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Box 394, Bly<strong>the</strong>wood, SC, 29016. Cost is $18.25 for 6 months or $36.50 per year. Michelle Jackson Publisher/Editor mjackson@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Stacy Jackson Circulation sjackson@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Leigh Katsos, Columnist lkatsos@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Tom Poland Columnist tompol@earthlink.net Madison Cooke Columnist mcooke@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Brian Cooper Columnist bcooper@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Ashley Hilgeford Columnist ahilgeford@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com Publisher’s Note: Vacations: Relaxing or Adventurous? Vacation for my family this year entailed a trip to Myrtle Beach. Most of <strong>the</strong> time, we usually only take a few days, but this year we planned for an entire week. Now vacations are supposed to be about relaxing, not working, and a chance to unwind from day to day life. But with <strong>the</strong> economy being what it is, and <strong>the</strong> cost of everything rising, conserving was definitely a consideration. My husband and I were fortunate enough to find things to do that were inexpensive. His favorite part was <strong>the</strong> daily walks at 6:00am. Yes, I said 6am, and I also said “his.” I consider myself an early riser waking at about 7:30 or so, but not 6. And this being vacation, I surely wasn’t rising that early. Therefore, HE enjoyed his daily walks alone. (We did take several walks toge<strong>the</strong>r, but <strong>the</strong>y were in <strong>the</strong> late evening). A friend of ours knew how much my husband loves baseball, so when we arrived at our hotel, <strong>the</strong>re was a package waiting for us. Our friend had purchased two tickets to <strong>the</strong> Myrtle Beach Pelicans All Star Game. Now I like baseball too, but not as much as my husband. However, going to <strong>the</strong> game was anything but boring. When we arrived, we found that our seats were really great seats- right down <strong>the</strong> first base line. Although <strong>the</strong> seats are great for viewing <strong>the</strong> entire field, guess what, <strong>the</strong>y were Michelle Jackson Publisher/Editor Page 2 • August 12, 2010 • also great for foul balls. During <strong>the</strong> second inning, a foul ball came flying towards us. I was keeping my eye on <strong>the</strong> ball, and yelling at my husband to catch it if it comes close to us. It was pretty high in <strong>the</strong> air, and <strong>the</strong> ocean breeze carried it, appearing that it was going behind us. Suddenly, <strong>the</strong> wind shifted and <strong>the</strong> ball changed direction. Thinking it was going behind us was a mistake. The ball landed on <strong>the</strong> upper portion of my right bare leg with astounding speed. It shocked me. I didn’t even realize I had been hit at first. My first instinct was to grab <strong>the</strong> ball. The fire department came over and offered an ice pack. I didn’t think it was that bad, but <strong>the</strong> bruise began to develop. I don’t know how, but that small baseball incurred a bruise twice its size. The ice did keep down <strong>the</strong> swelling though. After <strong>the</strong> realization of what had occurred, I decided to get up and walk around some. I wanted to make sure, for one, that I could walk. Although I limped a little, I was okay. But for <strong>the</strong> rest of <strong>the</strong> game, I nearly climbed under <strong>the</strong> seat every time I saw a ball coming in our direction. The rest of our vacation consisted of relaxing by <strong>the</strong> pool and enjoying some time away. The last day, though, my oldest daughter and her husband came up to join us and Beginning a New School Year, Remembering, and Maybe some Lessons to be Learned: •See Vacation Page 19 Well, August is here…and back-to- change in your adult life. It becomes school is fast approaching. Summer’s habit, and <strong>the</strong>n, as time goes by and almost over, and for many kids and you get older, your perception chang- college students, back-to-<strong>the</strong>-books is es. And you think, why was I so wor- on its way. I don’t think it matters how ried? Why was I so nervous? old you are…you can just feel it in <strong>the</strong> So, my point is, I think that <strong>the</strong>re air. Kids getting <strong>the</strong>ir supplies: paper, are two lessons to be learned. The pencils, fresh notebooks, and new first, if you have children, remem- book-bags, just to name a few. And ber and think back to how you felt. of course, new school clo<strong>the</strong>s. School And remember that it is important to buses will be making <strong>the</strong>ir rounds, <strong>the</strong> understand, recognize, and let <strong>the</strong>m car-rider lines, and car-pools schedules – it is that time. Leigh Katsos, Columnist know it is going to be okay. There is nothing like a mo<strong>the</strong>r, fa<strong>the</strong>r, o<strong>the</strong>r It’s funny no matter how old you lkatsos@<strong>the</strong>bly<strong>the</strong>wood<strong>leader</strong>.com family, and friends’ reassurance. And get, you can still remember <strong>the</strong> smell remember how important it was, if of school…<strong>the</strong> smell of chalk, glue, art supplies, fresh- you were so lucky and blessed as I, to ask how school ly sharpened pencils, <strong>the</strong> smell of a new notebook – all went and listen. Also, having children or not, remem- mixed toge<strong>the</strong>r. You never really forget that “school” ber that even though beginning something new can be smell. I remember how nervous I was <strong>the</strong> first day of nerve-racking, remember past experiences, like begin- school, not knowing how your teacher is going to be, ning school every year, and how your perception has how <strong>the</strong> new school year is going to go, and not being changed since you are older- how it really wasn’t any- able to really sleep <strong>the</strong> night before school started. I thing to be worried or nervous about at all. So, that new visited Be<strong>the</strong>l-Hanberry (where I went to school) as an job, that new change, even though it can cause anxiety, adult, and <strong>the</strong> hallways seemed so small, <strong>the</strong> gym so know that it will be alright…just like school days. After small. But it still smelt <strong>the</strong> same. It is funny because as you get even older, if you are ever so blessed and lucky, I child, I thought <strong>the</strong> hallways were so long, <strong>the</strong> school your perception and thinking will change once again. so big, <strong>the</strong> gym humongous… Funny how your percep- Not that change is always easy – but it is definitely a tion changes. This also had me thinking-starting school part of life. And know that it will be become like old as a child is no different than starting a new job or a habit, repeating itself over and over. The Bly<strong>the</strong>wood Leader
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