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Table 2<br />

Personality Disorders and Management Strategies (Continued)<br />

SUGGESTED THERAPEUTIC RESPONSE ILLUSTRATIVE MANAGEMENT QUOTE<br />

Take empathic stance, ra<strong>the</strong>r than overtly<br />

challenging patient’s paranoid thoughts<br />

Acknowledge effects of patient’s actions<br />

on you and o<strong>the</strong>rs; set limits without<br />

unilaterally terminating or dismissing<br />

patient; protect safety of staff<br />

Schedule regular follow-up visits<br />

regardless of symptom levels,<br />

acknowledge that treatment may not be<br />

entirely curative<br />

Set appropriate expectations of doctor–<br />

patient relationship, acknowledge limits of<br />

knowledge/skill as well as time and<br />

stamina, educate patient about cancer<br />

care<br />

Do not challenge entitlement, but channel<br />

it into partnership in providing <strong>the</strong> best<br />

care; emphasize and align with patient<br />

strengths<br />

Work empathically and diligently but<br />

lower expectations and adjust goals; set<br />

nonpunitive limits; share care with o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

clinicians to reduce burnout; regular team<br />

meetings (including support staff, if<br />

appropriate) to coordinate plan of care<br />

Give patient control when possible;<br />

acknowledge and empathize with<br />

vulnerability produced by medical illness<br />

Encourage patient to consider realistic<br />

possibilities in addition to worst case<br />

scenarios; enlist family support to help<br />

patient notice and revise negative<br />

thoughts; review decisions about stopping<br />

treatment with colleague to assure that<br />

you are not giving up prematurely<br />

Patient: “You are trying to poison me with this<br />

chemo<strong>the</strong>rapy.”<br />

Clinician: “I can certainly see why you feel that way.<br />

Chemo<strong>the</strong>rapy is tough. If I were having chemo<strong>the</strong>rapy I’d<br />

be suspicious too. Let’s see how we can address <strong>the</strong> side<br />

effects.”<br />

“You are scaring me and my staff. We want to continue to<br />

treat you, but we need to think about our safety and will<br />

call security to have you escorted out of <strong>the</strong> clinic if you<br />

again talk about having a knife.”<br />

“The pain may get better than it is now, but you will<br />

probably always have some flare-ups, because our<br />

medications are only 80% effective. I don’t think we need<br />

to get ano<strong>the</strong>r bone scan right now but I want to monitor<br />

you closely and would like to see you every 3 months to<br />

check on this.”<br />

“I am committed to be with you for your whole cancer<br />

treatment. When you call me about questions that could<br />

easily wait until your next appointment, I get stressed, and<br />

it makes it harder for me to be <strong>the</strong>re in <strong>the</strong> way I want to<br />

be for you.”<br />

“You deserve <strong>the</strong> best medical care we can give, and that’s<br />

why I need you to be here on time so that you get <strong>the</strong><br />

most out of our visit.”<br />

“You have been very successful in managing a large<br />

company in difficult times; you are <strong>the</strong> leader of your<br />

treatment team, and we will do our best to meet your<br />

goals.”<br />

“Like you, I’m only human, so when you swear at me, I get<br />

upset—and that interferes with my thinking clearly about<br />

what you need.”<br />

“You are <strong>the</strong> one who ultimately decides whe<strong>the</strong>r you will<br />

go to an addiction treatment program. I will keep<br />

encouraging you, but I cannot offer treatments that will be<br />

unsafe when you are using IV drugs.”<br />

“I need a psychiatrist on <strong>the</strong> team to help me take care of<br />

you, because I get rattled and scared by some of your<br />

behaviors.”<br />

“It is really hard to feel so out of control. While you are in<br />

infusion, I’d like you to keep a careful log of everything<br />

that you experience with chemo so you can report it to<br />

me.”<br />

“What do you think <strong>the</strong> worst case scenario is? How likely<br />

is that?”<br />

“Even though things didn’t work well with this chemo, I<br />

am not going to give up on you and we have o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

treatments we can try.”<br />

COMMENTS ON MEDICATION<br />

MANAGEMENT<br />

Atypical antipsychotics for paranoia<br />

Possible risk of diversion of opioids<br />

and benzodiazepines; avoid <strong>the</strong><br />

latter in favor of atypical<br />

antipsychotics or SSRIs<br />

SSRIs for comorbid depression or<br />

anxiety<br />

SSRIs or low-dose benzodiazepines<br />

for comorbid anxiety<br />

SSRIs for comorbid depression<br />

Mood stabilizers or antipsychotics<br />

for mood lability/irritability<br />

SSRIs for irritability, comorbid<br />

depression/anxiety; atypical<br />

antipsychotics for anger/impulsivity<br />

Avoid benzodiazepines —high risk<br />

of abuse<br />

Close monitoring of opioids<br />

SSRIs for depression or low-dose<br />

benzodiazepines for comorbid<br />

anxiety<br />

Unlike o<strong>the</strong>r personality disordered<br />

patients, <strong>the</strong>se patients are unlikely<br />

to abuse benzodiazepines or o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

medications<br />

SSRIs to target depression<br />

Meyer and Block<br />

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