92The Bible states, “As He (Jesus) approached Jerusalem and saw the city, He wept overit” (Lk 19:41). As the following verses show, Jesus wept because of the suffering that His peoplewould have to go through because of their rebellious, hard hearts. Matthew tells us, “When Jesuslanded and saw a large crowd, He had compassion on them and healed their sick” (Mt 14:14).Jesus’ knowledge of the suffering of the people stirred His tender heart to compassion which inturn moved Him to heal them. It is truth (fact) that moves Jesus to moral action.A. W. Tozer gives us insight into the breakdown of the sequence of truth-feeling–action.He writes:“Because of sin the simple sequence of truth-feeling-action may break down in anyof its three parts. The mind which is created to receive truth is often turned over tofalsehood, and the feelings thus aroused may incite the will to evil action. Thecontemplation of any wrong or forbidden thing cannot but inflame the feelings ofsympathy with evil.A regrettable example of this was David’s long gaze at the beautiful Bathshebain the act of bathing. The king was moved by what he saw and acted accordingly,and the bitter and tragic consequences dogged him to the end of his days. He saw,felt, he acted, precisely as his Lord did centuries later when He healed the sick.The difference in the moral quality of the acts of the two men resulted from thedifference in their feelings, and these were the result of the objects that arousedthe feelings. David saw a beautiful woman; Christ saw a suffering multitude. Onegaze led to sin, the other to an act of mercy; but both followed the simple law oftheir inner structure.Another breakdown in the truth-feeling-fact sequence comes when the heart forselfish reasons deliberately hardens itself against the Word of God. This is the stateof all who love darkness rather than light and for that reason either withdraw fromthe light altogether or when exposed to it stubbornly refuse to obey it. The covetousman looks on human need and sternly refuses to be moved by it. To yield to theimpulse of generosity naturally aroused by the sight of poverty would require himto give up some of his cherished hoard, and this he will not do. So the fountain ofgenerosity is frozen at its source . . .But to be sure that human feelings can never be completely stifled. If they areforbidden their normal course, like a river they will cut another channel throughthe life and flow out to curse and ruin and destroy.The Christian who gazes too long on the carnal pleasures of this world cannotescape a certain feeling of sympathy with them, and that feeling will inevitablylead to behavior that is worldly. And to expose our hearts to truth and consistentlyrefuse or neglect to obey the impulses it arouses is to stymie the motions of lifewithin us and, if persisted in, to grieve the Holy spirit into silence.” 3
93Jesus freely expressed His emotions. When Jesus saw Mary, and the Jews who had comewith her to mourn the death of her brother Lazarus, weeping, the Bible states that Jesus was“deeply moved in spirit and troubled.” and that He “wept’ (Jn 11: 33,35).Paul was also uninhibited in showing his feelings. To the Christians at Thessalonica Paulwrites, “We loved you so much that we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel ofGod but our lives as well, because you had become so dear to us” (1 Th 2:8). He speaks ofmaking every effort to see them because of their “intense longing” (v. 13; 3:6).In Paul’s second letter to the Corinthian Christians, after having rebuked and correctedthem, he lavishes his affection upon them. He writes:“I have said before that you have such a place in our hearts that we would liveor die with you. I have great confidence in you; I take great pride in you. I amgreatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy know no bounds.For when we came into Macedonia, this body of ours had no rest, but we wereharassed at every turn–conflicts on the outside, fears within. But God, whocomforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus, and not only by hiscoming but also by the comfort you had given him. He told us about your longingfor me, your deep sorrow, your ardent concern for me, so that my joy wasgreater than ever . . .In addition to our own encouragement, we were especially delighted to see howhappy Titus was, because his spirit has been refreshed by all of you. I hadboasted to him about you, and you have not embarrassed me. But just aseverything we said to you was true, so our boasting about you to Titus hasproved to be true as well. And his affection for you is all the greater when heremembers that you were all obedient, receiving him with fear and trembling.I am glad I can have complete confidence in you” (2 Co 7:3-7,13-16).After Paul gave his farewell address to the Ephesian elders “they all wept as theyembraced him and kissed him” (Ac 20:37).From these examples in God’s Word we see that love is also feeling. To ignore or rejectfeelings is to invite callousness. Paul condemned the wicked for their inability to showcompassion: “Having lost all sensitivity, they have given themselves over to sensuality so asto indulge in every kind of impurity, with a continual lust for more” (Eph 4:19)We are, in fact, challenged to express our emotions our feelings. Paul writes, “rejoicewith those who rejoice mourn with those who mourn” (Ro 12:15). We are to empathize with ourfellow human being. When people are hurting our hugs, our tears, our tender listening ear oftenmean more than spiritual cliches. Caring is often expressed more effectively by our demeanorthan by our sincere but often inappropriate words of counsel. Words simply cannot take the placeof feelings. May we not be stingy with our feelings for other people.
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