since listening to your beautifulsermons I have learned to love them all.”This is the kind of sentiment that passes for love these days. But what is Love?Whereas English has only one word for love which is used to refer to a variety of loves,the Greek language is rich in words for love. This enables the Greek writers (the New Testamentwas written in Greek) to communicate this most important concept with great precision.
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